Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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I ain't going to say never trust any woman, but you have to learn the lay of the land. America is a land where promiscuity is promoted, so finding a woman who is loyal is difficult. The key is to make a woman prove her loyalty, make HER earn commitment, and the attitude to have is that you don't necessarily assume the next girl you are dealing with is cheating, but you prepare yourself in the event that she is.
This is why you never put a woman higher than your 3rd or 4th priority max, just in cause she busts bad, you can keep it pushing.
This is why you never put a woman higher than your 3rd or 4th priority max, just in cause she busts bad, you can keep it pushing.
cause of what you read above?
nah breh lol numerous things, including things ive posted about my own life in his thread
exactly breh...but i also feel i always have a wall protecting me...i almost feel insincere in relationships now due to being aware of the state of women these days
I stopped trusting women years ago
Only took being cheated on, played infected with stds
Only took being cheated on, played infected with stds
Don't worry about trusting females -- just trust yourself to make the right decisions..
They're not important or special in the grand scheme of things.. What is important is having integrity & being able to look yourself in the mirror everyday with no shame..
Cormega: "Trust is a luxury I can't afford."
Yessir.. I trust myself, don't need to trust anybody else..
I'm self-validated..
nah breh lol numerous things, including things ive posted about my own life in his thread
exactly breh...but i also feel i always have a wall protecting me...i almost feel insincere in relationships now due to being aware of the state of women these days
That's just your heart hardening up and you wisening up. It's like enjoy her company while she's here, but always be prepared if things go south. NEVER give a woman 100% of your heart.
One of the keys points I want to make is I want to expose these cats to the utter grittiness out here so as to condition them so that if it does occur, they won't be feeling like jumping off a bridge or doing something that lands them in prison. The punch which hits us the hardest is that which we weren't expecting. Cats need to be able to keep it pushing like it wasn't too huge of a deal if they do discover disloyalty, and this comes through mental conditioning. And you know like I know that the grittiness is real, not only from hearing the experiences of others, but from personal experience. So that is why we must be prepared for it.
This is why I say its a privilege for women to be around you and that you, as a man, are the prize, and I believe every single word of it. You have to be the one who is the leader and you have to deal with all the disloyalty and other problems women bring to the table. You are realistically the funny one. You are the one assuming the majority of the financial burden and repercussions. You are the protector. You bring all of this to the table and yet you still need to chase her and put up with her entitlements? Nah. Men only do it because they've been brainwashed into doing it and readily hand their dollar over for a penny.
So with that realization, what in the world are all these negroes out here chasing these broads for? You know why? They've been brainwashed and are mired with a sucker mentality. What in the world are they catering their dressing style, their personality and all of that to what they think some broad will want? She needs to be catering herself to you in order to get with what you are doing... and when a woman respects you, that's exactly what she will do.
Another point I want to emphasize is solidity of character. As described in the forbidden fruit post, women do not like to deal with men they can change and thus own. They want a man who they can make as many attempts to change and can never do so. This many seem counterintuitive, because all the while the girl will be arguing and fussing with you, but best believe me, you won't be able to shake her off.
Always put your respect and your decency way ahead of her vagina. There was a thread on here about a cat dealing with a woman and he invited her out to eat and she said yeah, cool, and then flaked at the last moment. 20 minutes later she hit him up asking if she could come over, use his computer and spend the night. He said, naw, I'm eating. To the vagina monger, they would have jumped all over it like, "Yea baby, I can't wait until you come over." He did the right thing. He didn't let her control the situation. He let her know that his time was to be respected way ahead of her attempting to tease her vagina at him. She will gain respect for him and I bet you if he wanted, he'd be able to have her WAY easier and with much less flaking from her from now on. And if not, he just got rid of a complete waste of time. If he would have gave in, he might have knocked her down a time or two, but she would know that he is susceptible to being manipulated by her waving her vagina in front of him and she would flake on him and attempt to manipulate him all the time. Tests are something women love to give, and you will pass with flying colors if you go the opposite of the caterer/simp route.
The one piece of advice I need to get through to the cats here is to never let a woman hold her vagina over your head. Do not be no sucker negro that does anything in an attempt to 'get' that vagina and in an attempt to 'lock it up'. A woman is going to give that thing to whoever she feels. Now what you DO do is make sure she brings nothing but respect and high preference when she deals with you. You have to get past that attitude of treating her vagina as something you have to have, to not really caring about it but focusing on her behavior. If you focus on the vagina, you will start making all kinds of simp mistakes like allowing a woman to disrespect you in order to 'get it' or thinking things like, "Uhh what did I do that the other man didn't do? Why does he get it and not me? I might not have done something right. I need to change something."
The key behind this all is to SPEAK to women, but to never chase them. More than anything, give them an opportunity to deal with you... and in order for her to deal with you on a deeper level, she has to show proper respect and dedication. If a woman wants to be kept, she has to show she is worthy of being kept. All women who have not met that standard, you shouldn't consider more than entertainment in your mind. When dealing with women, they WILL come with the tests and they will attempt to manipulate you. You simply have to send her crashing down each and every single time. You have to hold your peace of mind and self respect way ahead of her vagina in order to be able to do this.
nah breh lol numerous things, including things ive posted about my own life in his thread
exactly breh...but i also feel i always have a wall protecting me...i almost feel insincere in relationships now due to being aware of the state of women these days
A man truely loves and trusts only once , that wall is your shield and is protecting you, let it down.
Women can't even hurt me or break my heart anymore all they can do is disappoint me. That coating that shield is our protection from being taken to the woodshed. The thing Is we keep letting it down, you have it up earl on two months then you think she's different only to get played yet again.
i would say that. NEVER TRUST A WOMAN
yeah, at some point in life, u have to trust someone. yes. but there are different levels of trust. giving a 100% of your trust to anyone other than your mother or closest relatives (even that is iffy) is an abomination.
if ur in a relationship, trust that the person ur with will do right by you, but be prepared if they dont.
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It crazy I tell cats these things and they give me the 
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... Thinking all the guys has to do is fukk her good and let her know he the boss.... And she stays but seem like women emotion are like the weather it can change
or ... Thinking all the guys has to do is fukk her good and let her know he the boss.... And she stays but seem like women emotion are like the weather it can changeman you ain't going to hold onto no female solely with sex... because as nice as you may be doing your thing, ain't nothign better than SOMETHING NEW. So if it's sex that man's game is based on, he will hold her until she tires of him and wants something different.
obviously you got to be a man, but most cats aren't aware of the little manipulation games and tests that women bring, so they fail those and get hemmed up. Some cats simply won't wake up until they get their butts trapped and end up getting wrecked in divorce with alimony and child support.
obviously you got to be a man, but most cats aren't aware of the little manipulation games and tests that women bring, so they fail those and get hemmed up. Some cats simply won't wake up until they get their butts trapped and end up getting wrecked in divorce with alimony and child support.
