Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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bruh what happened to gems and dealing with women?

last few pages been all criticism and :sadbron:stories

we still drop gems and tell stories and its not all criticism its stuff thats reality that happens so we let other people know so it doesnt happen too them or tell them how too handle situations

we criticize both men and females in here its equal opportunity in here
 

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I think me and my lady are calling it quits. I just think I was an experiment for her. She is used to being fukked and forgotten. I came along trying to be the nice guy. Cook and help out. Do the good things. These women today aren't bred to receive a good man. They come up in broken homes with bitter mothers who themselves aren't with anyone or alone and mad, and they just think that's life. So they grow selfish and make it all about them. She wants space. She just wants another shot of her old getting dikked down life. Ah well. I don't think ill ever get married. None of these whores or YOLO bytches are worthy.
 

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I think me and my lady are calling it quits. I just think I was an experiment for her. She is used to being fukked and forgotten. I came along trying to be the nice guy. Cook and help out. Do the good things. These women today aren't bred to receive a good man. They come up in broken homes with bitter mothers who themselves aren't with anyone or alone and mad, and they just think that's life. So they grow selfish and make it all about them. She wants space. She just wants another shot of her old getting dikked down life. Ah well. I don't think ill ever get married. None of these whores or YOLO bytches are worthy.

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#1. Thing I've learned about being with women is to have goals, plans, or ambitions in life. If a woman sticks around throughout those plans, helps you to achieve it, then she is a keeper. If she's becoming a hinderance to your plan or goal, lacks understanding or patience for what you're trying to do then kick her ass to the curb.

And another philosophy I've adopted in dating is to never force shyt. If I like a chick, I'm gonna let it be known and even pursue for a while, but if i'm not getting the right signals I'm going to continue moving forward towards my goals, wants, needs, and ambitions with or without her.

Even my moms told me to never put all my eggs in one basket. So until me and another chick are officially a couple, I will continue talking to other women and expect her to do the same with other guys. Like I said, if I like her I'll let it be known. If the feeling is mutual then we will do whatever feels right. If not, don't force shyt and keep it moving
 

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Also, the Triple C's... Cash, Car, Crib.

The chick has to have at least one of these. You can't be the nikka driving her around, giving her money, and letting her stay at your place. You might as well be her fukking father after that :scusthov:
 

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#1. Thing I've learned about being with women is to have goals, plans, or ambitions in life. If a woman sticks around throughout those plans, helps you to achieve it, then she is a keeper. If she's becoming a hinderance to your plan or goal, lacks understanding or patience for what you're trying to do then kick her ass to the curb.

And another philosophy I've adopted in dating is to never force shyt. If I like a chick, I'm gonna let it be known and even pursue for a while, but if i'm not getting the right signals I'm going to continue moving forward towards my goals, wants, needs, and ambitions with or without her.

Even my moms told me to never put all my eggs in one basket. So until me and another chick are officially a couple, I will continue talking to other women and expect her to do the same with other guys. Like I said, if I like her I'll let it be known. If the feeling is mutual then we will do whatever feels right. If not, don't force shyt and keep it moving

what i bolded is what my mom's taught me and engraved in me. i use too talk too a bunch of females and say hey look i aint ur man and u aint my girl
imma do me and u gonna do u so dont be catching feelings if u see me talking too other females or if we have sex u think its official.
it aint official until we both agree were a couple then all them other contacts get cut off and im all urs exclusively none of that cheating shyt.

when i told females this i ended up getting more hollering at me but at the same time i ended up with more headaches cuz they always caught feelings and wanted me too themselves and i would tell em hey u can have feelings but i aint ur man prove too me otherwise why should i be and until then enjoy the fun we have together
 

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what i bolded is what my mom's taught me and engraved in me. i use too talk too a bunch of females and say hey look i aint ur man and u aint my girl
imma do me and u gonna do u so dont be catching feelings if u see me talking too other females or if we have sex u think its official.
it aint official until we both agree were a couple then all them other contacts get cut off and im all urs exclusively none of that cheating shyt.

when i told females this i ended up getting more hollering at me but at the same time i ended up with more headaches cuz they always caught feelings and wanted me too themselves and i would tell em hey u can have feelings but i aint ur man prove too me otherwise why should i be and until then enjoy the fun we have together

this is the dilemma I have...And this has took an effect on my roster..lol

I dont have the energy for all that,but Its like a double edged sword
 

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this is the dilemma I have...And this has took an effect on my roster..lol

I dont have the energy for all that,but Its like a double edged sword

what i do is i end up making roster cuts and send them packing too get less of a headache to be honest aint got time for all that shyt
 

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I think me and my lady are calling it quits. I just think I was an experiment for her. She is used to being fukked and forgotten. I came along trying to be the nice guy. Cook and help out. Do the good things. These women today aren't bred to receive a good man. They come up in broken homes with bitter mothers who themselves aren't with anyone or alone and mad, and they just think that's life. So they grow selfish and make it all about them. She wants space. She just wants another shot of her old getting dikked down life. Ah well. I don't think ill ever get married. None of these whores or YOLO bytches are worthy.

they aren't there are only a few women worthy of a good man.


The thing about marriage is women can change just like that as welly ou know right now, difference is in a relationship that is not marriage you only deal with heartbreak, no alimony, no child support. no losing your matrimonial home.

It's like women don't realize, that 1 in 10 black men are in jail, that 1 in 3 black men are either in jail on parole or on probation between the age of 18-35. Then all the baby daddies, players, cheaters, abusers, gay men out there that when they actually get a good man they treat em ike trash
 

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Hey guys what do you think of women that listen to Nicki Minaj or respect her. "I like Nicki Minaj cause she tells it like it is and goes after what she wants"
 

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man, i can't do this nice ish anymore brehs.

it's not my nature, in H.S I had #HOH ish down to its science. College changed a nikka, I became out of touch with my true self.
 

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on a side note, three days ago I tripped across a vid of a chick I used to care about giving head to a nikka on a couch.

That same day, I saw another chick I cared DEEPLY for taking a selfie while naked from the waist down in JBO.

Even though those girls come from two extremely different profile makeups and social/economical backgrounds..... Maybe the universe is trying to tell me something about my choice in women?

I refuse to look at it as "all women are the same".

ah.... I'm becoming jaded as fukk.
Where did you see the bolded :lupe:
 

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man, i can't do this nice ish anymore brehs
it's not my nature, in H.S I had #HOH ish down to its science. College changed a nikka, I became out of touch with my true self.

I walked the streets and asked myself what happened to the old me?

This bytch I used to fukk with messed up my happiness...

It also fukked up my subconscious....

Im realizing that I need to get back to the roots of who I am as well....

It all starts with us
 

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I walked the streets and asked myself what happened to the old me?

This bytch I used to fukk with messed up my happiness...

It also fukked up my subconscious....

Im realizing that I need to get back to the roots of who I am as well....

It all starts with us

time to get rejuvenated and be back on the bullshyt breh

We don't owe them nothing, but condom that's going to between us
 
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