Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Only fukk with chicks that got shyt to lose.

This can't be stressed enough

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you are married right? and i know y'all cats hate on me for dissing marriage time and time again.


But how did you know to choose your wife amongst all the filth and garbage out there to know she was one of the few good ones?
 

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you are married right? and i know y'all cats hate on me for dissing marriage time and time again.


But how did you know to choose your wife amongst all the filth and garbage out there to know she was one of the few good ones?


I don't know what "good " exactly is.

But, I just had a different connection with her than other girls. I enjoy being around her and she is her own women.
 

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How do you know the difference?

for a female there is no defined way. A lot of guys act exactly like they may care and it could be impossible to tell. The only way to find out is if he tries to get physical too soon in the relationship, but women get scared if they don't give it up soon he will look elsewhere. And even then if the guy has a stable he doesn't mind having you in the barnyard till your ready to give up the goods.


it's up to you as a woman imo to test your man, to see if he is up standard, the same way us guys when looking for a quality women will test her, if a chick sleeps with me on the first night, she's in the bullpen or even the minor leages one of those ones who are replaceable.

I live a life of abstinence now but back in the day this girl i was messing with the 2nd time i saw her she was blowing me in the parking lot on the "i dont usually do this tip", i thought she could have been an ace but that put her in the bullpen role, and she never got out of it.

everyone you associate with has a category whether it's a waste don't talk to, or friend, friend with benefits, short term relationship, ltr, marriage type

depends on what you are looking for at that specific time, no need to rush into it before you adequately test to see what role you should assign them, alot of women are quick to rush into things just meet a guy and wanting to be his girlfriend.
 

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What's the difference in the way you deal with females if they young (18-25) as opposed to the older ones (25+)? I'm sure their mind frames are totally different
 

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What's the difference in the way you deal with females if they young (18-25) as opposed to the older ones (25+)? I'm sure their mind frames are totally different


Young girls are getting dikk thrown at them from every angle every day of the week. So they saddity levels are over 9000. Its mostly young chicks you gotta apply the rules of this thread on.





Older women tend to be jaded and more docile after years of getting dogged and ran thru so they are more humble. However just kno this, if you are dealing with a single older chick. She will have EMOTIONAL BAGGAGE. You aint escaping it. So thread lighlty with them. Most of the time they are either looking to jus fukk or they are looking to settle down. Sadly its either one extreme to the other with them. The good thing tho is you kno what your dealing with. Mos older broads aint playing games
 

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When it comes to wifing a chick:

Make sure she is head over heels in love with you. fukk what she says, it's what she does. A woman can say she loves you over the phone while riding the next nikka's dikk. Trust me I've been the next nikka. Make her prove this by making herself accessible 24/7. If she doesn't jump when you call, you can't wife her. You have to be her absolute priority.. over her moms, pops, whoever. In order for her to be loyal to you, you must be her everything. A chick who has other resources will never be completely faithful or loyal to you.
 

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When it comes to wifing a chick:

Make sure she is head over heels in love with you. fukk what she says, it's what she does. A woman can say she loves you over the phone while riding the next nikka's dikk. Trust me I've been the next nikka. Make her prove this by making herself accessible 24/7. If she doesn't jump when you call, you can't wife her. You have to be her absolute priority.. over her moms, pops, whoever. In order for her to be loyal to you, you must be her everything. A chick who has other resources will never be completely faithful or loyal to you.





Interesting way you worded that.

Can you expand on
resources in this context?

Are you saying anything else besides other men or other opportunities...?
 

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Never confess Anything

Deny, deny, deny...

Let her tell you how much she knows first, because 9 times outta 10 she doesn't have enough info to catch you & assumes that if she confronts you with it, you'll fold...

:clap::clap::clap:

100% truth, a bytch can accuse yu all she want....but just like fighting a case in court...if the supposing side ain't got sufficient evidence ...yu can beat tha shyt with ease :cool:
 

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this thread full of gems, a nikka ate good :eat:


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Interesting way you worded that.

Can you expand on
resources in this context?

Are you saying anything else besides other men or other opportunities...?

When I say "resources", I am referring to her having other people other than you that can provide the things that she needs in a relationship (emotional support, financial support, sex, companionship, etc.) Your woman should never feel she has the option or ability to go outside of the relationship for anything that you can provide. These same outside resources will be the ones at the end that will prevent her from being 100% faithful and loyal to you. That's why you don't want to deal with women who have been exposed to too many men, or have too many girlfriends that influence them. A woman should not have any male friends that you do not know, and you should know at all times when she is around these male friends. She should not have any emotional bond with these male friends while dating you. He shouldn't be her shoulder to cry her, and she damn sure shouldn't be telling him about your relationship. If she does, cold cut that broad. She either gets everything from you or nothing at all.
 

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When I say "resources", I am referring to her having other people other than you that can provide the things that she needs in a relationship (emotional support, financial support, sex, companionship, etc.) Your woman should never feel she has the option or ability to go outside of the relationship for anything that you can provide. These same outside resources will be the ones at the end that will prevent her from being 100% faithful and loyal to you. That's why you don't want to deal with women who have been exposed to too many men, or have too many girlfriends that influence them. A woman should not have any male friends that you do not know, and you should know at all times when she is around these male friends. She should not have any emotional bond with these male friends while dating you. He shouldn't be her shoulder to cry her, and she damn sure shouldn't be telling him about your relationship. If she does, cold cut that broad. She either gets everything from you or nothing at all.

Excellent post.
You expounded on that beautifully.

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