Before I began dating, I was a firm believer in the idea of “leagues” (in essence, you can call them the Hierarchies of Courtship).
Would always tell myself, “Man, she wouldn’t like me, she has all this stuff going for herself – what would she want with me to do for?” Basically, was defeating myself before the approach.
That ideology was why I struggled so much in my younger years with finding a companion; because I didn’t feel qualified, experienced/skilled or felt handsome enough.
Thus, my confidence levels were always muddling around… below sea level (I was swimming with guppies around corals just waiting for my luck to change).
It wasn’t until I realized that I started observing my own lady friends and coming to terms with the idea that women are people too; they aren’t any different from me in terms of the food I eat, the air of breathe, how they bleed what I bleed and how they were brought into this world. The only difference between every woman and myself was that they don’t know the power of love that I harnessed – I just had to somehow manifest the proverbial Bruce Leroy Glow from within.
Women; whether beautiful, successful, socially adept, sought after… or all the above… are all attainable. How you achieve that goal with them is ultimate in the power of your own minds eye.
Every woman, even though she may have that all too encompassing and (dare I say it), shallow laundry lists of accolades, attributes and prerequisites a man should be equipped with, but by the end of the day… almost every woman wants the same thing in a man:
Whether its to a dinner date, a movie show, to a shin dig, with advice on life, to give her insight on her qualms or inquiries… or in the bed room.
A woman wants a man who can lead her. He ain’t got to be extreme ballin’, he ain’t gotta be IT certified… shiiit… he might even take the bus to work (the reason I mentioned this is cuz I’ve seen it happen, regular guys with exceptional auras changing the woman they datings’ lives). .
But a woman responds extremely well to self-assuredness, direction, free spirit, kindness/gentility and utter confidence.
It wasn’t until I realized that I had the ability to date whomever I wanted; irregardless of my situation (and trust, I don’t have everything together – but a peace of mind that gives me internal wealth to umph degrees, that alone, allows me to emit an energy that resonates with the female species).
And right now... all the hard years i had to experience with being down on myself, not understanding why women were giving me such a hard time, why the constant flakes and rejection, being opted
for some chode opposed to my advances... i was basically being naive - but it wasn't as though i felt entitled to anything, i just wanted a chance at love.
If you believe you deserve it... the universe will serve it.
In my eye, leagues don't exist; if you want her, just go and get her.
Cuz you gotta think.. and there's so many beautiful, single, lonely ladies who need to be loved, held, admired and appreciated - and passionate fornicated until the break of dawn.
So my fellow Gems thread brothers...
...it's time to B.I.T.E.
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random broad from my past texted me last night. I deleted her number last time i talked to her like 2 years ago, figured she wanted either to boost her ego or a favor;
well already 
Fight the good fight this week brehs. Go after what you want, remember, the worst that can happen is she say no. You save time and money 
The lesson I took out of this for myself is: DON'T get into a relationship at all when you're at a low ebb. Sharks always smell blood and will do what they do, but you have to build up the strength to resist the temptation of gravitating towards the first female who shows you attention - whether you're rich or not. They see you at a low point, but when they feel there's something in it for them, they take advantage. 
I'm thinking about minajing her and her roommate. Her roommate thick, light skin, and have hazel eyes. Me and the chick was working out today. I'm her instructor and shyt. I had her doing kegals getting that cooch tight for me
. I want her walls to be able to jerk my dikk. She was down for the workout too
She cool though, I broke her heart and made her cry when we was in High School, but I'm hoping she don't remember that shyt.
