Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Mr210]

Ok And.... if she dont pick up?All im saying is this if you get the # hit her up...dont wait.I give everybody 72 hours,If I call somebody once and I dont hear from them immediately I dont get mad and delete the #,I give them 3 days. If I dont hear from them in 72 hours oh well...I aint calling back.They got caller ID they see my #.If she hasnt text you in 24 hours its for a reason...just chill Look man on this one go with your gut.Only you know whats best for you do you bruh[/quote


We are saying the same things the only difference is i give 24up hrs and you give 72. I call or text once..if i dont hear back then im done with her. Simple as that i never hit up a chick more than once

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Great minds think alike

 

[RiffRaff]

fukk bytches mane




























I just got burned so bad brehs, and it stings. Basically she lost interest me, but was still leading me on while we kissing and holding hands. She don't even care We were never official but chirping for a few months all but dating. I saw the red flags in her personality but I fell so hard. It hurts brehs

 

[Sensitive Blake Griffin]

Bout to give up on this bytch bruhs and just go into no fukks given mode

 

[twan83]

fukk bytches mane

I just got burned so bad brehs, and it stings. Basically she lost interest me, but was still leading me on while we kissing and holding hands. She don't even care We were never official but chirping for a few months all but dating. I saw the red flags in her personality but I fell so hard. It hurts brehs

thats where u messed up at NEVER OFFICIAL u can have fun and all but u dont put ur all ur eggs in one basket like that aka put all ur feelings like that. i could understand if she was ur gf though

hmm u saw all the red flags and still went in too me it sounds like u didnt exactly fall hard is what i would say i would call it blind love

blind love = u know its wrong and it feels wrong but being around her feels so damn good like being on cloud 9. ur not being ur normal self around her but u want too but cant and dont care as long as u got her and with her ur happy as can be aka u lose common sense in this state


i know fam it hurts just learn from this very important mistake and take time too heal and better urself. once u have had blind love once u usually can recognize it again and wont let it happen cuz ur common sense kicks in more

 

[twan83]

Bout to give up on this bytch bruhs and just go into no fukks given mode

nothing wrong with i dont give a fukk mode ive done it just be careful and not use the i dont give a fukk mode on the wrong female that is a keeper and look back like fukk

just control it is all im saying like a light switch know when too turn it on and off and u will be good

 

[kevm3]

since we talking about nightclubs, how do yall feel about going out clubbing with your lady?

Nah, best to avoid going to clubs (I'm assuming some hip-hop or modern music club) altogether and avoiding women who go when you are serious about someone. As I keep telling people, there is nothing conducive for relationships in a night club. Are ya'll just going to sit at the table all night and have drinks or dance with each other all night? Otherwise you're going to have to deal with the issues that come up when you see your girl grinding on some other dude or she sees some girl grinding on you.

Also, as soon as you leave, you already know some guy is going to come and press up on her and try to spit some game, so you're going to have to deal with that potential issue as well. If you do go, make it a very rare thing, such as you and a whole bunch of your friends going together. Last thing you want is a woman who thinks clubbing regularly is an acceptable activity, because if she regularly goes with you, she's probably going to want to go herself.

Type of club matters as well. If you're talking about a hip-hop type club, that's something completely different than a laid back jazz lounge.

 

[MikelArteta]

I would never date a woman who goes clubbing

 

[Mr210]

I havent dated a chick that hit up clubs since I was like 21-22

 

[MikelArteta]

I havent dated a chick that hit up clubs since I was like 21-22

if there is one thing I have learned as I got older is if your dating someone make sure htey have the same values and morals as you thats more important than looks. If a girl is always in the club you cant expect her to stop because she is dating you , instead find a broad who doesn't go clubbing all the time.

people live the lives they want to live

 

[Seth Brundle]

How many previous sexual partners would the coli fam expect from a college educated 30 year old woman? Started having sex at 16, one prior 5 year relationship, a couple of six month ones. Absolutely beautiful girl, amazing personality. In my own mind I'd estimate about 30, which is only about 3 a year average - 'ho phase' notwithstanding.

Any number wouldn't bother me, just interested in the breh perspective.

 

[MikelArteta]

How many previous sexual partners would the coli fam expect from a college educated 30 year old woman? Started having sex at 16, one prior 5 year relationship, a couple of six month ones. Absolutely beautiful girl, amazing personality. In my on mind I'd estimate about 30, which is only about 3 a year average - 'ho phase' notwithstanding.

Any number wouldn't bother me, just interested in the breh perspective.

Just because she is college educated doesn't make it any less ok in my opinion, some of the biggest whores out there have bachelors and masters degree.

Key is what are you comfortable with? some dudes will marry a former porn star, some dudes won't.

A few pages back an article was posted

1.) Girls with high N counts are fukking crazy. With the biological threats of partner desertion, death by childbirth, and incurable STDs, having a high partner had been a biologically impossibility for a woman until the 21st century. As such, women are emotionally inequipped to handle all the emotional baggage that comes with getting their goods plundered by many pirate ships. Consider we are the same humans today that we were in 1850, and in that time any girl with double digit sexual partners was almost certainly a poverty stricken prostitute. Even if a girl does not have a very high N count, her sexual past still shows her general character and emotional stability. Did she rebound failed relationships by fukking guys because she had to feel pretty and wanted? Did she seek out a lot of bad boys, older men, rich guys, etc.? Does she use guys for validation because she has a hole in her soul? Is she fukking only boyfriends, or does she have a history of fukking cool guys who won’t commit to her? These things matter. Experienced players can vouch for the fact that craziness and sluttiness are highly correlated.

2.) For every sexual partner a girl has, her capacity to emotionally bond to her next sexual partner decreases. The less sexual partners a girl has, the more deeply she can fall in love. The intensity of her heart throbbing, her butterflies, and how much her lover’s touch feels like electricity on her skin are all negatively correlated to how sexually experienced she is. The slut cannot enjoy sex with the same emotional intensity as her more chaste counterpart. If you want to inspire deepest love and passion possible, you want a partner with a thin sexual history.

3.) Nobody wants to treat somebody else’s whore like a princess. If a store is giving away free milk to every one else, and then tries to charge you full price, would you pay it? Could you walk to your car after purchasing milk, and see all the people who got free milk smirking at you for being a sucker because they got the same enjoyment out of the same milk for free? Simply put, a girl puts a price on her vagina, why outbid it? You wouldn’t pay above sticker price for a new car, would you?

4.) Baggage. The more partners a girl has, the more likely she is to have baggage, aka lingering feelings, past lovers coming out of nowhere to threaten your relationship, conflicting relationships in social circles you have to deal with, etc. Its not a small amount of relationships that end due to issues like this. Even if you think all the other reasons are bullshyt, you ignore this one at your own peril.

5.) STD risk (obvious).

6.) Past behavior predicts future behavior. It’s not a perfect predictor, but its the best indicator we have. If a girl has fukked a lot of guys in the past, she’ll probably fukk a lot of guys in the future. This means cheating risk, or the risk that she will end your relationship on a whim because she finds another guy she wants to fukk. And it goes deeper. Has she ever cheated on a past partner? If so, you’ll get cheated on. Does she accuse her exes of abusing her, but is sketchy on the details? If so, she’ll be telling people you abused her when you break up. Past sexual dalliances and relationship problems generally predict a future of the same.

7.) Evolutionary embedded disgust. It is not social conditioning that a man feels visceral disgust at the thought of his girls previous partners plowing her sweet nether regions. In past times, the seal of virginity was the only paternity guarantee available. A girl with multiple partners would give birth to a son of unknown fatherhood. The men would commit less resources, if any, to the raising of her child. Our biology demands that we treat girls who aren’t pure as pump and dumps. That we now have DNA testing doesn’t change the fact that a man feels repulsion at the thought of committing time, emotions and resources to a slut, because it could have meant genetic death via false paternity. The feeling is scientifically valid and cannot be invalidated by self-serving solipsism.

 

[Seth Brundle]

Thanks breh. I'm divorced, we've been together a year. I'm comfortable with the relationship, comfortable with her. Just a coversation I've never had in real life with anyone. I like women that like sex, and that comes with the obvious side effect of a past.

I don't think any number would bother me. I know things are perfect, just interested in a wider persective. A lot of guys let their own insecurities ruin good things, and that's not at all my issue here.

 

[MikelArteta]

Thanks breh. I'm divorced, we've been together a year. I'm comfortable with the relationship, comfortable with her. Just a coversation I've never had in real life with anyone. I like women that like sex, and that comes with the obvious side effect of a past.

I don't think any number would bother me. I know things are perfect, just interested in a wider persective. A lot of guys let their own insecurities ruin good things, and that's not at all my issue here.

True, well if you don't want to know don't ask. Even if you do ask more than likely she will lie

 

[Mr210]

How many previous sexual partners would the coli fam expect from a college educated 30 year old woman? Started having sex at 16, one prior 5 year relationship, a couple of six month ones. Absolutely beautiful girl, amazing personality. In my own mind I'd estimate about 30, which is only about 3 a year average - 'ho phase' notwithstanding.

Any number wouldn't bother me, just interested in the breh perspective.

I dont let that shyt play on my mind, because no good comes from it. I once had an ex gf tell me (w/o me asking) that she had slept with less than 20 guys. I didnt believe it because she was 37, supposedly lost her v-card when she was 22, so she was telling me basically in 15 years she slept with less than 20 guys...yeah right