Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[alybaba]

In sunny Madrid, spent the day eating tapas, drinking beer and watching beautiful Madrilenas - can't complain.

Turned 31 this year.

 

[Gus Money]

take the job people come and go noone is irreplaceable. You will regret not taking the job in the future

I would take the job, regardless of the current stability in the relationship. You have to do what's best for you. If she doesn't like long distance, so be it. In my opinion you shouldn't ever let a woman who isn't your wife influence decisions you make for your livelihood.

I don't mean to be harsh but I'll say something but few women out there will rarely sacrifice for you.

The sad thing say you don't take this job in another city, if in a few months she would get a job offer in another city, or apply for school in another state or something I guarantee she would be gone. The sad thing is you stay then she breaks up with you, and you'll be like but but I sacrificed staying for you, women don't care what you sacrifice for them. To me if she is the RIGHT woman for you, she will encourage you to do what's best for you. Tom Leykis says that before you get serious in relationships make sure you accomplish your dreams, as well that women are dream killers.

To me I would end the relationship and go, women come and go. And I live by the adage if someone is meant to be in your life they will be.


I wouldn't care if the relationship was on rocky ground or stable and fulfilling, if your not married, engaged or have kids, you have to do what's best for you and to better your life. If she really loves you and down for you, she'd be looking to join you up there on some matt saracen julie from friday night lights type tip.

Take the job. Every time I made some sacrifice for a woman, it ended up not playing too well. I know that more times than not, a woman is going to jet if she had a better opportunity. If she was really about you, she'd accept you leaving and would even consider going with you.

The fact you are debating it (on a forum) means take the job.

I appreciate the straight-talk, brehs. She is in school down here so she wouldn't be able to come with me until she graduates in 2 years. I'm going to discuss it with her tomorrow but I doubt she will handle it well. Logically, I know that taking the job (if I get it) is the right decision but I can't shake that guilt.

 

[kevm3]

The older I get, the less I think about "dealing with women" and I just try to be genuine in my thoughts, feelings and actions. Works pretty decently for me.

Welcome back.

That's the conclusion most men here have been coming to. No need to play games or do anything fancy. Either she's down for you or not. If she's not, let someone who is really about it get in that place.

 

[Spin]

I have listened to Alan Roger Currie as of late and he makes some good points about cutting to the chase with women. He is much more bolder in his approach by basically telling women directly on first encounter that he wants to have sex with them. This will cause the girl to either accept, reject, pretend, but not waste time. The accept and reject crowd are simple because either you will be smashing or she will just blow you off.

The bulk of the crowd fall in the pretender or time waster category. The pretender will act like she is offended by your bold advance but will just be giving you a shyt test based on her social programming. Many guys will get defeated when this happens because of potential insults thrown their way. However, if you're calm and confident you can break down her BS barrier. Some of his best advice is to never get loud with a woman when she is throwing an emotional fit. You bring the power back to yourself by staying calm. The best thing about his approach is that is cuts out the time wasters that will drain your pocket book and play with you emotionally. That simply won't happen by being bold upfront about your intentions.

I realize many men won't have the courage to simply tell a girl he wants to fukk. To set the record straight, he doesn't just saw it flat out of the gate. He usually warms them up and will start whispering in their ear. His recommendation for a similar tactic that isn't as polarizing is saying something along the lines of "I have no desire of maintaining a platonic relationship with you going forward".

He has a podcast and some old videos on YouTube such as this:

 

[MikelArteta]

I appreciate the straight-talk, brehs. She is in school down here so she wouldn't be able to come with me until she graduates in 2 years. I'm going to discuss it with her tomorrow but I doubt she will handle it well. Logically, I know that taking the job (if I get it) is the right decision but I can't shake that guilt.

If it's meant to be then in 2 years you guys can pick back up if she's single

time flies, hell the coli is 3 years old and just feels like yesterday it started.

I've fallen off the face of the earth and a few years later got back with a chick even though it didn't last because we were diff people. Or you can look at it this way, she may meet someone better for her and you may meet someone better for you.

 

[semtex]

Sittin around thinkin about chicks I could have fukked in college but blew the opportunity

 

[kevm3]

Sittin around thinkin about chicks I could have fukked in college but blew the opportunity

You didn't miss out on anything. What would you have had now? Some memories? Possibly an std or a baby from a woman you couldn't stand?

 

[semtex]

You didn't miss out on anything. What would you have had now? Some memories? Possibly an std or a baby from a woman you couldn't stand?

well it's more along the lines of wishing I had stepped out of my comfort zone more. I put it off and put it off and next thing I knew it was time to graduate.

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

The last few months have been crazy. I need to update the brehs.

I think I met my match. Just when you think you've seen it all...
Made the mistake and hopped on this emotional roller coaster with a crazy bish.

Never thought I could get caught up like that.

Prepare for a long post... but I gotta finish my assignments for class and collect my thoughts in my journal first.

 

[MikelArteta]

Made the mistake and hopped on this emotional roller coaster with a crazy bish

:prince:

 

[Jesus]

Be a young handsome nikka, but if you have no confidence to back it up it don't mean shyt.

 

[Lo-Co]

i can talk to women. the approach in public is the hardest part.

 

[AITheAnswerAI]

Sittin around thinkin about chicks I could have fukked in college but blew the opportunity

Maaan don't even get me started on this shyt

It was so much easier then too. Now you gotta go out to places and waste your time and money

 

[TRUEST]

I appreciate the straight-talk, brehs. She is in school down here so she wouldn't be able to come with me until she graduates in 2 years. I'm going to discuss it with her tomorrow but I doubt she will handle it well. Logically, I know that taking the job (if I get it) is the right decision but I can't shake that guilt.

When I moved from one coast to another coast, the girl I was with at the time bought her own ticket to fly out with me for the final interview. She was crying hysterically when I got back to our hotel n told her I got the job. She was worried that would end our relationship.

If ur girl isn't distraught about u moving and doesn't make suggestion that will help facilitate u two being together, let it go. Sounds like you may be more into her than she is into u

 

[MikelArteta]

What happened next?
You guys broke up?

When I moved from one coast to another coast, the girl I was with at the time bought her own ticket to fly out with me for the final interview. She was crying hysterically when I got back to our hotel n told her I got the job. She was worried that would end our relationship.

If ur girl isn't distraught about u moving and doesn't make suggestion that will help facilitate u two being together, let it go. Sounds like you may be more into her than she is into u