Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Women tell that best bf fish to every guy they date.

Dump her.

Trust me I've been where you been feeling like dumping a broad but getting sucked in due to words etc. And staying , afraid of hurting her feelings. Then what ends up you fall for them, then it gets harder to end it. Then one day they will end it and you'll be like :damn:

I haven't been in here in a min but I'm going through a crisis right now :lupe:

Been seeing this one chick for about 4 months and its been going good....she goes above and beyond to please me but they're a few things I don't like. One in particular is the smoking. At first I thought she did it occasionally but as I got to be around her more its roughly 10 a day :damn: I hate it, I hate the smell of it and the taste of it. I told her this and she's been trying to cut back and eventually quit. For the most part I've been good, no cheating or fukking around on her. Lately I've just been ready to move on, I can't deal with the smoking anymore. It makes me not want to hug or kiss her because that's all I can smell. At the beginning of this month I met 2 chicks....1 of which we've been on 6 dates already but haven't fukked but I got a feeling it's going down this week or next :ooh: anyway she has a lot going on for her and is really into me. The 2nd chick we met once at the beginning of Sept and haven't been able to get up again because our schedules and due to the fact she lives a hour away, but we talk a lot on the phone. She's really feeling me due to the fact I'm not like other dudes who are pressed to take her out or spend all this time with. Right now she's been treated like an option :ld:

So I was ready to cut all ties with the chick I've been seeing for 4 months until she sent me a text how I'm best boyfriend she ever had yada, yada, yada, and that she loves me and she hopes that doesn't scare me away. On top of that she surprised me and bought me GTA V :wow: Now I feel like an @sshole if I dump her :sadbron:

But the chick I've been on 6 dates with :banderas: its scary how much we have in common and how well we get along. She's already made your boy dinner twice and has been paying for dates :mindblown:

But my 4 month chick treats me like a king :ohlawd: I'm talking home cooked meals, sex whenever, real meals (steaks, pastas, asparagus, desserts, whatever) had a steak last night with roasted potatoes and roasted broccoli...:noah:

Right now I'm living like a king but I don't want to have all 3 of these women (can't believe I said that :lupe: ) its too much work and effort. I have to make a choice soon....
 

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and now that i think about it the girls (like 3) i know at my job are always telling me to smile and stop looking so :demonic: and :stopitslime:
so is that the reason these hoes arent giving me any signs

i suffer from the same issue...

These broads play whiplash with their necks when I catch them looking.....

I try to look "approachable"but within a hour,im back to the :birdman: face....

Cant help it:beli:
 

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what happened

I told her I'm leaving to go back home tomorrow so she caught an attitude. So, I was like ite fukk it... I left at the gym and shyt and went to my room to change so I could get something to eat. So, she texting and ish, saying why I leave her and all this other nonsense. I left out my dorm and we walked to the student center to get some food. She talking shyt, everything she saying I shut her down real quick. We in line waiting for food, she sitting there with a stank face. I ordered my food and she ordered hers... she order a chicken Caesar salad and I order a bbq chicken wrap. These wraps are small as shyt breh... like my fist are bigger than the wraps. This bytch had the nerve of asking me let me get half of your wrap:rudy:. (bytch got a full meal while I'm stuck with this stank ass wrap) I looked at her:wtf: like pshhhh you buggin. She seen I wasn't paying her any attention... As I'm consuming my other half of the wrap she say "you really gon eat the wrap and not give me a piece". :rudy::rudy::rudy::rudy::rudy::rudy::rudy::rudy::rudy:

GTFO my face:camby:
She walked away from me all sad and whatever. This the second time I stopped fukking with her over a mfkin wrap
 

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I told her I'm leaving to go back home tomorrow so she caught an attitude. So, I was like ite fukk it... I left at the gym and shyt and went to my room to change so I could get something to eat. So, she texting and ish, saying why I leave her and all this other nonsense. I left out my dorm and we walked to the student center to get some food. She talking shyt, everything she saying I shut her down real quick. We in line waiting for food, she sitting there with a stank face. I ordered my food and she ordered hers... she order a chicken Caesar salad and I order a bbq chicken wrap. These wraps are small as shyt breh... like my fist are bigger than the wraps. This bytch had the nerve of asking me let me get half of your wrap:rudy:. (bytch got a full meal while I'm stuck with this stank ass wrap) I looked at her:wtf: like pshhhh you buggin. She seen I wasn't paying her any attention... As I'm consuming my other half of the wrap she say "you really gon eat the wrap and not give me a piece". :rudy::rudy::rudy::rudy::rudy::rudy::rudy::rudy::rudy:

GTFO my face:camby:
She walked away from me all sad and whatever. This the second time I stopped fukking with her over a mfkin wrap
:what::lupe::shaq2:
 

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Man relationships be fukkIN PEOPLE UP!!!

got dayum! Especially at that late 20's and up stage. It turns good people into hollow beings. It fukks some people up for life... they never recover. I keep hearing stories of situations turning sour and folks being fukked up as a result of it. Was it always like this? maybe we just didn't notice it as kids.

*turns head to the left and slightly lowers it*

:wow:

man it does i cant lie it changed me the first girl i fell in love with changed me for life and left her scar on my heart. i became an a$$hole
before that i was 80% nice 20% a$$hole

now im at least 50% a$$hole ( even higher due too health issues so im moody :to:) hate too say it. she made me never trust a female 100% again no matter who im with and never fall so deep in love u lose common sense of who you are

on the brighter side i tolerate less shyt from them too and quick too throw em in the bushes

i know right now im married and its different so i dont toss her in the bushes i just dont pay her any attention when she pisses me off or doesnt listen

damn first love had me on some cloud 9 shyt i was on the biggest simp level i ever have been in my life and it was like i couldnt help myself and i knew what i wanted too stop but couldnt

she even had me apologizing on issues that werent my fault wtf kind of shyt is that :to:

but due too her hurting me it changed me for the better and the worse but most of all it made me open my eyes too reality and im thankful for that part at least
 

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man it does i cant lie it changed me the first girl i fell in love with changed me for life and left her scar on my heart. i became an @sshole
before that i was 80% nice 20% @sshole

now im at least 50% @sshole ( even higher due too health issues so im moody :to:) hate too say it. she made me never trust a female 100% again no matter who im with and never fall so deep in love u lose common sense of who you are

on the brighter side i tolerate less shyt from them too and quick too throw em in the bushes

i know right now im married and its different so i dont toss her in the bushes i just dont pay her any attention when she pisses me off or doesnt listen

damn first love had me on some cloud 9 shyt i was on the biggest simp level i ever have been in my life and it was like i couldnt help myself and i knew what i wanted too stop but couldnt

she even had me apologizing on issues that werent my fault wtf kind of shyt is that :to:

but due too her hurting me it changed me for the better and the worse but most of all it made me open my eyes too reality and im thankful for that part at least

I told this chick once that guys aren't a$$holes by nature, it was a chick that made them that way.
 

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I told this chick once that guys aren't @ssholes by nature, it was a chick that made them that way.

i mean ya some are in general but some are like me who were just chilled nice guys who became one due too a female playing games with their feelings and it changed them cuz they see females flock more too a$$holes then the nice guy

now i didnt become one for them too flock too me cuz they still did regardless i became one due too the serious hurt she put me thru and was never that same nice guy all the time even my family noticed the change

thats y i tell a female it may sound mean as hell if i say na this aint gonna work as truth too u but its better than me fukking around on you and her becoming something she shouldnt

i call it like it i see it
 

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i mean ya some are in general but some are like me who were just chilled nice guys who became one due too a female playing games with their feelings and it changed them cuz they see females flock more too @ssholes then the nice guy

now i didnt become one for them too flock too me cuz they still did regardless i became one due too the serious hurt she put me thru and was never that same nice guy all the time even my family noticed the change

thats y i tell a female it may sound mean as hell if i say na this aint gonna work as truth too u but its better than me fukking around on you and her becoming something she shouldnt

i call it like it i see it

I lost a lot of trust in females when this one accused me of the R word. She was crazy as hell and I told her I couldn't be with her.... She told her moms, called the cops, and everything. But, I saved all the texts she sent and didn't get arrested. The bish had the nerve to text me a couple days after and say let's chill, imu:stopitslime:
 

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I lost a lot of trust in females when this one accused me of the R word. She was crazy as hell and I told her I couldn't be with her.... She told her moms, called the cops, and everything. But, I saved all the texts she sent and didn't get arrested. The bish had the nerve to text me a couple days after and say let's chill, imu:stopitslime:

dont get me started on that r word. i almost didnt graduate high school cuz of some stupid chic accused me of that cuz i wouldnt smash her. i was a virgin in high school and my mind set was save for marriage or at least with the one u love and she was neither. she was always pressing for the D and i said flat out no and she told my teacher that and i had too see the principal and got investigated and she came clean bout it eventually also i had strong supporters who knew how i was so it took like 2 days too get cleared up she got suspeneded for the whole school year i think
 

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I told her I'm leaving to go back home tomorrow so she caught an attitude. So, I was like ite fukk it... I left at the gym and shyt and went to my room to change so I could get something to eat. So, she texting and ish, saying why I leave her and all this other nonsense. I left out my dorm and we walked to the student center to get some food. She talking shyt, everything she saying I shut her down real quick. We in line waiting for food, she sitting there with a stank face. I ordered my food and she ordered hers... she order a chicken Caesar salad and I order a bbq chicken wrap. These wraps are small as shyt breh... like my fist are bigger than the wraps. This bytch had the nerve of asking me let me get half of your wrap:rudy:. (bytch got a full meal while I'm stuck with this stank ass wrap) I looked at her:wtf: like pshhhh you buggin. She seen I wasn't paying her any attention... As I'm consuming my other half of the wrap she say "you really gon eat the wrap and not give me a piece". :rudy::rudy::rudy::rudy::rudy::rudy::rudy::rudy::rudy:

GTFO my face:camby:
She walked away from me all sad and whatever. This the second time I stopped fukking with her over a mfkin wrap


:russ::russ::russ: real nikka shyt i feel you breh
 

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dont get me started on that r word. i almost didnt graduate high school cuz of some stupid chic accused me of that cuz i wouldnt smash her. i was a virgin in high school and my mind set was save for marriage or at least with the one u love and she was neither. she was always pressing for the D and i said flat out no and she told my teacher that and i had too see the principal and got investigated and she came clean bout it eventually also i had strong supporters who knew how i was so it took like 2 days too get cleared up she got suspeneded for the whole school year i think

That's crazy breh.
My boy almost got kicked out of college over the R word. The girl accused him, but the only he did was finger her. Then she made up some story about me and my other boy waited for her to come out so we could pressure her to have sex with him. Her friend wanted me to smash but once the accusations happened I never got my chance to. Her puss smelled crazy too, something really foul and fierce. I look her now....man, she disgust me :scusthov:

:lupe:I still wonder why she accused him though guilt maybe?
 

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bout to hit up this fat booty dime tomorrow and ask her if she wants some lunch... ive had her number for a min but im so lax with these hoes i frustrate myself :wow: thats my prob brehs.. i get the number and lose interest :smh:
 
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man it does i cant lie it changed me the first girl i fell in love with changed me for life and left her scar on my heart. i became an @sshole
before that i was 80% nice 20% @sshole

now im at least 50% @sshole ( even higher due too health issues so im moody :to:) hate too say it. she made me never trust a female 100% again no matter who im with and never fall so deep in love u lose common sense of who you are

on the brighter side i tolerate less shyt from them too and quick too throw em in the bushes

i know right now im married and its different so i dont toss her in the bushes i just dont pay her any attention when she pisses me off or doesnt listen

damn first love had me on some cloud 9 shyt i was on the biggest simp level i ever have been in my life and it was like i couldnt help myself and i knew what i wanted too stop but couldnt

she even had me apologizing on issues that werent my fault wtf kind of shyt is that :to:

but due too her hurting me it changed me for the better and the worse but most of all it made me open my eyes too reality and im thankful for that part at least

Breh, I blame Walt Disney for this shyt. If it wasn't for me watching them damn Disney movies growing up thinking that all that fairy tale shyt is true, I would've been a better person growing up.

Even my mother told me that women were no good, and to leave them alone. But I still insisted on being a gentleman because I was so caught up on that Disney fantasy shyt. Scust at my sister for allowing me to watch such nonsense :smh:
 
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