Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Ohene]

Lol even with the rejection its fun...its challenging

 

[Soundbwoy]

that's wrong my dude. listen, finding a hobby is fine and dandy. stepping up ones conversation game is paramount. however, to say this dude doesn't need someone else to make him happy is utter nonsense.

there's a reason God created Man and Woman. We need each other. Again, we NEED each other. To deny this is detrimental to your growth, regardless of how mature u think u are.

dude is hurting. he needs help with women. he feels and he yearns for a woman. let us at least help him get to a solid starting point so he can increase his chances of success, instead of tossing his feelings into the gutter and basically telling him to man up.

@Brandeezy

u need to take the right pictures on dating sites.
dress nice but not ostentatious.
if you have facial hair, try shaving it off. this could increase looks u get dramatically.
if u dont have facial hair, try growing it out. different looks works for different people.
on those dating sites, keep the number of pictures u have on there to no more than 2. trust me on that. NO MORE THAN 2.
if a chick likes u, when yall texting, she'll ask for u to text her a picture. in which case, u do just that. only send one more picture. if she's not happy with that. stop respondingto her.
and try (i know its hard) to be patient. dont push it.
and yes, do find a hobby. something to keep u busy. i dont care what it is (as long as its not stalking people's facebook or whatever).

I stand by what I said, what happens when he meets someone and he put all his energy into her just because he is happy to be with someone and she doesnt reciprocate his feeling hes left out in the cold ass out. By finding himself he will learn to value himself and respect himself as a man because he has shyt going on for himself, I been there too many times unfortunately

 

[MikelArteta]

I stand by what I said, what happens when he meets someone and he put all his energy into her just because he is happy to be with someone and she doesnt reciprocate his feeling hes left out in the cold ass out. By finding himself he will learn to value himself and respect himself as a man because he has shyt going on for himself, I been there too many times unfortunately

yeah like I said its dangerous, he gets a girl hes happy he finally did it, he gets dumped he'll be i a worst spot than he was before

 

[twan83]

bible or not u need to be happy alone first once u establish then u can proceed to try relationships cuz if u get hurt u get it and understand how it is being alone already and already know being alone is perfectly fine
so the hurt part will be a bytch for a bit but then u can bounce back to ur normal routine of just doing u by your damn self

 

[TRUEST]

I stand by what I said, what happens when he meets someone and he put all his energy into her just because he is happy to be with someone and she doesnt reciprocate his feeling hes left out in the cold ass out. By finding himself he will learn to value himself and respect himself as a man because he has shyt going on for himself, I been there too many times unfortunately

the reality is though, he's not gonna know how to handle that situation until he actually gets burned himself. very rarely (if ever) does a man become wise to the ways of women without having lived through personal experiences. yes, u can learn lessons from watching others go through it, but there aint never gon be no substitute for the real deal. based on how ol boy is talking, he seems to not have been able to get with a woman in ages. so, yeah, channelling those pent up urges into things unrelated to women is really a fools errand.

 

[Soundbwoy]

the reality is though, he's not gonna know how to handle that situation until he actually gets burned himself. very rarely (if ever) does a man become wise to the ways of women without having lived through personal experiences. yes, u can learn lessons from watching others go through it, but there aint never gon be no substitute for the real deal. based on how ol boy is talking, he seems to not have been able to get with a woman in ages. so, yeah, channelling those pent up urges into things unrelated to women is really a fools errand.

of course he will have to put himself out there and he will catch some Ls but it won't be as hard if he has things going on for him and video games and comic books ain't a dam hobby

 

[TRUEST]

of course he will have to put himself out there and he will catch some Ls but it won't be as hard if he has things going on for him and video games and comic books ain't a dam hobby

thats def not gonna work for anyone who's as pressed for women as he is. but to brandeezy, give it a shot and see if all these activities can get ur mind off women.

 

[Soundbwoy]

thats def not gonna work for anyone who's as pressed for women as he is. but to brandeezy, give it a shot and see if all these activities can get ur mind off women.

dude can sign up for dancing classes or boxing classes on groupon and meet a chick

 

[sfgiants]

I stand by what I said, what happens when he meets someone and he put all his energy into her just because he is happy to be with someone and she doesnt reciprocate his feeling hes left out in the cold ass out. By finding himself he will learn to value himself and respect himself as a man because he has shyt going on for himself, I been there too many times unfortunately

that sounds like something a virgin would do, not someone who has at least inserted himself into 1 woman before in his life
expectations is what fukks people up. brandeezy saying he's been on these sites for SIX years and still nothin? i think he needs professional help, not that pick up artist dog shyt where they tell you to dress like a homo and do all this extra shyt.. but those life coaches that help build yourself esteem and confidence to where if you get rejected you're like there's another bytch right there

 

[edzyy]

Man, this chick I was dealing with dropped the ultimate bomb on me. I feel embarrassed to post the story

 

[Fatboi1]

Legit tears brehs.

 

[MikelArteta]

What hap

Legit tears brehs.

 

[Nephilim_BC]

I said before I dont stick my pen in company ink but theres this chick at my job who has all the characteristics I like in a woman

tall

white

long black hair

semi thick ....

she puts her hair in this long pony tail and walks around with it hanging over her shoulder

looking like a real life Tifa from FF7

every time she walks by im just like

update on this.

my dude that works with her was all like "yo dude go talk to her. she likes drinking beer and is on tinder."

a girl that drinks beer. He even told me she hits up the spots I hit up....but ive never seen her

when he said Tinder tho I busted out laughing....but then I knew she'd be down to fukk

I must resist

 

[Fatboi1]

What hap

Nothing too serious.. I just felt talking to the Japanese chick because of logistics.... She felt conflicted about what she wanted to do. It had me feeling like .
She trying to work something together so she can get her study abroad done in the US near me instead of AUS. Her reason for not choosing US yet was she thought it was too dangerous. I told her it ain't all bad everywhere and shyt.

 

[twan83]

Nothing too serious.. I just felt talking to the Japanese chick because of logistics.... She felt conflicted about what she wanted to do. It had me feeling like .
She trying to work something together so she can get her study abroad done in the US near me instead of AUS. Her reason for not choosing US yet was she thought it was too dangerous. I told her it ain't all bad everywhere and shyt.

thats cuz the news and damn hearsay most japs i knew went to canada or australia tho for school
most i think went to usa for work if memory served me correct since americans dont take work as serious as japanese do which is true