Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Brandsdale]

i don't get this. its like these guys can't just propose they gotta pull these attention whore style stunts to appease these women in the process. let's be real about it the wedding itself is thousands of dollars blown on another attention whore style stunt to make her the center of attention and shower her with praise.

is all that really even necessary? i could never see myself doing a stunt like that.

lool the fact that dude went through the trouble of shooting this shyt, getting approval and paying the movie theatre to put that shyt up My homie told me a long time ago that weddings are made soley for the female all a nikka gotta do is show up.

 

[NerdNash]

The reason we have so much simpism in the media is that it trains men to be subservient to the woman and give in to her every whim, which is profitable to corporations. That 3 month's salary trash came from De Beers. And really, why in the world does the man need to give her an expensive ring when HE'S the one that will be assuming the majority of the risks? But really, who is going to buy all the latest fashions if not women, and if not men who attempt to impress women?

The only reason men act the way they do is because they've been brainwashed and haven't been taught the real by their fathers or they willingly choose to be vagina slaves. Our fathers lived in a different time without the internet. The simp game that may have worked back then will get you eaten alive in this day and age. What women brought to the table back then, they no longer bring. Back then, they had feminine women who were reared to cook and clean and to actually allow their man to lead. Now? Not so much.

There is nothing the majority of these modern women bring to the table that justifies all of that hoop jumping. What does she bring? Her vagina? Women are given that away a dime a dozen to negroes at the club or they met at some bar. So really, what are they bringing? That's what trips me out. These women will be extremely picky and do all of these screening processes... like if you tell one joke they don't like, they will just flake on you from then on.

As a man, if you attempt to be in a relation with a woman, you are the one expected to entertain, provide stimulating conversation, take her to meals and pay for them, listen to her problems, provide protection, etc. What in the world does she bring? Her vagina that she is sharing with every negro with a little swag. How many of these women would you honestly be interested in chopping it up with if the vagina was completely taken off the table? Be real. I only know a select few who have interesting conversation. I used to think it was my fault, as if somehow my conversation was lacking, but the reality is, a lot of women have nothing interesting to talk about. I've found that disparity out when I actually conversed with the few women who actually had enough conversation to discuss something other than the latest tv shows, fashion, somebody else's business or kids. There are actually a few decent women out there, but this westernized, neo feminist environment is just toxic. I really don't want to deal with women who have the mannerisms of men, tatted up everywhere, funky colored dyed hair, cursing, drinking, slept with the whole block, won't let a man lead, got 10 million 'homies', 'brothers', 'cousins' and 'just a friends', she got 2 or 3 kids, no loyalty, but still has the audacity to have some large checklist that needs to be filled if she is going to deal with a man long-term? Man come on.

That's why I don't trip. I just work on improving myself FOR MYSELF and just doing things I enjoy. I already know the more I improve myself, it just automatically improves my option with women. I sure don't chase them and I don't tolerate funny style behavior. The REAL is you get to a point where you've improved yourself to such an extent and you're enjoying your life so much naturally that you've passed the checklist for one woman, which means you've passed the checklist for A LOT of women. That means you have CHOICE. Being a man who loves God, has a strong family relationship, close relationship with friends, enjoys life, is well built physically, can hold conversation, etc... all of that comes with constant self improvement, and when obtained, you just have a ton of options... and you sit back and start to laugh when some woman flakes on you or demands you take her to dinner or do some hoop jumping for her attention because you can easily cut her out of your life and enjoy your life via your hobbies or via the other women who want your time. We sho' ain't chasing these ladies in the 2012... We're spending more time chasing the pursuit of living an abundant life.

Why you spitting ether like this?

 

[Wild self]

Man, real talk is, all the majority of these females want is like Cindy Lauper put it:
"Girls just wanna have fun"

There are several harsh truths that you don't want to speak on that linger in the back of your mind, but one that keeps ringing in my mind is that the majority of the women today in America are for entertainment ONLY...

If you try to build with them, you are liable to hate your life. Modern women don't have the concept of 'a man' anymore, which is their man who handles all of their needs. They have numerous men, or like what that one woman who wrote that book-- a gaggle. She has several men who are all there to handle various needs of hers who she pulls in via seduction and waving the vagina in front of their face.

The TWO big categories is that of her resource provider and her entertainment provider. Women these days will either put you in that category of the guy who gives her the tingles and makes her shiver or she will put you in the category of the sweet guy who is nice but is only there for her to get free dinners off of and to use his financial resources. If she puts you in the entertainment provider category, you don't have to give her a doggone thing. She wants to give YOU things. On the other hand, if you are the resource provider, she will ask for the world from you and never be satisfied, and will even take those resources and give it to the entertainment provider.

It's something a lot of men kind of realize, but they don't want to believe it's true. Stability and reliability is boring to her, but she needs it when her life is going down the drain... but once obtained, she will go RIGHT back to seeking mr. entertainment. That's why it's dangerous to even wife up these 27 to 30 year old broads who supposedly 'got it all out her system.' She's saying that because her life and emotions are in disarray after dealing with the 10,000th playboy and thug and she needs a mr. fix-it to come in and make her life back straight again... But what will happen when her emotions are rejuvenated and her finances are back on track? That's right, she'll go RIGHT back to seeking mr. entertainment. When she gets caught, she might bring up the false rape accusation, might say something like, "Well you neglected my needs" or a whole bunch of other nonsense. And don't forget the 'upgrade imperative' running in the back of her mind as well.

KNOWING that so many of these modern women have this kind of mindset, how can you build with them, knowing that attempting to be an adult and live some kind of stable life is 'boring', and they will seek entertainment. You may provide the entertainment for a little while and have her attention, but soon, just as anything that is familiar, it becomes common, so she will look for new thrills elsewhere.

THIS is why so many men, aka guys raised on the gentleman theory, are having problems. They were raised to be nice, respectful, to take care of a woman and her needs, etc. They were never hipped to the entertainment provider and the resource provider REALITY of the situation. Resource provider will dress 'his' doll up, pay for her hair to get done, her nails, buy her clothes, all the while she is doing to look fine for ANOTHER man who does nothing but provide her entertainment.

The resource provider relationship is one similar to a host-parasite. She will use him up to the very last drop and discard him at the drop of a dime when he is dried up. In other words, when he loses his job or he stops buying her things, taking her to dinner, he doesn't want to listen to her problems anymore, etc., he is shucked to the side and a new resource provider is sought. On the other hand the entertainment provider relationship is one of master and servant. She will do anything to please her entertainment provider until he ceases to be that or until she has used her feminine wiles to neuter him and turn him into the resource provider she treats so disdainfully. For the entertainment provider, she will do things she won't for her resource provider. She may cook and clean for him, do things sexually with him beyond her norms, take things from the resource provider and give it to the entertainment provider. This is why you hear of stories of women cheating on their husbands who do everything for him and cheating on him in the most disrespectful manner with some guy she met at a bar and doesn't even really know.

That's why a lot of guys have problems the longer they deal with a woman. She becomes familiar with you and you are no longer as exciting and mysterious. Instead of being that dude she only saw every now and then who gave her thrills, you have now shifted into the resource provider, listening to her problems, paying for the majority of the bills, etc., and thus her behavior towards you changes accordingly.

By entertainment provider, I don't mean you are a clown, but rather you stimulate her in some way. Women always want their emotions and minds to be stimulated.

It's a bit sad, but I really ain't that cat to sit around wearing a sucker jacket, so I have little intentions for 'providing' for some woman. She can pay her own school, her own bills, her own hair and nails and all of that there... but the question begs to be asked, knowing this, it is really not easy doing the things to be in a long-term relationship with these women any more is it?

Shyt like this is why I have to leave America. I bet you women from other countries is not like this and they are humble as hell. Plus they ain't fat and they are badder

 

[Wild self]

theres a problem within the male community where guys feel like they always have to compete with the next man (and thats a cycle that never ends), or at least they never admit that they can use a little extra help. we never like to look like we are at a disadvantage, or unfamiliar with the territory. from those weak emotions, we get men trying to downplay the other, especially when the said man is in pursuit of women. basically, what you dont learn at home, very few outside of it will willingly help with. you end up having to roll with the hits on your own



a lot of critizism that goes to threads like this come from guys who say "oh you should already know how to get p*ssy." "You guys are all just bitter and hate women" etc etc. theyre really dismissive at the game, something that literally has trapped the biggest and the baddest, to the smallest and weakest of men. that is because handling the opposite sex is not about getting her in your life, its about maintaining a discipline - with or without her.


the dangers of letting a girl (or anyone) get close to you, know what you do, where you stay, be on your social network, know your habits, lay with, have access to your money, or whatever, is that you are putting up a lot on the line that she can affect you with. guys like ocho cinco and dion sanders didnt treat the kind of women they messed with the appropriate way. you keep easy chicks on a poles distance from you, and thats it


a lot of players and youngsters arent on the level where they want a nice female to settle down and have something important with. and those who are, dont know what theyre supposed to be looking out for. thats what experience and building with others is about

On the bold, I been saying this for years that other dudes will try to keep you in the dark for as long as they can. Cause they see you as a threat to get girls and see you as competition. Dudes and chicks are grimey as fukk in this game and will do their best for you to remain that spineless ass simping guy. Luckily this thread exists

 

[CrossBones]

That's why I don't trip. I just work on improving myself FOR MYSELF and just doing things I enjoy. I already know the more I improve myself, it just automatically improves my option with women. I sure don't chase them and I don't tolerate funny style behavior. The REAL is you get to a point where you've improved yourself to such an extent and you're enjoying your life so much naturally that you've passed the checklist for one woman, which means you've passed the checklist for A LOT of women. That means you have CHOICE. Being a man who loves God, has a strong family relationship, close relationship with friends, enjoys life, is well built physically, can hold conversation, etc... all of that comes with constant self improvement, and when obtained, you just have a ton of options... and you sit back and start to laugh when some woman flakes on you or demands you take her to dinner or do some hoop jumping for her attention because you can easily cut her out of your life and enjoy your life via your hobbies or via the other women who want your time. We sho' ain't chasing these ladies in the 2012... We're spending more time chasing the pursuit of living an abundant life.

that whole part about chasing women today, and the error in going out of your way trying to please them, is on deadly point. the modern woman today feels entitled to do whatever, like theres room for major mistakes since the drama of "overcoming" them is an accomplishment to be proud of. so in effect, they come off as wishy washy and think they will always deserve better. why? because the media, feminism, and SIMPS tell her so. but the true part of it all, is that those sideline players, the ones in their ears - in the end they dont matter...

a womans life picture will tell it all for you. what IS she about. the fukk is going on with HER? men need to be discriminate with that.

when it comes down to it, the only thing that does matter in a relationship, is the man and woman. what will help them beneficially grow, what seeds have they planted and dedicated themselves to, and what they will emotionally accept from another. it could be anything that they do that maybe the rest of the world sees as politically incorrect or old school, but if it is sound and reasonable -then theres no reason to abandon it. everyone should play a role and make the most of what they can do.

but what the women dont understand is that you cant build a home without the structure firmly in place. these whores want to build brand new families out of their partial ones through online dating sites (a ha!) or random hook ups. their judgement is based on his money and swag, but not character. "hes a doctor" "hes got money" or "he looks like he has swag," its usually something that will please her friends and her social group while hes supposed to be buying her shyt. in other words, men who just "look" the part.

... the fukk?!

anyways, the best way to avoid venom is just that, avoid it.

every man in here needs shyt that they do that is about them, only them, and some way enhances YOUR day. some of yall might like to go biking to different areas after or before work. jog and work out in the park. eat at new places, try new foods. watch old western flicks. read up on old wars, general autobiographies, samurai codes, I dont know. participate at your local church. learn to kayak. buy that motherfukking ATV and go out on weekends riding in the dirt. go parachute if you want to. do shyt you wanted to do as a kid that said you would when you grew up. or just go to the sports bars on weekends. just do shyt that makes YOU happy and gives you peace. find your own way, thats being a man.

cause the right female will respect that you have a life before (and after) her, and you wont stress her because, well you got shyt to do. she dont wanna ride, there millions of others who will. if I let them.

 

[Wild self]

The reason we have so much simpism in the media is that it trains men to be subservient to the woman and give in to her every whim, which is profitable to corporations. That 3 month's salary trash came from De Beers. And really, why in the world does the man need to give her an expensive ring when HE'S the one that will be assuming the majority of the risks? But really, who is going to buy all the latest fashions if not women, and if not men who attempt to impress women?

The only reason men act the way they do is because they've been brainwashed and haven't been taught the real by their fathers or they willingly choose to be vagina slaves. Our fathers lived in a different time without the internet. The simp game that may have worked back then will get you eaten alive in this day and age. What women brought to the table back then, they no longer bring. Back then, they had feminine women who were reared to cook and clean and to actually allow their man to lead. Now? Not so much.

There is nothing the majority of these modern women bring to the table that justifies all of that hoop jumping. What does she bring? Her vagina? Women are given that away a dime a dozen to negroes at the club or they met at some bar. So really, what are they bringing? That's what trips me out. These women will be extremely picky and do all of these screening processes... like if you tell one joke they don't like, they will just flake on you from then on.

As a man, if you attempt to be in a relation with a woman, you are the one expected to entertain, provide stimulating conversation, take her to meals and pay for them, listen to her problems, provide protection, etc. What in the world does she bring? Her vagina that she is sharing with every negro with a little swag. How many of these women would you honestly be interested in chopping it up with if the vagina was completely taken off the table? Be real. I only know a select few who have interesting conversation. I used to think it was my fault, as if somehow my conversation was lacking, but the reality is, a lot of women have nothing interesting to talk about. I've found that disparity out when I actually conversed with the few women who actually had enough conversation to discuss something other than the latest tv shows, fashion, somebody else's business or kids. There are actually a few decent women out there, but this westernized, neo feminist environment is just toxic. I really don't want to deal with women who have the mannerisms of men, tatted up everywhere, funky colored dyed hair, cursing, drinking, slept with the whole block, won't let a man lead, got 10 million 'homies', 'brothers', 'cousins' and 'just a friends', she got 2 or 3 kids, no loyalty, but still has the audacity to have some large checklist that needs to be filled if she is going to deal with a man long-term? Man come on.

That's why I don't trip. I just work on improving myself FOR MYSELF and just doing things I enjoy. I already know the more I improve myself, it just automatically improves my option with women. I sure don't chase them and I don't tolerate funny style behavior. The REAL is you get to a point where you've improved yourself to such an extent and you're enjoying your life so much naturally that you've passed the checklist for one woman, which means you've passed the checklist for A LOT of women. That means you have CHOICE. Being a man who loves God, has a strong family relationship, close relationship with friends, enjoys life, is well built physically, can hold conversation, etc... all of that comes with constant self improvement, and when obtained, you just have a ton of options... and you sit back and start to laugh when some woman flakes on you or demands you take her to dinner or do some hoop jumping for her attention because you can easily cut her out of your life and enjoy your life via your hobbies or via the other women who want your time. We sho' ain't chasing these ladies in the 2012... We're spending more time chasing the pursuit of living an abundant life.

You get it. Your conspiracy logic can decode a lot of societal problems.

On the first bolded, Women today are so arrogant that they think that the puss is the all to be all, or the goldmine of life and determination. Some don't even have to hide about their cheating ways cause they know sucka men will still be with them and tricking on them.

On the second bolded, I remember someone said in another thread that Aaliyah in her tomboy ways back in the 90s was more feminine and humble than the average chick of today. Imagine that, a tomboy that wore baggy clothes back in those days is more feminine and humble than these arrogant tattoo wearing, liquor drinking, rude talking, bytches these days? That "Love and Hip Hop" shyt is poison and brainwashing fools into thinking that women should drink liquor, act disrespectful, and fukk random men with "swag" should be the norm.

We are all gonna pay a heavy price on this tomfoolery that is going on one day.

 

[Wild self]

Woman Calls Thugs To Shoot Up Bus After Argument With Passenger - YouTube

This is what happens when you are some sucka simp negroes trying to play that white knight role. The brother and uncle believed whatever dumb story that woman told, came up and shot a bus up with an AK and them negroes are in jail, and rightfully so, for 25 years. She will only get 5 to 10, but set a hit up over NONSENSE. Innocent people almost got killed because some negroes wanted to 'defend dey sister' over some nonsense.

I realized that since the Casey Anthony case, pretty women are more highly regarded than even the likes of children and other citizens. Some think that it is OK for women to endanger everyone cause of her puss. Simp ass niccas pulling an AK47 and nearly killing people that never did anything wrong is just a sin across humanity.

 

[CrossBones]

On the bold, I been saying this for years that other dudes will try to keep you in the dark for as long as they can. Cause they see you as a threat to get girls and see you as competition. Dudes and chicks are grimey as fukk in this game and will do their best for you to remain that spineless ass simping guy. Luckily this thread exists

its crazy, but I heard somewhere that jumping into direct competition is something that men shouldnt do. fighting over the same things is dangerous, and ho shyt. this is going to fukk with some people right off the bat, and thats how bad our programming is. but yall need to peep this shyt.

dont go racing head to head with another man. direct competition is a waste of time and resources. its jealousy and its crab shyt. sometimes, you have to walk out on a head to head, or you go bigger and better for your own well being. be smart and efficient with what you have been blessed with. first of all, men need to stop comparing what he has with what you do. his girl with yours. dont compare his life to yours. we all dont start at the same point and have the same amount of resources or opportunity(money). thats what direct competition does and thats for the hens. it compares and it contrasts to set up a conflict.

now bare with me, but check this out:

you have to do best by your honest and personal standards for what you want. and not on no, ho shyt, or cop out shyt to make excuses for why he has what he does, or to stop him because hes shinning. but its to filter out what you really need to be doing. not jumping in front of the next man or pushing him into traffic.

taking away the direct competition means that you always go by what will make you happy and give you peace of mind in life. in some cases, that means to supercede somebody and a make a bigger move. see, you have to go over their head but not head to head, with the next man. thats crab ish to claw at him and be on his own level. dont fight someone elses fight.

even boxers know you dont play into someone elses realm. thats how you get knocked out. that competition will put you to sleep if you get caught up in someone elses game. whether you want to keep up with the joneses or trying to fukk more women than the next man, honestly, competing like that is not for men.

see Im not here to go hand to hand tooth and nail over a crumb, I'll go bigger. I'll take a knife to a fist fight, a gun to a knife fight and a run over an armed man on foot. its not a game.

you think when man started building huts and houses made of branches and leaves, that the next man should have just tried to make a bigger house of branches? make them huts up faster? because the man who wanted better, didnt go head to head. he thought outside of that chamber, and made a house of bamboo. then the next man house of clay. a house of adobe. a house made of stone. a house of steel. and so on, and so on. you dont get caught up racing someone elses race. make them your enemy for no reason. you supercede them and use best YOUR mind and resources.

dudes around you dont want to help with the game? then go elsewhere. read books. study all people and things around you. write down what works for you.

the bottomline, is if you get trapped competing with someone else, youre not using your own vision, and your own capabilities to its fullest. youre racing his race and trying to fit in with the next mans level. its beneficial not to waste your time and resources racing directly with another man. and those dudes who try to snake another, or not help, theyre competing with you. but fukk it - dont compete with them. dont even fukk with them on a serious level. dont do that. see as men, we can compete, but we always need to do it on a different level than the next man. do it on your own terms, and your own ground. dont wait to compare yourself and be in direct competition and standings with the next guy.


media makes you think that way, and thats why we're out here backstabbing and hiding shyt from another. buying more clothes to compete with the next mans looks. fighting over broads with the next man. buying bigger cars to make ourselves feel better. its not beneficial. just do you and use best your gifts. just make sure you have victory planned out and the means to do it. what hes doing, fukk that. it doesnt matter.


direct competition is for women and track runners. its not for life. men supercede and create new lanes. go over their heads

 

[gameover82]

everytime I talk about..the stuff guys do and they need to get there act together all the women would just be like and but when it about their bullshyt it always and ...seem like guy suppose to fix there faults but we suppose love there's

 

[sixsixtwo]

"Possibly one of the worst things that could happen to most of the readers of this blog would be to go to the Porsche dealer to try to lease a 911 Carrera Turbo Cabriolet and actually get approved for the lease. Then you would have this $1400 a month payment coupled with $500 a month for insurance and then also these quarterly visits to the Porsche dealer for inspections, check-ups to keep the warranty intact, each visit hitting you up for another $500 or more.

So you would have this “thing”. It is beautiful. You are proud of it. Every now and then you get to use it as it is designed. But it will suck the life out of you. The money it would cost you would be a drain on your present and on your future. There are so many more things that the money could be spent on that would actually give you more pleasure than having that car. And the lack of pressure of not having to raise the cash is a form of happiness unto itself. And then at the end of your lease, after you have sucked it up and forked over all this cash, you have nothing to show for it.

The best thing that could happen to you is that finance manager at the dealership takes your application and then never calls you back or is always busy when you called until you gave up on it.

You could say the say thing about having a woman that has issues in HER determination of your sexual market value relative to how she views hers. You are in for shyt City if you actually start a relationship with her.

So when you get flaked on, as per the subject of this post, The Fade Away, she is doing you a fukking favor. Actually I do the same thing, I fade away. I feel that Silence is Golden. Let them invent whatever reason that I stopped calling that lets them deal with it. I was a b*stard. OK. Aliens abducted me. Fine. I just couldn’t handle a strong and independent woman. Whatever. And if you get “Faded Away” you can do exactly the same thing. Invent whatever reason you want to allow you deal with it.

But better to accept that something good just happened to you. A gift of from God. And you really shouldn’t even let it get that far before realizing and acting.

Rollo talks of Direct and Covert forms of communication. Men normally communicate directly. Women communicate covertly. When she flakes, delays, makes excuses, she is telling you everything you need to hear. You just have to listen to what she says and take the appropriate action which is to BOLT like Usain Bolt running a 9.73. Slip out the back, Jack, Make a new plan, Stan. Next her. You probably just got “nexted”, you just haven’t gotten the notice in the mail yet. But rather than waiting around like a sap sucker, you can get out and keep your self-respect in tact.

So what she is saying if she defers, delays, flakes is that she doesn’t think your SMV is up there where she wants it.

I had come to this site after developing some fairly hard and fast rules about this exact subject. Before hearing about the Three Date Rule, I had come to that exact conclusion. And also some others. Mine was one week, three dates. If she took longer than a week, Next. If three consecutive nights passed and I had not physically seen her, Next. In 90% of my important relationships, including my ex-wife, the woman fukked me on the first night. 90%!!! 9% fukked me on the second. So 99% of the important relationships that I ever had, the woman fukked me on the first or second date. Because she was iin to me. Get it? When they like you, they fukk you. When they don’t like you, they don’t fukk you. Don’t listen to what they say, watch what they do. Never listen to a bytch. If one past , and certainly two, then they jerked me around and nothing went anywhere. I just chased my tail like a fool.

Rollo explained it with his post “The Good Girl”. This is 2012. There aren’t a lot of woman carrying around religious restrictions that keep them from acting on Genuine Attraction. No matter who she is, when the “man” comes along, she fukks him. She fukks him because she is so attracted that she was compelled to fukk him. Or she fukks him to get a foot in the door. So I came up with some probabilities. If she doesn’t fukk on the first date then you are 80% probable that this isn’t going anywhere. If after the second, you are 95% and after the third 99%. And I add, if after a week or if three nights went by where she hasn’t tried to do what it took to be with you to get it on, then she wasn’t that into you. If she was Genuinely Attracted to you then she would have fukked you. She would have found a way. There are those women that want to make you wait to check your intentions, but fukk that. It’s not on her terms any fukking more. Put it on your terms. If she liked you then she would have no issue in “getting her ass in the grass” as the Vietnam Marines used to say, about putting some “skin” in the game, and making an investment or a commitment to you and not jerking your ass around.

If you don’t get fukked on the first date, then you need to start approaching other women. I would mentally start preparing myself to jettison this bytch. I don’t have any issues about jacking the girl up about her commitment to the situation and not making an investment in the relationship. There has been post after post about how women will play you until they have fukked you, then afterwards when they have irons in the fire, horses in the race, money on the table, then they become something entirely different. They stop being bytches and start being girlfriends. If she ain’t fukking you then she’s screwing you. If that’s a harsh viewpoint, tough shyt. It’s real. And it’s based on real observations of women and life.

So this is where the flake or the Fade Away is actually doing you a favor. If she flakes, then your SMV isn’t up there where she wants it to be. Listen to what she is covertly saying to you. Maybe she drags it out and makes you wait to see if some flicker of attraction occurs or she’s waiting to see if a better option comes along. Rollo says “She is evaluating her hypergamistic options”. fukk that. If you read the previous post on “Date Guarding” and you see how the woman begins to resent and tear apart her man when she doesn’t think his SMV is up to snuff when she begins to go into the fertility phase. So if you get flaked then you just got done a fukking favor. You just skipped out on a whole bunch of bullshyt. And the next time you get flaked then you need to look at it like “Thank you, fukking Jesus”. You just dodged a bullet. You just got turned down on Porsche lease.

Roosh had a post where he said go for the kiss even if you are not reading signs that you should. He said he often had sex with women that it didn’t appear that she was into it before he tried to escalate. So I say you almost have to escalate so you know. Don’t be timid about it. Boys kiss girls. Boys make passes at girls. It’s expected. So if she rejects your pass then you know and you just stepped into the realm that there is a strong chance that this is going nowhere and her appreciation of your SMV isn’t where it should be. If it was, then she would have fukked you. And you need to know that. That “Good Girl Waits” myth is a fukking lie.

OK, some people will say “I waited until my fifth date and we were together forever”. Fine. Game and Red Pill are a lot of things to a lot of people To me, it is defensive, a sexual mating strategy that gives you your best shot at succeeding and not sticking a gun into your mouth someday, of not being miserable, of not being dejected, of not being forced into a relationship because you haven’t cultivated the options available to you. And not being afraid to leave because you stupidly think “She’s the One” or that you are afraid to be alone.

It is my opinion that as women become more and more financially independent then the short term attraction strategy is going to become more predominate in her selection of sexual partners than long term provisioning. So if she doesn’t fukk you on the first or second date then you are relegated into long term provisioning possibility status and the “Mate Guarding” post shows exactly how that is not the place to be. And you need to get the fukk out of there. Now. You need to get where you are genuinely appreciated and more importantly, genuinely desired.

Also, it has been noted about the viability of being aware of her menstruation cycle for multiple reasons. During fertility she is more DTF. You also need to know when you could be in danger of impregnating her and trapping yourself. Now, you have one more fukking reason. If she heads into the fertility phase and she starts to fukk with you, then that is another form of covert communication. Again she is telling you that your SMV isn’t up there in her appreciation. And again you need to Next that bytch and get the fukk out of Dodge. ‘Cause there is trouble brewing on the horizon. Red Sky in the morning, sailor’s warning. You can play all the Athol Kay games you want and it may work or it may not. But if you Next that bytch, that works 100% of the time.

Any reader of this blog should know, should believe, should internalize, “THERE IS NO ‘ONE’”. There are many.. One is good as the next. If the next one isn’t as good as this one, then the one after that will be better. Under the hood they are all the same. Learn to leave, leave, and leave early. I have said this before. I am 57 years old. I had three of the most powerful relationships I ever had AFTER I WAS 50. After a whole shytload of women I had thought were “The One” including my wife, I had three relationships that I would push my ex-wife out of the way to get to those women, literally shove her ass to the ground. There is no ‘one’. There will be many. The best part of a relationship is the first 90 days. Spent more time being in those first 90 days and you will end up a wealthier, happier, more content man. Next those bytches. Next often, next early. I have never regreted prematurely ending a relationship based on a gut feeling. I have regreted sticking around for shyt City. If you think you might be missing something, you’re not. If you do stick around for a woman that vacillates, hesitates, drags outs or one that treats you like shyt then you’re missing out on the Next one that will answer your call with “Hi, baby I was just thinking about how I want to suck your dikk like it was the last Popscicle on earth.” Good relationships, at least good in the sense that the man thinks it is good, are like a sprint. They blast out of the blocks and haul ass. shytty ones, ones that go nowhere, never start fast and hot. If you are wondering, questioning, about whether the girl likes you, she doesn’t. Accept it and get on with it. The next one might.

In a profile on Millionaire Match, a woman said “The wise woman listens but doesn’t believe, kisses but doesn’t love, leaves before she is left”. I would say the same thing about the Red Pill Wise man.

If you didn’t read the last four posts of Rollo’s blog, be fukking sure you do.

Also, like Dalrock, I’m taking a break from these men’s blogs. I get too pissed off. Every fukking day I see something in one of the major blogs that makes me think “fukking bytches!!!”. See you in a while."

Source: The Fade Away «

 

[Wild self]

its crazy, but I heard somewhere that jumping into direct competition is something that men shouldnt do. fighting over the same things is dangerous, and ho shyt. this is going to fukk with some people right off the bat, and thats how bad our programming is. but yall need to peep this shyt.

dont go racing head to head with another man. direct competition is a waste of time and resources. its jealousy and its crab shyt. sometimes, you have to walk out on a head to head, or you go bigger and better for your own well being. be smart and efficient with what you have been blessed with. first of all, men need to stop comparing what he has with what you do. his girl with yours. dont compare his life to yours. we all dont start at the same point and have the same amount of resources or opportunity(money). thats what direct competition does and thats for the hens. it compares and it contrasts to set up a conflict.

now bare with me, but check this out:

you have to do best by your honest and personal standards for what you want. and not on no, ho shyt, or cop out shyt to make excuses for why he has what he does, or to stop him because hes shinning. but its to filter out what you really need to be doing. not jumping in front of the next man or pushing him into traffic.

taking away the direct competition means that you always go by what will make you happy and give you peace of mind in life. in some cases, that means to supercede somebody and a make a bigger move. see, you have to go over their head but not head to head, with the next man. thats crab ish to claw at him and be on his own level. dont fight someone elses fight.

even boxers know you dont play into someone elses realm. thats how you get knocked out. that competition will put you to sleep if you get caught up in someone elses game. whether you want to keep up with the joneses or trying to fukk more women than the next man, honestly, competing like that is not for men.

see Im not here to go hand to hand tooth and nail over a crumb, I'll go bigger. I'll take a knife to a fist fight, a gun to a knife fight and a run over an armed man on foot. its not a game.

you think when man started building huts and houses made of branches and leaves, that the next man should have just tried to make a bigger house of branches? make them huts up faster? because the man who wanted better, didnt go head to head. he thought outside of that chamber, and made a house of bamboo. then the next man house of clay. a house of adobe. a house made of stone. a house of steel. and so on, and so on. you dont get caught up racing someone elses race. make them your enemy for no reason. you supercede them and use best YOUR mind and resources.

dudes around you dont want to help with the game? then go elsewhere. read books. study all people and things around you. write down what works for you.

the bottomline, is if you get trapped competing with someone else, youre not using your own vision, and your own capabilities to its fullest. youre racing his race and trying to fit in with the next mans level. its beneficial not to waste your time and resources racing directly with another man. and those dudes who try to snake another, or not help, theyre competing with you. but fukk it - dont compete with them. dont even fukk with them on a serious level. dont do that. see as men, we can compete, but we always need to do it on a different level than the next man. do it on your own terms, and your own ground. dont wait to compare yourself and be in direct competition and standings with the next guy.


media makes you think that way, and thats why we're out here backstabbing and hiding shyt from another. buying more clothes to compete with the next mans looks. fighting over broads with the next man. buying bigger cars to make ourselves feel better. its not beneficial. just do you and use best your gifts. just make sure you have victory planned out and the means to do it. what hes doing, fukk that. it doesnt matter.


direct competition is for women and track runners. its not for life. men supercede and create new lanes. go over their heads

I agree, but many of these default players (guys who knew the game from successful older men from when they hit puberty, round 11-13) think that if any of the simps or players-in-learning knew the game, their puss supply would probably be in danger, regardless where they go. So they keep men in the dark and shame/ chastise men that tried to learn it from experience or reading books. Trust me, its by personal experience and I know not to underestimate people's cutthroat tactics, especially when it comes to something that people value like puss.

Not so much a cult, it's more like a dogma. A dogma that wasn't built to last though.

They only up the pro's to feminism which is "equality"

But these hoes don't want equality, all they really want is sexual equality. They wanna be able to hoe it up without being judged and still want to be wifed and pampered.

Problem with that is that the needed piece for this "dream" of theirs to come true is....







us.


They can shame and rationalize all the fukk they want, at the end of the day the nikkas they really want will never wife them. That power will never be in their hands. The pure female image that encouraged commitment from men was enforced by the same society that "oppressed" them. As much as they don't wanna beleive it, eventually they have to sleep in the bed they made.

Studies pop up every week on how feminism ain't going as planned now that more and more feminist generations are hitting status. These bytches lookin back like "it was all good when i was 20! "

Furthermore our generation drifts further and further away from marraige since nowadays it's pretty much obsolete/irrelevant/impractical. Combine that with the media of today where we can go on worldstar and see a video of a chick gettin fukked while on the phone with her boyfriend and you can see the "pure" image of females is pretty much dead in the water. The only ones who still beleive in it are females and sexless simps deluding themselves that this only happens with this elusive subset of "aint shyt women" in spite of whats right in front of them.

I'm a 90's baby myself and it's crazy cause I know if I lost and was born in the 70s or 80s and saw a video of a chick on the phone with her bf while givin dome to another nikka I woulda been like

" how could she do this?!"

but instead I was like

"damn....I wonder what that nikka said to her when he was gaming her up"

Feminism is gonna die a slow death like the KKK. The foundation itself is built upon hatred and destabilization of the gender roles. These women who finally see their ways are often too old and bitter to change back. That's why you see a few of the founding feminists are now house makers and grandmothers, cause their ways led to destruction.

Women of Gen X, Y, and Z are no longer religious and most of the didn't grow up in 2 parent households. Marriage is almost a thing of the past and respect is out the window. This is the dating scene of the 21st century America. Hypergamy and the a$$hole traits is the most desired trait for a man.

When I woke up from that lie called simping, all hell broke loose from the peopel that knew me. Mad cause they could no longer control or shame me of my new, improved ways.

Roll with the punches and do God's work, my pops always said.

 

[Brandsdale]

PART 2

Look how our male role models are protrayed in the media. Superman is another mega-simp for lois lane...Why is it like this? What do these women truly have to offer these great men to make them bend over backwards for their acceptance? Is vagina truly = to superhuman strength? x-ray vision? superspeed? No! Vagina is just a sexual organ and nothing more. Why does it dominate the minds of us western men.

Look how things are in the east. Men in japan work 12-13 hour shifts and stack their paper and dont give a fukk about a woman(which has called their population to shrink a little but still). Their overall population is less than half of ours and they're a world superpower because they focus on whats important. Romance shouldn't come before finance, thats an obsurd concept. they also pass these messages on to their children through their media. I know some of y'all are familiar with japanese animation and how their heroes are portrayed. Men who put their goals first and rarely even show interest in love. Look at cats like Goku and Vegeta(excuse the cartoon metaphors) but they show you how a man should truly be in this generation. Goku barely even shows chichi he loves(shyt he only married her because he promised her to do so when he was a child). And you'll never catch a cat like vegeta simping but nah, Superman the most powerful nikka on the globe simping a chick that shyts on him all day as clark kent. we gotta wake up brehs and rewire our instincts after all the brainwashing we've been exposed to and subliminal sympery written into our programs...

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

at the amount of gems

props to everyone

 

[NerdNash]

at the amount of gems

props to everyone

this the realest sh1t online

 

[CrossBones]

I agree, but many of these default players (guys who knew the game from successful older men from when they hit puberty, round 11-13) think that if any of the simps or players-in-learning knew the game, their puss supply would probably be in danger, regardless where they go. So they keep men in the dark and shame/ chastise men that tried to learn it from experience or reading books. Trust me, its by personal experience and I know not to underestimate people's cutthroat tactics, especially when it comes to something that people value like puss.

its real ho shyt out there bruh. other men dont want you to have your own money right, your own bytches, your own life together.

but what you eat dont make them shyt. and they know that. they want you broke and hanging around them so you can hear about how they gettin it. a lot of old timers are like that, even when theyre out of the game.

thats what they doing. the thing is, if we all stopped directly competing with each other on some cutthroat, fukk the next man shyt "I cant have him doing well" we could each find our own ways in life and build, a lot like this thread here. all of us aint the same but theres enough resources out there that we can find our own ways to get our own money, our own women, and our own way of life.

dudes are greedy and hoes. we need to peep that and dead it off top. its just jealousy and their need to be seen as better than you.