Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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The conundrum

I do not want to be stuck in a horrible marriage

Its normal to be conflicted between wanting to be a "family man" or staying single.Its equivalent to to investing in a stock.Starting a family is a lot of risk,but what is the payoff at being tied down at barely 30.
 

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The conundrum

I do not want to be stuck in a horrible marriage
me either.Marriage is most important decision you can ever make,most people make it thinking/wanting it to be their first and last.Like Kevm says average woman has high #s.This is like wanting to be the 25th pick of her draft :russ:
 

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The funny thing I was being trained today and the person who trained me asked how old I am, then your such a nice guy why aren't you married yet I just laughed
 

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Do not take any women that you havent fukked out to dinner. Suggest meeting at a park or coffee shop. I dont go on dates anymore. if a woman isnt down to come to my condo I delete her number. :yeshrug:

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No beef breh but in that tranny thread you said you took "her" on a date and didn't know it was a he.
If you don't take em on a date before fukkin, then that means you took "her" on a date first. Otherwise, you woulda known it was a he when u fukked.

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No beef breh but in that tranny thread you said you took "her" on a date and didn't know it was a he.
If you don't take em on a date before fukkin, then that means you took "her" on a date first. Otherwise, you woulda known it was a he when u fukked.

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That happened over a year ago. I no longer go on dates and I did not know she was a he.
 

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me either.Marriage is most important decision you can ever make,most people make it thinking/wanting it to be their first and last.Like Kevm says average woman has high #s.This is like wanting to be the 25th pick of her draft :russ:

the thing about marriage is this, im sure every man here would love a loyal faithful wife that loves him, a kid or two, building together, going through the up and downs of life together. Going out together, coming home to a cooked meal, lying in bed talking about your day, but that ain't what's it going to be with the majority of women out there today, and that's why you have to scout be picky, not rush in and wait and wait and wait until your 110% sure.
 

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the thing about marriage is this, im sure every man here would love a loyal faithful wife that loves him, a kid or two, building together, going through the up and downs of life together. Going out together, coming home to a cooked meal, lying in bed talking about your day, but that ain't what's it going to be with the majority of women out there today, and that's why you have to scout be picky, not rush in and wait and wait and wait until your 110% sure.
Cats ain't following that game plan.They see a pretty woman and automatically assume she wifey just off looks.This is why dudes taking L's in courts with these women.
 
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The funny thing I was being trained today and the person who trained me asked how old I am, then your such a nice guy why aren't you married yet I just laughed


This happend to me last month ...it was an older couple that said " you seem like a nice guy are you married"
ME: NO
The couple: why not ?
Me: Its difficult out there its not easy
the husband : you could be a spinster

everyone laughts !!
 
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This happend to me last month ...it was an older couple that said " you seem like a nice guy are you married"
ME: NO
The couple: why not ?
Me: Its difficult out there its not easy
the: you could be a spinster

everyone laughts !!

being a nice respectful guy will get you railroaded with many women of today. I'm nice but I'm also smart, I can be nice as hell to you, but walk away tomorrow and not look back if needs be
 

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This happend to me last month ...it was an older couple that said " you seem like a nice guy are you married"
ME: NO
The couple: why not ?
Me: Its difficult out there its not easy
the husband : you could be a spinster

everyone laughts !!

Everything in this world is the mans fault. You get married to a bad seed, divorce = he probably was a horrible husband who didnt treat her right. You dont get married and are cautious and intelligent about making that decision = you are a spinster.

:what::snoop:

I've had the exact same conversation with other people in my life as well. It's a new world and older people especially arent quite figuring out why it is us younger men are seeing through the facade of modern day women. No hate towards women (because I love 'em) but to get married... thats a one time thing for me.
 

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People dont realize what's out there for the most part.



Everything in this world is the mans fault. You get married to a bad seed, divorce = he probably was a horrible husband who didnt treat her right. You dont get married and are cautious and intelligent about making that decision = you are a spinster.

:what::snoop:

I've had the exact same conversation with other people in my life as well. It's a new world and older people especially arent quite figuring out why it is us younger men are seeing through the facade of modern day women. No hate towards women (because I love 'em) but to get married... thats a one time thing for me.
 

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So this 22 year old girl who's been apparently watching me all week as she works across the street from my building approached me and basically was Tryna get me to ask her out. I chopped it up with her for a few min just to see what she's about, and basically she has no idea what she wants to do with her life, she wants to be an actress or a rapper, she didn't finish school, and she comes from a crazy family situation, but she's fly tho physically. Back in the day I would of still added her to the roster just to have something, but she's not worth the obvious headache she would bring, and I'm too old to be dealing with women who have no direction in life. Again, physically she beats out the woman I'm currently dealing with, but outside of that, my main blows her out in every category. I'm not about to fukk around and do something stupid.
 

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That wisdom you acquire as you age


So this 22 year old girl who's been apparently watching me all week as she works across the street from my building approached me and basically was Tryna get me to ask her out. I chopped it up with her for a few min just to see what she's about, and basically she has no idea what she wants to do with her life, she wants to be an actress or a rapper, she didn't finish school, and she comes from a crazy family situation, but she's fly tho physically. Back in the day I would of still added her to the roster just to have something, but she's not worth the obvious headache she would bring, and I'm too old to be dealing with women who have no direction in life. Again, physically she beats out the woman I'm currently dealing with, but outside of that, my main blows her out in every category. I'm not about to fukk around and do something stupid.
 
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