I think I realized to stop trying to understand dwas when I was cheated on and left for a abusive ex.
That's when I realized all that ish about wanting a decent guy women will sprout is crap.
Women went tingles, sparks and excitement..they only love what you can offer them not you yourself.
this came up after I was watching a willie d video. go figure. I dont know the guy or the girl,
but there was some gems in there. anyways,
video is full of
but truth.
watch her mannerisms and her enthusiasm when she gets to certain parts. she says pretty clearly that they like it when men play games on them.
to paraphrase a short part of it:
"we want a bad boy, but we dont. because later on we learn that they hurt us. and we dont want a good guy because theyre predictable. it becomes boring that way. so you need to be a good guy who is like a bad boy ..."
generally, they dont know what the fukk they want. one minute to the next.
all of these freedoms without real repercussions make them what we see today. they want the best of everything with little to no cost. they want a strong relationship without even knowing what hard work and dedication is. I dont know why a lot of men dont see this, and think its all going to be cool because youre trying to do everything right and trying to please her. stop that, just be yourself and have a code about who you will deal with in your life and who you wont.
since theres always a thirsty, kiss ass man who will lie to them and say what they want to hear, or pay for what they want to buy, it leads them to think anything that they do is okay. loyalty means
nothing to them if they feel like youre not suiting her needs at the moment. theres always another man willing to treat her to something. seeing things through, or working through problems just dont happen as often as it used to. men need to accept that its a very real possibility that whenever you meet a girl who is just dying for a commitment, its mostly about her breaking you down and making you submit to her. its how women get a victory over a man. youll notice that, theyre quick to want a relationship, and theyre just as quick to want to leave one. they may be seeking a man, but after that, they dont know how to keep a man. or even if they really want to. so dont fall for the bullshyt and try to see through what she says she wants, and what her actions show you. anyone forcing you into something is probably only thinking of themselves at the time and what they want
the strangest part is that, predictability is seen as a negative; ie being reliable and trustworthy means that you are boring and no fun. they look at it like they
have you at that point, so the excitement of chasing and breaking you down is now gone, now youve fallen into her hands. do you really trust a woman to have you like that? you cant become the broken down stallion thats in her stable. you see, todays women look for a man who is better than them, and then they spend their time trying to find his weaknesses by playing games on him, or by tearing him down covertly.
so the worst thing a man can do is act like his fate lies in the hands of his woman. do NOT put yourself in a compromising situation just because its something that she demands...
there is a lot of good stuff in that video, if you want to "understand" women. by undestanding I mean, hearing the truth from the horses mouth. I checked it out and was surprised by her candidness. sure theres all sorts of women,
all sorts, but this way of thinking that she depicts is very consistant with whats going on today a lot. they have behaviors which are very selfish and destructive towards building a relationship. its generally unclear, full of indecisiveness, a want for unrealistic qualities, and little to no logic. it does not deal with reality, but simply an ideal. it one changes from one moment to the next when they see that they can get away with it. the crux of a womans mindframe today, is that convenience is the key.
if they can do what they want and never be blamed for it or be legally held accountable, then sure, I think I can understand whats happening. what theyre trying to get away with is a full on "me me me" attitude (think about that in terms of a balanced relationship, and youll see why thats counter productive) until theyre too old and need to settle down with a dependable bread winner who will provide even more extras for her. thats what they want when it comes down to it, dont be fooled. directionless swinging and hypergamy describes the modern woman to a T. they dont think theres any consequence to what they do, unless you display to her that there are. show your value and hold yourself to some real standards. men need to understand that if you dont make her bow down to your authority, then she will do that to you. I have yet to see a true 50/50 partnership with men and women
. I kinda want to just wife something up and just chill but in 2013 I already know it aint going to happen
" and eventhough she is being unreasonable, she kinda has a point in a weird way...
before turning around and finishing my work
