so how do black mothers respond to their sons bringing home non-blk women. do they feel like they did something wrong?
Question For Black Men With Daughters...
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so how do black mothers respond to their sons bringing home non-blk women. do they feel like they did something wrong?
where them pictures at?Personally, I think I still might have a bit of shock reserved for that but I wouldn't feel a certain way cause I've brought home a natalie portman or two.
I don't have kids though and don't even know if I still want them. I don't know where I'll be in my life in 10 years and I would fear for them with men in general.
black women, you treat your vagina like an airport without security, knowing full well terrorist are lurkin about. yes, a guy could use a condom -- but unless the chick is being raped, isnt it her job to make sure he's wearing one? even after the fact, we pretending like you dont have several post-sex options? why dont more black women get on birth control
Using your airport analogy. Wouldn't the "terrorist" still be to blame for his own actions?
No matter how negligent the airport security is, the terrorist will still be held accountable for his terror.
Sex takes two people, and the results of sex are the responsibility of two people. There is no other way to can spin it.
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I got my ass whooped way worse than that as a good. He wasn't even really giving them that work. They were just screaming bloody murder to make him stop. He shouda elbow dropped them hoes at the end too
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Hmm.. looks like people are really getting into this thread. Maybe I'll jump in.
Even though I'm not the father of a daughter yet, I think the questions are broad enough for me to be able to answer them.
You know, when you read forums like this you have to realize one thing: what you see is not real. Yes, it's true that in real life, there are many brothers out there that hate the complexion of their skin and hate the fact that their counterparts look just like them. It's also true that many black men have failed and abandoned black women in the real world. But what you have to understand is that the internet is a caricature of everything real. Self-hatred is amplified to the umpteenth degree on the internet because nobody is able to hold them accountable.
The truth of the matter, however, is that most black men do actually love black women. Forget the ones that ain't shyt. I am one of those black men who loves black women more so than any other kind. If anything, I think that concern for any daughters I may have should not be directed at the men who hate black women and bash them altogether: those men usually avoid black women if they can. My concern would have to gravitate towards the black men that DO actually love (or lust, rather) black women, since so many of them aren't about shyt. As a man, I worry that if I have a daughter one day that she'll be scooped up by some hood-trash or thug nikka that's not about anything.
Even so, if I raise any daughter that I have properly, there wouldn't be any need to fear that she will come to hate black men. Even if she hates the men she's been with, if I instill within her with the proper knowledge of self and get her to love who she is, I should not have to worry that she will hate black men. After all, a woman's knowledge of men and how she should treat a man and expect to be treated by men should come right from her father.
I also think it's fair to say that the fatherless hysteria in the Americas has created an epidemic of people who just aren't shyt in general. Many black women have no father figures in their life, so they have no idea how to respect black men nor do they know what exactly constitutes a good man. They also have very low standards when it comes to choosing men. Many black men have also had no male role models in their life, so they look up to worthless trash as their heroes; they exalt and glorify violence and criminality and have no respect for women whatsoever due to not seeing it in their households. They only see value in a woman's body and not in her mind and unabashedly refer to all women as bytches and hos.
In the end, if any black daughter that I have wants to find a good man, she's going to have to watch the company that she keeps. Women who aren't shyt tend to find men who fit that same persona over and over again. Men who are about their wits don't go around trying to get with trifling harlots, and women who are about their wits don't go checking for dumbass thugs who can't speak proper English and sag their pants for the world to see the crack's of their asses.
Raise your children right, friends.
Even though I'm not the father of a daughter yet, I think the questions are broad enough for me to be able to answer them.
You know, when you read forums like this you have to realize one thing: what you see is not real. Yes, it's true that in real life, there are many brothers out there that hate the complexion of their skin and hate the fact that their counterparts look just like them. It's also true that many black men have failed and abandoned black women in the real world. But what you have to understand is that the internet is a caricature of everything real. Self-hatred is amplified to the umpteenth degree on the internet because nobody is able to hold them accountable.
The truth of the matter, however, is that most black men do actually love black women. Forget the ones that ain't shyt. I am one of those black men who loves black women more so than any other kind. If anything, I think that concern for any daughters I may have should not be directed at the men who hate black women and bash them altogether: those men usually avoid black women if they can. My concern would have to gravitate towards the black men that DO actually love (or lust, rather) black women, since so many of them aren't about shyt. As a man, I worry that if I have a daughter one day that she'll be scooped up by some hood-trash or thug nikka that's not about anything.
Even so, if I raise any daughter that I have properly, there wouldn't be any need to fear that she will come to hate black men. Even if she hates the men she's been with, if I instill within her with the proper knowledge of self and get her to love who she is, I should not have to worry that she will hate black men. After all, a woman's knowledge of men and how she should treat a man and expect to be treated by men should come right from her father.
I also think it's fair to say that the fatherless hysteria in the Americas has created an epidemic of people who just aren't shyt in general. Many black women have no father figures in their life, so they have no idea how to respect black men nor do they know what exactly constitutes a good man. They also have very low standards when it comes to choosing men. Many black men have also had no male role models in their life, so they look up to worthless trash as their heroes; they exalt and glorify violence and criminality and have no respect for women whatsoever due to not seeing it in their households. They only see value in a woman's body and not in her mind and unabashedly refer to all women as bytches and hos.
In the end, if any black daughter that I have wants to find a good man, she's going to have to watch the company that she keeps. Women who aren't shyt tend to find men who fit that same persona over and over again. Men who are about their wits don't go around trying to get with trifling harlots, and women who are about their wits don't go checking for dumbass thugs who can't speak proper English and sag their pants for the world to see the crack's of their asses.
Raise your children right, friends.
Illuminatos
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61 Corpses
The Breh
This is literally the most repetitive, non-creative troll on the board...
let my brother cook! cant be that serious all the time man
I honestly agree. I was browsing Google for information on the controversy surrounding Scandal when I came across this site and I was like WTF?
the site isn't that bad guys, maybe I just avoid alot of the BW bashing threads I dunno.
OliviaTwist
All Star
Idk whether they feel as of they did something wrong, but my dad brought home white girls before and he said that although his mom never said anything to him about it he said he could tell she felt a certain way. I know this isn't indicative of ALL and I'm not a mother so my speculation can only go so far.
Honestly i dont believe any of these fools really behave like this or treat women like they say on this forum. A lot of these young cats feel like they are still in highschool and need to prove themselves to people in here.
Everyone in here apparently doesnt work for the man and making 6 figures and "fukking dimes".
And it's not even about daughters. Do these clones even have mothers?
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Yeah i tune into Zo show each week... he should have a tv show
He really should. Dr. Mark Goulston is a damn simp though
I'm gonna love this troll, much potential here I think plenty of people have answered the OP's questions. You do have to sift through the rift raft of all the posters in here but the answers are in here.
for future references, ignore Marcus & Chris B's takes on BW. They despise them, so while some of their post may have some truth in it - you have to realize where the info is coming from. Its not an objective place.
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SouthernBelle
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Precisely. I am sure that has a psychological effect on their sons when they constantly hear black men ain't this and that (that is psychological abuse). Many of these men are the equivalent to those women imo.