Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Looking forward tonight, man she is already to be my man, Im def. vibin with her, but then I have that voice in my mind saying its too soon. Last few nights we have talked on the phone for like an hour and a half. Up until sunday we had just been texting each other. Unlike with previous chicks I havent picked up anything that concerns me. I will finally see her crib tonight. One thing she has had to make some sorta big decisions this week and she has asked for my opinion on things havent really experienced that in just the dating phase. She is much smarter than I initially thought, college degree, no kids, nice job and she actually talks about her goals but also how she is going to achieve them
 

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Breh, I blame Walt Disney for this shyt. If it wasn't for me watching them damn Disney movies growing up thinking that all that fairy tale shyt is true, I would've been a better person growing up.

Even my mother told me that women were no good, and to leave them alone. But I still insisted on being a gentleman because I was so caught up on that Disney fantasy shyt. Scust at my sister for allowing me to watch such nonsense :smh:

:to: i know or them love story movies be like so thats how u get them females and treat em when in reality u do that u get shytted on :sadbron:
 

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Being a gentleman, nice guy gets you nowhere with most women. Some good hearted broads respect that but those are wife's up at a young age.

Movies show you that

A loving faithful man, who cherishes his woman, is a great father, doesn't bring drama or confrontation into the relationship is adored and a great catch .

However in reality the player, cheater, club hopper, guy who treats his woman like crap, only uses her for sex, forgets her birthday, valentines day, every day is filled with drama and confrontation is the one her hearts beat for.
 

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I've been in love twice and both women :to:

My first love I was innocent and dumb. I didn't even drive back then and she lived two hours away by bus so like 3 times a week I'd bus it there after work, sometimes it wqa only for like 15 minutes :snoop: because she got called intowork etc.

I believed in all those fairy ttales :to:

Second love was the worst because she knew how bad I was hurt in the past and sprinkled that bs how she would never hurt me like my ex did only to carve my heart out more. Then I ran through pumped and dumpedbrowds left and right till I achieved peace

man it does i cant lie it changed me the first girl i fell in love with changed me for life and left her scar on my heart. i became an @sshole
before that i was 80% nice 20% @sshole

now im at least 50% @sshole ( even higher due too health issues so im moody :to:) hate too say it. she made me never trust a female 100% again no matter who im with and never fall so deep in love u lose common sense of who you are

on the brighter side i tolerate less shyt from them too and quick too throw em in the bushes

i know right now im married and its different so i dont toss her in the bushes i just dont pay her any attention when she pisses me off or doesnt listen

damn first love had me on some cloud 9 shyt i was on the biggest simp level i ever have been in my life and it was like i couldnt help myself and i knew what i wanted too stop but couldnt

she even had me apologizing on issues that werent my fault wtf kind of shyt is that :to:

but due too her hurting me it changed me for the better and the worse but most of all it made me open my eyes too reality and im thankful for that part at least
 

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I've been in love twice and both women :to:

My first love I was innocent and dumb. I didn't even drive back then and she lived two hours away by bus so like 3 times a week I'd bus it there after work, sometimes it wqa only for like 15 minutes :snoop: because she got called intowork etc.

I believed in all those fairy ttales :to:

Second love was the worst because she knew how bad I was hurt in the past and sprinkled that bs how she would never hurt me like my ex did only to carve my heart out more. Then I ran through pumped and dumpedbrowds left and right till I achieved peace


ya first love i used too take that crowded ass train in japan she lived like 2 hrs away would go see her on the weekends and stay at her parents house or she stay at my barracks

family loved me spoke no english first day i met them they made me chicken and beer :whew:

slept downstairs the first night after that they let me sleep in same room with her saw me as their son since we were engaged and the day i left back too states was so hard i was so depressed crying in her arms leaving her

then i get back too states first month good and then THE CHEATING :sadbron: i never recovered from that with her especially when i called it off and needed time from the pain she gave me a ultimatium either stay engaged or never talk again which i took never talk again since it was like u cheated and u telling me i have too choose seriously wtf that set me over the edge :to:
 

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one of the hardest things is being in love with a beautiful girl and its being over, and you knowing every dude is hollering at her and every one has a better chance than you :to:

ah well :ehh:
 

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Split with my lady, hurting brehs :to:

let it out breh

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Split with my lady, hurting brehs :to:

Time definitely heals wounds, and it will eventually come to your attention that you split for a reason, and that it gives you an opportunity to find someone who fits even better.
 

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Have any of you ever been that guy that (or still am) that guy that always got/gets overlooked due to being judged over bullshyt?
 
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