Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Hypergamy doesn’t care how great a Father you are to your kids.

Hypergamy doesn’t care how you rearranged your college majors and career choice in life to better accommodate her.

Hypergamy doesn’t care how inspired or fulfilled you feel as a stay-at-home Dad.

Hypergamy doesn’t care that you moved across 4 states to be closer to your LDR.

Hypergamy doesn’t care how ‘supportive’ you’ve always been of her decisions or if you identify as a ‘male feminist’.

Hypergamy doesn’t care about the sincerity of your religious convictions or aspirations of high purpose.

Hypergamy doesn’t care about those words you said at your wedding.

Hypergamy doesn’t care about how you funded her going back to college to find a more rewarding career.

Hypergamy doesn’t care how great a guy you are for adopting the children she had with other men.

Hypergamy doesn’t care about your divine and forgiving nature in excusing her “youthful indiscretions.”

Hypergamy doesn’t care about your magnanimity in assuming responsibility for her student loans, and credit card debt after you’re married.

Hypergamy doesn’t care if “he was your best friend.”

Hypergamy doesn’t care about the coffee in bed you bring her or how great a cook you are.

Hypergamy doesn’t care about all those chick flicks you sat through with her and claimed to like.

Hypergamy doesn’t care about how well you do your part of the household chores.

Hypergamy doesn’t care about how much her family or friends like you.

Hypergamy doesn’t care if you think you’re a “Good” guy or about how convincing your argument is for your sense of honor.

Hypergamy doesn’t care whether the children are biologically yours or not.

Hypergamy doesn’t care if “she was drunk, he was cute, and one thing led to another,..”

Hypergamy doesn’t care how sweet, funny or intellectual you are.

Hypergamy doesn’t care if you “never saw it coming.”
 

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The worse thing is hypergamy the other guy is rarely better but women don't Ca're, you drive a 2007 he drives a 2012 coupe even if he is a abuser shrugs.


Women only stop following hypergamy when there marrie and cheating on any dirtbag giving them attention.

Imagine if guys thought like this? leaving someone who treats them good and right because some chick drives a better car or has longer hair or taller
 

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The worse thing is hypergamy the other guy is rarely better but women don't Ca're, you drive a 2007 he drives a 2012 coupe even if he is a abuser shrugs.


Women only stop following hypergamy when there marrie and cheating on any dirtbag giving them attention.

Imagine if guys thought like this leaving someone who treats them good and right bcs use some chick drives a better car or has longer hair or taller?
Co-sign. Very rarely will a man leave a relationship when he has a quality woman that consistently does her best to please her man on a daily basis. Like the old saying goes "a well-fed dog never strays".

I'm sure there are female lurkers objecting to the last part what you just said but the reality is that a man will cheat when certain needs and desires ain't being met and another woman meets them while a woman will cheat AND leave because the opportunity for attention presented itself even if her needs and wants are being met.

Sad state of affairs.
 

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Co-sign. Very rarely will a man leave a relationship when he has a quality woman that consistently does her best to please her man on a daily basis. Like the old saying goes "a well-fed dog never strays".

I'm sure there are female lurkers objecting to the last part what you just said but the reality is that a man will cheat when certain needs and desires ain't being met and another woman meets them while a woman will cheat AND leave because the opportunity for attention presented itself even if her needs and wants are being met.

Sad state of affairs.

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If a man was cheated on in every relationship, if he finally meets a woman who doesn't cheat on him I guarantee you be won't screw it up.

While a chick if every guy she dated cheated on her, and she finally gets a good decent guy who doesn't cheat and respects her she will get bored and step out.


I've had that happened to me and my Godsons mom did it as well, dated losers after losers finally got a good decent guy in her words she got "scared" ended up cheating on him with a loser and ended up with a child for him.

A man would be on his knees every day thanking the good Lord, while a female would be like :ehh:

And yes it's the truth
 

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If a man was cheated on in every relationship, if he finally meets a woman who doesn't cheat on him I guarantee you be won't screw it up.

While a chick if every guy she dated cheated on her, and she finally gets a good decent guy who doesn't cheat and respects her she will get bored and step out.


I've had that happened to me and my Godsons mom did it as well, dated losers after losers finally got a good decent guy in her words she got "scared" ended up cheating on him with a loser and ended up with a child for him.
A man would be on his knees every day thanking the good Lord, while a female would be like :ehh:

And yes it's the truth

Happened to my cousin as well. Even my sister was saying the cousin used to have a dude that treeated her like a queen back in the day. Now hes an engineer and shyt while she had a baby by a man who....long story short aint shyt according to my cousins brother (also my cousin obviously) that lives with my family for school. Cuz was taking ratchet pics on facebook about her belly and shyt. SMMFH
 

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Man women were always talking this slavery nonsense, but they wouldn't switch up the roles with a man. They simply would not do it. Imagine them working 40 to 80 hours only to bring it all home to support the husband who is chilling at home and all he has to do is take care of the kids, cook a few meals and clean up. Cooking and cleaning is something you have to do ANYWAYS if you're single.

What gets me man is how women are talking about SLAVING in the kitchen when all they have to cook is 3 meals a day. I guess Mcdonalds and Burger King workers are in an unspoken status beyond slavery. They must be prisoners of war. I'm sure she would trade the kitchen for working 14 hours a day in a coal mine.

When it comes down to it, a lot of men get duped into the victim game women play and allow them to flip the script to where they assume more and more of the burden of women because they want to please the female. Cats are actually out here working 40, coming home cooking and cleaning because apparently it's too 'degrading' for their woman to do, cutting the yard, fixing the car, etc., all because they are too afraid to wake up and tell that woman something. Let's not mention the fact that they need to buy a ring for her that is 3 month's salary, pay for half if not more of the wedding, pay for the majority of the household costs, while she doesn't even take his last name. To top it off, she's probably cheating on the dude, talking about he's not there enough for me and my emotional needs aren't getting satisfied... so she's on webcams showing off her breasts to random chatters and getting it popping with local losers. Oh he doesn't like it? Well divorce time and he gets taken to the cleaners for what is likely MORE than half, since she'll get the house and he will pay on it, and multiple marital streams of income via alimony and child support. The sad thing is some of those kids might not even be his. Let's top that off with the fact that she won't appreciate any of his sacrifices, but rather showing that nastiness to some cat she met at work. THEM are the cats that are bitter, not cats here that recognize the real for what it is and don't want to play that game.

Now these simps and these women want to hurl around the misogynistic label because you don't want to be in those slave chains along with the brainwashed simps. They come out with this shaming language in order to keep you locked up with them. Comparing what we're doing to misogyny is like saying a woman who speaks out against being with a man who beats her and treats her like trash is misandry. "Ugh, you don't like getting beat? You don't like getting cheated on? You don't like getting spit on? You must hate men. You can't handle a man." You see how corny that sounds?


:wow: @ the bolded. Women are even worse than kids. You can teach a kid politeness and right from wrong.
 

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The crazy thing about dealing with women is that a good number of them KNOW they aren't desireable or wife material in any way, shape or form but still date and marry to uphold an image to other WOMEN. Many dudes realize it but don't call it out because it's likely their only piece of p*ssy. Deep down, those same dudes know she ain't shyt and never will be shyt too.

Now all women lie, deceive or omit at one time or another but the sad part is that it never changes or mellows out for many of them as they get older. You can go on any dating website and see women over 40 and well into their 60s and 70s trying hard to live life like the Golden Girls (when in reality they lead a boring life), display their wealth (while still having high amounts of debt) and still date and look for Mr. Right with no success. It doesn't matter if they're 18, 81 or any age in between, image (and what other women think) will always matter to women above all else.
 

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Yup just head over to pof and do a search 32-40 all you will see is hundreds of woman in your area still looking for mr right not mr right now, had their fun and want to settle down.

I just chuckle

Yeah you will find man who will sleep with you but that's about it
 

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Yup just head over to pof and do a search 32-40 all you will see is hundreds of woman in your area still looking for mr right not mr right now, had their fun and want to settle down.

I just chuckle

Yeah you will find man who will sleep with you but that's about it
That starts around the age of 25, "Single" with 1 or 2 kids.
 

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This is some real knowledge by Pook at sosuave. I agree that as a man you shouldn't deal with other men's women and reward a betrayer

The Truth About Women - Page 2 is a terrific thread.

It should not be seen as depressing but as liberating. It can take quite a long while for your sense of reality to readjust, but you are better starting off from reality than fantasy.

"Pook! You have destroyed my woman's honor!"
"No sir, SHE has destroyed YOUR reality."
*slaps Pook with the back of a glove*
"I demand satisfaction!"
"Yes, you demand satisfaction but your girl also demanded satisfaction. I cannot spend my time day and night satisfying the demands of all the women you know."

And on and on it goes. It's incredibly easy to get other guys girlfriends and wives, disturbingly easy. I don't do it because its another form of manipulation, turning man against man, brother against brother. I have no respect for guys who use their 'success' with women to stomp on other guys. The mistake many guys make when they go for a wife or a girlfriend is that they think they are 'hot stuff' because they are getting these 'taken women' but in reality the woman is often using him, usually to belittle the husband or boyfriend she's with (or to make other women jealous). When couples 'wife swap', it is often the wife trying to out-manipulate the other wife's husband (a contest of who can steal the other husband's love). This is Female Game.

But take this initial post and look at it culturally. If a wife takes her kids out and the husband cheats, it is rightfully seen as wrong and bad. However, if the husband takes her kids out and the wife cheats, it is called The Bridges of Madison County, a great best seller! If a woman seduces and makes an arch bishop breaks his vows, it is called The Thornbirds, another great best seller! What about a movie where the woman gets to act like a *****, spit on culture, cheat on her fiancee, abandon her family, to run off with a guy with no job? And to add insult to injury, when the girl dies where does she spend heaven with? She chooses not to be with her husband but rather with the one time lover! It is called Titanic, the best selling movie ever.

What is sad is that in trying to help your fellow man see the truth, they just grip their horse tighter in fear. The men start to turn against you, saying, "How dare you speak like that!" And once they get married, what happens? His entire life gets shunted into the material utopia. New cars for the wife, new house, bigger house, endless remodeling.

Think about how much wasted talent there is pursuing women and pleasing the wife. It didn't use to always be this way. A century or so ago, there were much tighter measures on such flippant behavior. If a single woman got pregnant, she would move away from the community. Today, that single mother is enshrined as a goddess.

"Why are women this way?" it will be asked. The male and female brains differ. Females have a stronger right hemisphere of the brain, this hemisphere focuses on sensation, feelings, and all.

Due to the right brain's dominance, women will choose astrology over astronomy, junk food over nutrition, adultery over vows, movies over books, unlogical 'descriptive' books like Harry Potter / Romance books over logical non-feeling books like Aristotle, Plato, Erasmus, Dante, Aquinas, and so on. This is also why the player's 'game' always revolves not around the woman's emotions, but her sensations.

Consider that when men are manipulated, it is because they are using their right side of their brain (rather than the dominant male left side). The men fall in "love". They are drugged into sensation wonderland. Then, with a caught donkey, the woman can lead the man around to her choosing.

It is well said that men are more logical than woman. But the reverse is also true, that women are more sensationalistic than men. If a man goes the sensation route (falling or love, or the 'false players' who think they are getting 'lucky' with a girl, who see the woman as achievement), women will dominate him and his life.
 

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Here goes another one by this cat named seldom seen
LET ME ADD TO THIS THREAD:

I remember when I was 24 I was dating a girl and she broke up with me right after I had bought us tickets to a play and gave me some lame excuse that it wasnt working out but nothing was wrong with 'us' she just needs to be alone. A week later she was with some other guy. I went into a mild form of depression and MY MOTHER sat me down and straight up told me 'never put your trust into a young woman. Never be a womans 'candy man' she would say. She told me that even herself as a young woman was fickle with her emotions and often saw another man behind my fathers back when they were engaged. And went on to tell me how my aunt was cheating on my uncle (they're still married BTW) when she was young but my uncle saw her as a princess and would do anything for her.
That talk woke me up and I wasnt that same after my mother told me that.

In the years after that a good friend of mines girlfriend of 1 year got drunk and f*** two guys from the University football team at the same time. This girl was um...sweet and friendly.

I saw a friend of mines GF of 2 years break up with him and run off with another guy who said he's going to be an actor in Los Angeles (still waiting on his first movie...that was over 10 years ago)

I heard a girl say right to my face "if my boyfriend wasnt here I'd f*** your brains out" This has happened more than once or twice.

A good friend of mine banged a girl I was crazy about and was dating and then told me "she wasnt sh**! I helped you out because she said you were nice and all that garbage"

I PICKED UP A GIRL (I was 26) at a high school football game and drove her to the park and she gave me a BJ. When I drove her back to her car there were flowers on her car from her Boyfriend and a "I love you" card.

A guy I know who was in love and loyal to his woman went into severe depression after his girlfriend got banged by two guys from a local band and the follow day she broke up with him.

And I dont now how many times Ive met
women who've hit on or slept with a friends boyfriend.


Now I could keep going on and on and I could tell guy stories too but the thing that I never forgot was what my church going good hearted MOTHER told me about keeping my eye open around women and not putting too much trust in them, especially the young ones.


1) I think you have a great mother. She was honest enough to tell you the truth. And in return she saved you. She cared enough about you (her child) to tell you the truth, so that you wouldn't get too depressed or worse, kill yourself over it.

I think that is an awesome mother quality. I know my mother cheated on my father and basically every guy she's been with. I know this because I have no memory of my childhood or my father. I constantly ask my family members, "what happened?", "Where did he go?", "Why did they break up?", "Were they ever going to get married?", etc.

And you want to know what the story is? The story they all tried to hide from me until one night, I got my grandma to tell me the truth? They were going to get married! My mother and my father were going to get married. In previous story's, there was a snow storm. My mother and my father both got stuck on the way to the wedding. And the wedding was called off... And then there was an arguement when they got home and my father left.

That wasn't the real story at all. There was no snow storm. The snow storm was 2 weeks before that, when I was born. The real story is that at the night of the wedding, my father walked in on her having sex with another man. That man would later be known as my step father. The guy she ended up marrying. And the guy she cheated on and divorced two years later. My family never told me, my mother never told me, I was lied to about my father. I was told my father left and said "you can have the F'n kid". I found out later that he fought for me in court and lost. Because the court still finds the mother more suitable then the father.

And it wasn't until my girlfriend at that time cheated on me (WITH A GIRL!) that I told my mother that I knew the truth.

2) out of all of those examples, the ones that disturb me the most are the ones where the girls cheat on the man with not one, but 2 guys. I know this girl that I used to work with. She calls in one day. Turns out that she got her ass beat by her boyfriend because she got drunk one night and let 3 guys gang bang her.

3) "I PICKED UP A GIRL (I was 26) at a high school football game and drove her to the park and she gave me a BJ. When I drove her back to her car there were flowers on her car from her Boyfriend and a "I love you" card. "

- Wow. What the hell did you say after you saw that?

This one is real too:
i'd have to agree with the original poster. most of the girls have hooked up with in college later inform me that they have boyfriends. in fact, most of the girls i hooked up with in highschool also have boyfriends. girls have introduced me to their boyfriends as a "friend".

most attractive girls have boyfriends who they use for emotional and material comforts while they get raw wild sex from some other dude.

look at what you are offering a girl. she'll spend time with you for a lot of different reasons.
 
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