Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Rocket Scientist]

I think the location and where a woman is from says alot about her too. If your from lets say Willaochie,GA and your woman is from NYC you guys will clash not only culturally but in each other ways.I lived in North (from tri state area) and South. I will say although all women are same.However you can find deal with a woman easily from your birthplace ways easily compared to an out of towner.Culture and background are huge when dealing with women."Know the culture know the ways"

 

[MikelArteta]

so she got engaged and is now trying to get back in my good graces? why wont she leave me the fukk alone?

because your the safe dependable guy, she wants to know she still has you incase anything goes wrong.

women dont think like men do

 

[MikelArteta]

I want to get some opinions on a cold open asking out as opposed to chatting someone up for a few minutes before hand. Some nice looking chick caught my eye at this Mexican restaurant I go to semi-regularly (like twice a month) for lunch (she works there during the dinner hours, and I rarely/never go there for dinner). I'm debating just walking up to her one night and just straight up seeing if she wants to do something instead of possibly wasting my time by chatting her up only to get shut down.

Either way, I want to just say what's what, and see what happens.

Rejection is better than regret, go for it I say.

 

[BrehWyatt]

Yeah, I feel you on that. My thing is, do I "potentially" waste time by making small talk (all I really care to know before I proceed is her age), or do I just be like "Alright, here's the deal. Take it or leave it" ?

I lean to the latter because I'm of the opinion that in most occasions, women already know (or at least know what they're going to say) what their answer is to a question and I'm not the type of person that tries to talk someone into something. If you're gonna do it, do it or don't. No point of wasting our time.

 

[RealAssanova]

Yeah, I feel you on that. My thing is, do I "potentially" waste time by making small talk (all I really care to know before I proceed is her age), or do I just be like "Alright, here's the deal. Take it or leave it" ?

I lean to the latter because I'm of the opinion that in most occasions, women already know (or at least know what they're going to say) what their answer is to a question and I'm not the type of person that tries to talk someone into something. If you're gonna do it, do it or don't. No point of wasting our time.

Bruh, she is engaged. Know what dat means? She is with another n!gga and not you. She getting d!cked by another n!gga and not you. She comin home to another n!gga and not you. Any shorty i had previous relationships with, unless we amicably seperated, i wouldn't bother with in ANY sense. Swear to god. Even in the case where we both agreed on seperating, i wud NEVER get back with her. We enjoyed what we had together and it came to an end..dats life. I moved on, key word being moved, meanin forward. It's like, why would you upgrade to an audi only to downgrade back to a used up honda?

Relationships dat end, stay there. Ain't no sequel breh.

 

[BrehWyatt]

Bruh, she is engaged. Know what dat means? She is with another n!gga and not you. She getting d!cked by another n!gga and not you. She comin home to another n!gga and not you. Any shorty i had previous relationships with, unless we amicably seperated, i wouldn't bother with in ANY sense. Swear to god. Even in the case where we both agreed on seperating, i wud NEVER get back with her. We enjoyed what we had together and it came to an end..dats life. I moved on, key word being moved, meanin forward. It's like, why would you upgrade to an audi only to downgrade back to a used up honda?

Relationships dat end, stay there. Ain't no sequel breh.

I think you quoted the wrong post, man.

 

[RealAssanova]

^ quit frontin, you catch my drift.

 

[BrehWyatt]

Yeah, but all I'm saying is that make sure the right person hears your message.

 

[Mr. Negative]

I dunno, man. I just gotta..... get this shyt off my chest, although I know it'll prolly be back.

It's amazing to me how easy it is to crack a lot of broads. Preying on their sense of entitlement and pre-programmed social triggers....

It doesn't take much. Even if she's in a "long-term" relationship. Cause even though she's in it, if dude doesn't meet pre-qualifying conditions, she's never serious. She doesn't have enough to lose by losing him.

She can even know a man is whorish. It doesn't matter.

All a guy has to do (and it's like this in most cases, with any number of females, with any number of guys) is to act like/show her that you're not trying to fukk her. Get yourself friendzoned. Give her your problems. Even problems with other women.

She'll feel soooo overly special. She'll put herself over all those worthless broads you fukking. She'll point and laugh at you when you come to her crying about how you got caught messing around, justifying her feelings towards men in general. Haw Haw, nikka that's what you get. All in the game, though.

She'll also open up and confide in you about her problems. Specifically about her man. Cause she's already comparing you. She's watching your whorish ways so she can try and catch her man cheating. Cause, you know. If THIS nikka is a good dude and cheats, then EVERY MAN cheats. (if you're on the "good guy side of this, god forbid if she's so gullible that she says he's not cheating he's just "hanging out" cause he's nice and didn't try to fukk her. Drop that bytch instantly.)

All you really have to do is pretend to listen. And agree with her. Even if it's stuff you KNOW is flat out stupid. If there's a point where she is close to forming a deviating opinion from her man's (and you can usually hear it in her voice cause it'll emotionally stress her), then jump on it.

OMG a man understands her! Finally!

Of course this is going to cause problems in her relationship. Cause you know she's going back and telling him all the contradicting shyt you're putting in her head. And ain't no man stupid. If a woman has felt a certain way about some shyt for the last year-5 years, then it's not gonna change on the drop of a dime. But who gives a shyt? You're the one that got her mind.

It's the reason why fashion trends like it does. Their opinion of what looks good changes because other women's opinion of what looks good changes. They'll show a few celebrities dressing a certain way. That's all it takes.

It's the reason why all of those Oprah/Dr. Phil shows exist. Why all those magazines and shyt exist. Her opinion is shaped by well known authority figures. Be it Oprah, Phil, Us Weekly, Her doctor, a minister.....

And yes, her opinion will change based on either a man seemingly putting her on a pedestal or a man justifying her feelings. Stuff like that is done every day in mass social media and advertizing. It's a trap. Tell a woman she's never wrong about an obvious wrong and get her to react on the fact that she's "right". She'll be yours forever. Because god forbid she's ever wrong.

About anything.



I made a post a while back in some thread or another. They were asking how do you know when it's over. I said it was when she brings back another nikka's opinion, especially of you.... and casually throws it in your face. Lotta folks asked what I meant. That's what I meant.



Somewhere in all of her whining and complaining, there's going to be one or two material things her main isn't doing. She's gonna harp on that shyt cause she feels entitled to it. And god forbid (again) she doesn't get what she wants. Even when she's wrong for wanting it or not working to get it herself.

Her man will see it in many forms. She may let it slip that other men would do it. She may try new sexual things that you may like with him although she's never wanted to do them before.

When he sees this, he's gonna pitch a fit. He's prolly gonna tell her exactly whats going on. She's gonna feign innocence (because she's never wrong) and come back to you, crying and desperately wanting to be justified. Cause she's "right". And you're the only man alive that understands her. Even though she KNOWS she's wrong.

Their relationship will be all but over. At that point, all you have to do is "surprise" her with that one or two small things that her man wouldn't do. Could be a trip somewhere. Could be getting her hair done or buying her some shoes she wanted or a purse she was craving. You don't have to do anything else.

All of the other stuff that nikka was doing will go right out the window. Helping her pay bills, dealing with her silliness, taking care of her when she's sick, raising her kid even though it's not his, trips, dates, dinners, breakfast, whatever. None of it will matter at that point.

She'll be yours forever to do with what you see fit. Her man will be in the bushes. She'll say you're just a friend for one or two months and will only be doling out handjobs and sucking your dikk (cause that's not committed sex) so she won't be seen as whorish and selfish.

After that "grace period where she wants to see if the relationship is gonna work before she gets serious", you can do whatever you please. Put the bytch on ignore. Let her overcompensate for the guilt by constantly catering to you. Cleaning your house. Putting up with drama. Watching you fukk the bytches like you always have while listening to Mary J. Blige songs. She'll put up with ALL of it. Cause she knows the last dude ain't taking her back, and her esteem of what she's worth will be lower than it was. and "relationships take work." She's not going anywhere. The opposite of before, she has TOO MUCH to lose by leaving.

And above all else.... she can't be perceived as having been "wrong".



And the dude she fukked over?

He'll be trying to find some peace of mind by venting about the shyt on a message board at 6 in the morning.

It ain't gonna work, though.

If you're hanging on to new posts in this thread.... you can use this as a cautionary tale, or use it in your future endeavors.

If you read all of that.

That's my last two relationships. I'm not letting it happen again.

 

[Mr. Negative]

on a side note, three days ago I tripped across a vid of a chick I used to care about giving head to a nikka on a couch.

That same day, I saw another chick I cared DEEPLY for taking a selfie while naked from the waist down in JBO.

Even though those girls come from two extremely different profile makeups and social/economical backgrounds..... Maybe the universe is trying to tell me something about my choice in women?

I refuse to look at it as "all women are the same".

ah.... I'm becoming jaded as fukk.

 

[MikelArteta]

The average woman of today is in the club every weekend

The average woman of today has 10-20 good guy friends

The average woman of today has 150 guys in her phone

The average woman of today dresses scandalous

The average woman of today has 1-2 abortions on her resume

The average woman of today has or had a STD

The average woman of today cheats on her boyfriend

The average woman of today curses like a sailor

The average woman of today wears to much makeup

The average woman of today seeks attention whether negative or positive

The average woman of today is on dating sites getting 100 msgs a day

The average woman of today expects you to pay her bills

The average woman of today expects you to raise and accept her child out of wedlock

The average woman of today rarely brings any redeeming qualities to the table

The average woman of today is manipulative

The average woman of today is selfish

The average woman of today gets bored easily

The average woman of today is on facebook twitter instagram feeding her ego through likes and followers

The average woman of today would be stoned and called a harlot 3,000 years ago

The average woman of today rides the cock carousel

The average woman of today gives it up on the first night

The average woman of today is unappreciative

The average woman of today has lewd photos or videos on the internet

The average woman of today follows hypergamy

The average woman of today files for divorce 70 percent of the time

The average woman of today looks for a starter husband

The average woman of today can't tell the difference between a guy who cares about them and a guy who just wants them for sex

The average woman of today is unfit to marry or even call a girlfriend.

on a side note, three days ago I tripped across a vid of a chick I used to care about giving head to a nikka on a couch.

That same day, I saw another chick I cared DEEPLY for taking a selfie while naked from the waist down in JBO.

Even though those girls come from two extremely different profile makeups and social/economical backgrounds..... Maybe the universe is trying to tell me something about my choice in women?

I refuse to look at it as "all women are the same".

ah.... I'm becoming jaded as fukk.

 

[MikelArteta]

on a side note, three days ago I tripped across a vid of a chick I used to care about giving head to a nikka on a couch.

That same day, I saw another chick I cared DEEPLY for taking a selfie while naked from the waist down in JBO.

Even though those girls come from two extremely different profile makeups and social/economical backgrounds..... Maybe the universe is trying to tell me something about my choice in women?

I refuse to look at it as "all women are the same".

ah.... I'm becoming jaded as fukk.

I think the one thing you learn as a man is that women can frustrate you greatly. You can be the best thing to happen to say a woman everyone can see it, you can love her with all your heart, treat her with respect but it means absolutely nothing.


she'll whore herself out and sleep around, she will chase after men that are no good and the messed up thing you'll still care about her deeply but she thinks this attention she is getting = love.

its frustrating sometimes becasue your like damn i would have treated you great, i loved you, but this is the life you want, sucking some dudes dikk on video, taking nudes of yourself, drinking and clubbing, being ran through left and righ.

 

[Kenny West]

bruh what happened to gems and dealing with women?

last few pages been all criticism and stories

 

[Flay Mayweather]

bruh what happened to gems and dealing with women?

last few pages been all criticism and stories

reincar dropping gems everyday breh, you just need an eye to spot em.

 

[MikelArteta]

Sometimes men have to let what's on their mind out it Still ties into women etc.

bruh what happened to gems and dealing with women?

last few pages been all criticism and stories