Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Action Mike]

ala heaven

but always remember 1 month in is still the honeymoon period, chicks will be all into you one day, willing to give up a kidney and all that, and the next day you don't hear from them for a month.

Nah but he aint even met up with her, 1 month on a dating site and no meet?

Bruh

 

[MikelArteta]

I didn't see that in his post

Nah but he aint even met up with her, 1 month on a dating site and no meet?

Bruh

 

[Brandeezy]

I'm taking too many L's

Found out this chick who worked next door at Subway is married and has kids. I thought she liked me because it seemed like she was flirting with me every time I was over there. Turns out she flirts with almost everybody because she's bored at work and it makes the day go by faster

I deleted OKC & POF because I got no views or no one responded to my messages, I was paying for OKC too The only broad I was interested in curved me 2 or 3 months ago when a coworker told me that she needed a BF on her SnapChat or IG. My coworker took a pic of me without my knowledge and sent it to her with the caption "What about him?" and she said "Ummmmm no, he's too quiet" and that was that.

I want to find a GF or at least a friend by the time i'm 26 at the end of the year but shyt is difficult though for someone like me

 

[Soundbwoy]

I'm taking too many L's

Found out this chick who worked next door at Subway is married and has kids. I thought she liked me because it seemed like she was flirting with me every time I was over there. Turns out she flirts with almost everybody because she's bored at work and it makes the day go by faster

I deleted OKC & POF because I got no views or no one responded to my messages, I was paying for OKC too The only broad I was interested in curved me 2 or 3 months ago when a coworker told me that she needed a BF on her SnapChat or IG. My coworker took a pic of me without my knowledge and sent it to her with the caption "What about him?" and she said "Ummmmm no, he's too quiet" and that was that.

I want to find a GF or at least a friend by the time i'm 26 at the end of the year but shyt is difficult though for someone like me

you don't need someone else to make you happy, find yourself a hobby,try to step your conversation game up

 

[TRUEST]

you don't need someone else to make you happy, find yourself a hobby,try to step your conversation game up

that's wrong my dude. listen, finding a hobby is fine and dandy. stepping up ones conversation game is paramount. however, to say this dude doesn't need someone else to make him happy is utter nonsense.

there's a reason God created Man and Woman. We need each other. Again, we NEED each other. To deny this is detrimental to your growth, regardless of how mature u think u are.

dude is hurting. he needs help with women. he feels and he yearns for a woman. let us at least help him get to a solid starting point so he can increase his chances of success, instead of tossing his feelings into the gutter and basically telling him to man up.

@Brandeezy

u need to take the right pictures on dating sites.
dress nice but not ostentatious.
if you have facial hair, try shaving it off. this could increase looks u get dramatically.
if u dont have facial hair, try growing it out. different looks works for different people.
on those dating sites, keep the number of pictures u have on there to no more than 2. trust me on that. NO MORE THAN 2.
if a chick likes u, when yall texting, she'll ask for u to text her a picture. in which case, u do just that. only send one more picture. if she's not happy with that. stop respondingto her.
and try (i know its hard) to be patient. dont push it.
and yes, do find a hobby. something to keep u busy. i dont care what it is (as long as its not stalking people's facebook or whatever).

 

[reserved_one]

ala heaven

but always remember 1 month in is still the honeymoon period, chicks will be all into you one day, willing to give up a kidney and all that, and the next day you don't hear from them for a month.

I'll keep that in mind breh....So far things have gone smooth but I don't wanna assume that this feeling will last forever. Thats how I fukked myself up in the past. I had a habit of falling for the chick to quick because everything was good at the start. Now, I'm much more cautious and aware

 

[MikelArteta]

Change your mindset, your in a dangerous territory, ala needing a woman to validate you, or make you happy.

Even If you get a gf you'll be to scared to lose her and if you do you'll be in quick sand of despair.you'll be thinking why would she want me?

I'm taking too many L's

Found out this chick who worked next door at Subway is married and has kids. I thought she liked me because it seemed like she was flirting with me every time I was over there. Turns out she flirts with almost everybody because she's bored at work and it makes the day go by faster

I deleted OKC & POF because I got no views or no one responded to my messages, I was paying for OKC too The only broad I was interested in curved me 2 or 3 months ago when a coworker told me that she needed a BF on her SnapChat or IG. My coworker took a pic of me without my knowledge and sent it to her with the caption "What about him?" and she said "Ummmmm no, he's too quiet" and that was that.

I want to find a GF or at least a friend by the time i'm 26 at the end of the year but shyt is difficult though for someone like me

 

[Brandeezy]

that's wrong my dude. listen, finding a hobby is fine and dandy. stepping up ones conversation game is paramount. however, to say this dude doesn't need someone else to make him happy is utter nonsense.

there's a reason God created Man and Woman. We need each other. Again, we NEED each other. To deny this is detrimental to your growth, regardless of how mature u think u are.

dude is hurting. he needs help with women. he feels and he yearns for a woman. let us at least help him get to a solid starting point so he can increase his chances of success, instead of tossing his feelings into the gutter and basically telling him to man up.

@Brandeezy

u need to take the right pictures on dating sites.
dress nice but not ostentatious.
if you have facial hair, try shaving it off. this could increase looks u get dramatically.
if u dont have facial hair, try growing it out. different looks works for different people.
on those dating sites, keep the number of pictures u have on there to no more than 2. trust me on that. NO MORE THAN 2.
if a chick likes u, when yall texting, she'll ask for u to text her a picture. in which case, u do just that. only send one more picture. if she's not happy with that. stop respondingto her.
and try (i know its hard) to be patient. dont push it.
and yes, do find a hobby. something to keep u busy. i dont care what it is (as long as its not stalking people's facebook or whatever).

Thanks breh but i think i'm done with dating sites. I've been off and on different sites for about 6 years now and nothing has come from it. I don't think I have the looks or height to compete online with everyone else so I think i'm better off. Problem is that I don't know where to go from there, I barely have any experience with women. 1st date i went on was a pity date that one of my older coworkers set up and during the date she told me i needed to find some friends. She stopped talking to me after that. 2nd one was this girl off Tinder who lived near my job so I met her at an ice cream shop after work. We talked for like 30 mins then she stopped replying to me the next day after the date was over. Apparently i'm not better than a dude in jail in Arizona because that's who she is seeing now. She flies there once of month to see him according to her FB and this was happened 2 years ago. Only hobbies I have are video games, listening to music and reading comics, which is something I just got into.

 

[reserved_one]

Than you in the perfect position breh. You seem like you got it all under control.

Yeah so far lol....But I'll keep yall updated of how things are going.

Women flip flop like the weather,just got to enjoy what you got for now.As for weight issues,gotta remember women are sensitive about that.You wanna be encouraging,cause she could drop you,drop that weight and have a new cat the next day.

Word...I hear you breh. I didn't even bring her weight issues up, she openly talked about it so I just told her she has my support. But for right now she seems focused on me and is turning other dudes down. Lets see how long it lasts

 

[MikelArteta]

Novelty is a powerful thing especially for women.

I'll keep that in mind breh....So far things have gone smooth but I don't wanna assume that this feeling will last forever. Thats how I fukked myself up in the past. I had a habit of falling for the chick to quick because everything was good at the start. Now, I'm much more cautious and aware

 

[MikelArteta]

I don't mess with dating sites but they should just be a piece of the puzzle, not the whole puzzle keep a profile up, word it good and voila.

I was on okcupid a few weeks ago jdt for s article I'm working on, I had 100 quick matches likes and like 40 msgs in two days. I just posted a pic of me in a suit.

Stop comparing yourself to others as well, if a woman liked jailbird trash its not your problem


I only like woman that like Me

I'm only interested in woman that are interested in me on the same level or above

Living by these quotes save me so much time and stress

Thanks breh but i think i'm done with dating sites. I've been off and on different sites for about 6 years now and nothing has come from it. I don't think I have the looks or height to compete online with everyone else so I think i'm better off. Problem is that I don't know where to go from there, I barely have any experience with women. 1st date i went on was a pity date that one of my older coworkers set up and during the date she told me i needed to find some friends. She stopped talking to me after that. 2nd one was this girl off Tinder who lived near my job so I met her at an ice cream shop after work. We talked for like 30 mins then she stopped replying to me the next day after the date was over. Apparently i'm not better than a dude in jail in Arizona because that's who she is seeing now. She flies there once of month to see him according to her FB and this was happened 2 years ago. Only hobbies I have are video games, listening to music and reading comics, which is something I just got into.

 

[Brandeezy]

Change your mindset, your in a dangerous territory, ala needing a woman to validate you, or make you happy.

Even If you get a gf you'll be to scared to lose her and if you do you'll be in quick sand of despair.you'll be thinking why would she want me?

I don't need one to make me happy, it's just frustrating that I can't experience what other normal guys can. I mean i'm half way to 30 and I haven't even had friend who was a female

I don't mess with dating sites but they should just be a piece of the puzzle, not the whole puzzle keep a profile up, word it good and voila.

I was on okcupid a few weeks ago jdt for s article I'm working on, I had 100 quick matches likes and like 40 msgs in two days. I just posted a pic of me in a suit.

Stop comparing yourself to others as well, if a woman liked jailbird trash its not your problem


I only like woman that like Me

I'm only interested in woman that are interested in me on the same level or above

Living by these quotes save me so much time and stress

Yeah but no women are interested in me so that doesn't work for me. That's cool that you get all that attention online but like I said that's not me and will never be

 

[Nephilim_BC]

Thanks breh but i think i'm done with dating sites. I've been off and on different sites for about 6 years now and nothing has come from it. I don't think I have the looks or height to compete online with everyone else so I think i'm better off. Problem is that I don't know where to go from there, I barely have any experience with women. 1st date i went on was a pity date that one of my older coworkers set up and during the date she told me i needed to find some friends. She stopped talking to me after that. 2nd one was this girl off Tinder who lived near my job so I met her at an ice cream shop after work. We talked for like 30 mins then she stopped replying to me the next day after the date was over. Apparently i'm not better than a dude in jail in Arizona because that's who she is seeing now. She flies there once of month to see him according to her FB and this was happened 2 years ago. Only hobbies I have are video games, listening to music and reading comics, which is something I just got into.

Me and you have the same hobbies. I don't want to sound like an ass but maybe its your looks. And if that's the case you need to lower your standards.

 

[MikelArteta]

Travel, live life and allow things to happen naturally

I don't need one to make me happy, it's just frustrating that I can't experience what other normal guys can. I mean i'm half way to 30 and I haven't even had friend who was a female



Yeah but no women are interested in me so that doesn't work for me. That's cool that you get all that attention online but like I said that's not me and will never be

 

[Brandeezy]

Me and you have the same hobbies. I don't want to sound like an ass but maybe its your looks. And if that's the case you need to lower your standards.

You're probably right and I don't even think i'm aiming high. If you saw the two women i went on dates with then you would see. I'll say that one was a 6 and the other a 5.5