Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Nuke Dukem

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She sounds lonely but if you ain't in her general area then she will eventually move on to someone who is. You see all these dudes in the military getting cheated on. Women don't wait around for shyt. They explore their options and if you ain't a viable one, it's only a matter of time.

You can think shyt sweet but then one night she go out with her friends and meet someone and you ain't there. You ain't around or on her mind. So my advice is don't spend too much time on it.You need to be there in person.
You might be right... I know she’s in a small town in Texas right by the border of Mexico... She says there ain’t shyt to do there.... basically she just works and comes home... but I can see that exact situation you said happening actually happening... one day meets someone out there and it’s a wrap...
 

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I watched a decent amount of the Corey Wayne videos on his YouTube...

One point that he stressed was basically don’t text/talk to females too much or they’ll lose interest...

I agree 100% with that...

But here’s where I have a unique situation and don’t know how to handle it..


I have a female I met through a fb group back in September ... We started talking on message, then FaceTime/text all that... We ended up vibing so well that she came out here to CHICAGO (from TEXAS) the third week of November

Everything went great, we vibed just as well in person as we did on the phone...


So now she’s coming back out here in the middle of January ...


My issue is how do I keep someone interested in another state without over doing it on the communication...

She’s the type that’ll text me good morning & have whole random convos through out the day leading into night time then a good night text...

I don’t wanna text too much and fck it up like you can with any other female but then again it’s not like I can just pull up & see her in person whenever so phone calls/snaps/FaceTime is all we can do...

How should I handle this

enjoy it while it last. if it ends, let it be because she just found someone closer to where she lives. but she wouldnt be giving guys the time of day if u work her well. she's lonely, ur probably the most frequent male in her life. u can own this girl if u know what you're doing and by own i mean have her sprung on u.

if u like her as much as it appears that u do based on ur post, its safe to presume she's hot. so dont fucck this up by being a beta b1tch when ur around her.

next time she comes to visit u, u have to show her a good time. give her a reason to make her visits more frequent. and what is a good time?
sure, that includes reckless abandon when yall fucck, but it also means taking her places, making her laugh. u want her to be miserable as fucck when she has to leave to go back home. miserable in the sense that, she gon be thinking damn, i goto go back to that hell hole.

assume this will end badly for u and prepare accordingly.
 

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Someone is about to get bushed....​
Huh?
 

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You might be right... I know she’s in a small town in Texas right by the border of Mexico... She says there ain’t shyt to do there.... basically she just works and comes home... but I can see that exact situation you said happening actually happening... one day meets someone out there and it’s a wrap...

What town breh?
 

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When it comes to women who live in other cities or other countries. Don’t become invested. Out of sight, out of mind. When they come see you cool. Don’t concern yourself with who or what she’s doing when you’re not there because YOU should be doing your thing regardless.

Don’t allow your attraction to turn you into a fool.
 

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OK good news.

The girl I was fukking stopped messing with me because she got a bf.

Was starting to think I was trash in the bed or something.


I was just used until someone would be happily get in a relationship with her.

:blessed:


Don't know how girls think this suck. I'm happy I was used.
 

Rice'N Beckford

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Brehs help me :mjcry:

I cant seem to fully escape the friendzone. I aint tricking or nothing but still it’s a dark and manipulative place.

Everytime I cut this broad off, I end up going back. I cant stay angry at people for shyt.

I was to embarrassed to ask for advice on here but it’s like a nikka is institutionalised. Broad got mind control over me like Debo.

I’m too damn hardheaded and stupid man.

@Hennessypapi I know you always got good advice
Have u smashed?
 

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posted some of my workout vids on snap and the joints came callin.

Eritrean shorty sent me a snap of her lower half. Lot more cellulite then I remember. Last time we smashed was in sept.Wtf happened?:dwillhuh:

Already setting up a fukk fest with her in early 2018.

Trying to stay and date 1 woman. I keep getting blessed with these smart women and I just fukk with sidechicks until i get caught up:snoop:
 
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