Shut up with this capping ass shyt. There's hella threads of dudes getting put on blast for outlandish shyt they've done too. Stop defending her just because "she my fellow woman" you share some personal shyt and it's fukked up and any nikka can get it on here. Period.
Put Yourselves First Guys - Don’t Get Used.
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AND THEN THERE ARE WOMEN WHO ARENT HEATHENS AND ACTUALLY HAVE LEGIT FAITH IN A HIGHER POWER, THUS WOULD NEVER ACT OUT ON SUCH DESIRES. THESE TYPE HAVE AN ELEVATED SPIRIT. THEY KNOW THAT INSTANT GRATIFICATION AINT WORTH THE CONSEQUENCES OF GIVING IN TO EVIL INCLINATION.
..BUT CLEARLY U DIDNT GROW UP AROUND THESE KINDA WOMEN. HOPE ONE DAY U SEE THE LIGHT.
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why am i even responding to a 40 yr old that types in all caps
NOT 40 BUT I TOO REMEMBER BEIN 12 AND THINKIN EVERYONE OVER THE AGE OF 30 WAS “OLD”
IMAGINE U MARRIED WIT KIDS, YOUR CHILDREN AT SCHOOL, JUST U N YOUR WIFE AT HOME .. NOW SOME DUDE RUN UP IN YO CRIB WIT HEAT. WOULD U USE YOUR WIFE AS A SHIELD IF IT WAS YOUR ONLY WAY TO SURVIVE? WOULD U RUN OUT THE BACK DOOR N LEAVE HER THERE IF SHE COULDNT KEEP UP? THATS THE HOE ASS MINDSET U RUNNIN WIT YOUNG’N .. TIME TO START THINKIN GROWN.
Scustin Bieburr
Baby baybee baybee UUUGH
The more you read on social media and have conversations with women the more you start to understand why cold hearted dudes still get women while Mr. "girl, you're beautiful. I'd do anything for you" simps get left on read for the most part. Water typically seeks its own level, so a cold-hearted woman will link up with a savage. The difference is, the cold hearted woman will tell you how that savage did her wrong, and have you thinking she isn't also on some sociopath shyt. Now if you're a simp, you'll take the bait talknbout 'Not like me! I'm not like other guys! I respect women!' and then it's over.
No matter what you hear, always remember: Out of all the hundreds of options available, she chose him. Ask yourself why, and then ask yourself if you fall into what her 'type' is. If you don't, the answer is simple: Move on. She'll say whatever she's going to say about you and that's fine. Chances are, if you leave her you're not leaving her on her terms so she'll tell people that you did her dirty just like all the other men she messed with. No matter what, you'll be painted as some a$$hole when it comes to women like this. Caring about your image is a luxury you can't afford when you mess with women who very likely have an undiagnosed personality disorder.
If you're serious about dating women and getting into long term relationships, then the wisest investment you can make beyond your own mental health and physical wellbeing is this: Study as much as you can on these 3 topics: Psychology, Sociology, and the laws in your state. Many mental illnesses and personality disorders are often just waved off as "she's crazy" if you understand the traits and aspects of mental illness, you can know if you're talking to someone who really genuinely has just had bad luck with men vs a mentally unstable predator who has gotten good at hiding her toxicity. Sociopathy, narcism, autism, borderline personality disorder, and bipolar disorder are the types of conditions you should have a very solid understanding of. Women typically fly under the radar with these conditions especially autism since it looks different in women than it does in men.
Don't waste your time trying to understand 'women'. Women understand women and their friendships with eachother are infamously short-lived, volatile and otherwise terrible. Try and understand mental illnesses, spot them, and then get out when you've seen the flags. You're not a therapist, you're not Dr. Phil. If she's unwell, don't try to understand and help, just move on.
No matter what you hear, always remember: Out of all the hundreds of options available, she chose him. Ask yourself why, and then ask yourself if you fall into what her 'type' is. If you don't, the answer is simple: Move on. She'll say whatever she's going to say about you and that's fine. Chances are, if you leave her you're not leaving her on her terms so she'll tell people that you did her dirty just like all the other men she messed with. No matter what, you'll be painted as some a$$hole when it comes to women like this. Caring about your image is a luxury you can't afford when you mess with women who very likely have an undiagnosed personality disorder.
If you're serious about dating women and getting into long term relationships, then the wisest investment you can make beyond your own mental health and physical wellbeing is this: Study as much as you can on these 3 topics: Psychology, Sociology, and the laws in your state. Many mental illnesses and personality disorders are often just waved off as "she's crazy" if you understand the traits and aspects of mental illness, you can know if you're talking to someone who really genuinely has just had bad luck with men vs a mentally unstable predator who has gotten good at hiding her toxicity. Sociopathy, narcism, autism, borderline personality disorder, and bipolar disorder are the types of conditions you should have a very solid understanding of. Women typically fly under the radar with these conditions especially autism since it looks different in women than it does in men.
Don't waste your time trying to understand 'women'. Women understand women and their friendships with eachother are infamously short-lived, volatile and otherwise terrible. Try and understand mental illnesses, spot them, and then get out when you've seen the flags. You're not a therapist, you're not Dr. Phil. If she's unwell, don't try to understand and help, just move on.
If you don't follow scripture you will be punished. If you don't value scriptural qualities in the women you take seriously you will be punished. Basically if you make a family with a thot you will be punished. Society will also be punished because we see what single mothers have to offer society with the people they raise.
All that because men arent taking their role seriously and want to live childishly past their prime.
motion order
Mercenary
When someone makes this statement, they are either unwilling or unable to have serious discourse. This is a general conversation. However, your lack of awareness allows you to believe that the generalizations you made are valid, and the ones I made are not.
I don't know why you responded to my post as if it was personally about me.
Men don't make babies with the intention of being single fathers, that's a phenomenon amongst women. Having children isn't passing on one's legacy, that's merely passing on one's genes. Passing on a legacy entails raising children with structure and values; which, by every metric, is best done by both parents being in the home.
She’s being honest and upfront about her true intentions
Most women don’t do this
Atleast she let the men know what is her intentions
I agree with the OP
Put yourselves first my brothers
Look for the red flags in any women you are dealing with
Then move accordingly and logically
Most women don’t do this
Atleast she let the men know what is her intentions
I agree with the OP
Put yourselves first my brothers
Look for the red flags in any women you are dealing with
Then move accordingly and logically
Silver Surfer
Veteran
Just bushed a chick a month before her birthday
Get married brehs
She eateth, and wipeth her mouth, and saith, I have done no wickedness.
Dwayne_Taylor
Superstar
At least she's being honest about it, lol.
Single Black Man Seeks LTR. Single Black Woman? Not So Much
NPR Cookie Consent and Choices
Old survey but I'd bet it's still true.
Single Black Man Seeks LTR. Single Black Woman? Not So Much
NPR Cookie Consent and Choices
Old survey but I'd bet it's still true.
ALonelyDad
Veteran
Was she honest about it with that man? If so, then it is what it is.
Cat piss martini
Veteran
it's her movie and she's the star of it.
people move how they wanna move.
I dont want a steady or a wife......why not?
because i wanna live a life of fun without
the bullshyt that comes along with it.
people are flawed.
people are gonna cheat.
people are gonna lie and put ourselves 1st.
nothing is unconditional.
I walk through life accepting these truths
and look out for yours truly.
know i'm talmbout?
people move how they wanna move.
I dont want a steady or a wife......why not?
because i wanna live a life of fun without
the bullshyt that comes along with it.
people are flawed.
people are gonna cheat.
people are gonna lie and put ourselves 1st.
nothing is unconditional.
I walk through life accepting these truths
and look out for yours truly.
know i'm talmbout?
Seems like it.
A lot of brehs are looking to settle despite the “passport gang” & GMB a lot of guys rather tap out then be bachelors in their 40s lol
Men know how to cash out better as well.