Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[↓R↑LYB]

When it comes to wifing a chick:

Make sure she is head over heels in love with you. fukk what she says, it's what she does. A woman can say she loves you over the phone while riding the next nikka's dikk. Trust me I've been the next nikka. Make her prove this by making herself accessible 24/7. If she doesn't jump when you call, you can't wife her. You have to be her absolute priority.. over her moms, pops, whoever. In order for her to be loyal to you, you must be her everything. A chick who has other resources will never be completely faithful or loyal to you.

I can consign this post and the one about not taking shyt from women. Broad I met got mad that I didn't call her to make sure she got back from her trip safe. I told her you have to earn that level of affection from me. You got other dudes you dating, so if you need that, get that from them.

Few days later, she told me she told the other dudes she don't wanna see them anymore and that she only wants to be with me. I told her I'd think about it

Few days later I hit

Next week I was mad sick and she came over for the weekend and took care of me. That's when I realized she was a keeper.

Long story short, be a man. Let her know you stand when you piss and you gives a fukk. Shell respect you for it.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

These are qualities I look for in a guy

Consistency- say what u mean and mean what u say
A protector/provider - not only providing me with money but I wanna be able to call my man with any type of problem and he has a solution for me. I need him to calm me down when I'm being dramatic lol
Looks are important but if your personality is A1 it makes u look 10x better
I want somebody who has a strong presence
Somebody who is not afraid to be honest with me. If I'm being annoying or a nag tell me.. Nicely lol

And last but not least control me.... In the bedroom

Sounds like every women I've ever met. Disney tells nikkas to be bytch made. Mothers tells sons to be bytch made. If men just said fukk it, I'm the man, take it or leave it; most broads will fall in line.

 

[Rich Spirit]

I can consign this post and the one about not taking shyt from women. Broad I met got mad that I didn't call her to make sure she got back from her trip safe. I told her you have to earn that level of affection from me. You got other dudes you dating, so if you need that, get that from them.

Few days later, she told me she told the other dudes she don't wanna see them anymore and that she only wants to be with me. I told her I'd think about it

Few days later I hit

Next week I was mad sick and she came over for the weekend and took care of me. That's when I realized she was a keeper.

Long story short, be a man. Let her know you stand when you piss and you gives a fukk. Shell respect you for it.

 

[Ohene]

I can consign this post and the one about not taking shyt from women. Broad I met got mad that I didn't call her to make sure she got back from her trip safe. I told her you have to earn that level of affection from me. You got other dudes you dating, so if you need that, get that from them.

Few days later, she told me she told the other dudes she don't wanna see them anymore and that she only wants to be with me. I told her I'd think about it

Few days later I hit

Next week I was mad sick and she came over for the weekend and took care of me. That's when I realized she was a keeper.

Long story short, be a man. Let her know you stand when you piss and you gives a fukk. Shell respect you for it.

 

[Amare's Right Hook]

Whoah, whoah, you need to condense some of these posts. Im not reading all that shyt.

 

[Ohene]

Whoah, whoah, you need to condense some of these posts. Im not reading all that shyt.

Your loss playboy.

The longer...often the more intricate.

We servin buffets, grab a plate and pile it on

 

[Amare's Right Hook]

Eh, Ill survive.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

On the real, if there's one piece of advice every man should heed is this, NEVER put up with bullshyt.

All the broads I've dealt with that considered themselves to be dimes, told me the same thing. I was the first man who didn't put up with their non sense. They even said they would try to test me to see what they could get away with. They WANT to be put in their place, despite how much they'll say otherwise. You ain't gotta curse em out and call em all types of bytches and hoes. shyt, I very rarely raise my voice to women. Just tell them what is and isn't allowed, let them know there will be consequences for their actions (I typically go with food, sex, and them cleaning the crib ), and that they'll have to earn their spot back.

 

[CrimsonTider]

expand?
you are married right? and i know y'all cats hate on me for dissing marriage time and time again.


But how did you know to choose your wife amongst all the filth and garbage out there to know she was one of the few good ones?

What I mean by this is fukking with women that have jobs, assets and goals.

I dont understand why a man would ever get serious with a woman that does nothing but sit on her but all day.

Also these type of girls are the ones that will key your car and etc because they dont have anything to worry about.

If a girl wants to quit working when she gets married that should be a HUGE RED FLAG

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Cats need to be mindful of the type of shows,books a woman or their woman Reads and watch.Yeah everybody is old enough to not be influenced. However some women take this Housewives crap to their head.

 

[newarkhiphop]

Whoah, whoah, you need to condense some of these posts. Im not reading all that shyt.

These two post pretty much sum it up

http://www.the-coli.com/347836-post22.html

http://www.the-coli.com/347843-post23.html

 

[kevm3]

On the real, if there's one piece of advice every man should heed is this, NEVER put up with bullshyt.

All the broads I've dealt with that considered themselves to be dimes, told me the same thing. I was the first man who didn't put up with their non sense. They even said they would try to test me to see what they could get away with. They WANT to be put in their place, despite how much they'll say otherwise. You ain't gotta curse em out and call em all types of bytches and hoes. shyt, I very rarely raise my voice to women. Just tell them what is and isn't allowed, let them know there will be consequences for their actions (I typically go with food, sex, and them cleaning the crib ), and that they'll have to earn their spot back.

Yessir. The 'pass the test' thing is very real. EVERY woman will pull little things, utterly stupid scenarios and tiny events to test you. If you don't stand up and take a firm position and tell her to cut it out, you're going to have to experience her doing stupid things all the time UNTIL she eventually feels you're not a man because you keep lettings things slide and she'll leave. The worst thing you can be is some ol cool negro, talking about 'baby that's cool, baby that's ok,' when she brings some of that nonsense your way.

Women don't want a friend, so stop being so doggone friendly.You know what happens when you are too friendly with a woman? You turn into her 'friend'. If you want a woman, you simply have to BE A MAN. Men are the upholders of the law. Cats really have gotten brainwashed watching Disney and all these other shows on tv that emasculates men and wonder why the behavior they emulate on their isn't getting them those same results... because it's not real! Same way as if you tried to box like Rocky did, you're getting you're butt knocked out. Doesn't look like many parents taught men anything other than something corny like respect the ladies, treat her like she deserves and bring her roses... some corny rnb type trash. Then men get set loose out here and wonder why none of that works and they are getting devoured. Like Jesus says, the truth will set you free, and the truth is that being soft and friendly to a woman will get you tore out the frame.

Before you're friendly with a woman, make sure you know how to check her nonsense, whether it be from her being late, avoiding calls or trying to keep some negroes floating around. As a man, you should never try to "keep" a woman. You should only deal with women that want to be "kept". If she brings all kinds of trash to the table in your dealings with her, you better knock every single piece off that table and tell her to throw it away. If she leaves, that's wonderful for you. You saved yourself a bunch of headaches. If she does what you say and respects your word, that's the woman you deal with.

Women want to be ruled and ultimately want to deal with men that have laws of self-respect and has direction. That doesn't mean dictate, that means lead.

 

[Turbulent]

alright, i'll try to contribute as well.

some have already touched on this but basically, you often get to choose your role with women. see the way a lot of them think is they will cast you as a certain character in their little drama depending on how you interact with them at first. so during that time you get to chose with role you'll take. once your cast in a certain role, it's hard to shake it and she'll treat you in accordance. and the funny thing is, you'll also subconsciously play the part for 2 reasons. number 1, you picked the role. number 2, the fact that she's acting a certain way with you will make you act that way if you're weak. so with that in mind, pick the right role (the one that's you). and do the same to them. put them in a role and treat them that way. once they're casted, they'll also play the part you assigned them cause you're treating them that way.

basically, you're the one who's suppose to set the frame of your interactions.

 

[Amare's Right Hook]

These two post pretty much sum it up

http://www.the-coli.com/347836-post22.html

http://www.the-coli.com/347843-post23.html

Thanks for the editing.

 

[Amare's Right Hook]

"Self-confidence, warranted or not, triggers submissive emotional responses in women. Irrational self-confidence will get you more p*ssy than rational defeatism."

So true, they sense it. If you couple this with a sense of humor its going to work out well.