I know exactly what u mean too
Gotta stick that shyt out esp if y'all got kids tho
We do, and it's the reason we've found ways to make it work more often than not. I edited my previous post to say we've been married for seven and been together for ten. We've gotten past the 5-7 year itch thing, which got pretty hairy. Since then everything has been getting exponentially better, including the sex. Being in a healthy relationship means lowering your ego and expectations sometimes, and knowing when to have a little humility. It doesn't mean you're compromising yourself as a person but rather you're able to see that life is sometimes bigger than yourself.