Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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"I've never been a cheater. I feel awful for what I did. I slept with someone else a year into the best relationship of my life. Things aren't always perfect, but we have been through a lot together though, and I do love him.

I've always been a sexual person. I love having sex. I would have it everyday if I could. But my bf isn't the same way. I constantly suggest we have sex and he says no 75% of the time. And I'm pretty sure it's just because that's how he is. He's just not big into sex. Honestly, we have gotten into quite a few fights about it.

The guy I slept with was someone who I've known for years and who has wanted to have sex with me for awhile. I love that he so desperately wanted to fukk me. I miss that feeling. I don't have that in my relationship now. My bf doesn't ever want to throw me against a wall or rip my clothes off. Don't get me wrong. The sex we do have is great but I'm always initiating it. I don't feel that he wants me in that way though.. that sexual, primal way."


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Its this fine little chick at work that I heard like me and sumbody asked "did she ever come talk to u?" And I said "no" and her friend wuz like we told her u wuz cool but she's really scared....so now I gotta go talk to her:snoop:...and everybody there know I'm with my baby mama but I don't like the akwardness of a cute chick liking me and me not saying anything,cuz now I'm going to be the one that look like a punk at least that's how I feel,if I don't approach her:mindblown:...is dealing with a woman at work just plain stupid if all the women there know u in a relationship? Should I even dare try to get at her on a friendship level and then just have friend sex?that way she can't have no hard feelings bcuz I didn't come at her on a relationship level? Its a couple chicks I Wanna get on at the job and think I could but I'm usually careful and stopped doin it period since I been with my baby mama seriously....I'm thinkin about makin up a lie that me and my baby mama split up so I can g back to doin what I want to at the job and bein myself,but maybe I should leave it alone:mindblown:
 

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It's thread like this that give men a fighting chance. Men have been getting tore up in life by females because so many of them are egotistical and think they know everything, and they think they are men with unprecedented game that 'it can never happen to them.'

This is what is needed... a roundtable of men sharing advice on how to deal with all of the different situations out here... and a lack of knowledge WILL get you tore up when dealing with women.

- Just think of Scarface in jail due to having to pay child support to so many different ladies.
- TO and Antonio Cromartie being tore up with child support payments.
- Chad Ocho Cinco losing his chance to play in Miami due to dealing with Evelyn Lozada.
- Mike Tyson having to spend some of his prime years behind bars because of a false rape charge.
- 2pac getting locked up due to a woman claiming rape.
- Kobe almost getting locked up due to a rape allegation.

I can go on and on. Women actually sit back and discuss things. You actually have a forum of women discussing how to catch 'ballers', aka Baller Alert.com - For Women Who Want The Ballerific Life!. Men, before, used to think they just had the game on lock and never had anything to discuss. That's why so many are getting their butts tore up financially and mentally in so many different ways because of arrogance. This thread has been a great thing, and i'm glad we have male leadership with the moderation, because otherwise, a thread like this would have gotten closed or censored on SOHH.



theres a problem within the male community where guys feel like they always have to compete with the next man (and thats a cycle that never ends), or at least they never admit that they can use a little extra help. we never like to look like we are at a disadvantage, or unfamiliar with the territory. from those weak emotions, we get men trying to downplay the other, especially when the said man is in pursuit of women. basically, what you dont learn at home, very few outside of it will willingly help with. you end up having to roll with the hits on your own



a lot of critizism that goes to threads like this come from guys who say "oh you should already know how to get p*ssy." "You guys are all just bitter and hate women" etc etc. theyre really dismissive at the game, something that literally has trapped the biggest and the baddest, to the smallest and weakest of men. that is because handling the opposite sex is not about getting her in your life, its about maintaining a discipline - with or without her.


the dangers of letting a girl (or anyone) get close to you, know what you do, where you stay, be on your social network, know your habits, lay with, have access to your money, or whatever, is that you are putting up a lot on the line that she can affect you with. guys like ocho cinco and dion sanders didnt treat the kind of women they messed with the appropriate way. you keep easy chicks on a poles distance from you, and thats it :ufdup:


a lot of players and youngsters arent on the level where they want a nice female to settle down and have something important with. and those who are, dont know what theyre supposed to be looking out for. thats what experience and building with others is about

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"I've never been a cheater. I feel awful for what I did. I slept with someone else a year into the best relationship of my life. Things aren't always perfect, but we have been through a lot together though, and I do love him.

I've always been a sexual person. I love having sex. I would have it everyday if I could. But my bf isn't the same way. I constantly suggest we have sex and he says no 75% of the time. And I'm pretty sure it's just because that's how he is. He's just not big into sex. Honestly, we have gotten into quite a few fights about it.

The guy I slept with was someone who I've known for years and who has wanted to have sex with me for awhile. I love that he so desperately wanted to fukk me. I miss that feeling. I don't have that in my relationship now. My bf doesn't ever want to throw me against a wall or rip my clothes off. Don't get me wrong. The sex we do have is great but I'm always initiating it. I don't feel that he wants me in that way though.. that sexual, primal way."


Read more: I've (27) never been a cheater... until a few days ago when I cheated on my bf (27) : relationships



women these days are getting more bold with their cheating and so-called "experimentation" that they create situations and twist words that will acccept their wrecklessness. and it starts from within their own circle of hens. men in general will never accept the excuses, but women today are given much leeway from each other so that they allow themselves to be driven by their emotional swings. they talk to another in hopes of what they did wasnt so bad, and are constantly begging for a pass from their peers.



the thing is, the men hold all the cards here. whatever she says or does, is only as good as the stamp the man in her life puts on it. and if we reject her deposit, then she knows that her behavior isnt tolerated.


if we dont accept certain standards for ourselves, then anything goes. without a code that we have in our lives things go haywire. if your have a picture of what you want your life to be then she has to belong. but if she dont fit, toss the bytch.

:myman:
 

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women these days are getting more bold with their cheating and so-called "experimentation" that they create situations and twist words that will acccept their wrecklessness. and it starts from within their own circle of hens. men in general will never accept the excuses, but women today are given much leeway from each other so that they allow themselves to be driven by their emotional swings. they talk to another in hopes of what they did wasnt so bad, and are constantly begging for a pass from their peers.



the thing is, the men hold all the cards here. whatever she says or does, is only as good as the stamp the man in her life puts on it. and if we reject her deposit, then she knows that her behavior isnt tolerated.


if we dont accept certain standards for ourselves, then anything goes. without a code that we have in our lives things go haywire. if your have a picture of what you want your life to be then she has to belong. but if she dont fit, toss the bytch.

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Bold is so true my mans ex wife was spitting and hitting this dude but her friends was like she is angry you have to expect that. He had to roll out on her before he put that flawless victory on her. Only times girls don't cosign their girlfriends bullshyt is when they are mad. Then they start sounding like drunks letting them know the real so they know they are foul. Since they might/or have pull(ed) the same stunts they cosign their friend so they can get the same sympathy when its time for their own croc tears to start flowing.
 

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Its a simple as this....a n1gga can pipe your girl and you may NEVER find out. Just TRY not to worry about it.
 
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