Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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when u have sisters, its difficult being that scumbag that will deliberately play with the emotions of a chick, whose only crime was liking you. im all for HOH but i only do that to chicks who deserve it...i.e. chicks who think men should do xyz without they themselves bringing anything to the table.

I don't do single mothers breh ...but if I did. My sisters are responsible for their own lives and they have nothing to do with my dating choices :pachaha:
 

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Never dealing with a crazy chick again. Been knew she was crazy, but seen first hand last night how she’s foul :hubie:
 

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:francis:Felt bad having to cut off a friend yesterday. She expressed that she wanted to be more than just friends and hopefully have a relationship with me, but I’m just not feeling her like that. We fukked a few times and I can tell I had her dikkmatized, but it was just sex for me :yeshrug: . Since I told her I can’t see us having a relationship, she told me we can’t be friends anymore.
Woke up to paragraph text messages from ol girl. Talking about how she’s hurt and how she loved me and confused to why I don’t love her back :comeon:. I’m not going to do the back and forth with her, so I’m going to just give her the real and put her on block.
 

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wtf? nikka elaborate
Long story short my “ex” chick was invited to the same party as me and once I ain’t wanna give her all my attention she intentionally started flirting with my friends, when not even 2 hrs earlier she was saying how she still in her feelings about me and how she wanna spend the night. I left shortly after bc I was legit tired. She called&text me like an hour later like can I still spend the night. I didn’t reply.
 

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SAN ANTONIO SPURS NY DIVISION
Woke up to paragraph text messages from ol girl. Talking about how she’s hurt and how she loved me and confused to why I don’t love her back :comeon:. I’m not going to do the back and forth with her, so I’m going to just give her the real and put her on block.

The older I get the less overall scumbag i have in me...which might have hurt me with women..
I just can't deal with the messiness after a casual relationship gone south..
If your single and doing the casual thing, this is the potential issue you gotta face..
Unless the chick has a baby daddy locked up or something, this is the bad side
 

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Woke up to paragraph text messages from ol girl. Talking about how she’s hurt and how she loved me and confused to why I don’t love her back :comeon:. I’m not going to do the back and forth with her, so I’m going to just give her the real and put her on block.

gotta do you breh :salute:
 

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The older I get the less overall scumbag i have in me...which might have hurt me with women..
I just can't deal with the messiness after a casual relationship gone south..
If your single and doing the casual thing, this is the potential issue you gotta face..
Unless the chick has a baby daddy locked up or something, this is the bad side

It’s fukked up because she knew I wasn’t trying to take it there with her for a long time, and she was always ok with it. I guess she couldn’t take it anymore and wanted more. I don’t think she wasn’t expecting me to be like “ok:yeshrug:” when she gave me that ultimatum of either being with her or no longer being friends.
 

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Keep on making slips but pick it up and KIM. Let that be a reminder for why you doing better and will continue you to:salute:
 

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edit she sent me these long ass texts

like i said previously she told me some stuff that made her seem vulnerable to me and she cancelled our friday outing this was thursday night so i said ok no worries and haven't said anything since then

what im supposed to be someones therapist after just meeting you 2 weeks ago :dahell:
 

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If I tell a chick I'm tryna kick it with her and she ignores that do I bush her? Or friend zone her.
She said "but I suggested you watch a show" of does it mean she wants to take it slow
 

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edit she sent me these long ass texts

like i said previously she told me some stuff that made her seem vulnerable to me and she cancelled our friday outing this was thursday night so i said ok no worries and haven't said anything since then

what im supposed to be someones therapist after just meeting you 2 weeks ago :dahell:


Sounds like she's still carrying over baggage from previous relationships which is going to hinder her from being intimate with anyone in the near future. It sounds like you just avoided an insecure nutjob in my opinion.
 
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