Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[YaFingerDealMe]

Always can have every girl but the ones I want

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

It shouldn't be complicated for men in their 20's to understand WHEN a woman is interested and ISN'T.

If this is still a thing that's bothering a nikka mentally, fix your mentality and attitude ASAP. I'm all for criticizing the hoes, but nikkaz gotta criticize themselves, too.

If you're mad that shorty isn't responding like YOU want her to, that's no reason to take shyt personally. All that shows is that you (The man) don't have other bytches to talk to & get with. It also shows that a nikka is immature, got issues, doesn't have their priorities together at all. DON'T give all that away. Once a chick senses that you're all the way fukked up in the head, you're just going to scare her away. Ain't nothing you can do to change her perception. Especially if she thinks that you're going to try to stalk her and try to beat her up or kill her. I can't blame some women for feeling like that...because nikkaz in 2017 are on a whole new level of being brain dead.

The worst thing a nikka can do is fukk up a chance when a new woman is taking interest in you. nikkaz say they want to be noticed, but when a bytch actually does notice a nikka, mfs wanna be just like the women they despise....by ignoring the bytch.... Doesn't matter if she's a 10 or 5. Beggars can't be choosers.

Meh go somewhere with your noise. All this animosity for what nikka?

 

[Clay Puppington]

Meh go somewhere with your noise. All this animosity for what nikka?

The nikka just gave solid advice and all you noticed was his "animosity". You need to go FAR AWAY with your noise.

 

[FakeNews]

your answer always lies with your gut feeling... NEVER ignore it.

my response to flaking...is no response. if a girl cancels on me whether its 12 hours in advance or 12 minutes before, whether they say they're sick or they have to take their auntie to the airport--it doesn't matter. I don't bother to respond to her text.

I used to be more understanding and forgiving and be open to rescheduling. I used to actually believe them when they said why they couldn't meet but experience has taught me to believe otherwise.

nowadays i have a bare bones approach to women: if she's interested enough, she will not cancel. period

the only exceptions I give are for women who run their own business or are running for political office lol

fukk man I wish I read this before I sent her a response I sent her a message saying "thats fine maybe some other time" And left it at that. I don't plan on anymore responses. Its all on her. But really good advice though. Should have just not replied at all. I do agree with what you're saying if chicks are interested in seeing someone they'll find a way. Should have trusted my instincts

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

The nikka just gave solid advice and all you noticed was his "animosity". You need to go FAR AWAY with your noise.

All you noticed was I pointed out his animosity, you don't know what I noticed. The nikka have solid advice. But you're right. Excuse me. Breh just tryna help b keep it real

 

[Bald Head Ba$tard]

The nikka just gave solid advice and all you noticed was his "animosity". You need to go FAR AWAY with your noise.

Let him be a fool, mane.

 

[John Reena]

Aye! What's up wit da doom n gloom? Just cuz a certain chick u wanted curved u don't mean it's da end of da world. chicks love 2 lead us on to get attention n boost they ego. No need to complain. It's part of da game

 

[ZoeGod]

Man the party Thursday night was a dub smh. First off my roomate was waiting for his homeboys from Staten Island. These nikkas took long to come. The party started at 830. We got there by like 10:40. At the party the music was litty. It was like 80% cacs and 20% nonwhites. I got curved like 4 times so it wasn't going well. I think my costume scared the broads. I dressed up like a G-Unit music video extra. Black timbs,black jean,black shirt,black bandanna on my face with black bandanna on my head. Anyway I saw the Florida broad and was like fukk it might as well get one dance in here and she curved me so I was like . So we stayed there for an hour. Then my homeboy called the uber and thought it was a good idea to go all the way to Stamford to get into another club. Now its 12:30 and its an one hour drive and shyt close down in bumass Connecticut at 2 am. By the time we got there shyt was closing up. So we missed out the rest of the Halloween party and came to Stamford for no reason. It was a wack night not because I wanted to bag a broad but because we left the party too early. I could had a dance or had more fun. I told him yesterday we aint doing that shyt again next year. fukk it we should throw an after party at our crib. Oh well there is always a next time. Oh and funny thing is the same Florida broad texted me latter that night saying she was happy to see me. I didnt even respond back.

 

[Dreamzeedream]

I know how u feel breh me and this one girl back in day we’re fukk buddies was feeling her but outta blue my feelings changed to just friends and she was a good woman which I was seeking but I couldn’t get past seeing her as friends so had to stop fukking and we became that
Few months later she moved
She contacted me 6 weeks later saying if ur still getting out of army u think we can try to move past friends stage again I’m making 6 digits have a nice house and a maid my son misses u and I did to miss her son and she was like u don’t have to work I’ll take care of in
But I just couldn’t get past the friend stage and declined FML breh

damn......




I wonder how I would react if somebody told me that

 

[Dreamzeedream]

Aye coli brehs:

So me and the girl I've been talking are going to chill tomorrow, I am taking her to netherworld (all Georgia coli brehs should know)
When I asked her to go she said that's great, she hasn't been this year.


Then she turned around and invited 2 of her friends and her friends are bringing their boyfriends

When she told me that some of her friends were coming I got confused as fukk, I told her I thought we were just going to chill alone but then she told me that her and these two other chicks always go to netherworld together but hadn't gone this year yet. She also told me she was reluctant to go with them this year because their boyfriends were going and she didn't have anyone,


is this a sign she doesn't want to be alone with me?

She has started texting first by the way brehs

She should of told u b4 she invited them but I would of just told her to let u know next time because I wanted to spend alone time with her. I would still go tho. Just to see how thing plan out

 

[twan83]

damn......




I wonder how I would react if somebody told me that

I maybe a a$$hole but I’m a Respectful one to the right ones

 

[Deafheaven]

fukk man I wish I read this before I sent her a response I sent her a message saying "thats fine maybe some other time" And left it at that. I don't plan on anymore responses. Its all on her. But really good advice though. Should have just not replied at all. I do agree with what you're saying if chicks are interested in seeing someone they'll find a way. Should have trusted my instincts

I mean if its a girl you actively dating or smashed previously a flake shouldn't be a deal breaker unless she refuses to give a definite re schedule. if she flakes that second time then there is definite issues. But people still people at the end of the day and some days you wake up and literally don't want to deal with anyone. Its not right but I get it. A new conquest though thats a diff story as you have no history and first impressions are king and her first impression is of a unreliable person so take that as you may.

As always every situation is different and what works for one man may not for another but a lot of shyt is fairly universal. Flakes are never "okay" tbh but I have a pretty laissez faire attitude nowadays so i just go if she interested she'll end up back in my bed regardless, if not she won't. most things leading up to that is fluff.

 

[Cynic]

I feel you breh. I’m just not the type of dude to waste a persons time like that. I could easily keep her around and sell her this fake dream of being together just so I can get my nut off, but I’m too much of a decent person

You a dirt bag just like the rest of us...

 

[TRUEST]

You a dirt bag just like the rest of us...

when u have sisters, its difficult being that scumbag that will deliberately play with the emotions of a chick, whose only crime was liking you. im all for HOH but i only do that to chicks who deserve it...i.e. chicks who think men should do xyz without they themselves bringing anything to the table.

 

[True Blue Moon]

when u have sisters, its difficult being that scumbag that will deliberately play with the emotions of a chick, whose only crime was liking you. im all for HOH but i only do that to chicks who deserve it...i.e. chicks who think men should do xyz without they themselves bringing anything to the table.

Anything else is hurt nikka shyt

If you wouldn't get one over on another man either out of respect or because he'd whoop your ass, doing it to a chick that didn't deserve it is soft. A man about his G doesn't have to get points that way.