Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[winb83]

@ the bold- The women don't think that advice is worthless. We actually take what we can out of it and use it.

Yes a man will deal with a dumb woman for sex only then dump her. I was always taught that you have to work to keep a man, not to just be all about my looks/p*ssy because that won't keep him. I don't know what type of women you're around but I know a lot of women that are with wack men simply because they look good or fukk good. Most men don't have standards for the women they want to sleep with but for the women they seriously date or marry, I would think most do have standards.

As a woman you can bring pretty basic things to the table and survive. Comparing that to what a man has to do and go through just to get the time of day from one of yall is laughable. You trying to suggest that a man should listen to a woman's insight on how he should be a man which if he doesn't know how to do that he'll go to the grave not getting any play?
we've got a whole society of women raising men to be simps and a society of simps discontent with following the advice women give men. Following female advice on how to be a man and treat women has brought us to an age of undesirable men yall women don't even want.

 

[kevm3]

So going by this logic we should ignore everything said in This thread because you can't ask a man's perspective on dealing with men, correct? Or is it different for men?

A lot of that depends on the man you are listening to who is giving you the advice. If you don't know their intentions, a lot of men will tell you some nonsense like give a man head and make him some breakfast and he will be loyal. A woman goes and does that and finds out the man she is dealing with STILL cheats. If you are listening to a man who knows how to divorce himself from thinking of his self-benefit and decides to give PRINCIPLED, BENEFICIAL and FAIR advice, then yeah, you can listen to him.

Occasionally a man WILL hear decent advice from a female, but it's usually his mom or maybe his sister... aka a party that has nothing to gain from the advice they are giving to him.

 

[Sharp]

Because women don't understand the concept of the golden rule, we have this imbalance.

Treat others how you would want to be treated instead of takin advantage of their kindness.

This disreguard of the golden rule is because of their false entitlement beliefs

 

[Numpsay]

Thats why I hate knowing that a girl I am dealing with is asking their girls for advice. Men in my experience have been able to look at situations from the girl and their friends perspective when giving advice. I've had to swallow my pride in the face of a friends advice when realizing I should/shouldnt have done something.

When I see a girl I am talking to has one of those friends I always tell them "If you start acting like so and so I'm not going to like you" or "look at so and so situation if you listening to them, more than likely you are going to end up in that same situation".. I mean the things I have heard other chics telling other chics in advice like are you fukking serious.

 

[winb83]

A lot of that depends on the man you are listening to who is giving you the advice. If you don't know their intentions, a lot of men will tell you some nonsense like give a man head and make him some breakfast and he will be loyal. A woman goes and does that and finds out the man she is dealing with STILL cheats. If you are listening to a man who knows how to divorce himself from thinking of his self-benefit and decides to give PRINCIPLED, BENEFICIAL and FAIR advice, then yeah, you can listen to him.

Occasionally a man WILL hear decent advice from a female, but it's usually his mom or maybe his sister... aka a party that has nothing to gain from the advice they are giving to him.

No advice will prevent a cheater from cheating. Cheating is an internal issue and character problem with the person you're with not you.

 

[kevm3]

She has nothing to gain from misleading you because you aren't trying to gal her.

Using yalls "logic" you can't trust a man advice on how to get women because that man will lead you astray so he has less competition.

I want to hear about some of this awesome advice a woman has given you. Most of us men don't listen to what most women has said as advice because it DOESN'T WORK. We've tried it and know from experience that it doesn't work. We've parsed through much of the 'advice' given by females in here, and very little of it is advice as much as it is some form of attack, calling men 'bitter', 'angry', or something basic like 'be yourself'.

Be sweet, treat her like a lady, let her go out clubbing with her girlfriends, let her keep her male homies because you don't want to be too 'controlling', be yourself, understand her needs when she pops up 'busy' and a host of other nonsense that when listened to will get a man screwed over. How many women will tell a man he needs to be principled and stand on respect?

And a lot of women WILL be screwed over by listening to the advice some of these men are giving her unless he is a PRINCIPLED man. They will tell her be a freak ma, go ahead and cheat on your man. Pop that booty. Do this and that for me. None of that is conducive to loyalty. Loyalty is a CHOICE by the other party. The difference between a normal man and a principled man is the latter can largely divorce himself from emotion and self-benefit and think based upon a principle such as fairness.

Let's be real. Who much more often deals with politics, philosophy, mathematics, the hard sciences, etc.? Men. Men are expected in life to deal much more objectively than women and be the unemotional ones who keep things under control. They are expected to be deal with and understand principle much more often. Sound principles are the basis from which sound advice is derived. Men are held accountable much more frequently than women and accountability is one of the key components of sound device since it is based upon direct experience in dealing with consequences and repercussions from actions.

 

[kevm3]

No advice will prevent a cheater from cheating. Cheating is an internal issue and character problem with the person you're with not you.

Yeah pretty much, which is why someone who is principled will tell you to not deal with a cheater in the first place and kick them to the curb.

 

[kevm3]

This thread proves that all men cant be logical. If ANY of you fukkheads actually read anything I wrote none of it is encouraging simp behaviour or anything of that sort. Yall just saw a woman giving advice and started regurgitating some bullshyt some other clueless nicca told you about women. I said remain confident keep your dignity and use common sense. How is that encouraging simp behaviour, or benefitting me? Bless yall lost little hearts

If YOU would have read this thread, you would understand that we've already stated advice like 'be yourself', don't be a simp and MUCH more. Obviously you haven't read much in this thread and came off combative talking about we're giving bad advice. This was your advice:

gtfo

its bad advice because yall are thinking entirely too hard and doing way too much. if you are confident and use common sense you will be fine. its really not that hard to get women to like you unless you are some combo of broke ugly annoying and stinky. if you keep hollerin at females sooner or later one will say yes. theres always one desperate ass female ready to say yes. if all else fails hire a female to pretend to like you.

We've stated issues about confidence NUMEROUS times. Any positive morsel you've stated, we've said COUNTLESS times in this thread... and that stuff about just use common sense is nonsense. If that's all it took, then this thread wouldn't be half as large. I can spend more time rebutting this but you're looking for attention more than anything so I'm not going to go further.

 

[twan83]

This thread proves that all men cant be logical. If ANY of you fukkheads actually read anything I wrote none of it is encouraging simp behaviour or anything of that sort. Yall just saw a woman giving advice and started regurgitating some bullshyt some other clueless nicca told you about women. I said remain confident keep your dignity and use common sense. How is that encouraging simp behaviour, or benefitting me? Bless yall lost little hearts

Not all of us are like that though.
Imma say this i feel im very experienced and know for the most part whats up and give great advice.

A woman giving advice AINT NOTHING WRONG WITH IT. I think if i wasnt raised around a lot of females i wouldn't be who i am now and im truly grateful.

Thru experience of tough times ups and downs. Being that shy guy always in the friend zone u get that experience of what women want and how they want to be treated.

Once i came out my shell combined all of what i knew things became second nature for me as far as approaching them, relationship wise etc.....

The key to alot of things is SIMPLE shyt ACTUALLY that most guys fail to realize and wonder y they alone or can't get the woman they want

 

[kevm3]

This woman is saying some real things in this video

the analysis after that is going a little too far.

Bottom line is men and women are different and there's certain things men have to do as men and men should expect women to do as women. Ain't no such thing as expecting traditional benefits while you're bring modernism to the table. Be a traditional man, but you, as a man have to expect a woman to bring traditional values to the table as well. All of this modern, new-age man is WEAK and it's not new. It's just something that passed away because it was ineffective and has been revived in some new veneer because people always want something new and different and they've not yet experienced it themselves. Passivity, dressing and acting like women is NOT the thing to do, nor is a man accepting a woman who wants to act like a man while dealing with none of the repercussions. Time to go back to the classics... aka ways that have stood through the test of time.

 

[Nintendough]

I guess the simps and those who benefit from simps got tired of us dropping game in peace. They just had to post in here and mess up the thread.

 

[Sharp]

Common sense and confidence? Wow. Really. Hey, I got a bridge in Brooklyn that I'd like to sell to you.

How can anything be common sense when the thought patterns of men and women regarding relationships are completely different? Common sense would tell a dud that if he caught his wife cheating that he would dump her. Instead he would probably go confront the dude and give the woman another chance.

Men have been taught wrong. So how is it common sense? Men just need to establish firm principles on how they deal with women. All the confidence in the world won't stop a chick from doin u dirty. U need to understand all possible scenarios and how to deal with effectively.

 

[Sharp]

With all due respect you're annoying and messing up the vibe of this thread. From now I suggest we all just ignore her.

She's a woman and she behaves this way because she doesn't know any better. Who comes into a thread and does this other than a troll? Lol.

Ignores and continues to build with my brethren

 

[MikelArteta]

Its not even worth it to explain your views and stance to women , it's like talkin to a hardcore atheist about religion.

A chicks only rebuttal is you are dumb, your bitter, gay, get no puzzy, your fat, your ugly etc.

 

[Nintendough]

Men have been taught wrong. So how is it common sense? Men just need to establish firm principles on how they deal with women. All the confidence in the world won't stop a chick from doin u dirty. U need to understand all possible scenarios and how to deal with effectively.

Exactly, principles is the main key to this. The posters who want to go against the grain all of a sudden don't seem to understand that the consistent posters in here aren't in here dropping random routines. The detail in here is from learned experience. Most of what has been posted in this thread are reactions that become natural once principles and morals have been established.