Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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what happen to that 30 day challenge to approach 1 chick a day, I really need to work on my mouthpeace n/h

Fam I need to get back on this kinda shyt...I had at least two new digits a week in September. nikka got lazy and fell off in October. :wow:
 

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I think he did alright having that conversation go public because he has evidence in case she tries to file for false rape. It's disgusting what some of these women will do... file for rape and ruin a man's life based on a lie.

Another problem with alot of these young women nowadays is that they forget what actually being FEMININE is. Always trying to be way too hard when its completely unnecessary. Maybe its "a little okay" to be aggressive if a stranger disrespects you or your family in some way.

But I have noticed alot of them are just being far too aggressive with completely TRIVIAL things and forgetting about being FEMININE .

It's like they can NEVER understand that men are first and FOREMOST attracted to females who exude femininity.

THAT is the REASON why you can end up having someone like Aaliyah, have people like Timbaland give interviews admitting they were literally "in love with her" without ever having been(to our knowledge) in a physical relationship with that person.

Because people like her(from what we have heard) weren't running around acting all hard and masculine and trying to get attention.

Imagine that.....

A tom boy being more feminine than most of these women today
 

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Another problem with alot of these young women nowadays is that they forget what actually being FEMININE is. Always trying to be way too hard when its completely unnecessary. Maybe its "a little okay" to be aggressive if a stranger disrespects you or your family in some way.

But I have noticed alot of them are just being far too aggressive with completely TRIVIAL things and forgetting about being FEMININE .

It's like they can NEVER understand that men are first and FOREMOST attracted to females who exude femininity.

THAT is the REASON why you can end up having someone like Aaliyah, have people like Timbaland give interviews admitting they were literally "in love with her" without ever having been(to our knowledge) in a physical relationship with that person.

Because people like her(from what we have heard) weren't running around acting all hard and masculine and trying to get attention.

Imagine that.....

A tom boy being more feminine than most of these women today

:whoo:
 

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There's threads on places like LSA where there are actually multiple threads titled "what celebrities would you fukk the shyt out of".........

I mean wtf?.......These women are just trying too hard to be dirty and if you criticize them for it, they are so far gone with nonsense like that, that they think your being an a$$hole who is ruining the fun or joking they are doing.

"ooo girl I have a man but I would love to ride Denzel's chocolate dikk"

:skip:
 

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There's threads on places like LSA where there are actually multiple threads titled "what celebrities would you fukk the shyt out of".........

I mean wtf?.......These women are just trying too hard to be dirty and if you criticize them for it, they are so far gone with nonsense like that, that they think your being an a$$hole who is ruining the fun or joking they are doing.

"ooo girl I have a man but I would love to ride Denzel's chocolate dikk"

:skip:

They end up baby mammas. Treat them as such. Crazy how women back 15-20 years ago carried themselves with grace and politeness in the media. All of the actresses n R & B singers were mad kind and feminine (except for them hoe ass lil Kim) and they got more predominant roles than today.

Now chicks act all nasty from these reality TV shows and think that it is normal for them to go party and drink excessive amounts of liquor like a dude and think that it is the social norm. To the point where they think that men are "lame" if they don't go to there frequently. :skip:
 

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There's threads on places like LSA where there are actually multiple threads titled "what celebrities would you fukk the shyt out of".........

I mean wtf?.......These women are just trying too hard to be dirty and if you criticize them for it, they are so far gone with nonsense like that, that they think your being an a$$hole who is ruining the fun or joking they are doing.

"ooo girl I have a man but I would love to ride Denzel's chocolate dikk"

:skip:
While I agree I try not to rain on cats fantasies. I mean we do that too doesn't make us bad people and women regardless of what some would like to happen they do too. I think it would be different if it was regular Joe schmoe but how many people period are going to be able to fukk their famous crushes? Maybe its just me though.
 

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Yeah, a lot of these new age women are vulgar and crude in their mannerisms. They will openly talk about sexually doing this or that with a celebrity when they got a man. They will have 10,000 homeboys on the list as back-ups or guys they are actually boogeying with even while they are with their man.

To be honest, I'm very happy I'm not in a relationship right now. It feels great not to have to deal with all the drama and nonsense a woman is liable to bring to the table... which is stress you aren't even rewarded for dealing with.

When everything in this day and age is predicated on how a woman 'feels', how in the world can you seriously build with that? Emotions change like the wind, and while you are cool for a year or two, as soon as she comes across another dude that makes her tingle and she gets entranced by the 'new swag', she's either out the door, or serving him up while using you for your emotional support and resources. I figure I've always been more in love with the 'concept' of a relationship than what it usually turns out to be... more like you sit back and picture yourself being a strong man and taking care of your sweet, supportive princess while she holds you down and remains loyal... Both of you stick together, love each other and will make it through whatever life chooses to throw at you.

The reality is more like you get a girl that likes you because she's feeling your 'swag' for a while. You got to put up with her emotions, arguments out of nowhere, worry about her loyalty, and more often than not, women will chop men down as opposed to supporting and building them up. What makes it even worse is that as a man, you might support your woman when she loses her job or decides to 'go to school' and explore in life, but best believe that if you lose your job and don't find a new one soon, she is gone with the wind. There's simply no loyalty there and little binding her to you other than the fact that you are probably what she deems the most beneficial 'package' of a man that she can with her assets at this current point in time. If the option of an 'upgrade' in her mind happens to occur, she's a goner. Now why would I want to tether myself to that and invest my emotions and resources into something so unstable?

Man, it's just much more stress free when you enjoy your interactions with a woman, but keep them at a certain distance and never allow them to intertwine too much with your life to where you can't boot them/cut them off if they start bringing that drama.
 

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What's crazy is that none of this is new. The Roman writer Juvenal was getting at the SAME concepts about during 2 AD. We always get this kind of women after a period of unprecedented luxury and right before the decline of the civilization:

Check this out. It's crazy how much it parallels what is going on now.
WLGR

Here are some snippets:
All chance of domestic harmony is lost while your wife's mother is living. She gets her to rejoice in despoiling her husband, stripping him naked. She gets her to write back politely and with sophistication when her seducer sends letters. She tricks your spies or bribes them. Then when your daughter is feeling perfectly well she calls in the doctor Archigenes and says that the blankets are too heavy. Meanwhile, her lover, in hiding shut off from her, impatient at the delay, waits in silence and stretches his foreskin. Maybe you think that her mother will teach her virtuous ways-ones different from her own? It's much more productive for a dirty old lady to bring up a dirty little girl.

There's hardly a case in court where the litigation wasn't begun by a female. If Manilia can't be defendant, she'll be the plaintiff. [5] They'll draw up indictments without assistance, and are ready to tell Celsus the lawyer how to begin his speech and what arguments he should use.

Who doesn't know about the Tyrian wrappers and the ointment for women's athletics? Who hasn't seen the wounds in the dummy, which she drills with continual stabbings and hits with her shield and works through the whole course of exercise-a matron, the sort you'd expect to blow the trumpet at the Floralia [6] -unless in her heart she is plotting something deeper still, and seriously training for the actual games? How can a woman who wears a helmet be chaste? She's denying her sex, and likes a man's strength. But she wouldn't want to turn into a man, since we men get so little pleasure.

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Pauper women endure the trials of childbirth and endure the burdens of nursing, when fortune demands it. But virtually no gilded bed is laid out for childbirth-so great is her skill, so easily can she produce drugs that make her sterile or induce her to kill human beings in her womb. You fool, enjoy it, and give her the potion to drink, whatever it's going to be, because, if she wants to get bloated and to trouble her womb with a live baby's kicking, you might end up being the father of an Ethiopian-soon a wrong-coloured heir will complete your accounts, a person whom it's bad luck to see first thing in the morning.

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The bed that holds a wife is never free from wrangling and mutual bickerings; no sleep is to be got there! It is there that she sets upon her husband, more savage than a tigress that has lost her cubs; conscious of her own secret slips, she affects a grievance, abusing his slaves, or weeping over some imagined mistress. She has an abundant supply of tears always ready in their place, awaiting her command in which fashion they should flow. You, poor dolt, are delighted, believing them to be tears of love, and kiss them away; but what notes, what love-letters would you find if you opened the desk of your green-eyed adulterous wife! If you find her in the arms of a slave or of a knight, "Speak, speak, Quintilian, 35 give me one of your colours," she will say. But Quintilian has none to give: "find it yourself," says he. "We agreed long ago," says the lady, "that you were to go your way, and I mine. You may confound sea and sky with your bellowing, I am a human being after all." There's no effrontery like that of a woman caught in the act; her very guilt inspires her with wrath and insolence.



Technology may change and the little trinkets around us, but human nature doesn't. Replace 'gladiator' with musician or athlete.
 

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"You have two options: You will get married or you won’t get married. If you will get married then this article is for you. We will not review whether or not you should get married but we will review how to pick the right wife.

Picking the right wife is of utmost importance. Marriage is a life-long commitment and requires a great deal of forethought. Getting married without a plan and without any forethought is a terrible decision.

Getting married is a business decision. Marriage is a contract between two entities. You’ve got to enter into it with the ruthless mind of a determined businessman for it to work.

You’ve got to pick the right wife like a businessman picks a company to invest in. It shouldn’t be left to chance (“love”) – you’ve got to be pro-active, know what you want and then go after it.

Marriage isn’t about love or connecting with your soul-mate. Those are inventions of TV and movies. Marriage is an exchange of resources. Your wife shall provide A and you will provide B. If you’re wife doesn’t, or won’t, provide her share then she should not have the privilege of marriage with you.

Marriage is a contract and you’ve got to try your hardest to make sure that contract is re-inforced. You cannot make the best decision when you’re emotionally love-sick like a 16 year old school girl. No businessman who wants to stay in business will sign a contract in an emotional state of mind and no man who wants to stay married will sign all of his power away just because he loves her. It takes rational, clear-headed planning and thinking to pick the right wife material."


Read more: How to Pick the Right Wife | BOLD & DETERMINED
 

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Read more: I was just falsely accused of rape. : MensRights

"So here's my story. I decided to go out last night with it being Halloween weekend. My male friend and I decided to go to the local college hangout as there was a costume contest. We went out at about 9:30pm.

I got to the bar and just hung out and watched all of the cool costumes. I had been talking to a bunch of different people throughout the night until I met a girl, "Kathy". We talked for about twenty minutes until I asked if she wanted to come to my place in a cab. She agreed and headed to my house. My friend also rode with us as he was staying at my place for the night. We left at about 11:45pm.

Once we got back to my house we went straight to my bedroom and began hooking up. She went down on me for awhile and we had sex. It was a little rough but she seemed more in to it than me, biting my shoulder and such. I actually have a bruise on my arm from her participation. We had sex and hung out until about 5am when she decided to go home. My friend was out in the living room and then asleep while we were in my room with very thin walls."
 

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"Male here : Not married, HAPPY, truly blessed for having the sense to avoid millions of feminist hags and a completely one-sided social contract that is designed to screw over Men and award women because they are, in fact, not strong and independent.

I am SINGLE and I WILL say to you – if you are a woman, you have nothing of value that I, or any self-respecting Man, would ever want. I don’t need your numerous defaulted loans and maxed-out credit cards. I don’t need your bratty, feral piglets that you were in a rush to squeeze out just so you could obtain the ability to label yourself as a “mother”…. and I really don’t need the typical female filth, scum and idiocy that you bring into society, let alone a marriage.

Have you ever thought that women are the most unstable, wildly erratic, irresponsible, illogical, insipid and unfaithful components of a marriage who commonly think only of themselves and their specific “needs” that, of course, Men had better fulfill (or else the women will cash in their winnings (read: “file for divorce” [as they initiate 70-75% of the time] )? I ALWAYS see women mistreat their husbands… and believe that “snuggling” absolutely MUST happen on Sunday afternoons when they know their husbands would like to enjoy an afternoon to themselves watching football.

They even write state laws to make sure that women are legally bound to a Man’s wallet after just 30 days of living together…. and we all know why that is — it’s because women are far removed from being strong and independent."
 

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There's threads on places like LSA where there are actually multiple threads titled "what celebrities would you fukk the shyt out of".........

I mean wtf?.......These women are just trying too hard to be dirty and if you criticize them for it, they are so far gone with nonsense like that, that they think your being an a$$hole who is ruining the fun or joking they are doing.

"ooo girl I have a man but I would love to ride Denzel's chocolate dikk"

:skip:

I saw girl on facebook talking about, "I'm not a player, I'm just exploring my dating options" And she wasn't saying it in a joking manner.

First of all, that's not something you should be saying b/c the term "player" usually means you get around alot.

Nobody looks at that term innocently like all you do is go on a date or two and give a guy a hug and then go to the next one. If ur a guy and considered a player, that means you sleep with a bunch of women. So to me, the same thing would apply to a female.

But these women nowadays have to find a way to justify their behavior without using words like "easy", "fast", or worse, "slut", etc.
 

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here is an exerpt from that article 662 posted
The rumor had spread to Fallujah, Iraq in early 2005 that some of the wives of our unit had been caught running a brothel on our home base in Hawaii. As per many great substance-lacking rumors this one came with the catch that the reason our chain of command had not informed anyone was because they didn’t want Marines in a combat theater going ape-shyt with their loaded weapons while contemplating a different warrior's welcome home than originally anticipated.
When we finally came home it turned out the story was true; many of those wives had fled and spent the deployment money as well. I specifically remember standing in some line behind a Marine who said, “After all of that (war/battle/survival) I just want my truck, but she won’t give it back. … This is fukk*d up shyt!”

Their wives running a brothel while their husbands are giving their lives up overseas? I know exactly how it can go since I live next to a military base. The clubs will fill up real quick with military wives as soon as the husbands deploy.
 
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