One of my best friends is going through it with his girl of 5 years...whose 5 years younger then him at 22, and he's been talking about marrying her and having kids, he's 100 hung up on her, and she moved out from their spot 2 days ago, and he's so in denial about it, she went to her moms for a few days....saying she wants to 'get back to how it was when they first met', 'too comfortable', and my boy is just not getting it, that is may be over....She told him she's been spending too little time on herself, I thought that was laughable....I told him, she CHOOSES to work a full time job, go to school full time, and work on the side....where is this selflessness coming from? What does she do for anyone else? "uhhh she tries to be home when I get home from work" She sees 100% of her proceeds....And I LIKE this girl, but shes ready to move on, imo, she wants to party and be single, she's fukking 22, not play house with her homebody boyfriend, whos my boy but thats how it is....I told my friend act like you are ready to move on too, I think she's just calming the waters and bracing him...its partly through all the building and bullshytting in here that I see this much more clearly then I may have a few years ago though analysis has never been a weak point with me..