Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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She is a virgin actually and even wears a purity ring.

But I'll make note


its undignified to put her thoughts and feelings out there like that in full blast for the world to see. yes, we dont know her. but this woman liked u. it is ur behavior that caused her to act in the recent way she did.

also, people fail to realize or comprehend, we as humans, we have needs. if u get with a woman, it is inhumane to refuse to show and give to her the affection she needs.

i understand u have this thing going called "no sex before marriage". im not sure how u imagine this will work out for you. a word of advise, if thats how u wanna roll, your best bet is to only, i repeat only, date women who are virgins. meaning, women who have never known how d1ck feels. going to meet a woman like the girl u posted about, having a good night, and at the end of it, depriving her of what her body craves, is just plain wrong.

yeah, ur excuse may be "but i told her about my no sex before marriage thing" early on. yeah, but its human nature for the person who hears that to find it hard to believe. if push come, she believes she could probably change ur mind. but ask yourself, isnt a lot of what your doing here a way for you to stroke ur own ego? the fact that u can have her wanting u, and then sending u long text messages probably made u feel good about yourself. but keeping up this behavior is a detriment to you in the long run.

personally, i think if ur going to be teasing chicks like this, there's no point dating.
 

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We are got that CTE, gonna go out like Ali shaking and slurring


I think alot of us in here are damaged at some level...including myself :mjcry:
As soon as a female makes a certain maneuver that kicks in a memory of a chick previously dealt with, it's an automatic flight response..
Even if the female is a potential gem, the potential energy just to find out can't be mustered..
 

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Only way I'd ever move in with a chick I'm dating is if it's

1. My place and my name on the agreement
2. A place I can afford on my own

So if it comes down to it I can kick her out and still afford the rent or mortgage


Don't do it!!!! Every dude I know who living with they girl is MISERABLE.
 

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It's a lot of broke ass chicks in these streets who try to latch on to nikkaz to care if they asses. Not ova here! Plus a man need his space,a sanctuary. Ion want my girl in there 24-7 being annoying. Her gf's watching da crib, tellin her who coming in n out. fukk that.
 

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My homie brought a chick to a bar last night. She ended up being really fukked up on some drugs so he hit me up to come through and help him ditch her. She started being flirty but ended up being kicked out cause she was tore up and fell asleep on the couch there.
So I offered her a ride home but only if she was trying to smash. She said no so I told her to call for a ride or something :mjgrin:

Am I wrong? Or hard on hoes? :mjgrin:
 

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My homie brought a chick to a bar last night. She ended up being really fukked up on some drugs so he hit me up to come through and help him ditch her. She started being flirty but ended up being kicked out cause she was tore up and fell asleep on the couch there.
So I offered her a ride home but only if she was trying to smash. She said no so I told her to call for a ride or something :mjgrin:

Am I wrong? Or hard on hoes? :mjgrin:


You was #HOH. :myman:


Enjoy this rep. :salute:
 

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My homie brought a chick to a bar last night. She ended up being really fukked up on some drugs so he hit me up to come through and help him ditch her. She started being flirty but ended up being kicked out cause she was tore up and fell asleep on the couch there.
So I offered her a ride home but only if she was trying to smash. She said no so I told her to call for a ride or something :mjgrin:

Am I wrong? Or hard on hoes? :mjgrin:

If u would have fukked her and she accused you of rape because she was on drugs, you would be asking a different kind of question...

I've done some dumb shyt to get my nut off so I understand...
But you don't want them issues breh
 

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If u would have fukked her and she accused you of rape because she was on drugs, you would be asking a different kind of question...

I've done some dumb shyt to get my nut off so I understand...
But you don't want them issues breh
If she remembers having sex then she would be able to remember me asking her.
 

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its undignified to put her thoughts and feelings out there like that in full blast for the world to see. yes, we dont know her. but this woman liked u. it is ur behavior that caused her to act in the recent way she did.

also, people fail to realize or comprehend, we as humans, we have needs. if u get with a woman, it is inhumane to refuse to show and give to her the affection she needs.

i understand u have this thing going called "no sex before marriage". im not sure how u imagine this will work out for you. a word of advise, if thats how u wanna roll, your best bet is to only, i repeat only, date women who are virgins. meaning, women who have never known how d1ck feels. going to meet a woman like the girl u posted about, having a good night, and at the end of it, depriving her of what her body craves, is just plain wrong.

yeah, ur excuse may be "but i told her about my no sex before marriage thing" early on. yeah, but its human nature for the person who hears that to find it hard to believe. if push come, she believes she could probably change ur mind. but ask yourself, isnt a lot of what your doing here a way for you to stroke ur own ego? the fact that u can have her wanting u, and then sending u long text messages probably made u feel good about yourself. but keeping up this behavior is a detriment to you in the long run.

personally, i think if ur going to be teasing chicks like this, there's no point dating.
Real shyt
 

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She is a virgin actually and even wears a purity ring.

But I'll make note

Didn't you say y'all did oral? Lots of girls save the p*ssy but are still giving/getting head.

And not saying she's not a virgin, but women also trickle out the entire picture of their sexual lives to see how they're being judged before revealing all. Not saying it's the case, but she could very well be one of those "born again" virgin chicks that are common in the church.
 

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