Cynical Thoughts
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That's gonna save me lots of sleepless nights.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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"There seemed to be a higher code of ethics and sisterliness among the prostitutes than among numerous ladies of the church who have more men for kicks than the prostitutes have for pay." - Page 94
Malcolm X's autobiography
Malcolm X's autobiography
TheIsleofMan
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"There seemed to be a higher code of ethics and sisterliness among the prostitutes than among numerous ladies of the church who have more men for kicks than the prostitutes have for pay." - Page 94
Malcolm X's autobiography
Malcolm X is a great book, one of my favorites. One of the realest lines is about him being a child and always crying and asking for food. His other siblings never did but while he ate, they starved. He learned that a closed mouth is never fed, even from his own family. I guess what I'm trying to explain is, that as a man, we'll always have to be the hunter. If you want women (or anything), you'll HAVE to open your mouth and be the hunter. Women have what you want, it's up to you to take it.
CrossBones
Louder than words
"There seemed to be a higher code of ethics and sisterliness among the prostitutes than among numerous ladies of the church who have more men for kicks than the prostitutes have for pay." - Page 94
Malcolm X's autobiography
I have to agree with you too, on how women today are dressing sluttier than prostitutes used to. it was not even that long ago. peep this, for a prostitute to actually stand out and not look like a civilian who just so happens to be dressing slutty, they have to wear cut off shorts with the booty meat showing. they go extra. they cant even just wear a really short skirt with heels on like they used to, because today bytches wear all that, and with heavier make up. women today reguarly got on tighter gear and everything. and many of them DO look like prostitutes walking the streets selling their puss. and on some levels ... they are.
but some of them at same time may act mad when they start getting all sorts of male attention.
when you think about it. the dualities. sooner than later, abytch straight up selling her p*ssy gonna have to wear a micro bikini on the corner to stand out from the pack
What men have to learn is that you won't get positive behavior from a woman by doing things for her. There's a lot of guys here who can attest to them doing any and everything for their woman, being there when she needed, maybe giving her money, and she threw that to the side. The only thing a woman really respects is a man that is above her, that can't be controlled and maintains his sense of mystery and respect.
I have to agree with you too, on how women today are dressing sluttier than prostitutes used to. it was not even that long ago. peep this, for a prostitute to actually stand out and not look like a civilian who just so happens to be dressing slutty, they have to wear cut off shorts with the booty meat showing. they go extra. they cant even just wear a really short skirt with heels on like they used to, because today bytches wear all that, and with heavier make up. women today reguarly got on tighter gear and everything. and many of them DO look like prostitutes walking the streets selling their puss. and on some levels ... they are.
but some of them at same time may act mad when they start getting all sorts of male attention.
And alot of these women who look like prostitutes walking the streets are "dancers" or "strippers" and try to play it off like its not the same thing as being a whore.....
then have the nerve to get "offended" at unwanted attention. If you do a quick glance in the search section of backpage you will see ads of girls with lockers behind them(implying they are in a strip club obviously). Hence why myself(and i hope you guys too) cannot take girls who are in that field seriously.
The whole "showing ass by accident" thing in public that they love to do just mind boggles me. How clueless do you have to be to have that on a whole continue to happen with them? Its like they don't make sure nothing is showing when they get dressed. You can't feel the wind on your naked ass behind you? And then doing something like wearing leggings where you can see the thong right through and them embarrassing their brother, father,etc.
Thanks man. I still have not purchased the book, I just saw the quote on another site. Its ironic because this proves once again women have been like this for ages and I guess some of us in here were a bit naive by trying to romanticize the past generations too much. Malcolm is actually talking about women taking their husband's money and giving it to other people.
The more things change the more they stay the same.
CrossBones
Louder than words
theres too much at stake to ever let a woman push you into a marriage. never let that happen. you have to be wide open to it on your own, it has to make sense, she has to let you lead, and ultimately you have to make sure you know what youre getting into.
the more I look at it, the less sense it makes. for me, the plunge is not worth it.
this is exactly why marriages shouldnt be pushed onto a man by a woman. theyre not thinking about the distant future, theyre thinking more about the here and now. also, the consequences for them are MUCH smaller than it is for a man. as a matter of fact, some women really do plan ahead and look to get married, have kids - then get divorced. from there they will get a new man, continuous money, and a fresh start. so really they get the most out of it anyways. we hold the damn bag and are told to man up and accept it. its a shame but this is what the system is making right now. women just have to change their mind in the middle of a marriage and then they can go on "winning" while the men have to foot the bill for it. its all dependant on how she feels, and not so much on anything that resembles good decision making.
when the weather changes, they could too. women are natural chameleons, so when they dont get molded correctly, are being molded by someone else, or outright reject whats going on and want their way, we as men are out of luck. everyone has to be objective and realize it.
the more I look at it, the less sense it makes. for me, the plunge is not worth it.
this is exactly why marriages shouldnt be pushed onto a man by a woman. theyre not thinking about the distant future, theyre thinking more about the here and now. also, the consequences for them are MUCH smaller than it is for a man. as a matter of fact, some women really do plan ahead and look to get married, have kids - then get divorced. from there they will get a new man, continuous money, and a fresh start. so really they get the most out of it anyways. we hold the damn bag and are told to man up and accept it. its a shame but this is what the system is making right now. women just have to change their mind in the middle of a marriage and then they can go on "winning" while the men have to foot the bill for it. its all dependant on how she feels, and not so much on anything that resembles good decision making.
when the weather changes, they could too. women are natural chameleons, so when they dont get molded correctly, are being molded by someone else, or outright reject whats going on and want their way, we as men are out of luck. everyone has to be objective and realize it.
get custody
i'm not joking but the highest molestation rate is between bfs and step daddies and their partner children
i saw this late but ill drop my pointers here, others have given great advice. Sorry your going through this breh.
I made a post on my blog yesterday that said dump her before she dumps you and what i was talking about, was that women give oyu signs when they no longer want to be with you, by her asking these questions she herself was unsure of the feeligns she had for you they were fading, that "spark" in the beginning was slowly eroding and her life was becoming repetitive. Having sex throughout all that time means nothing, women use sex to control and calm men fears.
It's like I always say women monkey branch, rarely do they want to be alone or single, its just like a job, what i mean by say your job is letting you go they plan months or weeks in advance you are the last to know so when you find out you get hit with a ton of bricks by friday your gone and by monday someone new has your gig, your desk in this case your women your kids. Her saying she loved you more crock of bs, most women have no idea what love is, love is NOT disrespectful like this, look i've been cheated on, lied to, mocked and those women also told me they loved me after the fact. See how she lied to you? women will bring up that dude is just a friend, its nothing serious don't worry yeah right. And now look she endagered you by not being monagamous, PLEASE GET TESTED ASAP. And now she is pregnant baby could be yours, baby could be his you wont know until it's born
When a woman tells you she doesn't deserve you , its the little bit of guilt they sometimes. Already new dude is at her house eh, the new dude you cannot compete it, i KNow you sit back and say wow i was with you for years I have kids with you, but you cannot compete with the new guy at the moment, she is in the fog, the new guy is perfect no fights, no animosity, he's the new toy. Remember the movie toy story? how woody was his fav toy, but once buzz came in no matter the history and the years woody had with him, he was nothing anymore because buzz lightyear was mr. new new.
This dude doesnt care about her cheating on him because why? he's getting puzzy, he can come over and get puzzy whenever he wants, in her mind she thinks he truly and actually cares about her but all he cares about is getting his nut off. And Nah I guarantee you that dude said that, men will say anything to keep hitting, saying ill raise ya kids if it aint mine, ill be there bla bla, as long as he gets the puzzy.
Women don't think with logic but with emotion, breh i've been there I dated a girl I actually cared about who was in a previous abusive relationship and yet she cheated on me and went back to that dude who beat her up again, women don't think with logic.
THe best thing you can do imo is file for custody of your kids, don't let them live in that environment. You know nothing about this dude, could be a sex offender, could be abusive.
Get tested and go to the court and get your kids!
the funny thing at my work this woman is 28 my age, has been dating this guy for 2 months and she is already planning her wedding for 2015, i just
and thats the thing about marriage, I could do marriage easily, I've always been faithful, I could be monagmous and loving to one woman for the rest of my life, but could they?
I've warned folks for many years about single moms
there is a reason why her first child father is not there
Cynical Thoughts
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Yep. I looked at dude face and saw my face and thought your a fukking idiot. Her first bd was around when I first got with her. I just thought he didnt want me fukking his baby moms. While that might have even been true it didn't make what he said about her any less true. Ima make it a point to get some type of feedback for now on about any female I talk to.
Breh I swear every time I would read what you posted I would hope that this wouldn't be how she would be. I'm mad I didn't hip myself to game earlier. Im up on it now though. My sons nephews and cousins all gone be up on game.