Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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A lot of cats are under the mistaken impression that they can earn a woman's loyalty.

Loyalty is a moral imperative. It is something someone chooses to do because they have it in them to be loyal.

Using external forces to garner loyalty only works for a while before they revert back to their original form. So 'throwing that pipe' or being superfly won't guarantee loyalty beyond a while from a woman. Since she will be around you so often, your mysterious nature will soon become common. Therefore, it will eventually fall down to her morals. Does she choose loyalty and value relationships above immediate thrills?

That's why you always need to maintain your self-respect and dignity when dealing with a woman, and if she asks you to compromise those or your morals and principles, then you have to let her go. That statement "what you won't do, another man will" is a simp statement, and a lot of cats will degrade themselves in order to appease a woman, but she leaves him anyways because she lost her respect for him. There's no particular thing you can do to ensure loyalty from a woman except thoroughly review her morals... and even then, always be prepared for the moment the woman decides to leave.
 

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yeah, ya'll cats better be real careful with how you deal with a woman. Always make sure to leave on decent terms with her. That's why you don't go back and forth with a woman, do all that name-calling, put her business all out there, etc. What you do is you calmly suggest ya'll go ya'lls own ways and explain in a calm, matter-of-fact way 'what it is.' Minimize the fall-out whenever you are done dealing with a woman. Trust me, the peace of mind is WAY better than 'winning the argument' at that point in time, something which you will never really do because a woman will say the SAME thing OVER and OVER if she is losing the argument and just out repetition you.

Just be simple and straight to the point. "Listen babygirl, I'm going to be real with you. We argue too much and I'm not feeling it. It's best that we just go our separate ways." Do that for whatever the issue is. There's a reason you see cats like Donald Trump or some rich guys always speaking well of their ex-wife in public when they get divorced, even though in private he may have a whole different opinion.

I don't understand these negroes who be out there putting a woman's business all out there like that and clowning her. When a woman is angry/scorned at you, she will be that way for a LONG time and she has all kinds of tools at her disposal to ruin your life... such as
1) the cops
2) the government
3) court system - fabricated rape charges and domestic violence
4) the simp brigade

These young'ns be wilding on these females, telling all their boys how this or that girl is a ho, etc... that's when they get hit with those fake rape charges or a woman goes out and gives a fake story to an ol captain style negro and he rushes out to fight or shoot the other dude.
 
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Hypergamy doesn’t care how great a Father you are to your kids.

Hypergamy doesn’t care how you rearranged your college majors and career choice in life to better accommodate her.

Hypergamy doesn’t care how inspired or fulfilled you feel as a stay-at-home Dad.

Hypergamy doesn’t care that you moved across 4 states to be closer to your LDR.

Hypergamy doesn’t care how ‘supportive’ you’ve always been of her decisions or if you identify as a ‘male feminist’.

Hypergamy doesn’t care about the sincerity of your religious convictions or aspirations of high purpose.

Hypergamy doesn’t care about those words you said at your wedding.

Hypergamy doesn’t care about how you funded her going back to college to find a more rewarding career.

Hypergamy doesn’t care how great a guy you are for adopting the children she had with other men.

Hypergamy doesn’t care about your divine and forgiving nature in excusing her “youthful indiscretions.”

Hypergamy doesn’t care about your magnanimity in assuming responsibility for her student loans, and credit card debt after you’re married.

Hypergamy doesn’t care if “he was your best friend.”

Hypergamy doesn’t care about the coffee in bed you bring her or how great a cook you are.

Hypergamy doesn’t care about all those chick flicks you sat through with her and claimed to like.

Hypergamy doesn’t care about how well you do your part of the household chores.

Hypergamy doesn’t care about how much her family or friends like you.

Hypergamy doesn’t care if you think you’re a “Good” guy or about how convincing your argument is for your sense of honor.

Hypergamy doesn’t care whether the children are biologically yours or not.

Hypergamy doesn’t care if “she was drunk, he was cute, and one thing led to another,..”

Hypergamy doesn’t care how sweet, funny or intellectual you are.

Hypergamy doesn’t care if you “never saw it coming.”

http://rationalmale.wordpress.com/
 

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Hypergamy doesn’t care how great a Father you are to your kids.

Hypergamy doesn’t care how you rearranged your college majors and career choice in life to better accommodate her.

Hypergamy doesn’t care how inspired or fulfilled you feel as a stay-at-home Dad.

Hypergamy doesn’t care that you moved across 4 states to be closer to your LDR.

Hypergamy doesn’t care how ‘supportive’ you’ve always been of her decisions or if you identify as a ‘male feminist’.

Hypergamy doesn’t care about the sincerity of your religious convictions or aspirations of high purpose.

Hypergamy doesn’t care about those words you said at your wedding.

Hypergamy doesn’t care about how you funded her going back to college to find a more rewarding career.

Hypergamy doesn’t care how great a guy you are for adopting the children she had with other men.

Hypergamy doesn’t care about your divine and forgiving nature in excusing her “youthful indiscretions.”

Hypergamy doesn’t care about your magnanimity in assuming responsibility for her student loans, and credit card debt after you’re married.

Hypergamy doesn’t care if “he was your best friend.”

Hypergamy doesn’t care about the coffee in bed you bring her or how great a cook you are.

Hypergamy doesn’t care about all those chick flicks you sat through with her and claimed to like.

Hypergamy doesn’t care about how well you do your part of the household chores.

Hypergamy doesn’t care about how much her family or friends like you.

Hypergamy doesn’t care if you think you’re a “Good” guy or about how convincing your argument is for your sense of honor.

Hypergamy doesn’t care whether the children are biologically yours or not.

Hypergamy doesn’t care if “she was drunk, he was cute, and one thing led to another,..”

Hypergamy doesn’t care how sweet, funny or intellectual you are.

Hypergamy doesn’t care if you “never saw it coming.”

http://rationalmale.wordpress.com/

Hypergamy just don't give a fukk :mindblown:

I'mmah call this one entitled lil broad Hypergamy next time I see her. I doubt she even know's :wtf: that shyt means.
 

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Man, real talk is, all the majority of these females want is like Cindy Lauper put it:
"Girls just wanna have fun"

There are several harsh truths that you don't want to speak on that linger in the back of your mind, but one that keeps ringing in my mind is that the majority of the women today in America are for entertainment ONLY...

If you try to build with them, you are liable to hate your life. Modern women don't have the concept of 'a man' anymore, which is their man who handles all of their needs. They have numerous men, or like what that one woman who wrote that book-- a gaggle. She has several men who are all there to handle various needs of hers who she pulls in via seduction and waving the vagina in front of their face.

The TWO big categories is that of her resource provider and her entertainment provider. Women these days will either put you in that category of the guy who gives her the tingles and makes her shiver or she will put you in the category of the sweet guy who is nice but is only there for her to get free dinners off of and to use his financial resources. If she puts you in the entertainment provider category, you don't have to give her a doggone thing. She wants to give YOU things. On the other hand, if you are the resource provider, she will ask for the world from you and never be satisfied, and will even take those resources and give it to the entertainment provider.

It's something a lot of men kind of realize, but they don't want to believe it's true. Stability and reliability is boring to her, but she needs it when her life is going down the drain... but once obtained, she will go RIGHT back to seeking mr. entertainment. That's why it's dangerous to even wife up these 27 to 30 year old broads who supposedly 'got it all out her system.' She's saying that because her life and emotions are in disarray after dealing with the 10,000th playboy and thug and she needs a mr. fix-it to come in and make her life back straight again... But what will happen when her emotions are rejuvenated and her finances are back on track? That's right, she'll go RIGHT back to seeking mr. entertainment. When she gets caught, she might bring up the false rape accusation, might say something like, "Well you neglected my needs" or a whole bunch of other nonsense. And don't forget the 'upgrade imperative' running in the back of her mind as well.

KNOWING that so many of these modern women have this kind of mindset, how can you build with them, knowing that attempting to be an adult and live some kind of stable life is 'boring', and they will seek entertainment. You may provide the entertainment for a little while and have her attention, but soon, just as anything that is familiar, it becomes common, so she will look for new thrills elsewhere.

THIS is why so many men, aka guys raised on the gentleman theory, are having problems. They were raised to be nice, respectful, to take care of a woman and her needs, etc. They were never hipped to the entertainment provider and the resource provider REALITY of the situation. Resource provider will dress 'his' doll up, pay for her hair to get done, her nails, buy her clothes, all the while she is doing to look fine for ANOTHER man who does nothing but provide her entertainment.

The resource provider relationship is one similar to a host-parasite. She will use him up to the very last drop and discard him at the drop of a dime when he is dried up. In other words, when he loses his job or he stops buying her things, taking her to dinner, he doesn't want to listen to her problems anymore, etc., he is shucked to the side and a new resource provider is sought. On the other hand the entertainment provider relationship is one of master and servant. She will do anything to please her entertainment provider until he ceases to be that or until she has used her feminine wiles to neuter him and turn him into the resource provider she treats so disdainfully. For the entertainment provider, she will do things she won't for her resource provider. She may cook and clean for him, do things sexually with him beyond her norms, take things from the resource provider and give it to the entertainment provider. This is why you hear of stories of women cheating on their husbands who do everything for him and cheating on him in the most disrespectful manner with some guy she met at a bar and doesn't even really know.

That's why a lot of guys have problems the longer they deal with a woman. She becomes familiar with you and you are no longer as exciting and mysterious. Instead of being that dude she only saw every now and then who gave her thrills, you have now shifted into the resource provider, listening to her problems, paying for the majority of the bills, etc., and thus her behavior towards you changes accordingly.

By entertainment provider, I don't mean you are a clown, but rather you stimulate her in some way. Women always want their emotions and minds to be stimulated.

It's a bit sad, but I really ain't that cat to sit around wearing a sucker jacket, so I have little intentions for 'providing' for some woman. She can pay her own school, her own bills, her own hair and nails and all of that there... but the question begs to be asked, knowing this, it is really not easy doing the things to be in a long-term relationship with these women any more is it?
 

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This was a real post from the comment section of that hypergamy post

TheBiboSez
My Dearest Beloveds –

Well said, Paul. Thank you.

Will the hot pink highlights now decorating every NFL player be enough to mollify feminists? Ahhhh, nope.

Will 60% of university degrees going to women be enough? 70%? 99.999%?

Without understanding hypergamy, how can a man grasp that no amount of male abasement will ever be enough to satisfy feminists?

Without understanding hypergamy, how can a man understand that men should stop, now, right now, their eternal appeasement of women; that women never respect an appeasing, wimpy man in the slightest?

Hypergamy is the foundation of male disposability, shyt tests, female betrayal – the list goes on. Women have a name for men who don’t understand hypergamy – “loser” – because such a man will lose all his resources to the women he fancies. The courts, tax authorities, prisons, and police fall all over themselves to clobber the loser still further.

The men who never get this message about hypergamy and keep struggling in vain to please women are the ones who inevitably turn to violence against the all-consuming maw that is never happy, never satisfied enough to feel even the barest of gratitude.

Drop this message and Retreat? HELL!

And those poor, poor suffering feminists who quake when they think we are giving their secrets away. Ooops – oh, so sorry if we fukked your shyt up.

And that is what the Bibo Sez.

Bless you!
 

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According to evolutionary psychologists, females have evolved a preference for higher status males because they offer their prospective children both "better" genes and greater resources, e.g. food and security.
Hypergamy - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

:wtf: Get the hell outta here with this BS.

See this is exactly why so many women feel justified in their selfish behavior. Because stuff like this gives them permission. Women aren't concerned about chasing rich men for the sake of their childrens well-being.....especially if the childs father is already a good man. All they're concerned about is how many Coach purses, shoes, cars, etc they can get. If anything has "evolved" concerning this it's just that they want what they see on TV.

Some evolutionary psychologists believe that women exhibit mate-selective preferences for spouses who are greater than them in terms of attained physical attractiveness, educational level, job status, social standing, and capital accumulation. In comparison, males would tend to place higher emphasis on the value of physical attractiveness in a woman alone. Hypergamy - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

This is even worse. LOL

So women somehow feel they deserve a man who's outta their league(better) looks-wise/physical shape, smarter than them, better job, more popular socially, and a bunch of invested capital?

And men only want a pretty woman?

:mindblown::heh:
 

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Yeah, it's disgusting how you have 'evolutionary biologists' and other lames justifying this behavior. "Oh well, it was just in her genes to engage in that sociopathic behavior." You think a man will get that excuse? "Oh, well it was just evolutionary biology that made him a pimp that has all these hoes. He was just ensuring his DNA is well spread."

It IS real that women always want a better deal than what they are bringing to the table. Men have to provide resources, protect her, teach her, entertain her, look fly, and all of that. What does she really have to bring? Just her looks?

Now let me tell you what these feminists, simps and hyper liberals really want to create. They don't want equality, but rather, they want to create a Middle East for men. How women are treated over there, they want to do the same here to men. In the Middle East a woman can get beaten after getting raped. Here, you can go to jail after getting financially raped. A woman can cheat on you and divorce you and if you miss those alimony and child support payments, you go to jail. They wish to create a hyperclass with the female at the head and in which the unsuspecting victims-- men, are punished.
 

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Yeah, it's disgusting how you have 'evolutionary biologists' and other lames justifying this behavior. "Oh well, it was just in her genes to engage in that sociopathic behavior." You think a man will get that excuse? "Oh, well it was just evolutionary biology that made him a pimp that has all these hoes. He was just ensuring his DNA is well spread."

It IS real that women always want a better deal than what they are bringing to the table. Men have to provide resources, protect her, teach her, entertain her, look fly, and all of that. What does she really have to bring? Just her looks?

Now let me tell you what these feminists, simps and hyper liberals really want to create. They don't want equality, but rather, they want to create a Middle East for men. How women are treated over there, they want to do the same here to men. In the Middle East a woman can get beaten after getting raped. Here, you can go to jail after getting financially raped. A woman can cheat on you and divorce you and if you miss those alimony and child support payments, you go to jail. They wish to create a hyperclass with the female at the head and in which the unsuspecting victims-- men, are punished.

:ohhh:
 

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"It's well known here that any woman for any reason can call the police at any time and have her significant other arrested. Men who fight it (including several in my own class) never win,even when the alleged victim testifies on his behalf. Men who call the police for help.. Get arrested.

So now I'm 8 months into a 52 week DV class to avoid 2 years probation, 1 month in jail and a large fine. It used to be a 6 month class, but it was decided by a committee made up of dv profiteers including the owner of the facility I attend that it "wasn't working" so they doubled it. You know, because if something fails you should do it more."


Read more: I live in a part of California where any domestic violence call *will result in the arrest and prosecution of the male party* regardless of the facts surrounding the incident. As a result, I am in a domestic violence class to avoid harsh penalties. A
 
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