Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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if there is one thing I have learned as I got older is if your dating someone make sure htey have the same values and morals as you thats more important than looks. If a girl is always in the club you cant expect her to stop because she is dating you , instead find a broad who doesn't go clubbing all the time.

people live the lives they want to live


yep, I agree, I learned that because im not really big into drinking and i once dated a chick where everytime we went out to eat or whatever she would get annoyed because I didnt always want to get a drink and she did
 

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if there is one thing I have learned as I got older is if your dating someone make sure htey have the same values and morals as you thats more important than looks. If a girl is always in the club you cant expect her to stop because she is dating you , instead find a broad who doesn't go clubbing all the time.

people live the lives they want to live

c/s 100% I def agree with that people need too read this. what I look like with a female always going out all time and im at home I don't approve of that shyt at all.

I have no problems if it aint often but a routine :mjpls:

I swear I keep telling people get off that looks train im not saying getting a ugly ass female either u can do just fine with a average jane doe who will respect u have a lot in common and treat u damn good instead of a dime who is just a dime that is lazy as fukk and disrespectful and untrustworthy but ya u can find one that is a good woman though too but too each their own
 

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c/s 100% I def agree with that people need too read this. what I look like with a female always going out all time and im at home I don't approve of that shyt at all.

I have no problems if it aint often but a routine :mjpls:

I swear I keep telling people get off that looks train im not saying getting a ugly ass female either u can do just fine with a average jane doe who will respect u have a lot in common and treat u damn good instead of a dime who is just a dime that is lazy as fukk and disrespectful and untrustworthy but ya u can find one that is a good woman though too but too each their own


what do you do when you have a good one but ur still not ready to settle down but you dont want to loose her either :sadcam:
 

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what do you do when you have a good one but ur still not ready to settle down but you dont want to loose her either :sadcam:

:to: why bring back bad memories

I was in that situation and she was literally my dream girl at that time no joke. she had it all for me. money, looks, sex, personality

but like u I wasn't ready too settle down and she was a good girl and what I did was let her go :snoop: :to:

I know I would of loved being with her no doubt but I was on not ready and still wanted too have fun and I knew I would of cheated on her and I didn't want too do that too her I truly didn't so I let her go and that was one of the hardest things i ever did knowing she was wifey material nothing more i could of asked but cuz i was just getting started having fun it wasn't fair too her or me too tie her down

even know im like :snoop: but i know it was the right thing too do cuz i would of broke her heart but fukk she was millionaire though :to: :snoop:
 

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Brehs need your help:

Girl went to the club last night with her friend she calls me on her way to her friends house saying she just wanted to hear my voice before she went out. We chop it up for a bit then I tell her to text me when she get there and when she gets home she says cool. We say our love you'd and hang up.

I stayed up cleaning and watching movies because my dumbass had my pre workout too late because of a late workout so I had hella energy.

Anyway it's 3:30am I text her like thanks for texting me
She responds with I'm still at the club babe.
I respond with the club closes at 3am :childplease:
(Mind you let out is 2:30am)
After I sent her that I haven't heard from her since.

I'm pissed I feel disrespected or am I just over exaggerating? I think it's just common courtesy when someone says text me when you get home you do so.

We were suppose to hang out today honestly I feel like telling her fukk that.
go mia
:to: why bring back bad memories

I was in that situation and she was literally my dream girl at that time no joke. she had it all for me. money, looks, sex, personality

but like u I wasn't ready too settle down and she was a good girl and what I did was let her go :snoop: :to:

I know I would of loved being with her no doubt but I was on not ready and still wanted too have fun and I knew I would of cheated on her and I didn't want too do that too her I truly didn't so I let her go and that was one of the hardest things i ever did knowing she was wifey material nothing more i could of asked but cuz i was just getting started having fun it wasn't fair too her or me too tie her down

even know im like :snoop: but i know it was the right thing too do cuz i would of broke her heart but fukk she was millionaire though :to: :snoop:
:mindblown: stop rationalizing, :ufdup:
 

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i learned dis past month, having like 30 different numbers in your phone and seeing 2 different women in the same night can keep you sane.

Abundance my young padawan's. Abundance. :blessed:
 

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It has to be emphasized again that women are creatures of emotion. If you are someone who thinks logically and expects anyone you're dealing with to think logically, or in other words, have a logical REASON for what they are doing, then you're going to be asking yourself, "Why in the world did she do that?" over and over?

With women, the main emotion that causes them to 'magically disappear' is boredom. The other one is when she starts feeling disgust for you when you allow her to disrespect you or you start operating outside of a masculine framework. Men typically think logically and most operate on something that resembles principle, such as if you treat me well, I'll treat you well. If you look out for me this time, I'll look out for you the next time. With women, no such thing exists. When dealing with men, women don't care how much you 'do for them'. They care how you make them feel. When you understand that, a lot of questions about why a woman is acting the way she does will disappear. "I was there for her whenever she needed, I paid for her school, I watched her kids, I fulfilled her every request. How could she do that to me?" Simple, it's not what you do for a woman, it's how you make her feel. Also, the more you do for her, the more you start making her feel like you are lesser in her mind. Just like if your boss handles your every request, you will feel like he's not the boss anymore, but you are the boss.

That's why the women you 'do stuff for' are the ones that do you bad, but the ones you are cold towards and are not really feeling are all over you. You retain a sense of mystery, challenge, etc., in her mind, thus sparking an emotion in her. It's sort of like the difference between watching a movie you've never seen before and watching a movie you like, but seeing it for the 14th time in the row. You'd much rather watch the new movie in most cases.
 

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i learned dis past month, having like 30 different numbers in your phone and seeing 2 different women in the same night can keep you sane.

Abundance my young padawan's. Abundance. :blessed:


Yep, I got a date tomorrow night, got another one later in the week, and currently working on a 3rd chick thats not even counting the other 2 chicks ive been hanging with, but sometimes it gets hard to juggle
 

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i learned dis past month, having like 30 different numbers in your phone and seeing 2 different women in the same night can keep you sane.

Abundance my young padawan's. Abundance. :blessed:

back in the day
ya i did that stayed busy just always gotta remember names was a pain in the ass cuz im bad with names
 

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back in the day
ya i did that stayed busy just always gotta remember names was a pain in the ass cuz im bad with names


remembering names is easy, its getting mixed up the things they tell your or their personal facts (ie job, siblings, interest)
 

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back in the day
ya i did that stayed busy just always gotta remember names was a pain in the ass cuz im bad with names
Shiiiiiit. Man for some reason all of my girl friends names have started why "Sh". The closes being Sharee and Sharece. Who I dated back to back. Never got them mixed up though.
 

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remembering names is easy, its getting mixed up the things they tell your or their personal facts (ie job, siblings, interest)

only because it was japanese names so u gotta understand hearing names like yuma, yumiko, rei, reika, seika etc
 
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