Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I'm moving into my college dorm tomorrow brehs.

Any college women advice ?:troll:

first week is syallabus week....meaning unless your school is super strict the workload will be easy. mack like hell this week. all these chicks are new to you (and some new as well) and are really open to chatting, making new friends n shyt. have your fun at this portion of the semester and not the middle or end when the workload piles up... and contrary to popular belief nikkas in college DO be cuffin, so get you a good freshman shorty to start on the team before the frat nikkas turn all of them into whores
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Cheap liquor recommendations?:patrice:

Get what you can afford

but if you can afford it get ciroc :takedat:
 
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Brehs what do y'all do when you make a move on the second or third date and they turn ya down and say they wanna be "friends first" :snoop: this chick was the one who kept initiating going out with me
TAKE THE 'L' . If a chick dont wanna play your game then dont play. If you continue wit her ...its going to be cloudy wit a chance of simp .Be her friend but date other women ...im going to write a post later on why men should date more than one woman ...the brehs over at the blog the rational male call it plate theory.
 
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TAKE THE 'L' . If a chick dont wanna play your game then dont play. If you continue wit her ...its going to be cloudy wit a chance of simp .Be her friend but date other women ...im going to write a post later on why men should date more than one woman ...the brehs over at the blog the rational male call it plate theory.

Men literally live and die according to their options, so it stand to reason they ought to entertain a prolonged period in their lives where they are open to exploring the most options they have access to while concurrently developing and improving themselves prior to a commitment of this magnitude...as it pretains to monogamy . - T he rational male blog
 

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It really depends. It sounds like you were moving too fast and she was telling you to chill out. There are a rare few women out there who aren't out there to where you can do stuff with them after going out with them once or twice. She might be in that category. On the other hand, she could have also lost interest in you, but the fact that she said let's be friends first hints to me that she is saying slow down.

thanks brehs. i got a bunch of texts from her as soon as i got home so i guess ill just keep pursuing it for now but keep my options open
 

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Brehs what do y'all do when you make a move on the second or third date and they turn ya down and say they wanna be "friends first" :snoop: this chick was the one who kept initiating going out with me
simple, you tell the chick she's cool and all but you're not feeling this whole friendship thing cause that's not the vibe you're on. then you throw her in the bushes (EDIT: in a respectful way). If she keeps it moving :manny:. if she tries to comeback, it has to be on your terms. if she doesn't want that, you leave her in the bushes.
 
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Brehs what do y'all do when you make a move on the second or third date and they turn ya down and say they wanna be "friends first" :snoop: this chick was the one who kept initiating going out with me

if you don't want to be friends first or friends at all cut the cord, see the thing is no offense to this broad, i guarantee you some other dude who she really liked who made the moves on the first or second date she enjoyed it
 

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we aalways need someone there to distract us from ourselves, dating is a drug just like drugs, the job is to help you escape from your reality. After the honeymoon period is over the high comes down and then the difference between the picture they project and what they are begins to settle in, and then you get mad at them for not being able to deceive you better. :wow:

we dont want people to help us grow, because growing is paints. Post dramatic relationship disorder :wow:

:wow:

pt 2 is dope as well
 

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so was it on the 2nd or third?
If she says she wants to be friend charge it to the game and move on. bytch will either run after you or she wasn't really or is not feeling you.

If she was initiating she was perhaps looking for a free meal or drink?


Usually I go off the vibe the woman is giving me, Ive been touchy feely with chicks on first date, because Ive gotten the ok from them through their actions and nonactions if that makes sense. This one chick Im dating now, we have been out 3 times, all we have done is hug, so far I havent gotten anything from here that makes me feel like I can move in. However; the next time we kick it, im going to make a move and see where her head is
 

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Usually I go off the vibe the woman is giving me, Ive been touchy feely with chicks on first date, because Ive gotten the ok from them through their actions and nonactions if that makes sense. This one chick Im dating now, we have been out 3 times, all we have done is hug, so far I havent gotten anything from here that makes me feel like I can move in. However; the next time we kick it, im going to make a move and see where her head is
only hug?

breh you gonna be in a friendzone at this rate
 

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one thing i learned the past few days how you approach will determine if u gonna be a friendzone or someone shes gonna fukkk
 
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