Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[TRUEST]

What happened next?
You guys broke up?

i had to break up with her, my dude. it wasn't the distance either. she was more than willing to fly out as often as i wanted her to. i actually care for this woman. but i had to break it off because she's about 12 years older than me. and i didn't see myself having kids with her. she did everything right.

when i got to the other coast, i realized she was falling deeper and deeper in love with me and i had to break things off because i'm not a one woman guy. and i'd hate to have this woman fly out here to be with me and then have me do her dirty. she flew out 4 times. spent 6 hours one way each time. i had to have that difficult talk with her. and it obviously devastated her. and i was devastated too so i told her we can remain friends and talk a lot and even sleep together if we see each other. but i made it clear nothing can and will ever happ
en. she resigned herself to being ok with it. she says shes ok but i know shes not. so i make it a point to never bring up anything about my dating life to her. it will wreck her to find out.


when a chick likes u, she'll watch out for your pocket. for example, i like to go out to eat and i would take her out all the time. and she would tell me "babe dont u think we eat out a lot". and the fact that she said that made me like her even more. i told her, babe, i like taking care of you. i dont need a lot of things to be happy. just dining, watching movies and traveling is good enough for me. and i like doing all these things with u. she tried cooking for me many times and the first couple of times i was very crass and i told her i didnt like her food and when i said that, i can see her face starting to swell up. she was about to start crying. and when i saw that, again, i had to check myself and tell her in a calm and very friendly tone exactly what i liked. and she retried and made the food the way i liked and it was great.

i mean, there are some women out there who want nothing more than to please their man. and she showed me these women exist. sadly, with her, the age difference isn't something i can get past. had it not been that, i'd be married right now folks.

 

[MikelArteta]

That's a good woman but yeah the age thing.

But damn that's a good woman

i had to break up with her, my dude. it wasn't the distance either. she was more than willing to fly out as often as i wanted her to. i actually care for this woman. but i had to break it off because she's about 12 years older than me. and i didn't see myself having kids with her. she did everything right.

when i got to the other coast, i realized she was falling deeper and deeper in love with me and i had to break things off because i'm not a one woman guy. and i'd hate to have this woman fly out here to be with me and then have me do her dirty. she flew out 4 times. spent 6 hours one way each time. i had to have that difficult talk with her. and it obviously devastated her. and i was devastated too so i told her we can remain friends and talk a lot and even sleep together if we see each other. but i made it clear nothing can and will ever happ
en. she resigned herself to being ok with it. she says shes ok but i know shes not. so i make it a point to never bring up anything about my dating life to her. it will wreck her to find out.


when a chick likes u, she'll watch out for your pocket. for example, i like to go out to eat and i would take her out all the time. and she would tell me "babe dont u think we eat out a lot". and the fact that she said that made me like her even more. i told her, babe, i like taking care of you. i dont need a lot of things to be happy. just dining, watching movies and traveling is good enough for me. and i like doing all these things with u. she tried cooking for me many times and the first couple of times i was very crass and i told her i didnt like her food and when i said that, i can see her face starting to swell up. she was about to start crying. and when i saw that, again, i had to check myself and tell her in a calm and very friendly tone exactly what i liked. and she retried and made the food the way i liked and it was great.

i mean, there are some women out there who want nothing more than to please their man. and she showed me these women exist. sadly, with her, the age difference isn't something i can get past. had it not been that, i'd be married right now folks.

 

[FukyourFort]

i can talk to women. the approach in public is the hardest part.

i feel you. I only have an issue if the female is in a group. if im drinking or high as hell im good going up dolo though

"what up"

 

[FukyourFort]

i had to break up with her, my dude. it wasn't the distance either. she was more than willing to fly out as often as i wanted her to. i actually care for this woman. but i had to break it off because she's about 12 years older than me. and i didn't see myself having kids with her. she did everything right.

when i got to the other coast, i realized she was falling deeper and deeper in love with me and i had to break things off because i'm not a one woman guy. and i'd hate to have this woman fly out here to be with me and then have me do her dirty. she flew out 4 times. spent 6 hours one way each time. i had to have that difficult talk with her. and it obviously devastated her. and i was devastated too so i told her we can remain friends and talk a lot and even sleep together if we see each other. but i made it clear nothing can and will ever happ
en. she resigned herself to being ok with it. she says shes ok but i know shes not. so i make it a point to never bring up anything about my dating life to her. it will wreck her to find out.


when a chick likes u, she'll watch out for your pocket. for example, i like to go out to eat and i would take her out all the time. and she would tell me "babe dont u think we eat out a lot". and the fact that she said that made me like her even more. i told her, babe, i like taking care of you. i dont need a lot of things to be happy. just dining, watching movies and traveling is good enough for me. and i like doing all these things with u. she tried cooking for me many times and the first couple of times i was very crass and i told her i didnt like her food and when i said that, i can see her face starting to swell up. she was about to start crying. and when i saw that, again, i had to check myself and tell her in a calm and very friendly tone exactly what i liked. and she retried and made the food the way i liked and it was great.

i mean, there are some women out there who want nothing more than to please their man. and she showed me these women exist. sadly, with her, the age difference isn't something i can get past. had it not been that, i'd be married right now folks.

 

[twan83]

i had to break up with her, my dude. it wasn't the distance either. she was more than willing to fly out as often as i wanted her to. i actually care for this woman. but i had to break it off because she's about 12 years older than me. and i didn't see myself having kids with her. she did everything right.

when i got to the other coast, i realized she was falling deeper and deeper in love with me and i had to break things off because i'm not a one woman guy. and i'd hate to have this woman fly out here to be with me and then have me do her dirty. she flew out 4 times. spent 6 hours one way each time. i had to have that difficult talk with her. and it obviously devastated her. and i was devastated too so i told her we can remain friends and talk a lot and even sleep together if we see each other. but i made it clear nothing can and will ever happ
en. she resigned herself to being ok with it. she says shes ok but i know shes not. so i make it a point to never bring up anything about my dating life to her. it will wreck her to find out.


when a chick likes u, she'll watch out for your pocket. for example, i like to go out to eat and i would take her out all the time. and she would tell me "babe dont u think we eat out a lot". and the fact that she said that made me like her even more. i told her, babe, i like taking care of you. i dont need a lot of things to be happy. just dining, watching movies and traveling is good enough for me. and i like doing all these things with u. she tried cooking for me many times and the first couple of times i was very crass and i told her i didnt like her food and when i said that, i can see her face starting to swell up. she was about to start crying. and when i saw that, again, i had to check myself and tell her in a calm and very friendly tone exactly what i liked. and she retried and made the food the way i liked and it was great.

i mean, there are some women out there who want nothing more than to please their man. and she showed me these women exist. sadly, with her, the age difference isn't something i can get past. had it not been that, i'd be married right now folks.

breh breh

the hardest thing to do is the right thing to do and u did the right thing right there breh
i was in similar situation years ago kinda like u
she had it all even money talking bout millionaire no lie
the problem was i was just too young in my mind to stay faithful to her even tho we were together. i wanted to be with her wanted to wife i knew i wanted too but the other part of me belong to the game i wanted to have fun and enjoy more women and when i realized that and i knew if i stayed with her i would cheat i talked to her and we broke up
it hurt her so bad that one of her female friends told me she relocated to a diff city
i felt so bad and hurt but knew deep down it was the right thing to do and it was cuz after i got my shyt and emotions in check after break up i was wildin out and having fun with no regrets and no ties to any females

 

[kevm3]

You always will come across that one that makes you realize what a woman should be and puts you in a zone where you don't settle for less. It's sad when there's one issue that makes you cut it off.

 

[MikelArteta]

And here all I wanted was one :to,:

breh breh

the hardest thing to do is the right thing to do and u did the right thing right there breh
i was in similar situation years ago kinda like u
she had it all even money talking bout millionaire no lie
the problem was i was just too young in my mind to stay faithful to her even tho we were together. i wanted to be with her wanted to wife i knew i wanted too but the other part of me belong to the game i wanted to have fun and enjoy more women and when i realized that and i knew if i stayed with her i would cheat i talked to her and we broke up
it hurt her so bad that one of her female friends told me she relocated to a diff city
i felt so bad and hurt but knew deep down it was the right thing to do and it was cuz after i got my shyt and emotions in check after break up i was wildin out and having fun with no regrets and no ties to any females

 

[TRUEST]

breh breh

the hardest thing to do is the right thing to do and u did the right thing right there breh
i was in similar situation years ago kinda like u
she had it all even money talking bout millionaire no lie
the problem was i was just too young in my mind to stay faithful to her even tho we were together. i wanted to be with her wanted to wife i knew i wanted too but the other part of me belong to the game i wanted to have fun and enjoy more women and when i realized that and i knew if i stayed with her i would cheat i talked to her and we broke up
it hurt her so bad that one of her female friends told me she relocated to a diff city
i felt so bad and hurt but knew deep down it was the right thing to do and it was cuz after i got my shyt and emotions in check after break up i was wildin out and having fun with no regrets and no ties to any females

its sad even telling the story. and when i met this chick, i posted about it in this thread. this was about 2 years ago. but it is what it is man. sh1t like this makes me wanna just stay way from relationships. i hate hurting good people.

 

[twan83]

its sad even telling the story. and when i met this chick, i posted about it in this thread. this was about 2 years ago. but it is what it is man. sh1t like this makes me wanna just stay way from relationships. i hate hurting good people.

i feel u breh

 

[MikelArteta]

its sad even telling the story. and when i met this chick, i posted about it in this thread. this was about 2 years ago. but it is what it is man. sh1t like this makes me wanna just stay way from relationships. i hate hurting good people.

how old are you?

is this like your 23 and she 37
?

 

[Atlrocafella]

@TRUEST that story was deep my nicca. Damn.

 

[Mike Ock]

i had to break up with her, my dude. it wasn't the distance either. she was more than willing to fly out as often as i wanted her to. i actually care for this woman. but i had to break it off because she's about 12 years older than me. and i didn't see myself having kids with her. she did everything right.

when i got to the other coast, i realized she was falling deeper and deeper in love with me and i had to break things off because i'm not a one woman guy. and i'd hate to have this woman fly out here to be with me and then have me do her dirty. she flew out 4 times. spent 6 hours one way each time. i had to have that difficult talk with her. and it obviously devastated her. and i was devastated too so i told her we can remain friends and talk a lot and even sleep together if we see each other. but i made it clear nothing can and will ever happ
en. she resigned herself to being ok with it. she says shes ok but i know shes not. so i make it a point to never bring up anything about my dating life to her. it will wreck her to find out.


when a chick likes u, she'll watch out for your pocket. for example, i like to go out to eat and i would take her out all the time. and she would tell me "babe dont u think we eat out a lot". and the fact that she said that made me like her even more. i told her, babe, i like taking care of you. i dont need a lot of things to be happy. just dining, watching movies and traveling is good enough for me. and i like doing all these things with u. she tried cooking for me many times and the first couple of times i was very crass and i told her i didnt like her food and when i said that, i can see her face starting to swell up. she was about to start crying. and when i saw that, again, i had to check myself and tell her in a calm and very friendly tone exactly what i liked. and she retried and made the food the way i liked and it was great.

i mean, there are some women out there who want nothing more than to please their man. and she showed me these women exist. sadly, with her, the age difference isn't something i can get past. had it not been that, i'd be married right now folks.

You're maturing my friend. That's s good thing. I let 2 good ones go when I was younger...well actually one. But yeah man, just from that you begin to know what you really want. I gave that chik up cause I knew I wouldn't be faithful myself. After dating and relationships that didn't last too long, i found myself kinda regretting. Not even cause of the girl, but mores because of her traits. I wised up and thankfully became friends with a girl who eventually became my girl. She has those loyalty traits and I think we had our fun in our 20's and can appreciate each other's company and enjoy the fruit of our labor. We got a trip to colombia coming up in July, i been thinking if I should just get a ring. Buuuuuut, I kinda want a new car also . But I do feel feel like I found what I want in a girl with her. I'm not trying to fuk it up. I did dirt yrs ago, but realized how much is at stake had I continued doing so. It def wasn't worth it.

 

[TRUEST]

how old are you?

is this like your 23 and she 37
?

im 30 now. met her when i was 28 going on 29. ol girl aint look her age. thought she was in her early 30s when i approached her. had no plans for the thing to turn into a full blown relationship, but one thing led to another, we take long walks at a park, eat dinner together, go to movies, shes at my place several times a week,

before i knew it, she sees herself as my girl and im like fucck it. i like her lol. but yeah. thats how it goes. the fact that she had no kids made it easy for me cause had she had kids, things woulda be different as i'm very impatient. i want what i want when i want it lol.

but anyway, if i were to make it big anytime in the future, i'd legit take care of her. like buy her a house, car or whatever she wanted. im a big softie for good women

 

[Shadow King]

Going through my first break up. Kind of want "I'm a free man" p*ssy but never had girls lined up or game really. Time to lose myself in my music. Maybe I can turn this energy into my breakout project.

 

[Jesus]

Meeting up with this chick I met Saturday at a bar tomorrow. We'll see how it goes. She was the only chick I approached that night... was in the safe mood that night my boys were gunning for everyone.