Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

John Reena

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I don't post in here much because I really just have bad insecurities with some D/A, and never really cared about the pursuit of a relationship due to my only one being toxic and other things in my life that happened. Now that this has happened, I've become kind of stuck and caught up in my own feelings since it's been well over a year I liked someone like this.

The thing is with her flirting, I didn't realize it because: 1. I'm dense and didn't figure it out until yonder. 2. She's told me before that she isn't actively seeking a relationship/not trying to commit to anything way before I started adding up her interactions with me, which is why I never did anything. I never really felt anything for her in a romantic way until about the end of November, either. Nothing physical has happened, but all of my friends say we act like a married couple when we're around, and we've done things like play fight/argue. That's really it as far as interactions aside from the flirting via messaging.

It doesn't feel that way to me. When she asked me what I saw her as, I told her, but then she told me everything she said before again, and said it's better to remain as friends. One thing I do remember her saying is that if she had committed, then she would've ended up ghosting in the end. Where nothing makes sense to me is that, she told me she can't commit or anything, but she likes me in a romantic way? I really don't understand that part.

I'm pretty stuck on this situation, while I value everything that's going on right now, I want it to be something more and want it to work out. But, that just requires me waiting, which I don't know is the best option for me. Who knows if she'll still have the same interest when she's ready? She could already be finding someone else as it is, and I'm just gonna be here, still holding these feelings until I get over it. I don't mind being friends, and all, but the fact that we both have feelings for each other and I can't do anything about it because I want to respect what she said.

I've had a lot of people just telling me to wait, drop her, or say how I really feel about everything. The last thing I'm trying to do is ruin something here, because we're almost the same person as far as interests and hobbies go.

I realize that, but my own insecurities just make me doubt myself, it's still something I'm trying to get over, even with the therapy I've been taking since April.

You’ll be aight. BUT....if it don’t work out, don’t beat ya self up. It’s part of living n learning.
 

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lately i been shootin my shot like theres no tomorrow, in every setting :wow:

been getting shot down just as much :wow:

that fear of rejection immunity build up :wowjb:

2018 bout to be eat good season, i can feel it :wow:


Man, my cold approach game is air tight :wow:

Its a game of numbers breh
 

The Message

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Man, my cold approach game is air tight :wow:

Its a game of numbers breh
its open season for the cold approach advocates

i'm :flabbynsick: i'm from the era of if you wanted girls...you had two options. approach. or join the football or hoop squad. lol

me and my boys made a game out of spittin. if we went to the mall, whoever had the least amount of numbers at the end had to buy the pizza or gas money. :lolbron:

nowadays, cold approach is at a premium because most dudes are not stepping to women at all. even at the club. :dahell:

contrary to popular belief...women are dying for you to approach them. at macys. at the club. at starbucks. everywhere.

take advantage of this. the lane is wide the fukk open. :wow:

do it and youll fukkin eat like you wouldnt believe. youll stand out amongst those who sit on the sidelines and watch.

get ya spit game up and shoot ya shot brehs. :salute:
 

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its open season for the cold approach advocates

i'm :flabbynsick: i'm from the era of if you wanted girls...you had two options. approach. or join the football or hoop squad. lol

me and my boys made a game out of spittin. if we went to the mall, whoever had the least amount of numbers at the end had to buy the pizza or gas money. :lolbron:

nowadays, cold approach is at a premium because most dudes are not stepping to women at all. even at the club. :dahell:

contrary to popular belief...women are dying for you to approach them. at macys. at the club. at starbucks. everywhere.

take advantage of this. the lane is wide the fukk open. :wow:

do it and youll fukkin eat like you wouldnt believe. youll stand out amongst those who sit on the sidelines and watch.

get ya spit game up and shoot ya shot brehs. :salute:

mayne, these are all facts right here. its summer time here in Africa and freaks are rocking booty shots on a daily :blessed:. my homeboy invited me over to his graduation ceremony in his hometime this weekend and this young thang i cold approached a month ago is clearly on a dry spell and foaming at the mouth wanting me to spend the night before with her since she stays in the same town as my nikka. this offered wouldnt habe happened had i got cold feet and not approached when i saw her :wow:
 

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Every woman I meet lives in another state. Like really.

Sometimes I feel like I'm ill fated or just stuck in my ways. I don't know.
 

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what's your tactics for determening if a bih on the internet is actually fat?
I found this chicc by accident, long story. cute face, big azz titties, but all her pics (not alot of pics because she's not a IG thot) are like the top of the chest and up. Can't see the arms or the body.
I been trying to detective, found out she wears a size small men's t-shirt and she be up in the gym alot
(I see alot of fat bytches at the gym tho)
seems like she eats like shyt which was he concerned
I wanna smash but if I drive 90 min and she secretly a fatso this whole time I'm gonna be so :beli:
 

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what's your tactics for determening if a bih on the internet is actually fat?
I found this chicc by accident, long story. cute face, big azz titties, but all her pics (not alot of pics because she's not a IG thot) are like the top of the chest and up. Can't see the arms or the body.
I been trying to detective, found out she wears a size small men's t-shirt and she be up in the gym alot
(I see alot of fat bytches at the gym tho)
seems like she eats like shyt which was he concerned
I wanna smash but if I drive 90 min and she secretly a fatso this whole time I'm gonna be so :beli:
I’m not hitting a chick up unless there’s at least 2 full body pictures
 

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Young chick said we should link up. She 20 so no bars and shyt. Im thinking just invite her to the crib and cook listen to some music and smoke some dro :yeshrug: I know young nikkas aint cooking for these byrds so it might be a good date idea instead of some shyt Im gonna abhor like getting tea
 
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