Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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women will tell you what you want to hear.
Breh I had info, emails, pictures that a broad i was dealing with was cheating on me and she denied it and denied it and denied it.
anything to calm your fears they will tell you.
Relationships are not built on trust. They are built on TRUSTWORTHINESS. There is a profound difference between the two. Trustworthiness means a particular individual is WORTHY of trust... meaning they have demonstrated through their actions and upon checking their reputation that they are 'stand-up'. Trusting someone 'just cuz' is a surefire recipe to get done wrong. If you hear a woman say, "relationships are built on trust" and "I don't want my man checking all up on me", then that right there will tell you to avoid them because it tells you they are engaging in a pattern of behavior that fosters mistrust. Remember, what she did to her previous man, she will most likely do to you. If a woman is trustWORTHY, then trust will come naturally... for example, you are with a woman that doesn't have a passlock on her phone, is comfortable not logging out of her email around you... you look on her facebook and twitter and you notice no funny business. Guess what happens? You start seeing she is worthy of trust, and trust develops naturally from that. If someone you just met demands that you trust them, then you can bet there is probably something going on there. People who are worthy of trust don't need to demand it because they know if you're around them long enough, you will see that they are worthy of being trusted.
I'm going to start updating my blog much more regularly.
http://kevm3.wordpress.com/
It's not really about women, but a lot of general things I'm thinking. Stop on by.
http://kevm3.wordpress.com/
It's not really about women, but a lot of general things I'm thinking. Stop on by.
just one suggestion i would make the font bigger hard to read but dope blog
its sad you get labelled as insecure by both men and female today if you just check up on your broad
u mad son?
All Star
i hear what u dudes are saying tho but i honestly dont believe my girl is the type to sleep around, she went to my school and college and i know her circle of friends she used to chill with. and on the topic of trustworthiness, i checked thru her phone and facebook without even having to ask and i didnt see anything there i shouldnt have. i saw a text from the dude who fukked her n left trynna holla at her again but she shut him down.
this aint the end of my investigation tho, im always gonna keep my eyes and ears open
this aint the end of my investigation tho, im always gonna keep my eyes and ears open
Preciate the suggestion. I checked your blog out too. Some solid advice in there. Keep it up.
Paying child support for a kid that's not biologically yours..How big is that L? 
Paying child support for a kid that's not biologically yours..How big is that L?
Humongous
Datr
Paying child support for a kid that's not biologically yours..How big is that L?
To me, it really depends. If you find out early on when the kid is 1 or 2, the mom leaves you and goes back to her ex, that's 17 years of money that could have been used to enjoy yourself or used on your own family being spent on a kid you'll never see, will never be able to consider you dad, and in reality, the majority of that money will be going to the woman to spend on herself and her ex or other men. That's a monumental loss.
On the other hand, if the kid is like 14 and you raised the kid and found out that late, it's a loss, but not as big of a loss since you are still dealing with a kid that grown up known up knowing you as dad. The system is messed up any way you look at it though, which is why you need to proceed with caution.
YoungMoneyCashMoneyBoy
Superstar
Oh, is that what she said?
Smack, who is dis nikka?
Good luck, bruh. You gonna need it.
Youseenmywork
KING
Words can begin to describe this video 
At 25:
"I'm going to focus on my career and have fun and not settle down in my twenties and live life to the fullest! I'm going to fly in the face of social convention and dress how I want, be dominant, get tattoos and piercings, dress however I want, drink, party and not get tied down by traditional feminine roles and styles to show how strong and independent I am. I'm not going to adopt the attitudes of or learn any of those feminine skills my grandmother and her grandmother were forced to learn by their obsolete and backwards patriarchal society! I'm a strong independent woman and when I've experienced everything I want as a single woman, THEN I'll start a family with a guy who is perfect for me. But even then, no compromises: he must be as amazing and perfect as I am and have a good job with a good income and respect and love me unconditionally."
At 33:
"...W-w-why? Why is no one marrying me? I don't understand."
"I'm going to focus on my career and have fun and not settle down in my twenties and live life to the fullest! I'm going to fly in the face of social convention and dress how I want, be dominant, get tattoos and piercings, dress however I want, drink, party and not get tied down by traditional feminine roles and styles to show how strong and independent I am. I'm not going to adopt the attitudes of or learn any of those feminine skills my grandmother and her grandmother were forced to learn by their obsolete and backwards patriarchal society! I'm a strong independent woman and when I've experienced everything I want as a single woman, THEN I'll start a family with a guy who is perfect for me. But even then, no compromises: he must be as amazing and perfect as I am and have a good job with a good income and respect and love me unconditionally."
At 33:
"...W-w-why? Why is no one marrying me? I don't understand."