Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[kevm3]

I disagree with some of this other dude's blogs like paying for prostitutes, but this is pretty accurate

Lifestyle Journey For Men: What If PUA Methods Were Taught To Women Instead Of Men?

This was an interesting thought exercise for me. I imagined a reverse situation where PUA ideology is applied to women instead of men, so that women were the ones who had to learn "game" in order to get with men, regardless of how men act. Read this and think about the reasonableness of it and if any of it seems ridiculous just know that the only difference between this and what PUAs teach is that here I am applying the PUA methodology towards the goal of women learning how to get with men (instead of men learning how to get with women). This will help expose the underhanded and fear-mongering tactics PUAs use on men, and will also make it even more clear why PUA methods are so biased in the favor of women and how they try to make men accountable for women's behaviour.

Here are examples of how PUA methodology would apply to women:

• Women need to learn how to attract men or their genes will be mercilessly weeded out of existence. The window for women to attract a quality man is short since (relatively speaking) she has much fewer reproductive years than a man, so she needs to act quickly while she's young and learn how to get a man before it's too late.

• Women must always look and act their best because men are constantly on the lookout for someone better and hotter.

• Men shyt test women all the time to make sure that they are "worthy" females. For example, a man needs to know that you are interested in being hot for him. So if he says you look fine in those pants, it's probably a shyt test which means you should seriously think about exercising more. And if a man says that it's okay if you don't wear heels because it hurts your feet, it's a shyt test and he actually wants you to wear them, otherwise he will start checking out some other girl who does wear heels and who doesn't complain about her feet hurting. No pain no gain, and keeping a man is no different.

• Women must constantly strike a balance between being flirty, girly and witty (not boring) but at the same time not appear too smart because that can intimidate the man.

• Men are justified in being picky because they have much more reproductive time than women, and they can afford to wait. That's just the way it is and women have to deal with it since there's no point in arguing with biology.

• If a man just wants you for sex then it is essentially your fault for not making him want to be with you for reasons beyond sex. You must learn to be funny, and entertaining because if you aren't then he will just move on to the next woman who is funny and entertaining and who also gives him sex.

• Men are very good at figuring out if a woman doesn't measure up. It's necessary for men to have this ability since they can't possibly have kids with every woman who wants them, since it would be a costly mistake in today's hard economic times. Also, men are naturally very perceptive because they carry the "hunter" gene.

• If a man ignores you he is probably picking up on a vibe that you are inadequate in some way. Or maybe you are wearing too much makeup and it intimidates him. Every man is different and you need to learn to read the signs so that you can calibrate how much makeup to apply (and remove if necessary) so that you get the guy you want.

• Men will have sex with you right away as a way to determine your mate potential. You have to do it in such a way that they like you and respect you, but also don't see you as a slut afterwards. But at the same time if you don't have sex right away then he might think of you as a prude. The key is to calibrate and know exactly how much to give and hold back. One way is to give him "hoops" to jump through and qualify him so he thinks that you are not that easy and have standards before jumping into bed with someone. Also, a man could say that he wants to have sex with you to see if you take the bait and are therefore slutty. If you say yes you will fail the shyt test.

• A man will always cheat with the hottest female. Men are horny creatures so just accept it. And besides, you don't really deserve a man's loyalty if you aren't hot enough. So if he cheats on you it means you screwed something up.

• If a man appears shy it's because you aren't attractive or interesting enough to make him want to open up.

• If a man flakes on you it's because you didn't do enough to attract him. Or maybe he was attracted but you came across as too easy.

• If a man gets bored with you it's because you didn't do enough to stimulate him sexually and mentally.

• You have to learn tactics to disarm competing females since a man will also judge you based on how well you can handle the competition.

• Every man can be landed using the right seduction method.

 

[CrossBones]

I feel ya'll on the point that these western women expect you to be david copperfield, as if you've got to constantly pull some new trick out of the bag to keep them entertained or they will get bored, which will potentially open the door for them cheating. These women are emotion rush junkies. If they aren't feeling this emotional rush, then they just aren't living life.

#truth

its wild how women are hooked on that drama. they live for it. if youre at peace, she'll come in and try to piss you off. be like, Im not happy, why are you? my day was blah blah blah...


I think a lot of it has to do with the horomones they got going up and down with them. they get periods, a rush of estrogen feelings get to them frequently. they need to practie how to be at peace and calm themselves.

now the media definitely exploits it too, but its in them. back in adam and eve days, women have been mischievous. its not an excuse neither, as women would get so badly dogged and spit on back in the day if they were harlots, it kept them in check. it kept everyone on their ps and qs more.

now they got mr girlfriend in the friendzone, their fellow harlot friends, media, and the law to take their side and say "its okay. youre just a girl. its not your fault. we understand."

the fukk?

women can actually control themselves and maintain a consistent character when they have a life of actual worth that they realize.

but everyone feels like its okay to give her the freedom to act like a wild man, but get the provisions a female should have. garbage, just garbage.

 

[CrossBones]

Excellent points as usual.. Women are tall children..

For the most part, that relationship shyt is just like being a babysitter.. It's like working a job with no pay..

Everyday it's the same thing: "How you doing?" "How was your day?" "Did you eat?" "Oh, what did your co-worker say?" Blah blah blah..

A nikka ain't trying to hear that drivel all the time, that's why I prefer that FWB life or just outright being by myself.. I'm a introverted lone wolf type anyway so I don't get "lonely."

I used to say with my friends all the time, women today "theyre just little girls with grown pussies"

I want everyone in here to notice all the snappy, bytchy, feminine attributes of the usual stars that you see paraded daily in the media and internet first and foremost. grown women that talk about gossip, clothes, money, and whos fukking who. they come off like "omg, shut up! who are you? Im a big deal. you can google me! go away!" all fukking, I dont know. disgusting. just girly, spoiled brats. just little girl like. try to find a real, grown, mature woman that is paraded around the net or on tv.

.... right.

where is it? they all look up to wreckless, destructive, self hating bytches who are coincidentally unhappy. stupid as fukk, mayne

 

[sixsixtwo]

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[sixsixtwo]

 

[CrossBones]

I disagree with some of this other dude's blogs like paying for prostitutes, but this is pretty accurate

that there exemplifies the differences between the thinking and natural behavior of men and women. theyre not built for all that we do. and we, literally, cant do what they are good for.

so much PUA seems to me unrealistic, like they want you to cover all the bases in order to try and cover their own ass. yet you cant be everything to everyone.

now PUA does prey on fear, and gender differences, but at the same time if they try to help men be better "hunters" so to speak, and get themselves together, I cant hate. or if it helps at least to be more outgoing and take chances. the fact that people use that (with much success sometimes) in order to pump and dump many females is ultimately due to the users lack of responsibility. I think if a man can focus on getting his game up to attract the right kind of woman, then that will be important for his own wants since the right girl will probably not come up to him. but after attaining her, the PUA becomes unimportant because it has nothing to do with building a strong relationship. in itself its a revolving door practice.

the thing that really gets me about all the PUA studies is this ... a man who can present himself the right way, will be able to attract a lot of females. and its really just all in the presentation. and since they can bag so many girls with just the right approach, it just shows that many of the women out there really are one-tracked minded and simple. they want a confident man with (what appears to be) access to certain resources.

but I dont know, at the same time I cant completely wrap my head around that reversal of roles in PUA in the article. its because girls dont have that same game as men, and never could. they would be going crazy trying to deal with rejection, pressure, and entertaining a man. they typically dont have game like that. if anything, theyre only better at laying traps and having the right presentation.

 

[kevm3]

I know there are women that are reading this thread, so this post is necessary for them to understand where we are coming from. My problem is what so many women have been accepting as gospel from this neo-feminist movement and allowing it to manifest in their behavior.

The original feminist movement to get women more freedom and allow them into the workplace, get them more equal pay, etc. was cool. Even though they improved their social standing, they STILL REMAINED FEMININE. The REAL problem came in when we went from the feminism that wanted to obtain better societal treatment for women into neo-feminism which sought to morph women into mini-men.

Tthis neo-feminist movement went from helping to get women better treatment to turning them into faux-men and unrepentant whores. They actually have something called a SLUT WALK. They actually have women wearing shirts talking about they are proud of getting an abortion because it shows they have control over their body. Just flat out STUPID stuff... and these are the women that modern women are deriving their mindsets from... that and some ol simp negroes who cosign all of their behavior... and then they wonder why in the world they are 30 with no company but some cats. they wonder why no man is sticking around after hitting them up in the bedroom. they are wondering why men started casting off that 'don't hit women' policy and started hauling off on their butts.

The problem is these women are being led by a host of false prophets, insane feminists and profiteering charlatans. They keep coming across men and women who tell them what they WANT to hear, but the words have no power because there is no truth in it. They keep getting the same results over and over. You KNOW there is a problem when there is actually a movement against men getting married and when men who live in the richest nation on Earth are actually LEAVING and going to other nations to find a wife.

I mean, let's look at the Steve Harvey book which women bought in droves. What is the name of it? Act like a woman, think like a man? Come on, this is what women decided to buy? A book telling them to think like a man? A woman can never be a man... you know what kind of women DIDN'T have problems attracting men? That's right, women who thought and acted like women. Let's put the real out there.

- Men don't care about how much a woman makes
- We don't want women who compete with us.
- You can have all the slut-walks and cry about double-standards all you want, but we're not changing our attitude on hoish women and acting like they are acceptable candidates to wife up except simp negroes who accept everything.
- We're not here to entertain your butt. We need to ENTERTAIN EACH OTHER. You have to contribute on keeping things interesting just as much as a man does.
- The first question in your mind should not be 'what can this man do for me.' It should be, what can we do for each other? How can I play my part in making this interaction better?
- Men really ain't trying to wife up a woman with 10,000 tattoos, 10,000 piercings and all kinds of crazy colors in your hair. Looking feminine and classy will get you much further with a quality man.
- You will get a much better reaction from a man if you bring an issue to him calmly rather than screaming and yelling.
- Talking down on your man to negroes that you don't know won't endear you to the other man. It will make you look like a sucka because if your man is so bad, why are you still with him? And we can also see your disloyalty, so in most cases, you will be purely a jump.

I'll go on a little later.

 

[CrossBones]

They keep coming across men and women who tell them what they WANT to hear, but the words have no power because there is no truth in it. They keep getting the same results over and over. You KNOW there is a problem when there is actually a movement against men getting married and when men who live in the richest nation on Earth are actually LEAVING and going to other nations to find a wife.

oh shyt! my man said "they telling what they want to hear, but theres no power in it because theres no truth!"

looking at the simps today, its a mess. like men, stop saying the shyt is okay when its not. dudes do anything, sacrifice their dignity and standards in order to lay down and fukk with some damaged goods. but you have to call the bullshyt out so it doesnt invade into your life. seperation of the real from the fake is done by first recognizing what doesnt belong.

- Men don't care about how much a woman makes
- We don't want women who compete with us.
- You can have all the slut-walks and cry about double-standards all you want, but we're not changing our attitude on hoish women and acting like they are acceptable candidates to wife up except simp negroes who accept everything.
- We're not here to entertain your butt. We need to ENTERTAIN EACH OTHER. You have to contribute on keeping things interesting just as much as a man does.
- The first question in your mind should not be 'what can this man do for me.' It should be, what can we do for each other? How can I play my part in making this interaction better?
- Men really ain't trying to wife up a woman with 10,000 tattoos, 10,000 piercings and all kinds of crazy colors in your hair. Looking feminine and classy will get you much further with a quality man.
- You will get a much better reaction from a man if you bring an issue to him calmly rather than screaming and yelling.
- Talking down on your man to negroes that you don't know won't endear you to the other man. It will make you look like a sucka because if your man is so bad, why are you still with him? And we can also see your disloyalty, so in most cases, you will be purely a jump.

I'll go on a little later.

all that was on point brother, but this

- The first question in your mind should not be 'what can this man do for me.' It should be, what can we do for each other? How can I play my part in making this interaction better?

this would make things with men and women.

 

[philmonroe]

I feel ya'll on the point that these western women expect you to be david copperfield, as if you've got to constantly pull some new trick out of the bag to keep them entertained or they will get bored, which will potentially open the door for them cheating. These women are emotion rush junkies. If they aren't feeling this emotional rush, then they just aren't living life. A lot of it comes from daddy's little princess syndrome where her dad did everything to cater to her whims and her pouting. Instead of him telling her to go FIND something to entertain yourself and to be grateful you have food and a shelter over your head, he tells her 'it's whatever you want princess.'

It also comes from corporations implanting a certain mindset in women in order to make them constant consumers. Those soap operas play RIGHT into a female's mind. Every relationship is dysfunctional and an emotional rollercoaster. Women start to watch these shows so long that they too start expecting this sort of behavior from a relationship, which leads to dysfunction relationship after dysfunctional relationship. Instead of a smooth, decent ride from a relationship, she'd rather be in something volatile since it's emotional unpredictability just like those soaps.

I mean how many females are just leaving their solid marriage just because of 'her needs'? Uprooting the family and destroying that 2 parent household because she isn't feeling emotional thrills? They've been watching these tv shows that brainwash them to expect that relationships are supposed to be nonstop thrills as well as listening to these girl power writers that profit off of women by telling them some trash like her needs are the most important thing ever and that she should always feel emotionally fulfilled, and that will likely come from 'finding herself' in the bedroom of another man.

I agree with whole post but the 1st what I'm always telling cats the worse guys for a girl are usually the dads/other family members that can't have sex with her cause of how they treat her they expect that from dudes that aren't family not putting up with that madness (unless they a charms blow pop and/or desperate). Regarding the 3rd paragragh it is funny how a majority of the time the only time women seem to "find themselves" its something sexual. Damn shame if you ask me that your whole life is just about sex. Doesn't matter what sex you are cause its alot of things to experience in this world in our finite time on Earth.

 

[jadillac]

I went out with my boy the other night to a bar and watch some games...he's divorced now after being married for a little under 2 years, but being with the girl for several years prior to them getting married. It was weird for me too b/c I knew them both for several years b/c we all used to work together & were good friends.

Anyway, she cheated on him and he began to suspect it b/c she would be texting or straight up talkin to this dude on the phone all the time in their house. This was about a year into their marriage.

Long story short, He told me his observations are that, once women change there's nothing you can really do. You can't control when/why they change, etc. This dude used to work two jobs so they could have a nice house, nice vehicles, etc. And he's a nice guy overall, but probably a little too passive & quiet. Once he noticed her demeanor starting to change, he went and bought her a $1,000 designer purse....to which the only thing she said was an emotionless, "Thanks."

Here's the main thing he said though, is that you should always consider the persons family in which they come from. This girls family had a history of infidelity, strife, her brothers were rebellious as hell, etc. So when you grow up in that, you see no big deal in cheating on someone. You might know it's wrong/foul to do, but you really dont care b/c you saw ur parents do it, so in a weird sense it's "normal". My friends dad told him its probably not a good idea to marry into that family, even though the girl seemed nice at first.

This isnt new info, but seeing it in real life examples of people I know only reinforces it.

 

[MikelArteta]

I'm at church right now and this girl I dated ok the past is there with her new man

A year ago id n back next week with some model chick

But I don't follow that gameplan anymore

Congrats

 

[jadillac]

I'm beginning to think more important than anything else is a womans upbringing. Think about that: she grew up, was taught, raised in an environment for 19-20 years, or however long. That's gonna determine every aspect of the way she views life. Not just relationship wise, but every way. She's programmed to be ONE WAY only. You're not gonna change that at all.

whatever problems or disagreements you have as a couple are generally a result of upbringing and life philosphy. Some strife is normal obviously, but if her views are really messed up and y'all argue alot, then you should avoid at all costs unless you feel that she's just really really worth it. And that's only a needle in a haystack type.

Don't look much at her looks, or even her education, etc. Look at her background.

Remember when you marry a woman, you're marrying her whole family. And if it's a messed up family when you meet them, then you're gonna have to deal with that from then on out....

 

[kevm3]

that there exemplifies the differences between the thinking and natural behavior of men and women. theyre not built for all that we do. and we, literally, cant do what they are good for.

so much PUA seems to me unrealistic, like they want you to cover all the bases in order to try and cover their own ass. yet you cant be everything to everyone.

now PUA does prey on fear, and gender differences, but at the same time if they try to help men be better "hunters" so to speak, and get themselves together, I cant hate. or if it helps at least to be more outgoing and take chances. the fact that people use that (to much success sometimes) in order to pump and dump many females is ultimately due to the users lack of responsibility. I think if a man can focus on getting his game up to attract the right kind of woman, then that will be important for his own wants since the right girl will probably not come up to him. but after attaining her, the PUA becomes unimportant because it has nothing to do with building a strong relationship. in itself its a revolving door practice.

the thing that really gets me about all the PUA studies is this ... a man who can present himself the right way, will be able to attract a lot of females. and its really just all in the presentation. and since they can bag so many girls with just the right approach, it just shows that many of the women out there really are one-tracked minded and simple. they want a confident man with (what appears to be) access to certain resources.

but I dont know, at the same time I cant completely wrap my head around that reversal of roles in PUA in the article. its because girls dont have that same game as men, and never could. they would be going crazy trying to deal with rejection, pressure, and entertaining a man. they typically dont have game like that. if anything, theyre only better at laying traps and having the right presentation.

My problem with some of these puas is that although they may have valid strategies in getting women to bed, they are the ultimate vagina slaves. It's as if they value nothing higher than busting one inside a female and will do any and everything to do that, even giving up their own soul. Like they are completely changing their dress style into something they are not and undertaking false personas in order to deal with these females. These guys can have like 10 different personas. Oh, she is this, time for me to be cocky and funny. Oh this girl is that, time for me to be mysterious and distant. Time to 'neg' this girl. Time to kino this girl. These dudes are running through scripts and just acting to get some vagina. Every move in their life is centered around what women want. Some of them dudes are real creepy, going even to the extent of attempting to hypnotize or brainwash women to get into bed with them.

All of that overcompensation and shifting around is unnecessary.

 

[kevm3]

I went out with my boy the other night to a bar and watch some games...he's divorced now after being married for a little under 2 years, but being with the girl for several years prior to them getting married. It was weird for me too b/c I knew them both for several years b/c we all used to work together & were good friends.

Anyway, she cheated on him and he began to suspect it b/c she would be texting or straight up talkin to this dude on the phone all the time in their house. This was about a year into their marriage.

Long story short, He told me his observations are that, once women change there's nothing you can really do. You can't control when/why they change, etc. This dude used to work two jobs so they could have a nice house, nice vehicles, etc. And he's a nice guy overall, but probably a little too passive & quiet. Once he noticed her demeanor starting to change, he went and bought her a $1,000 designer purse....to which the only thing she said was an emotionless, "Thanks."

Here's the main thing he said though, is that you should always consider the persons family in which they come from. This girls family had a history of infidelity, strife, her brothers were rebellious as hell, etc. So when you grow up in that, you see no big deal in cheating on someone. You might know it's wrong/foul to do, but you really dont care b/c you saw ur parents do it, so in a weird sense it's "normal". My friends dad told him its probably not a good idea to marry into that family, even though the girl seemed nice at first.

This isnt new info, but seeing it in real life examples of people I know only reinforces it.

Cats been kicking that real in here. Once a woman loses emotions for you, it's completely over. Dude did 'everything right', but this broad got bored and now he's doling out alimony and sponsoring some new dude to blaze them guts up.

To an extent it's family, but this sort of behavior is extremely prevalent with women these days. These women actually have a concept called a 'starter husband' in this day and age. Once those no-fault divorces entered into the picture, women are bailing out like the plane is going down.

 

[MikelArteta]

Yup once te flame is gone its gone, there are some ways you can ignite it back but why even try?