The more you read on social media and have conversations with women the more you start to understand why cold hearted dudes still get women while Mr. "girl, you're beautiful. I'd do anything for you" simps get left on read for the most part. Water typically seeks its own level, so a cold-hearted woman will link up with a savage. The difference is, the cold hearted woman will tell you how that savage did her wrong, and have you thinking she isn't also on some sociopath shyt. Now if you're a simp, you'll take the bait talknbout 'Not like me! I'm not like other guys! I respect women!' and then it's over.
No matter what you hear, always remember: Out of all the hundreds of options available, she chose him. Ask yourself why, and then ask yourself if you fall into what her 'type' is. If you don't, the answer is simple: Move on. She'll say whatever she's going to say about you and that's fine. Chances are, if you leave her you're not leaving her on her terms so she'll tell people that you did her dirty just like all the other men she messed with. No matter what, you'll be painted as some a$$hole when it comes to women like this. Caring about your image is a luxury you can't afford when you mess with women who very likely have an undiagnosed personality disorder.
If you're serious about dating women and getting into long term relationships, then the wisest investment you can make beyond your own mental health and physical wellbeing is this: Study as much as you can on these 3 topics: Psychology, Sociology, and the laws in your state. Many mental illnesses and personality disorders are often just waved off as "she's crazy" if you understand the traits and aspects of mental illness, you can know if you're talking to someone who really genuinely has just had bad luck with men vs a mentally unstable predator who has gotten good at hiding her toxicity. Sociopathy, narcism, autism, borderline personality disorder, and bipolar disorder are the types of conditions you should have a very solid understanding of. Women typically fly under the radar with these conditions especially autism since it looks different in women than it does in men.
Don't waste your time trying to understand 'women'. Women understand women and their friendships with eachother are infamously short-lived, volatile and otherwise terrible. Try and understand mental illnesses, spot them, and then get out when you've seen the flags. You're not a therapist, you're not Dr. Phil. If she's unwell, don't try to understand and help, just move on.
