Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Chick that dogged me out back in the day sends me a random text today saying she misses me. not the current me but the old me. i respond back i miss him too. honestly part of me does miss the peace of mind i had back when i was naive and she took advantage of that. there was a peace and happiness in not knowing what was really going on that i don't have now that i can see people for who they are.

i miss the old me kinda like how a chick that gets raped misses the old her but knows she can never go back to that person that had that innocence again. i'm far to cynical not to even fake trying to be who i was back then.
 

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Listen, I know this is going to be a painful truth, but in order to absorb these gems this is something you have to accept

YOUR MOTHER IS NO DIFFERENT

We tend to look at our mothers as perfect, and often look for her qualities in the women that we date. We view our mothers from rose-colored glasses.

Little do we know that our mother was once a scandalous hoochie or gold digger. Our mother could have done our father wrong, but since those of us who grew up in single parent homes lived with our mothers, we never heard his story.

We grow up thinking that, my mom is amazing and strong. She raised me on her own. We also grow up thinking that dad is an a-hole or a deadbeat. While growing up and seeing numerous men in and out of our moms lives, we make excuses for her such as: "He wasn't good for her", "she just needs to find a good man", when the truth is that your mother was probably a whore that didn't want to settle down and just like your dad, the other men didn't want no part of her.

Then we vow to protect our mom and make excuses for her no matter how wrong or how foul she is. We overlook her mischievous ways, yet we want to crucify every woman we date for behaving just like our mother used to.

How many of us have the balls to look at our mother and say "you're just like them because you're a woman!"

And god forbid you ever get into a situation where you have kids with a woman, it doesn't work out, and the kids are in her custody, they are for the mostpart going to think that mommy is perfect and that daddy did her wrong, no matter how good of a man, husband, or father you were.

You grow up saying... I'm never going to leave or treat a woman the way my dad did mom. But you say this not knowing the story until it happens to you one day, and say to yourself how easy it was for her to turn the kids against you

Your mom is not your ally. She is one of them. Use her for her knowledge. I know it's sad to think of it like this, but your mom more than likely has been feeding you the fairytale bullshyt. Anybody that grew up with their father (if he wasn't a simp) knows better.

I disagree with this a bit. There's a stark difference between that generation compared to the broads you deal with nowadays. Especially in NY. My mom has straight up told me I couldnt imagine being a younger male with this generation of females. They're all delusional.
 

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_FR5nlkecCU

This was taken from Jewnited's thread, but this is how you handle these scandalous females

no need to sit back and fight and shoot it out with the other dude. ya'll get together, discuss what it is, expose her and keep it pushing

Her face was classic.

this is a great thread. props to a lot of you. the most important thing, ever, and I mean ever, is to make sure that you dont follow a womans lead.


they arent only emotional, they are often times irrational. feminine ways are typically immature and sweep back and forth from normal back to crazy. check any of their twitters to confirm. heck, just check history.

but one thing I do know, is if you follow them, you arent just fukking up off top, but youre fukking up the natural order. always take the lead and do what you know is best and necessary. peace yall.

This is true.

IT's like I said somewhere else....what if a female lion suddenly decided she wasnt gonna hunt for her cubs? What if she decided she wasn't gonna do what she INSTINCTIVELY knows to do and just decide to ignore it and go an un-natural way?

Would that not begin to screw up the lion population and they way things operate?

THat might not be a great example, but you get my point.
 

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_FR5nlkecCU

This was taken from Jewnited's thread, but this is how you handle these scandalous females

no need to sit back and fight and shoot it out with the other dude. ya'll get together, discuss what it is, expose her and keep it pushing

this is why i literally had to take a break from the dating game and dealing with women. this is exactly what's wrong. they caught this woman red handed and instead of her owning it she's acting all combative and trying to shift the blame on them and lie about it.

if somebody catches me in some bs i'm gonna own my actions. these women create logical loopholes and bs themselves into believing that no matter what they do they're in the right and the man is in the wrong. they blame shift and duck responsibility and accountability for their own actions.

this isn't something you can talk them out of either. the self deception will adjust itself to always make them right in their own eyes.
 

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I was on an airplane not too long ago flying out west and this older white lady from Cali was sitting next to me.

For whatever reason, alot of ppl like to talk to me and so she began asking me a bunch of stuff. Later the convo got to whether I was married.

Long story short, after a long convo, she said, "yeah the longer you wait, the harder it gets because so many women come with so much baggage as they get older, and it makes it hard."

I know that's not breaking news to most of us, but at least a woman confirmed/admitted it.
 

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this is why i literally had to take a break from the dating game and dealing with women. this is exactly what's wrong. they caught this woman red handed and instead of her owning it she's acting all combative and trying to shift the blame on them and lie about it.

if somebody catches me in some bs i'm gonna own my actions. these women create logical loopholes and bs themselves into believing that no matter what they do they're in the right and the man is in the wrong. they blame shift and duck responsibility and accountability for their own actions.

this isn't something you can talk them out of either. the self deception will adjust itself to always make them right in their own eyes.

She pulled that classic female move of 'flipping the script'. She KNOW she was wrong, but all of a sudden she came out talking about 'how could you do this to me." That reaction of disgust in her voice when that dude with the camera came up and first started talking to her lets her know she was busted.

I wish I could go back to the old days of fantasy as well, where women were pure and loyal angels or where it was only the dastardly, easily-identified subsector of women called 'hoes' who did the cheating. The problem is is that the worst cheaters could be the sweetest girl who tells her man she loves him with a huge smile on her face every single day... and when they get caught, they will flip the script and try to blame the man. "Why were you spying on me?" "So you NEVER trusted me. That's why I cheated." "You emotionally neglected me."

Relationships have kind of gone in my mind from two people who really loved each other and willing to do anything to stay each other and make sure each other was respected to some sort of social business deal where you have to closely watch your partner to avoid getting screwed over and to maintain that you are getting at least a reasonable return on your investment of time, resources, emotions, etc.
 

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What a homo, nikkas balls are in his girls purse.

If my girl thinks we're equals, I'll just tell her to bench her bodyweight :bryan:
 

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Remember men you are the last to know, women plan for months and months before they finally are gone.
Their gfs know, their families know and then you are the last to know.
 

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I was on an airplane not too long ago flying out west and this older white lady from Cali was sitting next to me.

For whatever reason, alot of ppl like to talk to me and so she began asking me a bunch of stuff. Later the convo got to whether I was married.

Long story short, after a long convo, she said, "yeah the longer you wait, the harder it gets because so many women come with so much baggage as they get older, and it makes it hard."

I know that's not breaking news to most of us, but at least a woman confirmed/admitted it.

The older a man gets the less he wants to get married.

When I was younger I wanted to get married have a few kids the white pocket fence. Going to be the best father, best husband :heh:, and now :ehh:, minus dual income can't think of a reason why I would want to.
 

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She pulled that classic female move of 'flipping the script'. She KNOW she was wrong, but all of a sudden she came out talking about 'how could you do this to me." That reaction of disgust in her voice when that dude with the camera came up and first started talking to her lets her know she was busted.

I wish I could go back to the old days of fantasy as well, where women were pure and loyal angels or where it was only the dastardly, easily-identified subsector of women called 'hoes' who did the cheating. The problem is is that the worst cheaters could be the sweetest girl who tells her man she loves him with a huge smile on her face every single day... and when they get caught, they will flip the script and try to blame the man. "Why were you spying on me?" "So you NEVER trusted me. That's why I cheated." "You emotionally neglected me."

Relationships have kind of gone in my mind from two people who really loved each other and willing to do anything to stay each other and make sure each other was respected to some sort of social business deal where you have to closely watch your partner to avoid getting screwed over and to maintain that you are getting at least a reasonable return on your investment of time, resources, emotions, etc.
I had a chick pull that flip the script stunt on me. Caught her on a public twitter she didn't know I knew about talking to some other guy when she swore she was only dealing with me. I confronted her about it and wouldn't you know she accused me of spying on her. An argument ensued and the long of the short of it is she never acknowledged what she did just argued with me about spying. This is the moment I got it drilled in my head to never confront a woman when you catch her in some bs. If you catch her cheating just end it because the confrontation will accomplish nothing.
 

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Remember men you are the last to know, women plan for months and months before they finally are gone.
Their gfs know, their families know and then you are the last to know.
It's like when you're looking for another job but you're keeping your current job to keep the benefits till you find something else cause you don't wanna lose them between jobs. You look for a while maybe months and when you land the new job you quit the old one on the spot. Women are rarely manless. There's usually some type of dude in her life and they go from man to man so they'll keep you around just long enough to get replaced.
 
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