Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[George Gooney]

ya when i went thru a tough break up going too the next woman was not a good idea cuz i was wreck for one and two she got attached which caused more issues

so once i came too my senses i would just play b ball alot and go too the gym and listen too some music too help with that matter it helped ease the pain alot and not think bout her or the pain she caused me sure it took a long time but it was necessary too heal a broken heart

I Know all of this breh. But I just want it all to go away.

 

[twan83]

I Know all of this breh. But I just want it all to go away.

ya its hard and hurts alot especially if it was with someone special u could see a future with. i aint gonna lie too u. no matter what my situation is this one girl scarred me for life and changed me as a person for good and worse which i truly hate.

u should never let a female change you but she did too me. i even still have dreams bout her still at times

 

[DaRealness]

Most inspirational shyt I've read all week. See how there's always hope no matter what the circumstances:

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/a...-shed-18st-nicknamed-Mr-Muscles.html#comments

 

[George Gooney]

ya its hard and hurts alot especially if it was with someone special u could see a future with. i aint gonna lie too u. no matter what my situation is this one girl scarred me for life and changed me as a person for good and worse which i truly hate.

u should never let a female change you but she did too me. i even still have dreams bout her still at times

I hate the dreams breh!!! I hate the "hmm is she thinking about me right now too?" thoughts. I hate checking up on twitter to see if she tweeted any subliminals about me. I just hate it all lol

I feel like such a fukkin' SIMP

 

[twan83]

I hate the dreams breh!!! I hate the "hmm is she thinking about me right now too?" thoughts. I hate checking up on twitter to see if she tweeted any subliminals about me. I just hate it all lol

I feel like such a fukkin' SIMP

the twitter didnt exist when it happened too me but she would always email me saying sorry and shyt but i was way too gone and hurt and her constant email or phone calls had me on the deep end listening too sad ass music in the corner crying and shyt

then the random email and calls year later was like saying she wanna get married and have kids

 

[CrossBones]

I hate the dreams breh!!! I hate the "hmm is she thinking about me right now too?" thoughts. I hate checking up on twitter to see if she tweeted any subliminals about me. I just hate it all lol

I feel like such a fukkin' SIMP

to tell you the truth, as Im learning and getting older I see that its never a good idea to make more hate and negativity come out of being hurt. at the least make sure that you arent becoming a hateful person. that road will only get you even more hate and scorn. its all going to come full circle and get back at you. its also a waste of future opportunities and time. youre shouldnt to let anger corrupt you and make you a weaker person. just be sharper. hold your head up. the next person you meet might actually be right for you, provided you dont play games and try to hurt her. even if shes not, you still need to have your senses on point and your mind in the right place. but you wont know whats really going on if you get stuck on that bullshyt. also, the next person might not deserve it and youre just adding onto the problem we are all facing out here. just be real and be you.

if you feel like you did something wrong in your behavior and need to correct it, then do that. anything more, like backtracking and rethinking things too heavy is unnecessary and a waste of your time.

as for you checking up on her and thinking about her, just forget it. its not even worth it. once its done, its done. dont let yourself fall for any of her games that can come from you being open. women can smell when you still want her and are leaving the door open for her. just cease and forget about her. for the most part shes moved on, so you need to also breh.


good luck.

 

[CrossBones]

Women arent complicated.Its either one way or the other with them.If they on board cool,if not cut her from the team

this is very true, bruh. its true to the letter. the unfortunate part is when shes only playing the part of being on board, but really isnt.

a lot of times this happens is when she already has a lot invested in the relationship, or is dependant on the man for something. now it might be looking like its going all in one way for her, but secretly shes planning on being off and getting with someone else. they can be secretive and outright lie very well to keep up appearances. they usually have that back up plan and work on it in the middle of a problem.

sure men can be like this too, but women are better at hiding it until theyre ready to bounce.

so while its plain and simple in one light, its complicated for us men because women are pretty much never upfront about it. its always some kinda game to go along with it, and its how we get caught slipping

 

[George Gooney]

to tell you the truth, as Im learning and getting older I see that its never a good idea to make more hate and negativity come out of being hurt. at the least make sure that you arent becoming a hateful person. that road will only get you even more hate and scorn. its all going to come full circle and get back at you. its also a waste of future opportunities and time. youre shouldnt to let anger corrupt you and make you a weaker person. just be sharper. hold your head up. the next person you meet might actually be right for you, provided you dont play games and try to hurt her. even if shes not, you still need to have your senses on point and your mind in the right place. but you wont know whats really going on if you get stuck on that bullshyt. also, the next person might not deserve it and youre just adding onto the problem we are all facing out here. just be real and be you.

if you feel like you did something wrong in your behavior and need to correct it, then do that. anything more, like backtracking and rethinking things too heavy is unnecessary and a waste of your time.

as for you checking up on her and thinking about her, just forget it. its not even worth it. once its done, its done. dont let yourself fall for any of her games that can come from you being open. women can smell when you still want her and are leaving the door open for her. just cease and forget about her. for the most part shes moved on, so you need to also breh.


good luck.

I agree with everything you said except the moved on part breh. And the reason why i'm so fukked up about it is because it's one of those rare occasions where I fukkED IT UP with a GREAT girl! I'm sure you may have seen some of my posts in this thread so you might know i'm no beginner with women. There was no time period where she started getting distant and colder(which also indicates she didn't even meet another dude to replace me with after the break up like most women do. no talking about it with her friends and parents because the day before it all went down she was telling me about how her mom and friends were happy she found me and such. The day before we broke up she even brought up marriage in a sly way. She was talking to me on the phone and watching youtube proposal videos and joking to me saying "You better think of something creative". We broke up because she caught me in a lie and instead of me coming clean at first I started to add lies on top of lies which she kept catching me in. So she got mad and ended it. But yo I wan't her back breh. She was ride or die(I hate this term but it describes her to a T) and truly liked me for who I was and said that I shouldn't have even lied to her about such small shyt. But she said it reminded her of when she dated a dude who lied a lot and she always had to sneak to catch him in shyt. She's on some real ambitious self improvement steeze so she said she couldn't risk going back down that same route and ended shyt. IT WAS MY FAULT BREH... But idk if I wanna keep trying to get her back(not even sure if I could) or if i'd just be wasting time and damaging myself more. Is she just angry and needs some time and space? Mad questions going through my mind breh.

 

[twan83]

I agree with everything you said except the moved on part breh. And the reason why i'm so fukked up about it is because it's one of those rare occasions where I fukkED IT UP with a GREAT girl! I'm sure you may have seen some of my posts in this thread so you might know i'm no beginner with women. There was no time period where she started getting distant and colder(which also indicates she didn't even meet another dude to replace me with after the break up like most women do. no talking about it with her friends and parents because the day before it all went down she was telling me about how her mom and friends were happy she found me and such. The day before we broke up she even brought up marriage in a sly way. She was talking to me on the phone and watching youtube proposal videos and joking to me saying "You better think of something creative". We broke up because she caught me in a lie and instead of me coming clean at first I started to add lies on top of lies which she kept catching me in. So she got mad and ended it. But yo I wan't her back breh. She was ride or die(I hate this term but it describes her to a T) and truly liked me for who I was and said that I shouldn't have even lied to her about such small shyt. But she said it reminded her of when she dated a dude who lied a lot and she always had to sneak to catch him in shyt. She's on some real ambitious self improvement steeze so she said she couldn't risk going back down that same route and ended shyt. IT WAS MY FAULT BREH... But idk if I wanna keep trying to get her back(not even sure if I could) or if i'd just be wasting time and damaging myself more. Is she just angry and needs some time and space? Mad questions going through my mind breh.

ok so u fukked it up got it. if u want her back understand this and think bout it seriously i dont care how good of a woman she is. if she were too take u back u ur gonna deal with a shyt storm from hell and u better be prepared cuz its brutal. she gonna question everything u do not believe shyt u say and even try too tell u what u shouldnt or cant do cuz u gave her that power and if ur willing too deal with that then proceed and dont say she wont cuz when u hurt a females feelings that bytch side of her will come out in full force

if u want her back u got too be honest with her and tell her the exact truth bout that lie no matter how bad it is so u can clear things up with her and she will have more respect for you too. then tell her it was a stupid mistake that i shouldnt have done and just lay it all out on the line and say what can i do too make things right and listen too what she says if she says no then u gotta let her go simple as that

if she says do these things u better think bout what those things are and see if ur willing too do them. ur gonna be on a short leash so u know till u gain her trust back

what was the lie by the way u can pm me it if u dont want nobody too know cuz depending on what lie it is u might just be screwed regardless

 

[George Gooney]

ok so u fukked it up got it. if u want her back understand this and think bout it seriously i dont care how good of a woman she is. if she were too take u back u ur gonna deal with a shyt storm from hell and u better be prepared cuz its brutal. she gonna question everything u do not believe shyt u say and even try too tell u what u shouldnt or cant do cuz u gave her that power and if ur willing too deal with that then proceed and dont say she wont cuz when u hurt a females feelings that bytch side of her will come out in full force

if u want her back u got too be honest with her and tell her the exact truth bout that lie no matter how bad it is so u can clear things up with her and she will have more respect for you too. then tell her it was a stupid mistake that i shouldnt have done and just lay it all out on the line and say what can i do too make things right and listen too what she says if she says no then u gotta let her go simple as that

if she says do these things u better think bout what those things are and see if ur willing too do them. ur gonna be on a short leash so u know till u gain her trust back

what was the lie by the way u can pm me it if u dont want nobody too know cuz depending on what lie it is u might just be screwed regardless

The bolded part I already did breh... I'll PM about the lie and shyt...

 

[MikelArteta]

I hate the dreams breh!!! I hate the "hmm is she thinking about me right now too?" thoughts. I hate checking up on twitter to see if she tweeted any subliminals about me. I just hate it all lol

I feel like such a fukkin' SIMP

stop looking, time is the greatest equalizer, nothing worse than looking and you see her smiling with another dude etc.

more than likely she is not thinking of you

 

[twan83]

stop looking, time is the greatest equalizer, nothing worse than looking and you see her smiling with another dude etc.

more than likely she is not thinking of you

@His_Excellence_Reincar re opening old wounds

 

[UpAndComing]

Mack : Damn, she got a kid
Simp: Oh damn, she only got one kid

 

[MikelArteta]

@His_Excellence_Reincar re opening old wounds

breh the pain of checking up a ex and seeing her smiling with another guy, and you telling yourself it wont last he'll never treat her as good as I do , then you check back a few months later still together , a year later , then you check back and you see folks writing congrats on her page and your like , then you check back even though you know you shouldn't , and you cant find her, but you dig deeper and realize you cant find her because her name changed and then you see her smiling in a white dress .


I've only cared about 3 women in my life outside my family, 2 I loved. 1 of them the above situation happaned , the other one i cared about has two kids for some loser

both of these broads met their dudes righ tafter me

 

[twan83]

breh the pain of checking up a ex and seeing her smiling with another guy, and you telling yourself it wont last he'll never treat her as good as I do , then you check back a few months later still together , a year later , then you check back and you see folks writing congrats on her page and your like , then you check back even though you know you shouldn't and you see he rsmiling in a white dress

i know its so cruel and wrong

thank god i dont have no way of contacting her or seeing how she is doing cuz i would be doing that