Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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when you get a chicks name and number do you search for her on twitter or facebook to see what else you can find out about her
 

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when you get a chicks name and number do you search for her on twitter or facebook to see what else you can find out about her
I will/do now. Although I hate social media it can be very affective in terms of background/update checks. If you know what you are doing. It will work even better if you actually have something to start w/. A friends name or an old boyfriends name. Then look who is commenting on their page and also check their friends list. Use a fake account.
 

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I have noticed recently, if your are not a pushover to many women the "misogynist" and "chauvinist" labels will get thrown your way quite often. I've been questioning myself, but the close women I do trust assure me that I'm good. :wow:
 

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I will/do now. Although I hate social media it can be very affective in terms of background/update checks. If you know what you are doing. It will work even better if you actually have something to start w/. A friends name or an old boyfriends name. Then look who is commenting on their page and also check their friends list. Use a fake account.


I dont have a real facebook account so thats all I use is a dummy account. This one chick who I recently met, we are going out tonight I was trying to look her up. I know that she is a teacher and where in the city she is a teacher at, I looked up all the schools in the area to find a last name, but I couldnt find a teacher with her first name
 

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I have noticed recently, if your are not a pushover to many women the "misogynist" and "chauvinist" labels will get thrown your way quite often. I've been questioning myself, but the close women I do trust assure me that I'm good. :wow:
lol, i get called that sometimes. sexist also. in two cases they actually ended up telling me "you're mean but you're actually cool overall"

they just hate that you won't bend to their entitlement for no reason. and they can feel it's not because i'm trying to get over. it's bigger than them (principle) and that's what they hate but respect at the same time. their whole quest is to get you to submit to their desires before submitting to your own principle because that's the equivalent of forfeiting your soul for their pleasure and desire (so they get the ultimate power over you). when they don't get their way they try to shame you with words. It used to fukk with me and i would question myself. now it actually reassures me if they come up with those words and can't back it up with actual logic or rationale.
once they see the shaming language doesn't affect you they either step away or they :wow: and eat from your hand.

never give up your principle UNLESS you truly see an error in it. Never allow fear to change your principle (fear of shame, fear of loss, fear of death). only logic should make you change your principle.
 

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I get labeled with that always its called shaming language.

Funny thing is I've never cheated, abused, or even like call women names but folks still throw that on me because my ideology isn't PC.


I have noticed recently, if your are not a pushover to many women the "misogynist" and "chauvinist" labels will get thrown your way quite often. I've been questioning myself, but the close women I do trust assure me that I'm good. :wow:
 

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I have noticed recently, if your are not a pushover to many women the "misogynist" and "chauvinist" labels will get thrown your way quite often. I've been questioning myself, but the close women I do trust assure me that I'm good. :wow:

And they wonder why so many sissies are running around.

They made em. :camby:
 

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I love my mother, but she accuses me of this at times as well. I see the first hand experience of a grown woman without a father and the effects. Fortunately she got married to my dad. :snoop:
 

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One of my best friends is going through it with his girl of 5 years...whose 5 years younger then him at 22, and he's been talking about marrying her and having kids, he's 100 hung up on her, and she moved out from their spot 2 days ago, and he's so in denial about it, she went to her moms for a few days....saying she wants to 'get back to how it was when they first met', 'too comfortable', and my boy is just not getting it, that is may be over....She told him she's been spending too little time on herself, I thought that was laughable....I told him, she CHOOSES to work a full time job, go to school full time, and work on the side....where is this selflessness coming from? What does she do for anyone else? "uhhh she tries to be home when I get home from work" She sees 100% of her proceeds....And I LIKE this girl, but shes ready to move on, imo, she wants to party and be single, she's fukking 22, not play house with her homebody boyfriend, whos my boy but thats how it is....I told my friend act like you are ready to move on too, I think she's just calming the waters and bracing him...its partly through all the building and bullshytting in here that I see this much more clearly then I may have a few years ago though analysis has never been a weak point with me..
 

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Yeah man, pretty much is distancing herself so she can 'do her.' That's what's tough as men. You sit back and think that by being the 'decent man' that you'll have a woman sticking around, but these young women want to party and do their thing and then look for mr. right when they're 30 and dusty. It's hard for most men to accept, but it is what it is.
 
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