Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[jadillac]

Cats been kicking that real in here. Once a woman loses emotions for you, it's completely over. Dude did 'everything right', but this broad got bored and now he's doling out alimony and sponsoring some new dude to blaze them guts up.

To an extent it's family, but this sort of behavior is extremely prevalent with women these days. These women actually have a concept called a 'starter husband' in this day and age. Once those no-fault divorces entered into the picture, women are bailing out like the plane is going down.

Good thing is, they didnt have kids though. So nothing for him to pay out.

And the house they had, it didnt sell so she ended up staying in it because her parents arent really stable themselves, and now she lives there with the new guy.

So I guess it turned out decently considering. He's happy now that he's free. But he and became friends b/c we're both kinda the same personality, and it's bad that you can't be nice out here to 99% of these women.

 

[CrossBones]

My problem with some of these puas is that although they may have valid strategies in getting women to bed, they are the ultimate vagina slaves. It's as if they value nothing higher than busting one inside a female and will do any and everything to do that, even giving up their own soul. Like they are completely changing their dress style into something they are not and undertaking false personas in order to deal with these females. These guys can have like 10 different personas. Oh, she is this, time for me to be cocky and funny. Oh this girl is that, time for me to be mysterious and distant. Time to 'neg' this girl. Time to kino this girl. These dudes are running through scripts and just acting to get some vagina. Every move in their life is centered around what women want. Some of them dudes are real creepy, going even to the extent of attempting to hypnotize or brainwash women to get into bed with them.

All of that overcompensation and shifting around is unnecessary.

word, for a lot of PUA hopefuls it is just a form of exploitation. for both the men and women, because in order to "win" the game you have to practically play a role and use the other person as a tool for sex. I see the sex trade game a lot in the same way, as the woman is willing to reduce herself into a sex object for the man with money, and the man is reducing his own value as a man into being strictly a cash cow for the woman. theres a lot of soul missing in ANY objects of consumerism or anything thats to be sold.

 

[MikelArteta]

Good thing is, they didnt have kids though. So nothing for him to pay out.

And the house they had, it didnt sell so she ended up staying in it because her parents arent really stable themselves, and now she lives there with the new guy.

So I guess it turned out decently considering. He's happy now that he's free. But he and became friends b/c we're both kinda the same personality, and it's bad that you can't be nice out here to 99% of these women.

Sometimes it's better to be ravishly bit by the dog to learn your lesson not to play around with it than to just get a little nibble.


Many men get nibbled (cheated on, played, b*stard child) but think next time will be different I'm wiser and smarter now only to get nibbled again

I'd rather be ravishly destroyed (married, divorced, losing matrimonial home) and learn my lesson

 

[MikelArteta]

I came across this story the other day about Kansas state qb Colin Klein


He never kissed a girl untill his wedding day I know folks opinions different on everything etc but i was amazed at his strength and not giving up his beliefs or morals for a chick. I wish I had this strength


Collin Klein

 

[CrossBones]

Long story short, He told me his observations are that, once women change there's nothing you can really do. You can't control when/why they change, etc. This dude used to work two jobs so they could have a nice house, nice vehicles, etc.

its wild, but until there are some standards and legitmate consequences for their actions ... women will not change in their hot-to-cold attitude.


let me put it like this:

if a woman was going to lose as much as a man would in a divorce (from a financially and socially speaking standpoint), do you really think that she would be rushing to file those papers? if she felt like there was going to be a major fallout in her life from making these overnight changes, do you really think that they would jump at the chance of making themselves thought of and treated as lesser?

as long as their are capes and fools out there saying its okay for her to just up and change whenever she wants and to go along with her emotions, her responsibility and commitments will suffer. accountability, loyalty, and wholeheartedly working problems out is now more of an afterthought, if even that at all.

Here's the main thing he said though, is that you should always consider the persons family in which they come from.

I agree that there is a lot to go on from that. Im not entirely sure you can write someone off strictly from that ideal, but it should play a huge factor in preparing how the person will react and become in certain situations.

 

[CrossBones]

the relations and fallout of a marriage is not the same for both sexes. so I dont understand why some women would have a problem with a prenup, if everything is supposed to be equal and on the up and up.


"why would I want a prenup? bytch, because I have more to lose than you. thats why."

 

[sixsixtwo]

Divorcing Women: Here's Where Husbands Typically Hide Assets - Forbes

 

[Malta]

I'm beginning to think more important than anything else is a womans upbringing. Think about that: she grew up, was taught, raised in an environment for 19-20 years, or however long. That's gonna determine every aspect of the way she views life. Not just relationship wise, but every way. She's programmed to be ONE WAY only. You're not gonna change that at all.

whatever problems or disagreements you have as a couple are generally a result of upbringing and life philosphy. Some strife is normal obviously, but if her views are really messed up and y'all argue alot, then you should avoid at all costs unless you feel that she's just really really worth it. And that's only a needle in a haystack type.

Don't look much at her looks, or even her education, etc. Look at her background.

Remember when you marry a woman, you're marrying her whole family. And if it's a messed up family when you meet them, then you're gonna have to deal with that from then on out....

I had to learn that the hard way, two of my exs came from fukked up families, both were sweet but I never paid much attention to how quickly one of them could turn on family members or go cold on them. How she only called her father when she wanted something. Both of them were so needy, and both had fathers who were in and out of their lives, one was an alcoholic and the other was divorced.

After that, I only went after women for long term relationships that came from long lasting stable relationships. I especially liked women that had brothers, they knew how to interact with men beyond just using looks.

 

[sixsixtwo]

Married substitute teacher, 36, jailed after admitting she was pregnant by her former student, 14 | Mail Online

 

[jadillac]

Divorcing Women: Here's Where Husbands Typically Hide Assets - Forbes

SMH

Damn shame Forbes magazine is posting mess like this when they know men get their pockets cleaned in divorces.

Fortunately, the readers of Forbes arent all fools....1st comment on story is:
The only modern purpose of “marriage” is to transfer wealth from men to women and any man who gets “married” is a fool.

 

[Malta]

Yup once te flame is gone its gone, there are some ways you can ignite it back but why even try?

The most common way to rekindle it is for her to find out she honestly can't do any better, or her current man is messing up.

 

[kevm3]

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[jadillac]

I saw on twitter, "Women will get all jazzed up to go to the club to be seen by a bunch of strangers, but won't put on a decent outfit for their man."

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

I saw on twitter, "Women will get all jazzed up to go to the club to be seen by a bunch of strangers, but won't put on a decent outfit for their man."

They know that they have their man already. They're on the quest for another one. That's why girls go so hard after men that they are disrespected by. They want to prove to themselves that they can get him to start simpin' on her if she wants to make him do it.

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

Approaching a new woman every day for a month, Day 4:

Barely have the energy to write this one out. Just took my sleeping pill.

I was talking a waitress at the hookah bar that I frequent. I kept buying shots for the table to keep up an image of abundance around me, and it was a quick and easy way to make friends with everyone in my general vicinity. I started talking about work and school and she was all about it.

There was something more, I think though. Two things, actually. One was that I was wearing glasses, which for some reasons gets girls to put down their defenses and lets me talk to them much more easily. I think that having glasses causes them to associate me with intelligence and reading, and also makes me look less threatening physically because of the physical limitation on my eyes. The second was that she was a single mother, it turns out, and her baby's daddy was some loser drug addict.

Anyway, she wants to meet me Wednesday. I've never had a woman feel me that strongly. Gonna embrace it though. Needless to say, I'll be using a condom when I hit that.

If I need to add more or if you have questions, let me know. I'll be glad to add or edit to this post. It may be lacking because I'm a little out of it right now.