Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

Military wives are the worse, I remember that movie jarhead when dude was over in Iraq and got sent a videotape popped it in the VCR and it was his wife getting drilled from a dude and I laughed. And then I got older just reading etc and its a epidemic , if your married and serving your country odds are your woman is getting drilled back home

 

[sixsixtwo]

"There is no ONE. This is the soulmate myth. There are some good Ones and some bad Ones, but there is no ONE. Anyone telling you anything else is selling you something. There are LOTS of ‘special someones’ out there for you, just ask the divorced/widowed person who’s remarried after their “soulmate” has died or moved on."

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[kevm3]

Military wives are the worse, I remember that movie jarhead when dude was over in Iraq and got sent a videotape popped it in the VCR and it was his wife getting drilled from a dude and I laughed. And then I got older just reading etc and its a epidemic , if your married and serving your country odds are your woman is getting drilled back home

don't forget she will empty the bank accounts, max out the credit cards and run away with the other dude... divorce her husband and get access to alimony and child support, all while he is overseas getting shot at and possibly maimed for life.

imagine coming back from a long tour, getting shot at, explosions going on all around you, seeing your friends and then coming home expecting to find solace in the arms of your woman, only to see that she is nowhere to be found, but instead emptied your bank account and ran off with some other guy. That's why those soldiers be blowing up.

 

[Ohene]

and a girl could easily say, "I left him because he chose the war over me"

 

[kevm3]

yeah exactly, on some, he was never around so I got lonely and was emotionally neglected, so I made a mistake and had to seek comfort outside of the marriage tip

 

[gameover82]

everytime I say it hard being a man..nothing but woman say "oh like we got it so easy "..I just give them the

 

[Scustin Trillberlake]

what happen to that 30 day challenge to approach 1 chick a day, I really need to work on my mouthpeace n/h

Yeah, i suggested we do this. Sorry i haven't kept up with it. To be honest i am just not feeling it right now, i am borderline 'MGTOW' now. Maybe a couple months from now i will be feeling better. You guys go ahead and run the experiment though - it will probably be a lot of fun.

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

The worse I've ever felt in a long time was when I was 19 years old, and I slept with a woman during a fraternity/sorority exchange, only to find out that she was married to an enlisted Marine serving in Iraq.

Our meeting starting simple enough: We were both getting drunk and started making out on the dance floor and ran off to some back room and started hooking up some more. She started blowing me and then we all went back home to our fraternity house where I pounded her out. It wasn't bad, she had really great t*ts.

Anyway, we texted back and forth for a while. It was cool, we hooked up a couple more times. Then all of a sudden, a couple months after our initial hookup, I got this text from her phone: "Hey, how many times did we have sex?" Thinking it was weird, I asked, "Why do you ask? You were there." A while later I then got a call from a crying, angry Marine telling me that I slept with his wife and that I had no right to violate the sanctity of their marriage and that I was a terrible person. I let him vent. I didn't know that he was her husband or that she was even married, so I let him say his piece because he was obviously hurt, and with good reason to be hurt.

I explained that I didn't know that he existed and that he could do better and that he should dump her and never speak to her again. He accepted my apology and I tried to introduce him to other girls. He appreciated the effort but wasn't feeling it because he was still torn up over his now ex-wife. I still sometimes find it mildly amusing that of all people to tell him that he was too good for her and that he should leave her, it was the guy who she cheated with.

I called her out on that. She started crying and said that she was really confused and didn't know what she wanted from a guy when she cheated on him but that she was going to church now and that she was taking steps to make things right. I immediately wondered how many dudes at that church were plowing that.

Anyway, I am certain my story isn't unique. It felt shytty being the other guy because in that Marine's mind he was the gallant warrior with a beautiful woman waiting for him at home while he was off saving the world. Instead he got cheated on, wounded, and nearly forgotten by the people that sent him to fight.

It's not easy to be a man, sometimes. It's also why being married seems like such a foolish thing to do. I don't see why I need a woman in my life when I can take care of myself just as easily.

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

Yeah, i suggested we do this. Sorry i haven't kept up with it. To be honest i am just not feeling it right now, i am borderline 'MGTOW' now. Maybe a couple months from now i will be feeling better. You guys go ahead and run the experiment though - it will probably be a lot of fun.

I'll get on that. It's almost the first of the month. It wouldn't be a bad experiment to try.

 

[sixsixtwo]

"The first guy I knew to commit suicide over a woman was my brother-in-law. I don’t like to go into too much detail about it as critics may think it’s my casus belli for getting involved in the manosphere, but suffice to say it was after a 20 year marriage and 2 children. My sister-in-law promptly married the millionaire she was seeing less than a year after he was in the ground. This is a real point of contention her family and I have with her, but it was his terminal beta-ness / ONEitis conditioning that greatly contributed to his hanging himself. The psychologist in me knows there are plenty of imbalances that dispose a person to suicide, but I also know there are plenty of external prompts that make taking action more probable.

My brother-in-law hung himself as a response to having the unthinkable happen to him; his ONE, his soulmate, a woman he was very posessive of, was leaving him after 20 years of marriage (for a millionaire we discovered later). She was the ONLY woman he’d ever had sex with and had been (to the best of my knowledge) a faithful and dependable husband and father since they married at 18 and 19. He did the ‘right thing’ and married her when he’d gotten her pregnant at 17 and stuck by her, sacrificed any ambition he had and worked his ass off to send both his kids to college – an advantage he’d never achieve. He wasn’t a saint by any means, and I’m not going to argue my sister-in-law’s motivations, since those aren’t my point; my point is that he was an AFC who never came to terms with it and believed his life was only completed with his ONE. He literally couldn’t go on without her.

He couldn’t kill the beta (if he was even aware of it), so he killed himself."

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[NerdNash]

What's y'all thoughts on pipin these chicks the right way because that's def a important piece of the puzzle I think

 

[jadillac]

What's y'all thoughts on pipin these chicks the right way because that's def a important piece of the puzzle I think

While that may be important for some women, if the sole reason she cheats on you is b/c of that, then she was gonna do it anyway.

Remember, there's always some dude out there who will do something(freakier) that you won't do.

 

[MaccabeanRebel]

What's y'all thoughts on pipin these chicks the right way because that's def a important piece of the puzzle I think

A lot of cats alluded to it in this thread...I think the consensus is is that there isn't any one thing you can do to satisfy these broads. Your pipe game could be solid (pause) and she could still have an inclining to slob another niccas dikk. Your bank account can be in check and she might rationalize herself to skate solely off some emotional response she's had...you may think well I have money AND a good pipe game so I'm good right (logical right)? Well there's documented cases everywhere (even in this thread) that refutes this so it's mutually exclusive. It's madness brehs, there isn't a simple thing/fix you can do, which is where I understand where some cats here are coming from when they say it's like insanity with dealing with these chicks.

All my opinion tho..

 

[jadillac]

A lot of cats alluded to it in this thread...I think the consensus is is that there isn't any one thing you can do to satisfy these broads. Your pipe game could be solid (pause) and she could still have an inclining to slob another niccas dikk. Your bank account can be in check and she might rationalize herself to skate solely off some emotional response she's had...you may think well I have money AND a good pipe game so I'm good right (logical right)? Well there's documented cases everywhere (even in this thread) that refutes this so it's mutually exclusive. It's madness brehs, there isn't a simple thing/fix you can do, which is where I understand where some cats here are coming from when they say it's like insanity with dealing with these chicks.

All my opinion tho..

Basically.

You can do everything right and the woman can still dip out on you.

Which is why for many married men it's maddening.

Might have to get ur OJ on.

 

[kevm3]

A lot of cats are under the mistaken impression that they can earn a woman's loyalty.

Loyalty is a moral imperative. It is something someone chooses to do because they have it in them to be loyal.

Using external forces to garner loyalty only works for a while before they revert back to their original form. So 'throwing that pipe' or being superfly won't guarantee loyalty beyond a while from a woman. Since she will be around you so often, your mysterious nature will soon become common. Therefore, it will eventually fall down to her morals. Does she choose loyalty and value relationships above immediate thrills?

That's why you always need to maintain your self-respect and dignity when dealing with a woman, and if she asks you to compromise those or your morals and principles, then you have to let her go. That statement "what you won't do, another man will" is a simp statement, and a lot of cats will degrade themselves in order to appease a woman, but she leaves him anyways because she lost her respect for him. There's no particular thing you can do to ensure loyalty from a woman except thoroughly review her morals... and even then, always be prepared for the moment the woman decides to leave.