Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I agree, Many women think they can keep you in their back pocket and you'll stay there while she can oodles and cavorts with tom dikk and harry.

important to note that this isn't game - if the woman you want is acting funny, you should be out there building your roster. if she catches wind of it and starts to act right then :ehh:
 

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I agree, Many women think they can keep you in their back pocket and you'll stay there while she can oodles and cavorts with tom dikk and harry.

Exactly so true
If a girl givin you mixed signals, I always try this

Me: hows your day going?
Girl: Good n u?
Me: Just hanging out with my friend, me and HER went to the movies. It was fun

Mixed signals cured lol
 

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Exactly so true
If a girl givin you mixed signals, I always try this

Me: hows your day going?
Girl: Good n u?
Me: Just hanging out with my friend, me and HER went to the movies. It was fun

Mixed signals cured lol

yup and the thing is you do it with no jealously nothing.

to me its not even playing games or whatever
 

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yup and the thing is you do it with no jealously nothing.

to me its not even playing games or whatever

Yupp just straight talking with no emotions involved

True story. Happened like a month ago. This girl when we first started talking was comin at me hard. "You seem like the perfect guy, so when are we gonna hang out? Do you want a ride or die girl, cause I'm one" :heh:

Then a week later, she acted all distant. Asked her if she wanna hang out, she's like "Idk, I'm pretty tired today, got once a month girly stuff" :shaq2:

I was like :ohhh: its like that

Next day, casually told her "Hows your day going. I'm out today with my friend. Me and HER going out to eat" (which was true)
THE SAME DAY. I asked if she want to hang out after in the evening. She's like SUREE!!! :lupe:
She's like "Lets hang out at the mall, I'll be near the cheesecake factory. I'll be waiting"

Women never change :ahh:
 

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Yupp just straight talking with no emotions involved

True story. Happened like a month ago. This girl when we first started talking was comin at me hard. "You seem like the perfect guy, so when are we gonna hang out? Do you want a ride or die girl, cause I'm one" :heh:

Then a week later, she acted all distant. Asked her if she wanna hang out, she's like "Idk, I'm pretty tired today, got once a month girly stuff" :shaq2:

I was like :ohhh: its like that

Next day, casually told her "Hows your day going. I'm out today with my friend. Me and HER going out to eat" (which was true)
THE SAME DAY. I asked if she want to hang out after in the evening. She's like SUREE!!! :lupe:
She's like "Lets hang out at the mall, I'll be near the cheesecake factory. I'll be waiting"

Women never change :ahh:


yup, especially if you are a "great guy" with his ish together with good qualities, women know how guys are out there but they want to have their fun not settle down and thinking they can keep you on the bench like your aaron rodgers forever.

many years ago when I still talked to a ex and we were like "friends", talking etc., i still had feelings for her but i was like :ehh:, she would always call me her friend and stuff, still come over my house and talk to my family etc. , yeah i was a simp brehs, anyways i remembe rone of my other female friends at the time cut me off because she got a bf, and i told my ex this is why i dont have female friends. And she's like but what about me?

i told her your just soemone i talk to, once i feel like dating again i doubt i'll talk to you again :heh: .
 

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yup, especially if you are a "great guy" with his ish together with good qualities, women know how guys are out there but they want to have their fun not settle down and thinking they can keep you on the bench like your aaron rodgers forever.

many years ago when I still talked to a ex and we were like "friends", talking etc., i still had feelings for her but i was like :ehh:, she would always call me her friend and stuff, still come over my house and talk to my family etc. , yeah i was a simp brehs, anyways i remembe rone of my other female friends at the time cut me off because she got a bf, and i told my ex this is why i dont have female friends. And she's like but what about me?

i told her your just soemone i talk to, once i feel like dating again i doubt i'll talk to you again :heh: .

What was the look on her face when you told her that? :russ:
 

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What was the look on her face when you told her that? :russ:

lol despair

i swear many women think your going to stay around and wait ofr them or something, I know in her mind until i told her that she thought i had no options etc., thats why i Emphasized when I FEEL like dating again.
 

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lol despair

i swear many women think your going to stay around and wait ofr them or something, I know in her mind until i told her that she thought i had no options etc., thats why i Emphasized when I FEEL like dating again.

Lol that must have been hilarious
It really shows how some women have low self esteem. Just think, they bring joy out of someone their not attracted to liking them :why:
 

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Just went through a tough breakup. I'm about to turn into a fukking savage out here brehs!!!
 

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when u ask me a dumbass thing too do im gonna look at you like this :why: then this :snoop:

either

a) proceed too go too my video game system and play a game or watch a anime and ignore your ass

or

b) tell u in a slow ass voice in dummy terms why would u ask me that and not do it yourself
 

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Just went through a tough breakup. I'm about to turn into a fukking savage out here brehs!!!
if that's what works for you then :takedat:, but getting through that rough period doesn't neccesarily mean messing with the next woman. take this time mainly to focus on you breh - gym, work, reading, whatever. come out the other end with more than some bodies :obama:
 

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if that's what works for you then :takedat:, but getting through that rough period doesn't neccesarily mean messing with the next woman. take this time mainly to focus on you breh - gym, work, reading, whatever. come out the other end with more than some bodies :obama:

ya when i went thru a tough break up going too the next woman was not a good idea cuz i was wreck for one and two she got attached which caused more issues :snoop:

so once i came too my senses i would just play b ball alot and go too the gym and listen too some music too help with that matter it helped ease the pain alot and not think bout her or the pain she caused me sure it took a long time but it was necessary too heal a broken heart
 
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