Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Is all I'm gonna say


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I tried long distance before, it sucked. It was all ok tho while I thought she ain't gonna move to another state after graduating. But then after we ended it, she tells me:"wow I always thought this ain't gonna work anywayz" :francis: and I'm like:what: "bytch why u ain't tell me this earlier, I coulda been nailing different bytches all these 7 months:pacspit: I been loyal all this time :snoop:


i know some ldrs that worked some even like a 5 hour plane ride away, but there was a destination in mind, without discussing the end its just a fantasy
 

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i know some ldrs that worked some even like a 5 hour plane ride away, but there was a destination in mind, without discussing the end its just a fantasy

I say, if you can see yourself with that person in far future (no matter how far the distance), then go for it by all means, otherwise it's just a waste of time/life. It depends how often you visit/see each other as well, as I couldn't be with someone I see only once every three months, that sucks. I had one experience like that and I'm not willing to go for it again, I don't care if it's worth it in the end, I'm not taking the risk anymore.
 

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I say, if you can see yourself with that person in far future (no matter how far the distance), then go for it by all means, otherwise it's just a waste of time/life. It depends how often you visit/see each other as well, as I couldn't be with someone I see only once every three months, that sucks. I had one experience like that and I'm not willing to go for it again, I don't care if it's worth it in the end, I'm not taking the risk anymore.

yup I don't blame you its not for everyone, one of my friends met a guy in jamaica at a resort :heh:, and then she flew back for like a year every few months then they got married and she moved down there.

The person has to be worth it, it has to be a two way street and a ending of getting together.
 

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she just told me she needs at least 10 months of relationship in order to have a sex with someone, she needs a man she can trust :shaq2:


:francis:
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:deadrose:
:noah:
:stopitslime::sadbron::to::why::merchant::beli::what::sadcam:


the reason why its bushes to me , is i'm sure a gaggle of men have gotten in there prob even first night, but now you have to pay for her past poor choices.

and how is ten months a man she can trust?

guys will wait keep her on the backburner for ten months beat and leave, you have some dudes languishing in teh friend zone for years
 

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"I was always told what I needed to do to keep a woman, but I was never told what a woman needed to do to keep me"

:wow: some powerful stuff. Know your worth and what you deserve brehs.

As I get older I think of all the sacrifices I made, money spent, all the things I did, and then I tihnk about the women I were with what they did and majroity of the time NOTHING.

I remember having work then travelling like 2-3 hours on the bus/train/bus from scarborough to mississauga like 3 times weekly,for years. And I can count on one hand the amount of times my girl at the time made that journey

@RealAssanova @Asantehene @Biggums can attest how far that frickin journey is

We bring mostly everything, gotta plan, take the lead, spend money, sacrifice etc. etc. and many times lal these chicks do is just show up, just because they are pretty.

I remember talking to a chick who just works retail ft prob only makes like 25k a year etc. and talking about how she broke up with her bf because he was just a waitor.

I'm happy as I got older I expect more from women, I don't care how much a chick makes if shes humble big difference, but in many other areas. I ain't driving back and forth, ia int spending my money, i aint sacrificing and I ain't settling. Come correct or see ya
 

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Hey guys never be intimidated by a woman's profession.Women are thinking just because glass ceiling has been broke. Or whatever that they are men,it doesn't matter what you be proud of it (legally of course)
 

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So when they do reply back after a few weeks of ignoring them do you reply back or
 

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A lot of brothas gotta be careful of married women and flirtation.Any women that gives you a lot of praise be wary,especially if she doesn't know your core being.Cats think cause they hear compliments that it means something.You not the only brotha,she finds attractive,your her flavor of the week.Also social media and relationships.If your gf is constantly on it, be careful.Any woman you meet,you don't wanna see or know what they are doing on social media.Women who mention facebook a lot or instangram listen and store the information away,it could help you later.Listen to women,they can tell you a lot about their personality.
 

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the bottom line is that most women are simply unsatisfactory when it comes to having characteristics worthy of wifing up. Men need to call them out and demand more. The problem is men are convinced that they need to offer MORE value to women who are offering less value as time goes on. Oh, you got to work out more, get more money, have a better convo to get with this girl and yet she never has the notion that she needs to have a more pleasing attitude or bring anything to the table. Why? Because so many men are unbelievably weak and thirsty in this western society. Thirsty men are the cause of this nasty behavior from women because they reward a woman regardless of her being quality or not in her actions.
 

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This female i know is hella agreeable. Like everything(product) i say she likes it. I could just point to a candy bar on the edge of the shelf and shes like, "i like those, how about you?", im like":ld:sure i guess".
I actually hated that brand.

Asking questions about, how do you know who is the one.

She got a man though. And i tell her i aint about that creep life but shes never direct. But she finds ways to connect us within conflicts in her relationship.

What the fukk is her issue?
 
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