Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Ohene]

Damn I missed this thread but its so true. Hell look at enough girls dating profiles online and you'll this "I don't like to be bored but I like relaxing in the house at times" Only times it seems some chicks wanna relax at home is when they sexing or I've also gotten the watching sports "is the game that important" type stuff I sometimes wanna tell these chicks to find a real hobby that don't involve harrassing me. Its like if they aren't the center of your attention (only when they want it otherwise your suffocating them) your a bad boyfriend but I say leave then and find a sucker. Just tell me you leaving though no going to suck off ole boy then kissig me in the mouth business otherwise you might have to catch that status for real. lol

yup. but most girls only hobbies are going out to dinner, parties or shopping. I hope i aint generalizing but thats how it appears for the AVERAGE chick. Even the ones who "like" sports it doesnt seem genuine and theyre bandwagoners.

It gets to the point sometimes where if I know shes home alone with nothing to do I feel bad naturally. But eff it, why cant she go to the gym and work out like she's been meaning to or something. (Thats a whole nother post though...girls who want something but never want to do the work necessary to achieve it) Or find a website with good interesting articles like the coli but not the coli . Thats her problem not mine, we cant be together or talking 24-7 . I'm happy she realizes that and will fall back when necessary...but i just wish she knew how to have fun by herself in case I'm unavailable and so are her friends. I dont like feeling guilty.


Cause I tell you guys...all I need is the Coli, a game on TV (especially when its sunday for nfl game threads), some food and beverage...and I will have the time of my life.

 

[sixsixtwo]

The comments on this one are hilarious:

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[philmonroe]

yup. but most girls only hobbies are going out to dinner, parties or shopping. I hope i aint generalizing but thats how it appears for the AVERAGE chick. Even the ones who "like" sports it doesnt seem genuine and theyre bandwagoners.

It gets to the point sometimes where if I know shes home alone with nothing to do I feel bad naturally. But eff it, why cant she go to the gym and work out like she's been meaning to or something. (Thats a whole nother post though...girls who want something but never want to do the work necessary to achieve it) Or find a website with good interesting articles like the coli but not the coli . Thats her problem not mine, we cant be together or talking 24-7 . I'm happy she realizes that and will fall back when necessary...but i just wish she knew how to have fun by herself in case I'm unavailable and so are her friends. I dont like feeling guilty.


Cause I tell you guys...all I need is the Coli, a game on TV (especially when its sunday for nfl game threads), some food and beverage...and I will have the time of my life.

Preach my brother PREACH lol. Girls (not all for the double agents that maybe reading) need to find other things to do with themselves. As far as sports most of the ones I've found to at least be really into IME are white chicks moreso than black chicks. I know a few black chicks that know whats going on like my sister about the Phillies (only team she follows) but usually like you said most are bandwagoneers or follow the local team cause the dudes in their family/boyfriends/husbands like said team. I found a quick pof profile with exactly what we talking about (regarding being bored) in my area right here.

parisali food

She is okay outside of smoking but I need chicks to stop acting like we are fukking money providing court jesters for their amusement. Honestly if a chick puts that she should lose a few points cause you know that means chick going to be harrassing you like you a pleasure agent that always has to have some adventure going on like every guy on his Indiana Jones. I'm rarely bored cause I find things to do maybe these types of chicks should do the same.

 

[Ohene]

Preach my brother PREACH lol. Girls (not all for the double agents that maybe reading) need to find other things to do with themselves. As far as sports most of the ones I've found to at least be really into IME are white chicks moreso than black chicks. I know a few black chicks that know whats going on like my sister about the Phillies (only team she follows) but usually like you said most are bandwagoneers or follow the local team cause the dudes in their family/boyfriends/husbands like said team. I found a quick pof profile with exactly what we talking about (regarding being bored) in my area right here.

parisali food

She is okay outside of smoking but I need chicks to stop acting like we are fukking money providing court jesters for their amusement. Honestly if a chick puts that she should lose a few points cause you know that means chick going to be harrassing you like you a pleasure agent that always has to have some adventure going on like every guy on his Indiana Jones. I'm rarely bored cause I find things to do maybe these types of chicks should do the same.

Real shyt man. I have stories with my girl related to the bolded...it can become a part time job sometimes having to notify her that I aint the one . Her dad's spoilage and Nigerian dudes back home got her head messed up.

As far as the sports it disgusts me.

These girls always find some way to be the fan of the best team in the league. And when it isnt the playoffs they support teams with the cutest players (Wade, Paul, DRose). It's fukking disgusting being an Eagles fan having to deal with bullshyt...only to see my ex's status way back on facebook talking about how she knew the Packers were gonna win the superbowl (beat us in the divisional round ) and acting all happy. bytch you dont even know the rules of football but you knew the Pack was gonna win? makes me wanna choke these women sometimes.

 

[philmonroe]

The comments on this one are hilarious:

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The comments are top shelf lunacy. Why don't the chick just fukking leave. You get no sympathy from me male/female if you stay in a situation you know you should leave for whatever reason. Another reason why nobody outside of kids should be dependant on someone else if they can help it cause I'll be my bottom dollar if that chick (hell most people) would leave if unhappy but because she probably don't have the resources to she up there lying her ass off for sympathy. I wonder how the folks thats cosigning would act if it was their own son/brother/dad getting done like that?

 

[Atlrocafella]

this is true

theres times if I visit my girl she'll be on some so what do you have planned shyt. Is it every weekend that we have to go out and do some shyt? I say, we cant just chill? The way I see it.... why does there always have to be an event...why cant we just bask in each others presence. Girls find that kinda shyt boring. She also thinks I'm unromantic and antisocial (one of the most overused words in history). They wanna shop, eat, walk aimlessly in the mall/downtown strips etc etc. These women are idiots.

Times i'm at home on the weekend being a slob and just relaxing watching football. She's cool with it, but if she starts texting me and I aint showing her the most attention/being the most talkative cause I have the itis from eating a medium pizza with garlic bread or have stuff on my mind (mostly career related)...she'll catch feelings on some, "Anyways, enjoy the game."

This shyt happened yesterday.

That's exactly what happens to me

 

[Atlrocafella]

The shyt Reincar has been saying about men getting better with Time and women getting desperate with time as their stock decreases is looking a little true in my world

 

[Scustin Trillberlake]

Here's the challenge I'm on

Ignore women it's been like 3 months since I've been off Facebook, twitter, dating sites and its been grande.

I've caught up on tv shows , played videogames like crazy and have been betting on sports.

Yesterday instead of going to the mall while someone shops I watched football from 12 pm to 1am straight

No stress no worries just peace.

Day 92

Haha, nice dude! Raptors games with my bros>>>>>Women.

Not seeking female approval 24/7 is liberating.

 

[CrossBones]

Am i the only one who finds a woman who's attracted to women repulsive and unworthy of a serious relationship??? It's like bytch be fiending for p*ssy then wanna play coy when a nikka comes around. shyt is truly disgusting to the point that if i find out a woman likes p*ssy i don't even take her serious and immediately lose all interest...

a lot of that kind of fly by night lesbianism reeks of attention whoring and more fake male impersonation. it really only picked up after mtv real world and other media started acting like it was the thing to do for women to be "free" and stand out to get attention. see first of all, they dont have a dikk. so how can they enjoy a dildo and another girls p*ssy during sex? youre not really feeling the other one during sex. its not real intercourse. it just doesnt work that way. its all unnatural and forced. and then the ones who just turn around and say they like real sex with men too? the fukk?



theres a difference between women who are hard wired into lesbiansim and dont like actual men. theyre aberrant and not typical. but the recent rise in play lesbianism/bisexual women is a whole different story. I see a lot of girls use the phony lesbian act and girl on girl teasing just for that .... teasing. teasing men. its like a safe, made up shield for each other when they dance with another, kiss each other at the bar so guys notice and buy them drinks, or just take bending over, ass out "naughty" pics with another to post it on facebook. its all done so they can be provocative without risking anything. girls show each other a lot of made up affection for each other too, on some "oh I love you boo. kisses. look at that body! thats my girl for life. I love you youre the best" shyt all day, but rarely show that kind of devotion to a man. they say it in a weird, gay way, because its safe for them to play with each other.

or even having a threesome. its mostly for the male attention it courts. the girls out there, theyre not dying to lay with one another. itd be a whole different ballgame if so. all that girl on girl, fake posturing is done mostly to please or play on the mans interest. its just more games that under the surface is to try and downplay a mans importance, but they cant actually do shyt without a man. women are wired that way. no matter how self important or self absorbed they are, if theres no man in the picture, they know that they aint shyt. it wont happen.

even in the deeper dyke relationships, one of them is acting as the man - yet its just an imitation. they can never have a dikk or be taken seriously as a man in this world. so no matter how hard they try, there is no replacing a man and woman in a relationship. they cant avoid the necessity of a male figure in the relationship, and you can see thats how shyt goes. so nah, that can be kept by them. there too much immaturity from those types of women who are failing to uphold the man and woman dynamic.

 

[winb83]

Here's the challenge I'm on

Ignore women it's been like 3 months since I've been off Facebook, twitter, dating sites and its been grande.

I've caught up on tv shows , played videogames like crazy and have been betting on sports.

Yesterday instead of going to the mall while someone shops I watched football from 12 pm to 1am straight

No stress no worries just peace.

Day 92

outside this thread a lot of men wouldn't understand this sort of life. since about August i abandoned all dating. i've been living a peaceful life doing whatever i want and i have more money now than i've ever had in my life. i feel like i need to get my life in order before i start dating again. get in peak physical, financial, and emotional shape then maybe take another look at the dating scene.

the biggest thing i'm tired of in the dating scene is all the broken people out there looking for someone to fix them or make them whole. there are a lot of people out in the dating scene who have no business being out there. people who's lives are messed up, whose attitudes are messed up and because of these things they really don't have much if anything to offer another person yet there they are out trying to land someone. doing their best to hide their flaws and get their hooks into someone. you can't hide those flaws forever but if you can hide them long enough you can get someone invested enough to overlook them even when they shouldn't.

 

[kevm3]

I feel ya'll on the point that these western women expect you to be david copperfield, as if you've got to constantly pull some new trick out of the bag to keep them entertained or they will get bored, which will potentially open the door for them cheating. These women are emotion rush junkies. If they aren't feeling this emotional rush, then they just aren't living life. A lot of it comes from daddy's little princess syndrome where her dad did everything to cater to her whims and her pouting. Instead of him telling her to go FIND something to entertain yourself and to be grateful you have food and a shelter over your head, he tells her 'it's whatever you want princess.'

It also comes from corporations implanting a certain mindset in women in order to make them constant consumers. Those soap operas play RIGHT into a female's mind. Every relationship is dysfunctional and an emotional rollercoaster. Women start to watch these shows so long that they too start expecting this sort of behavior from a relationship, which leads to dysfunction relationship after dysfunctional relationship. Instead of a smooth, decent ride from a relationship, she'd rather be in something volatile since it's emotional unpredictability just like those soaps.

I mean how many females are just leaving their solid marriage just because of 'her needs'? Uprooting the family and destroying that 2 parent household because she isn't feeling emotional thrills? They've been watching these tv shows that brainwash them to expect that relationships are supposed to be nonstop thrills as well as listening to these girl power writers that profit off of women by telling them some trash like her needs are the most important thing ever and that she should always feel emotionally fulfilled, and that will likely come from 'finding herself' in the bedroom of another man.

 

[philmonroe]

outside this thread a lot of men wouldn't understand this sort of life. since about August i abandoned all dating. i've been living a peaceful life doing whatever i want and i have more money now than i've ever had in my life. i feel like i need to get my life in order before i start dating again. get in peak physical, financial, and emotional shape then maybe take another look at the dating scene.

the biggest thing i'm tired of in the dating scene is all the broken people out there looking for someone to fix them or make them whole. there are a lot of people out in the dating scene who have no business being out there. people who's lives are messed up, whose attitudes are messed up and because of these things they really don't have much if anything to offer another person yet there they are out trying to land someone. doing their best to hide their flaws and get their hooks into someone. you can't hide those flaws forever but if you can hide them long enough you can get someone invested enough to overlook them even when they shouldn't.

I totally agree that I need to get in better shape moreso financially (physically/emotionally I'm good) but the one thing about that I wonder if you have this thought too is if I'm doing good without her what really would be the chicks purpose? I don't feel as loyal as I would if somebody was there "shooting in the gym with me". Its weird cause I feel more confident with the money, physical, etc in order but I don't want that to be all I am to a potential mate. I guess long story short I want somebody that wants me not needs me. I can't be the only one that feels this way?

 

[CrossBones]

Preach my brother PREACH lol. Girls (not all for the double agents that maybe reading) need to find other things to do with themselves. As far as sports most of the ones I've found to at least be really into IME are white chicks moreso than black chicks.

She is okay outside of smoking but I need chicks to stop acting like we are fukking money providing court jesters for their amusement. Honestly if a chick puts that she should lose a few points cause you know that means chick going to be harrassing you like you a pleasure agent that always has to have some adventure going on like every guy on his Indiana Jones. I'm rarely bored cause I find things to do maybe these types of chicks should do the same.

women love a man with resources. theyre the luxury/sponge class of people. they enjoy a lot of benefits that the men have provided because theyre not entirely built for the harsh realities

the thing is for a woman - money is important. but just as important for a man, is time. so what you have to do is find things to occupy her time so that you save money. get her to clean around the crib. hang out with you, get a show yall record and then watch together. start hiking or take her to sight seeing places which are cheap. get wines out and taste them and make little events. but have her make the food. have her bring her friends by and bring your friends. everyone just chill

I said it before, but women are like children in some ways. they need a leader. I believe you have to be like a guidance counselor to some of these chicks and show them the way.

 

[sixsixtwo]

women love a man with resources. theyre the luxury/sponge class of people. they enjoy a lot of benefits that the men have provided because theyre not entirely built for the harsh realities

the thing is for a woman - money is important. but just as important for a man, is time. so what you have to do is find things to occupy her time so that you save money. get her to clean around the crib. hang out with you, get a show yall record and then watch together. start hiking or take her to sight seeing places which are cheap. get wines out and taste them and make little events. but have her make the food. have her bring her friends by and bring your friends. everyone just chill

I said it before, but women are like children in some ways. they need a leader. I believe you have to be like a guidance counselor to some of these chicks and show them the way.

Excellent points as usual.. Women are tall children..

For the most part, that relationship shyt is just like being a babysitter.. It's like working a job with no pay..

Everyday it's the same thing: "How you doing?" "How was your day?" "Did you eat?" "Oh, what did your co-worker say?" Blah blah blah..

A nikka ain't trying to hear that drivel all the time, that's why I prefer that FWB life or just outright being by myself.. I'm a introverted lone wolf type anyway so I don't get "lonely."

 

[Scustin Trillberlake]

I love how this thread started as more of PUA thread - how to deal with and attract females, etc. Now it is more of a Men's Rights/Mens Activism thread.


I don't know if that is a great thing or a depressing statement of Male/Female relations.