Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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...yeah I knew you would like it . I might put up the the other parts just for brehs in this thread to enjoy and learn from . I got threw half of part but it was just as good...Im finish it today thoe. Im put some other videos up were he talk about the many types of women to avoid ...and wait til you hear what he have to say about single mothers and why their baby daddies wont marry them you gon be like :ohhh::wow::whoo::ufdup::blessed:

man that hit me cuz back in teh past i prob suffered from co dependancy i always wanted to have a girl

as well his views on he honeymoon period is what ive been preaching for awhile, everyone is on thier best behaviour in the beginning, everyone seems amazing, this broad can be the biggest cheat, biggest whore, have severe depression and other problems, but they mask it so well in the beginning, its just like makeup all the flaws are hidden.

I have to say thats one thing No women has ever accused me of is "changing" what you see at the beginning is the way I'm always is throghout the relationship


you got that link on single mothers?
 

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If she hasn't made a hint yet,its a red flag...

If you on your game, you can turn the tables in your favor to the point where she is going against her principles to get a kiss from you

yep
like i said ive never made a first move on a broad

but these are some stuff what they have done

"close your eyes for a second" then they kiss me
"if you dont kiss me on the next date then"
"rubbing my leg"
etc.
 

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I stopped talking to this chick over a month ago, I gave her my heart, she ethered me by choosing someone else, we were good friends before, we messed around and then she expressed her feelings for me, in like :childplease: then a few weeks later i ended up feeling the same, but she is with someone else now, now she is calling, texting and FB msging me asking if I changed my number or if I I'm not talking to her anymore, I thought I was doing good by completely forgetting about her, I'm the type of person that moves on completely, a few people said I should talk to her but the thought that she did not want to love me in return and the thought that I was inferior or insignificant still burns slow :sadbron: on the other hand I do have a new date lined up, but what should I do family?




Goes back in a cave a plays Tevin Cambell - Always in my Heart :to:
 

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I stopped talking to this chick over a month ago, I gave her my heart, she ethered me by choosing someone else, we were good friends before, we messed around and then she expressed her feelings for me, in like :childplease: then a few weeks later i ended up feeling the same, but she is with someone else now, now she is calling, texting and FB msging me asking if I changed my number or if I I'm not talking to her anymore, I thought I was doing good by completely forgetting about her, I'm the type of person that moves on completely, a few people said I should talk to her but the thought that she did not want to love me in return and the thought that I was inferior or insignificant still burns slow :sadbron: on the other hand I do have a new date lined up, but what should I do family?




Goes back in a cave a plays Tevin Cambell - Always in my Heart :to:
dont contact er man.you doin the right thing
 
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man that hit me cuz back in teh past i prob suffered from co dependancy i always wanted to have a girl

as well his views on he honeymoon period is what ive been preaching for awhile, everyone is on thier best behaviour in the beginning, everyone seems amazing, this broad can be the biggest cheat, biggest whore, have severe depression and other problems, but they mask it so well in the beginning, its just like makeup all the flaws are hidden.

I have to say thats one thing No women has ever accused me of is "changing" what you see at the beginning is the way I'm always is throghout the relationship


you got that link on single mothers?


Here it is as promised ...single mothers and different types of women/men to avoid
 
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One more just one more ..this will hit hard with a lot of the brehs in this thread . In the three years Ive just have been ...disgusted to say the lease ...but I realized I have to do more looking in the mirror my shelf.
 

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my social game improving brehs

no more fear of cold approaches :wow:
Honestly I just can't seem to work up the courage to approach a female cold. Like if I do talk to a female that I don't know outside, it's most likely has to be situational and relevant to what's going on. I walk pass and not say nothing to so many chicks it's crazy. It's like I feel and think that I'm bothering her or will come off as thirsty. :yeshrug: shyt is annoying I feel like I pass by too much women with potential all the time due to being anxious. I've hardly ever cold approached women, shyt I've never "holler'd" at chick per se but more so talked to them again if the situation was favorable(In a group setting with familiar people, work, etc.)
 

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Honestly I just can't seem to work up the courage to approach a female cold. Like if I do talk to a female that I don't know outside, it's most likely has to be situational and relevant to what's going on. I walk pass and not say nothing to so many chicks it's crazy. It's like I feel and think that I'm bothering her or will come off as thirsty. :yeshrug: shyt is annoying I feel like I pass by too much women with potential all the time due to being anxious. I've hardly ever cold approached women, shyt I've never "holler'd" at chick per se but more so talked to them again if the situation was favorable(In a group setting with familiar people, work, etc.)

Your passing up to many females

I conditioned myself breh.... You have to Accept rejection first.. Then it becomes easy
 

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Just completed another post on the blog, but I'll post it here:
Now, realize that every major thing is composed of smaller, individual components. Think of a car. There is no such singular thing as a car. A car is made up of several smaller parts that work together, and the sum of those components working together create a car. The purpose of that analogy is to demonstrate that when having some large goal in mind, in order to accomplish it, it has to be broken down into smaller, more manageable pieces that one can realistically do on a day to day basis.

People continually seek ‘success’, but how often do they get discouraged from improving themselves significantly because they have these massive ideas of what success constitutes, but never know how to break it down into smaller steps that can be actualized day by day? Is it easier to consume a steak by trying to swallow that steak whole or by cutting it into smaller pieces?

Breaking things down into smaller components is a very important skill to learn. As the cliche goes, a journey of a thousand miles starts with but a single step… and to go further, the entirety of the journey will be a series of taking one step after another. A journey of a thousand miles sounds like a monumental feat to accomplish, but when you think about it, we all end up walking what equates to several journeys of a thousand miles over a lifetime, but we simply don’t realize it. Every day we are taking steps as we walk, but we never count those steps. They are undirected.

How many steps will we take over a lifetime? The only difference between our everyday, undirected walks and a “journey of a thousand miles” is that the latter starts with a destination in mind and those steps are DIRECTED towards that destination. On the other hand, most people walk around aimlessly, which is why they don’t end up anywhere, despite taking just as many steps. Instead of stepping forward with a particular destination in mind, they often walk around in circles, walk-forward a couple of steps and then walk back 5 steps. So although they have taken just as many steps as one who has engaged on a journey of a thousand miles, they often get nowhere, because they never have a destination in mind and never direct their steps towards that destination. So then, the key is to combine a destination with an ability to break things down into smaller, more easily-accomplishable steps and to start walking.

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Your passing up to many females

I conditioned myself breh.... You have to Accept rejection first.. Then it becomes easy


what helps a lot is to accept rejection in any event, but to approach her like you already know shes going to say yes to you and cooperate with the vibe. if you knew that a girl was going to cooperate and say yes to you ahead of time, then there is no doubt that you would be more relaxed, more natural, and project strong confidence with her. looking at it like that makes you think differently. have complete faith in yourself and dont put too much stock in someone elses opinion. if you can have the kind of confidence which is inside and it shows no matter what you do, then you dont have to worry about saying too much or too little at any time. you just speak your mind and go out to get what you want.

you see public speakers and great salespeople know that if you have the kind of confidence which is brimming and easy to spot, you will be listened to more. people will want to see what you have going on. that includes products, services, or just being a likeable/interesting personality.

you also notice that when your momentum is strong, then the other person will pick up on it and things start rolling without much thought. people pick up on the vibe and want to be a part of it. people are like that. confidence and excitement in oneself is catchy and makes folks want to be a part of it. in fact, you will notice that hesitation can actually make another person want to stop listening to you, because you stopped believing in what you were saying, or doing. just having a hard head and a strong will can go a long way with everything.
 

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what helps a lot is to accept rejection in any event, but to approach her like you already know shes going to say yes to you and cooperate with the vibe. if you knew that a girl was going to cooperate and say yes to you ahead of time, then there is no doubt that you would be more relaxed, more natural, and project strong confidence with her. looking at it like that makes you think differently. have complete faith in yourself and dont put too much stock in someone elses opinion. if you can have the kind of confidence which is inside and it shows no matter what you do, then you dont have to worry about saying too much or too little at any time. you just speak your mind and go out to get what you want.

you see public speakers and great salespeople know that if you have the kind of confidence which is brimming and easy to spot, you will be listened to more. people will want to see what you have going on. that includes products, services, or just being a likeable/interesting personality.

you also notice that when your momentum is strong, then the other person will pick up on it and things start rolling without much thought. people pick up on the vibe and want to be a part of it. people are like that. confidence and excitement in oneself is catchy and makes folks want to be a part of it. in fact, you will notice that hesitation can actually make another person want to stop listening to you, because you stopped believing in what you were saying, or doing. just having a hard head and a strong will can go a long way with everything.
co sign on everything breh

after a few of

"sorry i have BF"
" im sorry i have to go"
or
"im sorry not interested"

you get used to it...and when you become good at it you start only talking to fine females cause your confidence is through the roof

you cant play the game if you dont take shots...dudes wanna scoop up dimes shooting 100% from field..
 
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