Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

im out of the game , but from my past experiences the best relationships i have ever had in my life I never searched or looked for them or put myself out there, the dating sites filled with trash and cum buckets, hitting up slutty drunken women at clubs and bars , just be yourself live your life daily and things have a way of working out.

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[Malta]

That's fukked up. She still wants him to think about her while she with other dude just to boost her ego. Your boy needs to change his number, facebook and avoid her at all cost. That is so wrong on her part for not letting him move on with his life.

That's exactly why we be going as hard as we do in this thread. Fellas in here can see past the illusion and don't believe the dumb hype these women try to kick these days. These broads be doing whatever they feel and them corny feminist and simp negroes give them the okey doke.

She wanted to marry him, have kids with him, he wanted the same so I can see why something like this would set him back. I hate talking on the phone and I been talking to him for about an hour, said they were arguing, I keep telling him he can do better. She wasn't bad looking, but definitely not a traffic stopper at all, very much average. I asked him what she did for him that is so special, he can't really say outside of her being funny and sweet and having all those years invested.

 

[MikelArteta]

thanks my brother. this thread helped me out earlier this year. you almost have to die or lose it all to see things clear sometimes.

yup

what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, the wisdom obtained from failures helped me grow immensely.

knowing to read the signs, knowing when the relationship is done and walking away, as little ast 5-6 years ago i was a mega simp, who thought of all women as princesses, and would stay in rotten relationships because i didn't want to hurt them

 

[Malta]

Fam once I read shyt like this thread you understand that a large majority bytches do not have ANY sense of empathy whatsoever. The ability to put themselves in someone elses shoes or see things from a different prespective not there.

One of my nikkas recently got signed to a record label. Once it was announced on twitter, like clockwork he showed me the DMs of chicks WHOM I WATCHED pass on him/shoot him down or even shyt on him. Like they didn't even wait for it to set in. And when he was ignoring him suddenly the word on the street was that he "changed" or he's fake. If they could look outside of themselves at their actions for even A SECOND to look at his prespective they could see how obvious and transparent they look.

They just walk around wrapped up in their own emotions and they don't give two flying fukks about yours.

That shyt is crazy, I had a situation where the chick I was dating claimed I was the best man she knew, wanted to marry me and also have kids. She said she couldn't live without me over and over again, basically as soon as we broke up she had a new nikka and I'm fairly certain she was cheating too.

My boy and this chick never really argued, it just wasn't moving fast as she wanted, and I guess he didn't buckle under the pressure of getting married right now. So when she broke up with him, he said he would work on the problem, she basically said "Too late" It makes no sense if you think about it, it's too late for a man you wanted to have kids with previously, but it's not too late to start a new relationship with someone and run the risk of it being "too late" again?

 

[Malta]

thanks my brother. this thread helped me out earlier this year. you almost have to die or lose it all to see things clear sometimes.

Threads like this are great, mainly because there's no judgement like in other threads on this forum. It's just dudes venting, dropping knowledge and chopping it up. Me personally, I have nobody to "outlet" my problems too, shyt just stays bottled up for me so a thread like this is fantastic.

 

[OSUBaneBrowns]

She wanted to marry him, have kids with him, he wanted the same so I can see why something like this would set him back. I hate talking on the phone and I been talking to him for about an hour, said they were arguing, I keep telling him he can do better. She wasn't bad looking, but definitely not a traffic stopper at all, very much average. I asked him what she did for him that is so special, he can't really say outside of her being funny and sweet and having all those years invested.

He still in the haze with her. He may need to relocate for a while so that it forces him to move on with his life. Just remind him that they broke up for a reason and just to focus on his dreams and improving himself.

 

[MikelArteta]

She wanted to marry him, have kids with him, he wanted the same so I can see why something like this would set him back. I hate talking on the phone and I been talking to him for about an hour, said they were arguing, I keep telling him he can do better. She wasn't bad looking, but definitely not a traffic stopper at all, very much average. I asked him what she did for him that is so special, he can't really say outside of her being funny and sweet and having all those years invested.

its a form of the terminal disease called oneitis mixed in with shallow halnish, its hard to cure

women you date who are even average to you they are the most beautiful girl on the world. its why you sometimes here men say and my beautiful wife who is the most beautifulest women in the world and you some precious looking chick to them she is.

i've fallen into this disease before when i dated a somewhat chubby girl, after a while i thought she was gorgeous its like when she went from a 5 to a 9, we broke up and its like she got even hotter even though she looks the same i guess because i couldnt have it the disease oneitis/shallow halnish along with rose colored glasses made her seem so hot to me.

its funny and im in the same boat as a man when i think back of all the girls i dated and cared about the only memories i can think about is say the sex with them, i cant remember them doing anything nice, sacrificing, all i can remember is the sex with them

 

[Malta]

He still in the haze with her. He may need to relocate for a while so that it forces him to move on with his life. Just remind him that they broke up for a reason and just to focus on his dreams and improving himself.

That's what I keep telling him, and from what I saw she got really heated when he hit her with some pure grade A truthful ether.

"That was quick, all these years and just like that you have someone new, I expected it though. There wasn't much time between me, the love of your life before me, and the love of your life before him"

I seen the email chain between them, and her tone completely changed after that. Got really defensive and angry, hit him with "whatever". That introspective ether while keeping your cool is just vicious.

 

[MikelArteta]

Threads like this are great, mainly because there's no judgement like in other threads on this forum. It's just dudes venting, dropping knowledge and chopping it up. Me personally, I have nobody to "outlet" my problems too, shyt just stays bottled up for me so a thread like this is fantastic.

this is true, this is why i honestly think if the internet was around like 40-50 years ago, marriage rates would have been so much lower, men don't sit around and talk about their issues with their girl or wife like women do about their bfs.

its funny on the majority of mgtow type boards i visit the majority of men posting and members are married men its their only outlet.

if you speak out against the system in say real life you will be labelled a misogynistic, and will most likely lose your job.

 

[Malta]

its a form of the terminal disease called oneitis mixed in with shallow halnish, its hard to cure

women you date who are even average to you they are the most beautiful girl on the world. its why you sometimes here men say and my beautiful wife who is the most beautifulest women in the world and you some precious looking chick to them she is.

i've fallen into this disease before when i dated a somewhat chubby girl, after a while i thought she was gorgeous its like when she went from a 5 to a 9, we broke up and its like she got even hotter even though she looks the same i guess because i couldnt have it the disease oneitis/shallow halnish along with rose colored glasses made her seem so hot to me.

its funny and im in the same boat as a man when i think back of all the girls i dated and cared about the only memories i can think about is say the sex with them, i cant remember them doing anything nice, sacrificing, all i can remember is the sex with them

Yeah, she's not ugly at all, but without the instagram filters her skin isn't that great, she wears braids/weaves and she's gained a lot of weight since they met. Meanwhile, he's lost 50lbs and been in the gym like crazy, and the chick he's talking to is a definite upgrade over her, yet he's still taking this hard.

She's a nice girl, but I don't know how nice I think she is after this. I've talked about my boy before, and this situation between him and her has me looking at women differently because even though I thought it was uncommon, it's not.

 

[MikelArteta]

That shyt is crazy, I had a situation where the chick I was dating claimed I was the best man she knew, wanted to marry me and also have kids. She said she couldn't live without me over and over again, basically as soon as we broke up she had a new nikka and I'm fairly certain she was cheating too.

My boy and this chick never really argued, it just wasn't moving fast as she wanted, and I guess he didn't buckle under the pressure of getting married right now. So when she broke up with him, he said he would work on the problem, she basically said "Too late" It makes no sense if you think about it, it's too late for a man you wanted to have kids with previously, but it's not too late to start a new relationship with someone and run the risk of it being "too late" again?

as you get older you realize everything a chick has told you she has told to every other guy she has dated, "your th enicest sweetest guy I ever dated", "im so lucky to have you", "ill die if we ever break up"

its like that scene in toy story when buzz lightyear realizes hes not the only buzz lightyear when you reach that point as a man when you realize what your chick is telling you every other guy she's been with she told them to, its just like a toy and shes not the only one of her kid

 

[CrossBones]

he needs to replace the old bytch with a new model that he has the instructions to, or a new hobby to fill up his time. a man chasing after a washed out dream is only hurting himself. youre only going to be as stable and consistent as her lifestyle choices are. if you depend on a woman, to make you happy - youre as assed out and confused as she is.

 

[MikelArteta]

Yeah, she's not ugly at all, but without the instagram filters her skin isn't that great, she wears braids/weaves and she's gained a lot of weight since they met. Meanwhile, he's lost 50lbs and been in the gym like crazy, and the chick he's talking to is a definite upgrade over her, yet he's still taking this hard.

She's a nice girl, but I don't know how nice I think she is after this. I've talked about my boy before, and this situation between him and her has me looking at women differently because even though I thought it was uncommon, it's not.

yeah ive been there, as a man we love hard, the two women i have loved in my life, even after the relationships ended , i was with hotter women after who even treated me better, waited on my hand and feet and i had more in common with but ehh, i would have given everything at that point to get another chance with them. IT took me awhile to get to that place where I garnered the wisdom and the strength, where you sit down and realize why would i want to be in a relationship with someone I can't trust, or who deoesn't treat me the way that I deserve, your friend is taking it in, in strides it'll take awhile, the only thing that an really sever the ties and cord is no contact for awhile.

 

[kevm3]

The posts about competition crossbone has been writing is real.

Once I got out that simp mentality, I stopped trying to do all this competing. I stopped doing that undercover hating. All of that competing will turn you into a hater and make you have eyes for another man to fail. Now, it's more like I'mma let that broad choose who she chooses. If she chooses up with me, then she's going to get a treat if she acts right, but she will get left if she doesn't. I ain't going to throw salt in what another man is doing or hate on him because I'm more than fly enough to get my own without smashing another man's castle.

The older generation does have a ton of haters and they don't want to pass the knowledge on. I've noticed there is just a big gap of knowledge there because the older generation didn't want to share, but instead kept it so that they could look fly. They didn't want these younger cats to outpace them. And if they DID try to share the knowledge with some younger cat, a lot of times they would try to treat that younger dude like some flunky... like that younger dude is beneath him and would use then younger cat as a trophy... like look at this young dude that I reared. He only got game because it got it from me.

That's why it took us younger cats to get together and have a roundtable and get to sharing this knowledge. Obviously you got some haters out there talking, "Well yall should know this already." Knowledge on women is just like anything else. You may or may not know it naturally. If you don't know it naturally or wasn't reared on it, now you got the opportunity to learn it. A lot of people don't know it because their parents gave them that 'be a perfect gentleman' utter failure of a game coupled with television showing simping to an extreme. Is it any wonder why so many men don't know what's going on when they've been brainwashed by television and their parents didn't teach them better?

This thread is a perfect example of how men should act. We're sitting back, kicking REAL knowledge that can actually affect how a man lives and we're not sitting here hating and being catty with each other, trying to cast the other man down because we're afraid he might get a little more attention from women. We're passing along knowledge that helps build each other up. THAT'S what it's about. Not being no hater simp that's slanging misleading knowledge or shaming others who are trying to improve themselves. It's time for the young brothas to do something righteous, to build, to live and pass on righteous knowledge... it's time for ya'll to shinnne

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[MikelArteta]

he needs to replace the old bytch with a new model that he has the instructions to, or a new hobby to fill up his time. a man chasing after a washed out dream is only hurting himself. if you depend on a woman to make you happy youre as assed out and confused as she is.

rebound relationships are for women

honestly the way to get off pinning over a chick is to cease ALL COMMUNICATION, go cold turkey, and go away on vacation.


take it from me if you really love a chick after a breakup or whatever, your mind will be messed if you don't have the strength you will constnatly think of her night and day, before you go to bed and as soon as you wake up, you'll be checking your phone for a text, or your email or fb hoping for a msg, you may even f up and send a text or call from a unblock number.

i remember way back in the day when i was a simp who didn't know the game i pinned.

Untill I took drastic steps

1. I cut all communication

2. I changed my number as constantly checking every 10-15 min hoping for a text or a phone call was getting on my nerves, once my number was
changed it brought me peace

3. i did the same to my email address

4. got rid of all pictures, gifts, cards, rearranged my room

5. pick up a hobby, read a book watch a movie every day

6. volunteer at a hospital or homeless shelter, realizing that people have worse lives than you and are still in good spirits while your all sad and depressed over some chick who is a speck of dust in this world

7. read relationship forums, realize your situation isn't special the odds of you getting back together or whatever small hope you have is slim to nil, and that others are going through what your going through and they made it out fine and so will you

8. talk to people close to you, close friends, parents etc., hang out with them, realize all the time you wasted spending with this chick who were telling you that she love syou and bla bla was all horse crap and the people who really care about you are still there, clsoe friends and family

9. TRAVEL - THIS HEALED ME TWICE, i went to jamaica for two weeks a few months after a bad breakup, i had that chick on my mind still constantly i went on vacation and poof she was gone out of my mind, something about traveling cures you.