#1. Thing I've learned about being with women is to have goals, plans, or ambitions in life. If a woman sticks around throughout those plans, helps you to achieve it, then she is a keeper. If she's becoming a hinderance to your plan or goal, lacks understanding or patience for what you're trying to do then kick her ass to the curb.
And another philosophy I've adopted in dating is to never force shyt. If I like a chick, I'm gonna let it be known and even pursue for a while, but if i'm not getting the right signals I'm going to continue moving forward towards my goals, wants, needs, and ambitions with or without her.
Even my moms told me to never put all my eggs in one basket. So until me and another chick are officially a couple, I will continue talking to other women and expect her to do the same with other guys. Like I said, if I like her I'll let it be known. If the feeling is mutual then we will do whatever feels right. If not, don't force shyt and keep it moving