Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[twan83]

And @Mr Hate Coffee

Funny thing I wrote on my blog something like that , I saw you commented on it as well

1. Say Nothing or be very concise.
A) If a chick dumps you through text message say nothing.B) If it's over the phone just say ok and I gotta go.c) if its face to face stay calm and slowly make your exit.

Why? Keep your emotions in check, the less you say the less of anything you say or do that you will regret later will happen.
Keeping your dignity is one of the biggest and best things you can do. Years later I still kick myself over writing a letter and sending it to a girl I was dating who dumped me. It will also make her ponder why isn't he crying, screaming, begging, getting angry, asking why etc.


Closure is bs, if you want to cry, be angry be sad do it alone,.

People don't want closure IMO, they want to tell that person how they feel how much they hurt them hoping for sympathy and to e given another chance

i will not give a female any sign of emotion when she dumps me she dont deserve it. the reason is simple she shouldnt have a damn reason too dump me if im doing right by her

so whatever i feel i will let it out on my own alone personal time but not around her i'll keep it moving along

ive only cried twice and one of em was cuz she left the other cuz i had too move away and knew long distance was extremely tough

1. baby mama left me and the reason i cried in front of her was more not cuz it hurt honestly i figured it was gonna happen sooner than later but the reason i cried is cuz how she could do that too our kids with such ease and not give a shyt cuz of the way she did it. she literally left happy and that hurt me too the core

2. cuz i left my fiancee in japan cuz wasnt ready too marry but we decided we do it a year later. that goodbye is the hardest thing i ever done in my life. i prayed we could work it out long distance but in the end it never worked in the end. but that day man a dude cried in her ears straight balling and she did the same
as the bus drove off i saw her on her knees crying her eyes out im on the window with my hand crying my eyes

 

[twan83]

the older if gotten the more i learn bout myself and more about females. and i will make sure my son will not make the same mistakes as i did sure he might not listen but he will at least have a heads up on the many situations ive been thru.

gotta keep it 100% there are some good women out there but man i tell u its not many as it should be hate too say it. thats y i tell anybody who has a good female and they know it DONT fukk IT UP BY ALL MEANS U WILL REGRET IT

we as man sure we get a wandering eye or a itch or temepted thats normal but too actually do it is just stupid
biggest reason y is cuz ya u go smash that dime or that phat ass female

THAT CLARITY NUT KICKS IN CHANGES EVERYTHING u sit there like um ok time to go home too my girl did what i had too do or u sit there like fukk why did i do this shyt

now there are times where its like u wanna keep doing it and u will and that reason is cuz it means your not ready too be in a relationship. when that happens no matter how hard it is or how good of a female u have. u have too do whats right by her and urself and let her go. after u do that go enjoy life till u fill up on ur lust and craving many females and u will know when that time comes and its very simple actually

cuz when i was single i knew i was done having fun when i was laying next too this bad ass blasian female and felt lonely as fukk. right there i knew i was ready too start having serious relationships and done playing the field.

 

[CASHAPP]

There is nothing sexy about that kind of attire.

see what i mean folks........

 

[I_Q]

the older if gotten the more i learn bout myself and more about females. and i will make sure my son will not make the same mistakes as i did sure he might not listen but he will at least have a heads up on the many situations ive been thru.

gotta keep it 100% there are some good women out there but man i tell u its not many as it should be hate too say it. thats y i tell anybody who has a good female and they know it DONT fukk IT UP BY ALL MEANS U WILL REGRET IT

we as man sure we get a wandering eye or a itch or temepted thats normal but too actually do it is just stupid
biggest reason y is cuz ya u go smash that dime or that phat ass female

THAT CLARITY NUT KICKS IN CHANGES EVERYTHING u sit there like um ok time to go home too my girl did what i had too do or u sit there like fukk why did i do this shyt

now there are times where its like u wanna keep doing it and u will and that reason is cuz it means your not ready too be in a relationship. when that happens no matter how hard it is or how good of a female u have. u have too do whats right by her and urself and let her go. after u do that go enjoy life till u fill up on ur lust and craving many females and u will know when that time comes and its very simple actually

cuz when i was single i knew i was done having fun when i was laying next too this bad ass blasian female and felt lonely as fukk. right there i knew i was ready too start having serious relationships and done playing the field.

That first statement you made is real shyt man and I commend you for planning to educate your son. I feel like as boys we get conditioned to be "gentlemen" and never get that real raw game to prepare us for relationships and it fukks us up. Females of the other hand, I've noticed since i was small how they learn to manipulate and play games but i was naive at the same time and didn't think I could get played if that makes sense. About the good woman part, personally I don't think one exists i think certain women are good to certain men but that doesn't necessarily mean they'll be good to the next man. I've seen chicks be good and proper to a man she's feeling but as soon as the next man came around they start treating him like a piece if shyt. That's why at the first sign of disrespect i gotta dead it and move on or else she'll continue to dog me out, I've had it happen too many times cuz i tolerated it

 

[twan83]

That first statement you made is real shyt man and I commend you for planning to educate your son. I feel like as boys we get conditioned to be "gentlemen" and never get that real raw game to prepare us for relationships and it fukks us up. Females of the other hand, I've noticed since i was small how they learn to manipulate and play games but i was naive at the same time and didn't think I could get played if that makes sense. About the good woman part, personally I don't think one exists i think certain women are good to certain men but that doesn't necessarily mean they'll be good to the next man. I've seen chicks be good and proper to a man she's feeling but as soon as the next man came around they start treating him like a piece if shyt. That's why at the first sign of disrespect i gotta dead it and move on or else she'll continue to dog me out, I've had it happen too many times cuz i tolerated it

i agree with how u say they are good with certain men part though and i feel it comes down too how the guy treats them too an extent. but i do believe there are good woman if raised right cuz i know a few on a personal level may not be many but there are some
trust i was naive also when i was younger but at the same time i knew the game cuz i learned from women i just was hard headed and wanted too experience what they say was true and it was.
thats y i never really had many serious relationships just girls i would talk too or mess around with cuz i knew whats up and i was right majority of the time too.
now the good one's i would most def try too lock down if i knew around 90% chance she was but u never know 100% and i dont trust a female 100% either i know this very well my mother taught me well. so if i felt she was a good one i take her more serious and see whats up and if all goes well then i would make it a serious relationship on my part and go from there.

the disrespect sign i have patience cuz when outta line i will put u in ur place so u know i dont play that mess. now if she keeps doing it then she can go kick rocks in my opinion

like i was saying in the previous post i had a really good one but cuz i wasnt ready i had too let her go and trust i didnt want too and man that shyt hurt but i didnt want too treat her bad so i did the right thing that was back in the day

 

[MikelArteta]

What is a Good woman thoigh

You may date a woman who will cheat on you but the next guy she won't and marries and has kids.

Irgit good women are so few

 

[twan83]

What is a Good woman thoigh

You may date a woman who will cheat on you but the next guy she won't and marries and has kids.

Irgit good women are so few

that is so true which is the fukked up part bout it all
cuz she could be no good before you and then gets with u is everything u want and need more

no matter what ur always gonna be in a relationship with risk that it will hurt you nothing is safe or guaranteed

a good woman too me is someone who will tolerate my shyt and except me for who i am flaws and all
someone who can keep it 100% no matter what it is
someone who can communicate really good with
looks are secondary too me ive had my fun rather be treated good then walk around with some damn house wife trophy woman who aint shyt
i could go on and more but y would cuz i know there is no perfect match

what i look at is if i can deal with the flaws of a female not the pros but the flaws cuz if it comes down too marriage can i deal with that for the rest of my life and if i cant shyt wont work if i can then thats potential that im willing too work with

cuz u can have a female that is everything u want but that one flaw could be a damn deal breaker for you

 

[Blackking]

try to fight against ur urges to put urself completely out there. Don't express all ur feelings at once.... they stick with the ones they aren't fully sure about.

I made this mistake recently.... bad outcome, but really it's my fault cuz she was on my dikk initially.

lol, i told the bish at like 2 am, i was feeling her. she had some doubt, I though coolin those doubts would bring the bish closer.. NOPE, she got a nikka.

yesterday I'm like :
"what u up to"
her: smokin w my friend"
me: word? ya homegirl so n so?
Her: naw, guy name, we just good friends tho,
I'm thinking in my head "bish it's 1130, wtf u doin gettin high at some dudes house?

Imma be sharing within 2 weeks, I already know it's coming, cuz today she took 6 hours to answer a text, lol. before she would send 3 text to my late ass 1 response... but this is just how life goes, so try not to make mistakes w these hoes.


before i made the fatal mistake, she was beggin me non stop to hang out.. basically available 24-7 for the stabbin...

 

[twan83]

I made this mistake recently.... bad outcome, but really it's my fault cuz she was on my dikk initially.

lol, i told the bish at like 2 am, i was feeling her. she had some doubt, I though coolin those doubts would bring the bish closer.. NOPE, she got a nikka.

yesterday I'm like :
"what u up to"
her: smokin w my friend"
me: word? ya homegirl so n so?
Her: naw, guy name, we just good friends tho,
I'm thinking in my head "bish it's 1130, wtf u doin gettin high at some dudes house?

Imma be sharing within 2 weeks, I already know it's coming, cuz today she took 6 hours to answer a text, lol. before she would send 3 text to my late ass 1 response... but this is just how life goes, so try not to make mistakes w these hoes.


before i made the fatal mistake, she was beggin me non stop to hang out.. basically available 24-7 for the stabbin...

i wont put my feelings out there openly or too soon. if im feeling u i slowly show u signs as u show me that way it evens out. once u lay out all the cards its usually a wrap cuz shyt that usually happens dont happen no more wondering y things done changed.

take time too enjoy with that person and show small glimpse and if she lays down her cards before u its up too u what u wanna do. u can go all in or 50% in which i recommend

 

[Blackking]

one more note (even tho that first 1 is the most important)

And this is for the cheaters or those who try to talk to more than 1 female at a time.....


take care of ur main like ur life depends on it. Never lose sight of that. Don't try to play that shyt cool if she's on lock down already and established as ur main. Don't get in an argument and believe the hype of some other bish. Dont fall for another girl w some great p*ssy and forget that ur main is the best 1. Don't think that u have other hoes to fall back on --- cuz nearly 100% of the time, those chicks w great p*ssy, or in shape bodies, or younger, or seems nicer and more laid back, etc --- are < ur main bish.

-I fukked up 1st bm like this, aka dime piece cuban w a master degree and from rich family.
- fukked up down ass African chick
-fukked up mixed chick who is now married and rich and still very sweet.
-Nearly fukked up thick Jamican who held me down no matter what. No matter What.
-fukked up HS sweetheart, cuz i went to a party school and found out i could pull hoes, lol.

IT's never worth it.

 

[twan83]

one more note (even tho that first 1 is the most important)

And this is for the cheaters or those who try to talk to more than 1 female at a time.....


take care of ur main like ur life depends on it. Never lose sight of that. Don't try to play that shyt cool if she's on lock down already and established as ur main. Don't get in an argument and believe the hype of some other bish. Dont fall for another girl w some great p*ssy and forget that ur main is the best 1. Don't think that u have other hoes to fall back on --- cuz nearly 100% of the time, those chicks w great p*ssy, or in shape bodies, or younger, or seems nicer and more laid back, etc --- are < ur main bish.

-I fukked up 1st bm like this, aka dime piece cuban w a master degree and from rich family.
- fukked up down ass African chick
-fukked up mixed chick who is now married and rich and still very sweet.
-Nearly fukked up thick Jamican who held me down no matter what. No matter What.
-fukked up HS sweetheart, cuz i went to a party school and found out i could pull hoes, lol.

IT's never worth it.

c/s 100% then some

when i was single i would talk too a bunch of chics nothing exclusive so it was free game but i had them lined up a certain way.
one time i lost sight briefly cuz this one female was bad as hell she was brazilian and it nearly cost me the main one but i regained my composure and fixed it thankfully

too be honest u shouldnt have a bunch in the first place sure it seems fun and all but u can quickly cause more problems than u think

brief story:

the females i talked too knew whats up i wasnt there bf and it was exclusive we were just talking right but i was talking too way too many
had like san antonio spurs team with a bench depth

anyways ask me why i go out one night too the club too chill with my boy and i shyt u not 80-90% of them all show up too the same club im at. i never told them where i was going or anything like that

u ask y is that a problem if they are not ur gf. its very simple jealousy is a problem.

u can tell them exactly what u say and they know damn well u aint with them but in their heart they think that or want u really bad.

so when one of em shows up and i have a brief convo i get a text from another that pops up so i go

so too the fix the damn problem i decided i aint got time for this shyt cuz i specifically said were just talking and im talking too other females so its free game and u can do the same cuz i aint ur man those were the very first things i told them when i met them

i decide too just keep a 3 man rotation and give the rest their release papers is what i did that night

so some just got a release text some got a verbal 1-1 talk with me

keep in mind this is happening at the club

i kept the 3 that knew whats up and didnt make a fuss and said go enjoy ur time with ur boy im with my girls and ill do the same.

the next day the one's i cut blowing up phone sayin sorry ur right and i accepted their apology but still kept them cut

 

[Blackking]

c/s 100% then some

when i was single i would talk too a bunch of chics nothing exclusive so it was free game but i had them lined up a certain way.
one time i lost sight briefly cuz this one female was bad as hell she was brazilian and it nearly cost me the main one but i regained my composure and fixed it thankfully

too be honest u shouldnt have a bunch in the first place sure it seems fun and all but u can quickly cause more problems than u think

brief story:

the females i talked too knew whats up i wasnt there bf and it was exclusive we were just talking right but i was talking too way too many
had like san antonio spurs team with a bench depth

anyways ask me why i go out one night too the club too chill with my boy and i shyt u not 80-90% of them all show up too the same club im at. i never told them where i was going or anything like that

u ask y is that a problem if they are not ur gf. its very simple jealousy is a problem.

u can tell them exactly what u say and they know damn well u aint with them but in their heart they think that or want u really bad.

so when one of em shows up and i have a brief convo i get a text from another that pops up so i go

so too the fix the damn problem i decided i aint got time for this shyt cuz i specifically said were just talking and im talking too other females so its free game and u can do the same cuz i aint ur man those were the very first things i told them when i met them

i decide too just keep a 3 man rotation and give the rest their release papers is what i did that night

so some just got a release text some got a verbal 1-1 talk with me

keep in mind this is happening at the club

i kept the 3 that knew whats up and didnt make a fuss and said go enjoy ur time with ur boy im with my girls and ill do the same.

the next day the one's i cut blowing up phone sayin sorry ur right and i accepted their apology but still kept them cut

I agree w all this......

expect, man I feel like 3 is too many these days..... life is too busy in 2013. 1 main n 2 sides max. REally 1 main and thats it, is best.

I used to think in the end u could hit em like fabulous "ma I never said that" But that shyt doesn't work. Females act the way they want to act regardless of what you say. They spent that time w you = you owe them something .... or it's ok to blow up ur main spot at will.

 

[twan83]

I agree w all this......

expect, man I feel like 3 is too many these days..... life is too busy in 2013. 1 main n 2 sides max. REally 1 main and thats it, is best.

I used to think in the end u could hit em like fabulous "ma I never said that" But that shyt doesn't work. Females act the way they want to act regardless of what you say. They spent that time w you = you owe them something .... or it's ok to blow up ur main spot at will.

well i dont know bout now cuz im retired but 3 is easy for me cuz the main gets 90% of my time while the other 2 get 5% and will only get more if worthy it

after a while the main becomes my gf majority of the time only once has the lesser one ended up beating my main female i talk too

 

[MikelArteta]

I've always been monagamous.

 

[kevm3]

As a man, you definitely have to keep your emotions under wrap no matter what this woman tries to tell you. As soon as you get to 'expressing your emotions', the mystery is gone. The two things a woman wants is something mysterious and something she 'can't have'.

Now, when it's said and one, you can't blame yourself for the broad chilling with another dude. All that did was expose what she was really about a lot quicker. That's like me saying, "Oh, she didn't cook my rice just right, so I'm going to go take another woman to dinner."

That's the problem nowadays. Men feel like they got to tippy toe around these women to keep them from cheating or expressing their interest elsewhere, but when it's said and done, these women who want to 'do them' are 'doing them' regardless. She was probably talking to homie as long as, if not longer than you. She just shifted her attention over his way more because she got what she wanted in that emotional confession. What that situation did expose is what she had going on behind the scenes a lot quicker.

Now I do agree to keep your emotions under check, but I wouldn't blame myself for a woman's snakish actions. The REAL problem is that negroes hang around these broads no matter what kind of behavior they exhibit because they feel they need that sex by any means necessary. She could have said anything about your mom, be chilling with 30 dudes, etc., but men will still hover around. If a woman is getting distant and having smoke sessions with other men, cut her off and move on. A woman respecting you is way more important than any sex she could give you, and the respect will never come if you don't demand it.