Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

girl I messed around with in high school, was really like a relationship (1.5 years+) out of the blue hit me up on FB and sent a fr

mind you this girl put me through some major games towards the end and keeps randomly comes out of no where to keep tabs on me

so on FB shes asking me all these question, triple sending messages and shyt

I barely replied to the messages or even with real info of substance, and was taking days to reply because I felt this shyt was going to be a waste of time if I put any effort into the convo

to see how serious she was about actually having a convo, I just left my number and said text me

of course its been like forever and haven't got a text

at the end of the day its cool cause I saw that shyt coming from a mile away, I saved a lot of time and energy. Old me would have been stressing hard af. Its a little annoying tho cause a nikka got no current bytches and I need something to poke on in the mean time

edit: eh she just texted me right after I posted this, think imma ignore it

the danger of developing oneitis.

and she sback to playing games have fun breh

 

[Spades Of Aces]

Long distance relationships are only good if both parties have a plan to permanently close the gap. Otherwise, you both end up wasting your time. Time is valuable so we each have to learn how to spend it wisely. Doing a long distance relationship knowing that neither party has a plan to join together at the same location is doomed for failure. Don't invest time into something that you both don't believe in.

Also, to add a small thing about online dating: As a man, you really have to check your ego at the door. I've been doing it for years. I've had plenty of success but also plenty of failures as well. I used to let it bother me as I didn't understand the rules of engagement and how I was putting my all into it but sometimes either not getting responses or woman just fizzling out from the convo. As I grew to learn and to adapt to the online dating world, I became more knowledgeable on how to invest my time and energy into it while not taking my failures personally. Online dating is definitely hard if you don't like getting rejected from time to time. If you spend time sharpening your craft, you will definitely become good at it. Obviously there will still be some failures but you'll learn and grow and understand that you don't need to take things personally.

 

[EA]

I was speaking to my dad about dating and women the other day and I was left sort of stunned after hearing his view on women. I don't know if it's just the perspective from his generation but he pretty much said that women will always eventually one-up/manipulate you if stay around them long enough because of sex. I was trying to tell him that only happens if you're not introspective enough and not regularly checking yourself within your situation whilst analysing a woman's behaviour.

He said my PoV is ultimately gonna hold me back from being able to access as many women I could because I don't look at things like time and money as transient. I kept stressing to him that it's quality over quantity but he wasn't having it. It left me really flustered because I was thinking "Damn, my dad was really out here simping chicks and putting up with their BS before he met my mum."

It was only until after when I was speaking with my mum about it that it clicked in my head that my dad wasn't expecting hai first child at 19 with a crazy, manipulative baby mama so he sees my at 21 with a good job and no baggage at he expects me to be out here eating. Only thing is that he's been married for the last 23 years and doesn't understand how the women of today and the dynamics of dating are.

 

[MikelArteta]

Only thing is that he's been married for the last 23 years and doesn't understand how the women of today and the dynamics of dating are.

this is what many older man who are married dont understand.

they didn't have to deal with multidating, and tinder, and smartphones, and facebook, and instagram, they didn't have to deal with their women keeping in touch with their ex on whatsapp, they didn't have to deal wth feminists and women with high body counts

 

[EA]

this is what many older man who are married dont understand.

they didn't have to deal with multidating, and tinder, and smartphones, and facebook, and instagram, they didn't have to deal with their women keeping in touch with their ex on whatsapp, they didn't have to deal wth feminists and women with high body counts

He's completely oblivious. He was telling me that I need to prove my worth to the women I wanna get with and I simply replied to him with "Why should have to prove anything to a girl when somewhere out there, another guy has pictures of her naked on his phone?"

He looked at me and said I won't meet the right girl with that state of mind but I just lost the will to argue back at that point

 

[Atlrocafella]

He's completely oblivious. He was telling me that I need to prove my worth to the women I wanna get with and I simply replied to him with "Why should have to prove anything to a girl when somewhere out there, another guy has pictures of her naked on his phone?"

He looked at me and said I won't meet the right girl with that state of mind but I just lost the will to argue back at that point

Truth..

 

[MikelArteta]

about to drop my so you've been dumped guide

 

[altruicsense]

I'm taking too many L's

Found out this chick who worked next door at Subway is married and has kids. I thought she liked me because it seemed like she was flirting with me every time I was over there. Turns out she flirts with almost everybody because she's bored at work and it makes the day go by faster

I deleted OKC & POF because I got no views or no one responded to my messages, I was paying for OKC too The only broad I was interested in curved me 2 or 3 months ago when a coworker told me that she needed a BF on her SnapChat or IG. My coworker took a pic of me without my knowledge and sent it to her with the caption "What about him?" and she said "Ummmmm no, he's too quiet" and that was that.

I want to find a GF or at least a friend by the time i'm 26 at the end of the year but shyt is difficult though for someone like me

I swear I hear chicks say that type of shyt all the time about nikkas... Always sounded like some real cold shyt to say. Way colder than saying he's too short or too fat.

 

[MikelArteta]

I swear I hear chicks say that type of shyt all the time about nikkas... Always sounded like some real cold shyt to say. Way colder than saying he's too short or too fat.

if a chick likes you that he's to quiet becomes mysterious

 

[reserved_one]

Man.....This short hair, thick ass Christina Millan looking ass broad just threw a monkey wrench in my shyt lol She always flirt me whenever I come into DG. Yesterday she was clowning me for always buying junk food so I told her to cook me a meal sometime. Then I start walking out and she follows asking was I was serious about her cooking for me.
Said yeah.....then she asks if I can get my number So, I gave it to her and walked away
The thing is though the main broad I'm talking to lives 45 min away from me. This one lives in my area


She got that laid back "motherly" vibe thing going on. When it comes down to it, I'ma just have to pick and choose because I don't feel like getting on some extra shyt by juggling both lol I could, but thats not what I'm on right now. I don't know how this Cuban broad gonna act, so I have low expectations.

 

[Atlrocafella]

"I was always told what I needed to do to keep a woman, but I was never told what a woman needed to do to keep me"

some powerful stuff. Know your worth and what you deserve brehs.

 

[Morose Polymath]

I was thinking "Damn, my dad was really out here simping chicks and putting up with their BS before he met my mum."

Breh that's most old nikkas. I've learned from talking to alot of various older cats that they had no problem spending numerous amounts of cash on women and being straight up simps for some potential ass. I mean listen to the music from their era, simpin been around for a looooooong time and it ain't going nowhere either

 

[EA]

Breh that's most old nikkas. I've learned from talking to alot of various older cats that they had no problem spending numerous amounts of cash on women and being straight up simps for some potential ass. I mean listen to the music from their era, simpin been around for a looooooong time and it ain't going nowhere either

I really don't get it. I'm not even a cheap guy when it comes to spending money on the right girl but he outright told me that I need to look at my money as transient when I'm dating. That's just asking for a chick to use you for free meals and I can't co-sign that at all. I'm trying to have a girl be with me for me and not because she knows that I won't hesitate to spend money on her.

 

[eerieBell]

she just told me she needs at least 10 months of relationship in order to have a sex with someone, she needs a man she can trust

 

[eerieBell]

Long distance relationships are only good if both parties have a plan to permanently close the gap. Otherwise, you both end up wasting your time. Time is valuable so we each have to learn how to spend it wisely. Doing a long distance relationship knowing that neither party has a plan to join together at the same location is doomed for failure. Don't invest time into something that you both don't believe in.

I tried long distance before, it sucked. It was all ok tho while I thought she ain't gonna move to another state after graduating. But then after we ended it, she tells me:"wow I always thought this ain't gonna work anywayz" and I'm like "bytch why u ain't tell me this earlier, I coulda been nailing different bytches all these 7 months I been loyal all this time