Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[sfgiants]

online dating has been
i dont even consider it "online dating" because the moment one of these broads reply i'm meeting them within 2-3 days if my schedule permits. i'm not "getting to know them" for weeks before online chatting non stop
and for @Brandeezy worrying about response rate.. the worst thing u can do is go in with that mindset expecting all these girls to reply to you.
i've had zero replies for weeks, then i've had 5-6 girls all reply at once wanting to meet up, and then im like fukk cuz i dont have enough time, energy or desire to meet up with all these hos within days of each other
another thing you shouldn't do is expect anything once u do meet them.. thinking you're gona get deepthroated in the parking lot within 5 minutes
that's why u DON'T do dinner dates.. i grab a drink somewhere and walk and talk with them, if i'm vibing with them then we go on to do other things. otherwise if she's wack or actin weird i always have shyt to do and have to leave

i always say, approaching women in person or online is like baseball.. you're gona strike out more times than not, but you can't be scared to swing
one week you might go 0-10 then next week you're batting .300 and you're barry bonds. short memories >>>>>>

 

[MikelArteta]

all those matches means fukk all. How many of those matches did you actually meet? I know this is the coli and all but lets not pretend that black men are eating off dating sites, yes one or two can be eating off pof/tinder or w.e but in general black men aren't eating off dating sites. Dating sites requires hard work, does not matter how many messages/matches or w.e you are getting unless those leads are actually converting into you meeting the person. I too have gotten matches on tinder but the amount of matches who actually want to meet up are very few which is why i suggested that @Brandeezy should only use online dating as an extra avenue and not as his main source.

I had no intention of meeting I was doing an article on ok cupid.

And yes black men are eating, just because you may struggle or some artice you read about okcupid doesn't mean black men are in a drought.


last girl I smashed was a model I met of tinder no on my part. Online dating has always been easy as hell, all you have to do is word your profile decent have a few decent pics and thats it. As well I've never messaged a chick first on online dating you can cry but thats the case. I've probably in the past 5 years met like 50 girls when I dabbled with OLD off and on.


And your suggestion same thing I am, old should only be a outlet, ala you sign in like once a day.

But yes OLD is easy, because your cast a wider net, its very easy. I can say for a shy awkward nukka old has always fed me well when I used it, I'm just at the point now in my life where the girl I want won't be found on these sodom and gomorroh sites


this has been my go to description for years

Where to begin......... umm I sold the majority of my life to slaving in school and now I work in *edited for privacy reasons*. Ahem ahem I've always been told that I'm concise, monosyllabic with dry sarcastic humor, living life marinating on the good and detoxifying from the bad. I'm never in the same place for too long as I'd rather mingle here and there than to be strapped down and live a life of stagnicity.

And it goes on.....I love to travel currently at above 20 countries and rising, write, and oh yeah I dabble in photography (snap snap) - see flickr

Wrapping up this drivel I suppose if you like what you see or my ramble caught your eye, don't be scared to say Hi!

a few photos of me and the well has never run dry

 

[MikelArteta]

online dating has been
i dont even consider it "online dating" because the moment one of these broads reply i'm meeting them within 2-3 days if my schedule permits. i'm not "getting to know them" for weeks before online chatting non stop
and for @Brandeezy worrying about response rate.. the worst thing u can do is go in with that mindset expecting all these girls to reply to you.
i've had zero replies for weeks, then i've had 5-6 girls all reply at once wanting to meet up, and then im like fukk cuz i dont have enough time, energy or desire to meet up with all these hos within days of each other
another thing you shouldn't do is expect anything once u do meet them.. thinking you're gona get deepthroated in the parking lot within 5 minutes
that's why u DON'T do dinner dates.. i grab a drink somewhere and walk and talk with them, if i'm vibing with them then we go on to do other things. otherwise if she's wack or actin weird i always have shyt to do and have to leave

i always say, approaching women in person or online is like baseball.. you're gona strike out more times than not, but you can't be scared to swing
one week you might go 0-10 then next week you're batting .300 and you're barry bonds. short memories >>>>>>

but but your black old doesn't work for black men.........

 

[TRUEST]

So how is online dating suppose to work then with no replies? Just sit there and wait like i've been doing. and look a pics all day. I don't understand your point

well let me understand your point.

u wont do online dating.
meeting women in person is obviously not happening for u

how exactly are u giving ur self a chance??

 

[Pyrexcup]

I had no intention of meeting I was doing an article on ok cupid.

And yes black men are eating, just because you may struggle or some artice you read about okcupid doesn't mean black men are in a drought.


last girl I smashed was a model I met of tinder no on my part. Online dating has always been easy as hell, all you have to do is word your profile decent have a few decent pics and thats it. As well I've never messaged a chick first on online dating you can cry but thats the case. I've probably in the past 5 years met like 50 girls when I dabbled with OLD off and on.


And your suggestion same thing I am, old should only be a outlet, ala you sign in like once a day.

But yes OLD is easy, because your cast a wider net, its very easy. I can say for a shy awkward nukka old has always fed me well when I used it, I'm just at the point now in my life where the girl I want won't be found on these sodom and gomorroh sites


this has been my go to description for years



a few photos of me and the well has never run dry

Lol and there you have it folks

 

[Brandeezy]

well let me understand your point.

u wont do online dating.
meeting women in person is obviously not happening for u

how exactly are u giving ur self a chance??

No i've done OLD for 6 years, meaning i've had my profile for that long on both websites. I haven't met anyone in all those years on the site so what's the point?

 

[MikelArteta]

Lol and there you have it folks

um no, sad whatever race you are, you have to try and sell black men as some pathetic creatures, or if your black because you struggle

Online dating is easy as hell, not saying these will be women you'll walk down the aisle with or bring to mom, but to get a date or meet up its simple

 

[Brandeezy]

um no, sad whatever race you are, you have to try and sell black men as some pathetic creatures, or if your black because you struggle

Online dating is easy as hell, not saying these will be women you'll walk down the aisle with or bring to mom, but to get a date or meet up its simple

Sure it is

 

[MikelArteta]

Sure it is

whats harder going up to a chick and thinking of what to say readin her mannerisms etc.
or just lying in bed swiping right, or just sending off a message

 

[twan83]

all those matches means fukk all. How many of those matches did you actually meet? I know this is the coli and all but lets not pretend that black men are eating off dating sites, yes one or two can be eating off pof/tinder or w.e but in general black men aren't eating off dating sites. Dating sites requires hard work, does not matter how many messages/matches or w.e you are getting unless those leads are actually converting into you meeting the person. I too have gotten matches on tinder but the amount of matches who actually want to meet up are very few which is why i suggested that @Brandeezy should only use online dating as an extra avenue and not as his main source.

Ate good off match.com
Plenty of fish
Okcupid
MySpace
Eharmony
Black planet
Migente
Yahoo chat room
Aol chat room
Asian avenue
Etc.....

I have more success in person also
So it's subjective

 

[sfgiants]

No i've done OLD for 6 years, meaning i've had my profile for that long on both websites. I haven't met anyone in all those years on the site so what's the point?

 

[Brandeezy]

whats harder going up to a chick and thinking of what to say readin her mannerisms etc.
or just lying in bed swiping right, or just sending off a message

Waiting for a response and not getting one

 

[Redguard]

Tinder is trash for me. In my area I only see white women and I rarely see any black women or hispanic women.

 

[Ohene]

whats harder going up to a chick and thinking of what to say readin her mannerisms etc.
or just lying in bed swiping right, or just sending off a message

The former...funner too

 

[MikelArteta]

The former...funner too