Sounds like she's still carrying over baggage from previous relationships which is going to hinder her from being intimate with anyone in the near future. It sounds like you just avoided an insecure nutjob in my opinion.
Sounds like she's still carrying over baggage from previous relationships which is going to hinder her from being intimate with anyone in the near future. It sounds like you just avoided an insecure nutjob in my opinion.
Sounds like she's still carrying over baggage from previous relationships which is going to hinder her from being intimate with anyone in the near future. It sounds like you just avoided an insecure nutjob in my opinion.
edit she sent me these long ass texts
like i said previously she told me some stuff that made her seem vulnerable to me and she cancelled our friday outing this was thursday night so i said ok no worries and haven't said anything since then
what im supposed to be someones therapist after just meeting you 2 weeks ago
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edit she sent me these long ass texts
like i said previously she told me some stuff that made her seem vulnerable to me and she cancelled our friday outing this was thursday night so i said ok no worries and haven't said anything since then
what im supposed to be someones therapist after just meeting you 2 weeks ago
you handled this wrong.
insight?
U could tell her your not ready for that. How long y'all been togetherI had a roomate but got a new place next month. My girl wants to move in with me. Can I say no without breaking up? I can't stand when this bytch sleeps over for two consecutive days as it is.
U could tell her your not ready for that. How long y'all been together
What does she do?A year. Toronto is expensive I feel bad cuz she can't find a decent place on her own and she not a hoe either. I'm making a lot more than her but don't want to get stuck with here.... Having ur own space is important I'm only 26
its undignified to put her thoughts and feelings out there like that in full blast for the world to see. yes, we dont know her. but this woman liked u. it is ur behavior that caused her to act in the recent way she did.
also, people fail to realize or comprehend, we as humans, we have needs. if u get with a woman, it is inhumane to refuse to show and give to her the affection she needs.
i understand u have this thing going called "no sex before marriage". im not sure how u imagine this will work out for you. a word of advise, if thats how u wanna roll, your best bet is to only, i repeat only, date women who are virgins. meaning, women who have never known how d1ck feels. going to meet a woman like the girl u posted about, having a good night, and at the end of it, depriving her of what her body craves, is just plain wrong.
yeah, ur excuse may be "but i told her about my no sex before marriage thing" early on. yeah, but its human nature for the person who hears that to find it hard to believe. if push come, she believes she could probably change ur mind. but ask yourself, isnt a lot of what your doing here a way for you to stroke ur own ego? the fact that u can have her wanting u, and then sending u long text messages probably made u feel good about yourself. but keeping up this behavior is a detriment to you in the long run.
personally, i think if ur going to be teasing chicks like this, there's no point dating.
I never viewed that series of texts she sent Scarf in a negative light. It isn’t every day you have a woman be this up front and this honest about what she is looking for in a man she wants to be involved with. I think she just recognized she wanted more than Scarf was willing to give.
She never came off as a woman with a lot of baggage to me. Just a woman who was well aware of what she wants and needs.
edit she sent me these long ass texts
like i said previously she told me some stuff that made her seem vulnerable to me and she cancelled our friday outing this was thursday night so i said ok no worries and haven't said anything since then
what im supposed to be someones therapist after just meeting you 2 weeks ago
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