Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

Yep. I looked at dude face and saw my face and thought your a fukking idiot. Her first bd was around when I first got with her. I just thought he didnt want me fukking his baby moms. While that might have even been true it didn't make what he said about her any less true. Ima make it a point to get some type of feedback for now on about any female I talk to.

Breh I swear every time I would read what you posted I would hope that this wouldn't be how she would be. I'm mad I didn't hip myself to game earlier. Im up on it now though. My sons nephews and cousins all gone be up on game.

yeah man weve all been there. Dr Phil says "The best predictor of future behavior is relevant past behavior", the way she treated her first bd, is now the way she is treating you, at one point like you said you were this new guy, and her baby dad was you. And who did she end up choosing and being with? that's right the new guy.

Especially now for me at 28, any female I talk to, casual date relationship, I always think to myself a guy left her or she left a guy who probably treated her great, im nothing special it could happen to me.


And that's the thing everyone thinks their woman is not like that, or she would never do that, or I know her so well etc., till it happens to us. I remember years and years ago when I got burned in relationships and I would just read relationship forums daily and daily and basically these dudes were all describing my ex, the mannerisms, the coldness, the words she said, i was like , its like all women follow some sort of script when they sadly to put it fall out of love with you.

The messed up thing is that knowing the script she will probably come back to you after this dude leaves, cheats, treats her crap

 

[MikelArteta]

http://laidnyc.wordpress.com/2013/09/06/i-hit-it-first-why-your-girls-sexual-past-matters/

2.) For every sexual partner a girl has, her capacity to emotionally bond to her next sexual partner decreases. The less sexual partners a girl has, the more deeply she can fall in love. The intensity of her heart throbbing, her butterflies, and how much her lover’s touch feels like electricity on her skin are all negatively correlated to how sexually experienced she is. The slut cannot enjoy sex with the same emotional intensity as her more chaste counterpart. If you want to inspire deepest love and passion possible, you want a partner with a thin sexual history.


aka sexual SOUL TIES

 

[twan83]

I've warned folks for many years about single moms

there is a reason why her first child father is not there

for the most part unfortunately your right and ive dated alot of them before i even had kids and the things they did and said had me like or or . but i will say there are some real good ones but not many of them and the ones that are real good have a really good head on their shoulder

sure im with one and she's good but at the same time i dont put shyt past her either and no other female ive been with ive seen way too many fukked up things and know people who do it that im a very cautions bout people saying i wouldnt do that too you or whatever shyt they wanna say too make it sound nice

no matter what u do being with somebody is a game of chance. u either take that chance or not but always take advice of people who know best and head their warnings too doesnt mean too 100% do what they say but take strong consideration what they say and think it through

ex: wifey baby daddy not really in kids life he might pop out of the blue a few times of the year too see his daughter
do i start thinking wifey smashing him again. no i dont

could she be doing it ABSOLUTELY
anything i can do bout it NOPE

do i care no because thats life too me and if i catch her she can kick rocks simple as that sure it would hurt me and that shyt like that but dwelling on it and worrying bout it not gonna do me good. i just live my life with her and the kids do what i gotta do

but no matter what i'll be fine with or without her is what im try too tell dudes. dont give a woman so much damn will power

u can love her and treat her good but in the end that might not be enough enjoy the moment be strong and if the worse happens

MAKE HER KICK ROCKS MOVE ON LIFE GOES ON

 

[twan83]

2.) For every sexual partner a girl has, her capacity to emotionally bond to her next sexual partner decreases. The less sexual partners a girl has, the more deeply she can fall in love. The intensity of her heart throbbing, her butterflies, and how much her lover’s touch feels like electricity on her skin are all negatively correlated to how sexually experienced she is. The slut cannot enjoy sex with the same emotional intensity as her more chaste counterpart. If you want to inspire deepest love and passion possible, you want a partner with a thin sexual history.


aka sexual SOUL TIES

ya i actually do kind of agree with it though the less the more she will fall in love with you. but if she has alot of partners the only way too get her deeply in love with you is gonna be strong chemistry and good to great sex too.

cuz the tons of partners she has she knows what good too great sex is but if u have strong chemistry with her that puts it on another level too where the feelings get involved

 

[MikelArteta]

for the most part unfortunately your right and ive dated alot of them before i even had kids and the things they did and said had me like or or . but i will say there are some real good ones but not many of them and the ones that are real good have a really good head on their shoulder

sure im with one and she's good but at the same time i dont put shyt past her either and no other female ive been with ive seen way too many fukked up things and know people who do it that im a very cautions bout people saying i wouldnt do that too you or whatever shyt they wanna say too make it sound nice

no matter what u do being with somebody is a game of chance. u either take that chance or not but always take advice of people who know best and head their warnings too doesnt mean too 100% do what they say but take strong consideration what they say and think it through

ex: wifey baby daddy not really in kids life he might pop out of the blue a few times of the year too see his daughter
do i start thinking wifey smashing him again. no i dont

could she be doing it ABSOLUTELY
anything i can do bout it NOPE

do i care no because thats life too me and if i catch her she can kick rocks simple as that sure it would hurt me and that shyt like that but dwelling on it and worrying bout it not gonna do me good. i just live my life with her and the kids do what i gotta do

but no matter what i'll be fine with or without her is what im try too tell dudes. dont give a woman so much damn will power

u can love her and treat her good but in the end that might not be enough enjoy the moment be strong and if the worse happens

MAKE HER KICK ROCKS MOVE ON LIFE GOES ON

good post breh

 

[MikelArteta]

ya i actually do kind of agree with it though the less the more she will fall in love with you. but if she has alot of partners the only way too get her deeply in love with you is gonna be strong chemistry and good to great sex too.

cuz the tons of partners she has she knows what good too great sex is but if u have strong chemistry with her that puts it on another level too where the feelings get involved

every girl i ever been with and sadly have dated that have alot of sex partners it was a horrible experience, i honestly believe women with alot of sex partners cannot function in a normal monogamous relationship

 

[twan83]

every girl i ever been with and sadly have dated that have alot of sex partners it was a horrible experience, i honestly believe women with alot of sex partners cannot function in a normal monogamous relationship

i can see where ur coming from i dated a porn star and that was on some crazy shyt for me. she and this other girl i knew that had alot of partners i got too them on that chemistry level i was saying that broke that barrier too where it could be a monogamous relationship

did they cheat i dont know but from i what i know i dont think so reason it didnt work out cuz i was on my having fun tip and said i rather have fun then cheat on you so i cut ties

the porn star female though everybody wanted too smash her she was that rare asian with a booty then she ended up getting breast implants too

anyways with her she was ok with us just dating but doing our own thing but the funniest thing was she made it seem like i was her bf

i go out too club see her their at times dudes hollering at her dancing and shyt all proud i come in the club she stop what she doing and just go home with me

she even asked me too marry her and get her preggo which neither happened though

she would always just tell me this and thats y i say this no matter how many guys she been with for some reason i got too her heart and it fukks her up when she see's me that she cant function properly all she thinks is being with me and that our chemistry is too strong for her too let go

i know this cuz when i stopped talking too her for 7 months she had bf and i knew and i ran into her and him and was whats up just a nice greeting i said too them at the club

and later that night i wanted too see if it was true what she said instead she calls me up and says she misses me and wants too see me so i let her and she actually came too see down to fukk and still wanting too get married and preggo and i was like ur bf can do that for u

and she was like i know he asked me already and i was like no and didnt say y cuz ur the reason y and i didnt smash her but i gave her some advice

said look i cant be that guy for you but if u really like that guy give him a chance and do him right or otherwise cut ties cuz what ur doing right now here with me aint right even though we aint doing nothing but ur feeling alone its not fair too him

in the end after i moved from japan she ended up marrying that dude and getting pregnant by him

 

[MikelArteta]

i can see where ur coming from i dated a porn star and that was on some crazy shyt for me. she and this other girl i knew that had alot of partners i got too them on that chemistry level i was saying that broke that barrier too where it could be a monogamous relationship

did they cheat i dont know but from i what i know i dont think so reason it didnt work out cuz i was on my having fun tip and said i rather have fun then cheat on you so i cut ties

the porn star female though everybody wanted too smash her she was that rare asian with a booty then she ended up getting breast implants too

anyways with her she was ok with us just dating but doing our own thing but the funniest thing was she made it seem like i was her bf

i go out too club see her their at times dudes hollering at her dancing and shyt all proud i come in the club she stop what she doing and just go home with me

she even asked me too marry her and get her preggo which neither happened though

she would always just tell me this and thats y i say this no matter how many guys she been with for some reason i got too her heart and it fukks her up when she see's me that she cant function properly all she thinks is being with me and that our chemistry is too strong for her too let go

i know this cuz when i stopped talking too her for 7 months she had bf and i knew and i ran into her and him and was whats up just a nice greeting i said too them at the club

and later that night i wanted too see if it was true what she said instead she calls me up and says she misses me and wants too see me so i let her and she actually came too see down to fukk and still wanting too get married and preggo and i was like ur bf can do that for u

and she was like i know he asked me already and i was like no and didnt say y cuz ur the reason y and i didnt smash her but i gave her some advice

said look i cant be that guy for you but if u really like that guy give him a chance and do him right or otherwise cut ties cuz what ur doing right now here with me aint right even though we aint doing nothing but ur feeling alone its not fair too him

in the end after i moved from japan she ended up marrying that dude and getting pregnant by him

its like i always say, most women who do get married its not to the guy they want to, they settle for the "starter husband"

 

[Easy-E]

2.) For every sexual partner a girl has, her capacity to emotionally bond to her next sexual partner decreases. The less sexual partners a girl has, the more deeply she can fall in love. The intensity of her heart throbbing, her butterflies, and how much her lover’s touch feels like electricity on her skin are all negatively correlated to how sexually experienced she is. The slut cannot enjoy sex with the same emotional intensity as her more chaste counterpart. If you want to inspire deepest love and passion possible, you want a partner with a thin sexual history.


aka sexual SOUL TIES

I'm never gonna find a virgin, like me, brehs...

 

[MikelArteta]

I'm never gonna find a virgin, like me, brehs...

there are a few out there

but sadly the majority of women are now starting sex at like 13/14 and its just getting worse.

 

[MikelArteta]

wow that article that @sixsixtwo posted

3.) Nobody wants to treat somebody else’s whore like a princess. If a store is giving away free milk to every one else, and then tries to charge you full price, would you pay it? Could you walk to your car after purchasing milk, and see all the people who got free milk smirking at you for being a sucker because they got the same enjoyment out of the same milk for free? Simply put, a girl puts a price on her vagina, why outbid it? You wouldn’t pay above sticker price for a new car, would you?

 

[Easy-E]

http://laidnyc.wordpress.com/2013/09/06/i-hit-it-first-why-your-girls-sexual-past-matters/

2.) For every sexual partner a girl has, her capacity to emotionally bond to her next sexual partner decreases. The less sexual partners a girl has, the more deeply she can fall in love. The intensity of her heart throbbing, her butterflies, and how much her lover’s touch feels like electricity on her skin are all negatively correlated to how sexually experienced she is. The slut cannot enjoy sex with the same emotional intensity as her more chaste counterpart. If you want to inspire deepest love and passion possible, you want a partner with a thin sexual history.


aka sexual SOUL TIES

A lot of great points, but;

The thing that kills these, and dialogue, like it, is the rejection of the double standard. It's the same thing. You can't expect a dude whose ran through his office building, the cheer-leading squad, and the local Popeye's to be able to be monogamous with any one woman.

 

[MikelArteta]

Double standards

Let’s take the classic example: If a girl fukks 100 guys she’s a slut, but if a guy fukks 100 girls he’s awesome. This is just as easily flipped. If a girl is a virgin, she is pure and desired, but if a guy is a virgin he is a loser. What a horrible double standard men are being subjected to, right? Right?? If you see things through this perspective, far more men are victims of the so-called double standard than women. There are countless sexless nothings who women don’t want because they are sexually inexperienced.

Yet, these virgin dorks very, very rarely bytch and complain about the “double standard” they are being subjected to. Why?

I propose it is because things can get better for male virgins. They know things can get better with more social skills or status or a better job or workout routine. Male virgins can channel their failure into self-improvement or even just plain old hope. This is enough to keep them from bytching.

On the other side, the female slut can not turn back the cock odometer. She knows deep down her value has been eroded but she can’t unfukk all of the alpha cock. She can’t unblow that drummer from the band. All she can do is protest about the unfairness of it all, and rationalize it as a “double standard” so she can sound like she is a victim of society, rather than a girl who made poor choices.

http://laidnyc.wordpress.com/2013/06/03/there-are-no-double-standards/

 

[MikelArteta]

A lot of great points, but;

The thing that kills these, and dialogue, like it, is the rejection of the double standard. It's the same thing. You can't expect a dude whose ran through his office building, the cheer-leading squad, and the local Popeye's to be able to be monogamous with any one woman.

Many men sow their wild oats then settle down though

 

[twan83]

Double standards

Let’s take the classic example: If a girl fukks 100 guys she’s a slut, but if a guy fukks 100 girls he’s awesome. This is just as easily flipped. If a girl is a virgin, she is pure and desired, but if a guy is a virgin he is a loser. What a horrible double standard men are being subjected to, right? Right?? If you see things through this perspective, far more men are victims of the so-called double standard than women. There are countless sexless nothings who women don’t want because they are sexually inexperienced.

Yet, these virgin dorks very, very rarely bytch and complain about the “double standard” they are being subjected to. Why?

I propose it is because things can get better for male virgins. They know things can get better with more social skills or status or a better job or workout routine. Male virgins can channel their failure into self-improvement or even just plain old hope. This is enough to keep them from bytching.

On the other side, the female slut can not turn back the cock odometer. She knows deep down her value has been eroded but she can’t unfukk all of the alpha cock. She can’t unblow that drummer from the band. All she can do is protest about the unfairness of it all, and rationalize it as a “double standard” so she can sound like she is a victim of society, rather than a girl who made poor choices.

http://laidnyc.wordpress.com/2013/06/03/there-are-no-double-standards/

the male being a virgin loser thing i know something bout it cuz i was a virgin till 18 alot of dudes would give me issues with it and i actually didnt care but it did get annoying too keep hearing it some didnt like it some thought it was cute

but once i got in the army all bets were off them females knew i was a virgin and it was a like a damn raffle for a winning a lottery ticket shyt was sad. they had a bet on who could devirginize me shyt was insane at how much vaginal was getting thrown at me i resisted though and ran at the same time cuz my thought process at the time was dont have sex till marriage or till with someone i fell in love with ( ya i know sounds cheesy but )

what made me give in though was this one girl that i really liked and i know she liked me too but not enough apparently cuz i had the room decked out in the hotel for something romantic and she stood me up and it was on my bday and i asked her later what happened pretty much told me she was with another guy at that time

shyt made me sad and pretty much made me wanna have sex but still tried too resist till this one girl who was drunk was getting hit on by guys and i for her not in i like u way just didnt like dudes doing that so i took her too my room in the hotel cuz it was a hotel party on the whole floor i had my own room

i undressed her too her bra and panties cuz she smelled like smoke and i hated that shyt put her in my bed and went bout my business playing tekken not sure which one it was at the time

she gets up and sucks on my ear touching me everywhere caught me off guard saying i wasnt really drunk just wanted too get u alone and told my friends too act that way

right then and there i looked up at the wall and said fukk it i give up and lost it there

and u know what changed from that more females wanted sex not cuz of a bet but because i was not a virgin

how do i know cuz i was told that flat out